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sabreenzia
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Jan, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2014, 10:32am |
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 Married life in trouble
I got married two months ago, It was love + arrange marriage. My husband & his family is very nice and loving and my overall life is going good.Problem is that I am very slim , my age is 30 years and my height is 5.6" and weight is 40 kg and I have small frame structure.My husband is healthy chubby and our sex life is going pathetic.whenever he try , I feel pain and get upset.then he stops.Since the wedding night, We are facing this problem. I dont have any friend and I am shy of discussing this problem with anyone. My vagina was very small, I was not able to insert even a finger inside it. but now after two months , I can insert two fingers without pain but whenever my husband wants to do sex, I feel pain and i ask him to stop.I know I am not doing good but I also feel that I cant bear that much pain.otherthan that I have good health overall . I am trying to gain weight but It is also not happening. Now my husband attitute has also become changed and he says that we dont have any sex life just routine life. I dont know what to do.. can Any one experienced help me?????
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Doppel33
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Jan, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2014, 1:58am |
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Take your time Spend more time on foreplay. Dont just get to normal routine sex. Try new locations and new positions. And u stay strong. Try to bear the pain. Once u r over it, it will b fine and u will get through. Intimate ur husband with foreplay and new techniques |
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 159 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2014, 5:20am |
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sabreen your question is related to some previous posts u need to check the topic site map option. Second apki bat tehk hay ap week han maybe ap apny apko fit samajti hon ap weight gain seh related material net per search keren mil jaen gay apko un tips per amal keren or rahi bat sex seh related to ager ap k hubby zada time foreplay per spent keren jab apko discharg feeling hon tab wo intercourse ker deen or ap k dil me mujy lagta hay dar hy pain ko lay ker jes seh ap satisfy nai hoten during sex so jab tak ap body me relaxation nai leen gi jab tak wo intercourse nai ker sakeen gay or ap un k attitude zada change hony seh pely es kaam ko anjaam deen.. its better for your relationship with your hubby.. |
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umar khan1
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Jan, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 38 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2014, 8:12am |
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sabreen health ke liye ap daily banana shake,or banana ye milk use karen, dry fruits ke use zada karen or apni diet zada barha len ...jitna khana khati hai us ka double khana shuru karden...apki body health ho jae gi,
ye masla apko is liye hurha hai kyun ke apki body health apke husband ke naturly power ko support nhi ker pa rahi hai jbhi apko pain hota hai...
ap jald az jald apni health thek karlen ...
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 712 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2014, 4:26pm |
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 Bohot ziada na khaen
Wese 5 feet 6 inch ke hisaab se 40 kg kam hai.
Lekin bohot ziada thoonsnay se taizabiat aur pait ki deegar bemarian lahiq ho jati hein. Islye jitni bhook ho utna he khaen. Aap ne masla hal karna hai. Nai maslay adopt nahen karnay.
Balke itna khana thoonsnay se to behtar hai penis he thoons lia jay vagina mein.
Hamaray mulk mein samjha bhi jata hai ke moti aurtein ziada bara penis le sakti hein. Aur dubli wali itna bara nahen le sakteen.
In baton mein ziada haqeeqat nahen. Kyunke aurat moti ho ya patli, kamar ke size mein farq parta hai vagina ke size mein nahen.
Jabke porn movies mein dikhaya jata hai ke 4'-10" ki girls bohot baray penis pooray pooray andar le rahi hoti hein - wo bhi ghanton. Balke aik se ziada penis bhi le leti hein.
Jis se andaza hota hai ke larki kisi bhi size ki ho, aur penis bhi kisi bhi size ka ho, andar jagah bana leta hai. Karnay walay choti bachion ke saath bhi to full penetration sex kamyabi se kar he letay hein na.
Islye aapke sex na kar sakne ka talluq aapki height, weight se nahen aapki mental tension se hai. Aapke zehen mein sex ka khof sawar hai.
Mujhe to ye samajh nahen araha ke forum par topics bantay hein larkian shadi ke 1-6 mahineenay tak shohar ko hath nahen laganay deteen. Akhir shadi ki kyun hai? Yoon dard ho raha hai woon dard ho raha hai. Shohar ke ghar mein rehtay huay to dard nahen hota? Us ghar ka khana khatay huay bhi dard nahen hota? Shohar se farmaishein kartay huay bhi dard nahen hota? Susar se farmaishein kartay bhi dard nahen hota? New joray aur sandalein khareednay mein shohar ka paisa bahatay bhi dard nahen hota?
Baray sabar walay mard hotay hein jo ye sab bardaasht kartay hein. Agar mein shohar hun aur aik martaba bhi biwi sar dard ya kisi aur chahay sacha reason he kyun na ho sex se mana kar de to foran usko maan baap ke ghar wapas bhej dun. Agar zara si (ya ziada sahi) takleef bardasht nahen hoti to baqi saaray benefits jo shadi se hasil hotay hein wo bhi wapas kar denay chahyen. Kyunke shohar ko to shadi se aik he benefit hasil hota hai aur wo he sex. Agar wohi nahen mil raha to ghar aanay wali useless hai wapas bhejo usko.
You don't know what to do? Just suck it up and take it in. Warna shohar se keh dein mein aapki zarurat poori nahen kar sakti mein is qabil nahen hun ke ye status mile, kyunke commitment ke baqi parts to baqi tamam stakeholders ne pooray kar dye mujhse nahen ho paa raha islye mujhe ijazat di jay.
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umar khan1
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Jan, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 38 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2014, 10:45am |
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bushra v sad apki creepy soch saun ke bohat afsos hua ....
agar kisi ko sahi guidness nhi de skti to muh band ker ke beth karu ....
apni ye soch apne shohar pe azmana jb shadi ho jae to
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 159 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2014, 11:05pm |
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 nice umar
bushra apki baton ki samaj nai ati pata nai kya kya sochti ho or ju mu me ahy bolti rehti ho sex porn movies suck es k elawa apko koi kaam nai baat kahen ki hoti hay ap yeh chezen lay ati han her insan ka jisam ak jesa nai hota her insan ki jald os ka structure ak jesa nai or vagina hay koi tandoor nai hay ju her chezen andar dal jahy or pain b na ho wo larki hasas hay kamzor hay uski b feeling han dard hota hoga aween log apne comments pass kerty han jis ka dor dor topic seh tak wasta nai hota....ap en chezeon seh avoide kiya keren bajahy onko samjany k penis her koi lay leta hay moti orten bara leti hay patli bara nai leten.... kya education hy apki hazar topon ki salami hay apko.... |
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Zubii
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Oct, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 218 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2014, 3:44pm |
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Listen Aj toh mai bhee alone but happy ki tarha kahu gee milk aur khajoor khain,,,and foreplay time increase krlain taky vagina mai fluid aur lubrication ho aur foreplay se jb apki body hot hogi toh vagina khd ba khd expand hoga aur pain nhe hoga atleast 35 mints ka foreplay karain..ap gynecolgist se kahain k apko pain hoti ha apko wo lubricating gel dy dain gy main lubricating gel ka nam yahan nhe likh sakti coz allow nhe ha forum par otherwise likh dati ...t.c,,.. |
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Zubii
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Oct, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 218 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2014, 3:45pm |
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Listen ...MOD EDIT: Removed duplicate post...
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King1986
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Feb 2014, 7:41am |
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Motivation by Bushra Dear Omer and Zuni & Bushra
I got married almost 40 days ago and i am facing same problems... my wife is slim and she had fear in her mind... i tried keeping my self calm and taking care of my wife but some time i become harsh.. just by attitude. problem i am facing is when ever i go close to my wife's vagina by touching it with my penis she pulls her body back i think due to fear only although she is slim too. in this circumstance i loose my total attention and my mind diverts from sex to her situation and my penis become normal and i couldn't make it again for long time.
I read many topics in last two days on this forum as i joined yesterday.. well after reading the above comments i feel that bushra is right she is answering her and giving motivation to sabreen zia to do it without fear.
Dear all, please also help me for my problem. |
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love000x
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jan, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Feb 2014, 6:46pm |
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Sex ko push na karain Bushra ji,
Sex koi zabardasti ka mualmla nahin hey key agar biwi ka dil na bhi chahey to sirf mard ko khosh karney key liye us key neechay lait jaye aur phir yeh bhi show kray keh usey bhi maza aa raha hey.
Mairay khiyal main sex ko bharpor enjoy karna biwi ka bhi utna haq hey jitna shohar ka.
Agr newly wed biwi apnay hubby main poori tarah involve nahin hey, aur hubby us par sex musallat kar raha hey tou yeh aurat key liye permanent psychological damage ho sakta hey, Yani woh hamesha sex sey darti rahey gi aur kabhi enjoy nahin kar paye gi.
Hubby ko chahye keh woh sabr kray, biwi ka dil bahlaye, usey khush rakhay, us ka khyal rakhey, us sey piyar karey aur usey 'pamper' krey.
Phir biwi khud bkhud us ka intazaar kray gi, us sey batain karey gi, us key saath rehna chahey gi, aur us key qareeb aana chahey gi. Jab piyar ho ga tou sab kuch ho jaye ga... sex bhi.
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love000x
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jan, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Feb 2014, 6:55pm |
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@sabreenzia and Khan1986 Masla biwi ka slim hona nahin, balkeh us ka sex main involve na hona hey.
Aur sirf nikah biwi ka hubby main involve honey keyliye kaafi nahin. Hubby ko chahiye keh biwi ka jism hasil karney sey pehley us ka dil jeetay.
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 712 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 6:05am |
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@umar khan1 Shadi ho chuki hai meri aur kuch time guzar chuka hai is baat ko. Aur ye sab shohar par aur apnay ooper azmaya hua hai. Mashwaray ka shukria, lekin jo baat ki hai tajurba se ki hai. Jesa z.zoni walay (next paragraph) se zahir hoga.
Profile ke hisaab se aap unmarried hein. Ab jis ko andar bahar ki game ka nahen pata wo to peda he nahen hua. Islye aap apni soch sambhal kar rakhein aagay kaam aygi. Jab aapki shadi ho jaygi aur biwi sex nahen degi aur nakhray dikhaay gi jabke aapka 15 lakh pakistani rupees shadi par lag chuka hoga aur haq meher dene ki tension alag hogi aur 20,000-25,000 har maheenay alag biwi, susral, salay salion aur outing mein kharch ho raha hoga aur phir bhi sex nahen mil raha hoga us waqt apnay ye alfaaz yad kar lijye ga. Ke kis ko creepy kaha tha aur kis ko nahen.
@z.zoni
Suck it up ka matlab oral sex nahen hota.
Agar aapko kuch pata ho english vinglish ka to aapko maloom hota ke suck it up ka matlab hota hai make up your mind/hosla pakro/himmat pakro aur kaam ko kar daalo/just do it etc.
Profile ke hisaab se aap MBA hein aur contemporary english ki know-how nahen - jabke MBA mein aur kuch to kam hai bas patar patar english bolnay par focus hota hai. Aapki degree ko (bhi siyasatdanon ki degree ki tarah) court mein challenge kia jana chahye.
Aik baat bataon: Mujhe sex ke ilawa waqai koi kaam nahen. Mera ghar chota hai shohar kaam par jatay hein uski safai mein thora time lagta hai. Khana 2 logon ka sirf raat ka pakana hota hai wohi aglay din dopehr ko khati hoon. Ziada waqt farigh guzarta hai kabhi nand waghera tution ke lye ajati hein kuch poochnay.
Baqi mera kaam yehi hai shohar ka intezaar karoon aur inko jis tarah wo sex karna chahein unko sex karwaon aur satisfy rakhoon (ilawa anal sex aur period mein sex ke - jo ke haraam hai). Aur jis aurat ne jannati banna hai usko yehi karna chahye. Chahay mein working woman ho jaon, ya poora susral paalna par jay joint family mein, ultimate kaam shohar ka sexual pleasure he hai. Agar meri baat par yaqeen na ay to deeni kitabein khol kar parh lein aapko pata chal jayga ke biwi ke faraiz kya hein. Aur jo biwi shohar ko sex se mana karay tamaam makhlooq us par raat bhar laanat bhejti hai.
@King1986
Aap biwi se pooch lein ke sex se dar lagta hai to aapko kyun kharaab kia? Sahdi karnay ki zaroorat he kia thee? Shadi par aapke maan baap ne aur unkay maan baap ne itna kharcha bhi kia ab wo apnay dramay dikha rahi hein.
Is se behtar to pakistan ke christians mein hota hai larki khud kama kar apnay pesay jama karke apna jahaiz bana kar shadi karti hai. Uskay baad usko pata hota hai kharcha to mera hua hai shadi ko kamyaab bhi mein ne banana hai.
@love000x
Ap deeni kitabein parh lein.
Biwi ki yehi sharai zimmedari hai ke jab shohar chahay wo sex karay. Chahay oont (camel) ke ooper he donon sawaar kyun na hon, ya chahay choolhay par charhi handi he kyun na jal jay. Aisi biwi jannati biwi hai.
Aur jo biwi shohar se sex na karay balke aagay se nakhray ya dramay karay (ya chalo questioner ka masla alag hai inko true pain bhi hota hai) us par tamam makhlooq raat bhar laanat bhejti hai. Aur jannat ki wo hoorein jin ke paas us shakhs ne jana hai marnay ke baad woh bhi laanat bhejti hein ke thoray time ke lye hamara aadmi tumharay pas hai aur tum usko takleef de rahi ho.
Biwi ka enjoy karna wesay bhi ehem nahen hai. Iska matlab ye bhi nahen ke painful sex ho. Sex takleef deh na ho. Shohar ko bhi chahye ke jab biwi ko dard ho to wo khyal karay. Lekin aajkal jo feminism ki waba phail gai hai ke zann-mureed ban jao. Ye ghalat hai.
Biwi ko pleasure nahen bhi hasil hota ya dil naheen bhi chah raha tab bhi shohar jab kahay usko sex karna hai. Chahay koi aur ehem kaam he kyun na lo, is se ziada ehen kaam koi nahen.
Biwi ke dil mein jagah banani chahye, lekin dil mein jagah bani hai ya nahen, shohar ko uski body par legal right hasil hai. Jis ne 15 lakh rupees shadi par lagay hon, aur har maheenay 20,000-25,000 biwi, salay salion aur new rishtay jo banay hein un par laga raha ho, uski shadi ka maqsad poora nahen hoga to "Married life in trouble" to hogi he na.
Shadi se kuch cheezein hasil hoti hein wo sex aur bachon ke ilawa bhi hein e.g love, care, compassion, companionship etc. Lekin love, care, companionship doosray rishton se jesay, maan baap behen bhai dost se bhi hasil ho jati hein magar sex is tarah hasil nahen hota. Iske liye to shadi karni hoti hai.
Ab jis shakhs ne itna pesa kharch kia hai jabke biwi ki koi qualification ilawa shakal soorat dekhi nahen jati. Achay loag hon, larki ke bhai achay hon, sector ya ward par uthna bethna na ho etc. ye saari khoobian laki ke saath associated loagon mein dekhi jati hein. Larki ki apni qualification sirf uski shakal hoti hai jis mein uska koi kamaal nahen hota.
Islye na-shukri karnay ki zaroorat nahen hai shohar ki zaroorat poori kar dein kisi tarah. Warna "Married life in trouble" rahegi. Aur ultimately "divorced life in social condemnation" reh jaygi.
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love000x
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jan, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 9:21pm |
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@Bushra ji Aisa sex, jis main shohar sirf apnay shadi par kharch kiye huway paisay wasool kar raha ho, mairay nazdeek sex nahin, mazdoori hey.
Sex tuo aik nihayat pur lutf amal hey jisey enjoy karna dono partners ka haq hey.
Kabhi us hadees ka mafhoom bhi mujhay batain jis main Nabi Pak (SAAW) ney farmaya keh Janwaron ki tarah apni biwiyun par na chaRh jaya karo, balkeh pahley ruqqa bhejo.
Aik farz shanas biwi, jo apni mazhabi aur qanoni faraz poora kray aur bahalat majboori neechay laitay us key saath sex karna to sirf pani nikalney wala kaam hey. Main usey "moulvi sex" kehta hoon.
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niks41
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Jan, 2014 Topic: 3 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Feb 2014, 8:15pm |
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foreplay i advise k jitna hosakay romantic suits like nightee wagera pehnay... or husband ko attract klaren apni taraf... then bohat ziada time aap foreplat mai lagayenn.. during this husband aap k organs ko jab chehrenge tau aap shayad discharge hojaengi.. then usi waqt penetration karwayen.. hope u vl not feel pain ..
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 712 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Jun 2014, 3:56pm |
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@love000x Aik janib aap kehtay hein: Sex tuo aik nihayat pur lutf amal hey jisey enjoy karna dono partners ka haq hey. /ENDQUOTE
To jab aik partner doosray ko ye haq na de to?
Aur sabreenzia ke case mein yehi ho raha hai ke wo doosray partner ko uska haq nahen de raheen... IKia ye us ghareeb par zulm nahen? Kia iss din ke lye usne shadi ki hai?
sabreenzia apni position ko samjhein. Shadi aik juwa hai is mein raahat bhi hai aur takleef bhi. To rahat wala part to sabreenzia ko bohot pasand aa raha hai aur zara si takleef bardaasht karnay ko wo tayyar nahen.
Jabke aur loagon ki shadian bhi hoti hein. Aur especially jin mardon ka penis bohot bara hota hai unki biwi ko first time he nahen taqreeban 3-6 maheenay agar har week 2 baar sex bhi ho to aglay din tak dard rehta hai. To kia wo mana kar deti hein? Nahen karti na, leti he hein na andar kisi na kisi tarah.
Aur phir practice kartay kartay vagina itni khulli ho bhi jati hai ke baghair takleef ke penis fit ho jay. Magar jo pehli bari he na karay?
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toyota
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Jan, 2011 Topic: 10 Post: 86 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2014, 5:19am |
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Reply iam totally agreed with Bushra as a wife baaz dafa bohat kuch karna perta hai husband ko kush rakhany ki khatir bed stories bohat diffenret hoti hai batoon say yea sub married honay kay baad hi pata chata hai larki ko boaht si cheezain maloom nahi hoti hain maloom karna perthi hain husband kay liyain or karna bhi perta hai un sub cheezoon ko siwai anal sex or period main sex kay
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Dr.kiran
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Jun, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2014, 7:03am |
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Reply hi readers...joined this forum after a long time due to busy life.
first of all i would like to say to all members please answer the issues if you know the answer or u have knowledge about the issue..please don't misguide the patient if you dont have knowledge ..if u wanna wrote in fun so type in reply that "Answering in funny Mood"here i dont wanna point out the non-serious members because of their self respect but i know they will understand. bushra i dont agree with your way of speech but i agree with your thoughts which is behind your way and words! sab se pehle main ik baat clear karna chahongi k intercourse k lye na penis ka size important hota hay na hi vagina ka. girls ki satisfaction vagina ki outer layer ko rub krne se bhi ho jati hay..penis size to phir koi bhi ho satisfy kr he dega..
sorry to say but jo larki two fingers without pain insert kr sakti hay(like Sabrina as she wrote) wo thore se pain se penis bhi insert krwa sakti hay...
and if a lady's age is 30 as u are so you have to bear the pain bcoz its mature age.. not scary teen age
or agar compare kia jye ki kisi penis ki width jitni fingers insert ki jayen or penis usi width ka to easily penis insert hoga with less pain instead of fingers bcoz penis made for vagina not fingers ALLAH pak ne vagina or penis body ki do aisi strange parts banai hen jin k lye aqal heran hay at the time of delivery vagina chahe 40yrs old women ki ho ya 18yrs old young girl ki..open itni hojati hay jitni insaani ki aqal soch nahi sakti..agar baby ki life ka issue na ho to vagina pe jo kabhi cut lagaya jata hay wo bhi na lagaya jaye..
penis ager extra ordinary fat ho to us liye lubricant use karen, han yeh ho sakta hay k sabrian k husband k penis erection aisi na ho jo insert kr sake or at the time of insertion penis bend ho jata ho or sara presure vagina pe aata ho is lye vagina me pain zada hoga or insertion bhi nah hogi or aap k husband ne apni hasitation chupane k lye ap pe blame de dia... kion k ap ne words use ki Vagina ka size small hay.. ye aap ko kese pata k small hay?? means ap ko kisi ne kaha ya to wo husband hain..ya koi neem hakeem type person and one thing u say u have inserted 2 fingers it shows that u r interesetd in intercourse and as my experience if any female wants intercourse she will bear any kind of pain, i again saying ANY KIND OF PAIN..either vagina pain or sex styles pain. at the end i must say..please post serious issues.
thanks
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zaki_khan
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Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 37 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jul 2014, 3:47am |
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AOa, Dr. Kiran Hope you will be doing well !
I just recently married 4 months ago, I and my wife had successful intercourse but now her vagina has become lose very quickly and the color is getting black. she is very tensed due to this and i asked her to visit doc but she is shy and not ready to move toward docs clinic. However. I would like you to please guide us and let us know that how we can get ride of this issue.
Moreover, I would like to ask that we want to have anal intercourse due to its tightness but when we try she feels pain and we left. also let me know how we can do it with less pain.
your swift response in this regard will be highly appreciated.
Thanks
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