BDSM Kuch loagon ko BDSM sex ka shoq hota hai (shuroo mein to fantasy hoti hai) magar baad mein agar acha/achi partner mil jay to shoq ho jata hai.
Ye sapurdagi ki aala misaal hai jis mein partner (biwi/shohar) ko rasion se baandh kar ya aankhon pe patti baandh kar sex kia jata hai.
Iske lye loag pehlay scene bhi tayyar kartay hein jesay ke kidnapping scene.
Lekin iska matlab ye nahen ke sex violent ya painful hoga.
Bound partner ke lye sex intahai purlutf ho jata hai kyunke uski aankhon pe patti bandhi hoti hai, kanon mein ear plug. Kuch dikhai nahen deta na he sunai deta hai. Aur rassi se bandhay honay ki wajah se kaheen ja bhi nahen sakta/sakti. Aur kabhi moonh pe bhi haath/tape laga hota hai to takleef ke izhaar ka bhi moqa nahen hota.
Jab saari hawas-e-khamsa (senses) band kye huay hotay hein to risk ka ehsaas hota hai ke har pain ya pleasure ki feeling ke lye partner (biwi/shohar) pe inhisaarhai. Is wajah se lazzat intahai barh jati hai.
Wese bhi jab kuch sunai/dikhai na de raha ho to sense of touch ziada he barh jata hai. Kahan gudgudi kii ja rhi hai, kahan kiss li ja rahi hai.
Isi tarah dominating partner ko bhi pata hota hai ke ye bilkul meray rehm-o-karam pe hai. Is wajah se uski lazzat intahai barh jati hai.
Aur bharosay mein bhi intahai izafa hojata hai.
Lekin ye kaam mutual understanding se hota hai. Wana to submissive partner ki darr ke maaray jaan he nikal jay. Kuch loag abusive dominator bhi hotay hein, jo submissive ko maflooj kar ke maar peet ya deegar takleef-deh amal kar ke enjoy kartay hein. Lekin ziada tar dominating ko apni zimmedaari ka bakhoobi ehsaas hota hai.
Kafi saaray joray kisi na kisi stage ka BDSM zaroor kartay hein. Ziada tar loag bilkul shuroo darjay ka he kartay hein, yeh bhi nahen ke har kisi ne teh-khaanay mein BDSM sex room BDSM machines ke saath bana rakha ho, jis mein hathkari waghera aur deegar sex machines mojud hon.
Aap chahein to unse pooch lein ke lya wo BDSM sex mein interested hein? Agar wo keh dein haan, to unse intezaar ka kahein, jab tak aapka aitemaad bharpoor nahen hojata. Kyunke iss case mein kabhi dominant josh mein hosh kho kar gala daba bhi sakta/sakti hai - to aapko eh bhi dekhna hai ke unhein self-control kitna hai.
Iske lye sab se pehlay to aapko thora poochna hoga ke aap kyun mera moonh band kar detay hein, saans lenay mein mushkil hoti hai. Shuroo mein wo taal matol kareinge kyunke mard sharmeelay hotay hein aur unhein apnay jazbaat aur zarooriat ka izhaar karnay mein jhijhak hoti hai. Wo bahana bhi bana saktay hein ke tum shor ziada karti ho? Aap ye bhi pooch sakti hein ke aisa karnay se kya lazzat mein izafa ho jata hai. Through suitable communication jab unhein andaza hoga ke biwi pehlay he samajhti hai ke mein kya chahta hun aur denay mein dil-chaspi bhi rakhti hai to wo khushi se pagal ho jaenge - aur har jagah kehtay phirein ge ke qismat se itni aala biwi mili hai.
Kuch arsay mein jab aapka aitemaad bharpoor ho jay (kyunke abhi shadi ko 1 he mahina hua hai islye intezaar karein) to aap moonh pe tape lagwa ke, aankhon pe patti bandhwa ke, hathon ko rassi se bandhwa ke, tangon ko bed se bandhwa ke aur kanon mein dart thoonswa ke sex ka tajarba kareingi to aapko bhi behad maza ayga.
Aam taur pe dominant submissive banna pasand nahen kartay. Lekin agar aapke husband ye chahtay hein ke kabhi aap submissive banein to kabhi kabhi aap bhi unhein submissive bana sakti hein. Jesay ke sofay pe unhein baandh kar aankhein aur kaan band kar dein aur handjob, blowjob, ya woman-on-top mein unhein release karwa dein.
NOTE: Internet ki history ka bilkul tazkira nahen karna. Sirf wo jo moonh pe haath rakh detay hein iska tazkira karna hai aur wahan se baat shuroo karni hai.
Hotay hotay aik din woh ayga jab aap apni kidnapping stage karwaen gi. Aap itmenaan se kitchen mein khana bana rahi hongi ke achanak moonh chupay aik shakh ghus ayga (jo aapke husband he hongay, ehtyat rakhein ye na ho ke koi aur he kaam dikha jay) aur aapko kidnap karke bedroom mein lejay ga aur sex karlega. Aur ghar se bhaag jayga, phir thori dair baad aapke husband office se ghar aynge (iss kaam kelye unhein apni gaari mein dosra jora rakhna hoga, aur mohallay mein koi jagah aisi bhi dekhni hogi jahan gaari khari kar ke kapre badlay ja sakein) aur (masoom ban kar) poochein gay kya hua? Itni paresaan kyun ho? Phir aap unhein apni kahani sunaen gi. Phir wo kahein ge ke kidnapper ne ye, ye aur ye kaha tha? Wo to mein he thaa! Agar aapke sex ko story line miljay to it becomes just like the movies. Aur aksar to mard ye batein nahen jantay magar aapke walay mard to jaantay hein to why not support him takeh donon to be-panaah maza ay? Aur yeh cheezein usi waqt tak ho sakti hein jab tak bacha na ho aur full privacy ho.
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