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Smarty9
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2014, 9:30am |
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 bushra2012
Hahahaha wah wah bibi kiya kamaal ki logic layi aap wahh !! Itni intellectual bachpan se ho ya yaha noorclinic pe akar hui ?? waise tu mei tumhare sowie (apke) is silly stupid ques ka answer denna he nahi chah rha tha par dena parra ke kahi ye na samjho ke darr ke bhaag gaya :-) ..
bibi agar mera sawal ghor se parha hta tu aesa na pochti, mera sawal kia hai uska answer hai apke paas tu dejiye baqi 'bongiya' na mariye beth ke..waise bhi maine is post ya kahi aur jaha apku dekha hai aesi he logic se hat ke baat karti ho, shayad thinking he aesi hogi !!! Grow up bibi, ap ne isi post me young32 ko buhat sunayi shayd ap samjti hen ke muje bi suna ke chup kara dengi so u r mistaken me muhtarmm, par mai ap jaisa ban'na nahi chahrha :-) though young32 ki age 19 thi aur apki 21aur is age me shadi karlene se koi barra nhi hta so u need to growup..ap samjhti hen 21 me shadi karke ap barri ho gayi ?? (ek pers ques pochon itni jaldi kiya thi shadi ki) kahi iska woh reason tu nahi jo ap ne ek aur thread me ksi ko ye kaha th ke young age me larki shadi is wajah se males ko (vagina) tighten aur soft chahye hoti hai, well is liye kehte hain barro ki mehfil me bacho ko nahi bolna chahye :-)..
kuch aadaab hotey he aesi mehfilo ke wo seekhne parrte hein, baqi aap aur woh jo ye kaam karte hain karte rahien meri bala se, mera kaam maine kiya bure ko bura kaha. Baqi mera jab jis post pe dil chahega baat karonga.
Bushra2012 ab i think jo dose mujhe dene aayi thi wo apko milgaya double baqi abhi kuch din chalao next koi aur de dega..next rep me mujhse baat soch samjh ke kariyega next time mera rep bhi bna edit aur uncensor hoga..ache se ban ke raho barro ka adab karna seekho..hope u get me point..apna khayal rakhna..
jazak'ALLAH
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Hawk66
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 99 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2014, 5:43pm |
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 smarty9
AOA, Umeed hae keh aap khariat se hongay, Aap ki post read kar chuka tha magar kuch masrofiet aur kuch net kay problem ki wajah se reply mae takheer hoi. Aap ki posts mae nay ghor say parhi hain mae tamam posts ghor say parhnay ki koshish karta hoon siway uk jin mae members dosray members ko degrade kartay hain aur apna POV dosray members per impose karana chahtay hain. Aap meri post se agree nahi kartay yeh koi issue nahi hae her member ki apni raye hae aur usay dosray members ki raye se disagree honay ka haq hae. Aap aur aap ki posts dono meray leye kabl e ahtram hain. Noor clinic ka bohat purana tou nahi albata purana member hoon aur es topic (Fellatio) per pehlay bhi kafi threads mojod hain. Aap nay kaha hae keh Noor clinic kay elawah dosray forums ka bhi visit karleya karon. Tou yeh batata challon keh Noor clinic kay elawah bhi dosray forums ka member hoon jin mae sex education forums kay elawah Kuch social forums aur forums ko bhi join kia howa hae. Pakistan kay elawah dunya kay kuch mumalik mae jany ka bhi itfaq howa hae aur sex education kay topic per books kay elawah Sex Educational Movies (Not Porn) bhi daikhi hain. Kuch NGOs kay saath bhi kam kar chuka hoon aur bohat say topics per seminar aur workshops conduct bhi karwai hain. Jin mae HIV, Breast cancer, Mother feed, Sex harasment, Child abuse ect etc. shamil hain. Aap ka yeh bhi kehna hae keh aap nay yeh issue bhi raise kia hae keh kuch members yahan fake IDs kay saath mojod hain (Aap yeh claim bhi kartay hain keh aap es thread ko shuro say read karty aaye hain) Agar aap es thread ko shuro say read karty tou aap fake IDs ko raise karnay ka claim nahi kartay. Aap se request karon ga keh aap thread ko baghor read karain ta keh aap ko maloom hojay keh Fake IDs ka issue kin kin members nay kab point out kia (esi thread mae mojod hae zara purani baat hae) Now come to the Topic Noor clinic ki kuch purani threads jo es topic per mojod hain aur mae pehlay read kar chuka tha wahan kuch senior members nay un dosray forums say Islamic point of view mae Oral sex per kia post ki hain mae woh yahan date kay saath dobarah post kar raha hoon. jin ko read karnay kay baad kuch purany members ki yadasht taza hojay gi. agar meri koi baat aap ko nagawar guzri ho tou os kay leye na sirf aap say balkeh tamam mermers jo oral sex kay haq mae hain ya es say ikhtilaf kartay hain apnay dil ki gehrayoin se mazrat chahon ga. Mae es forum per kisi say behas karnay nahi balkeh apni malomat mae izafa aur agar meri maloomat say kisi dosray member kay elam mae izafa ho jay, kay leaye aata hoon. Aap sab please apna khayal rakhye ga. 20-09-2009 (Noor Clinic)
Oral Sex
Dr. Heba Kotb stresses that women should also enjoy sex. Oral sex is a form of foreplay and Islam "stresses the importance of foreplay".
In the light of the Qur'an verse, Al-Mu'minun, five to seven scholars said that the husband is allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except for anal sex. Dr. Ali Jum`ah, professor of the Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar University, said that licking, sucking and kissing a spouse's sexual organs are all allowed, as long as it gives a person sexual gratification. This concept will keep him away from unlawfulness (haraam). It is allowed for a husband to lick his wife's vaginal area when it helps her have orgasm. Also, the wife can lick her husband's penis to cause erection and suck on it for an orgasm or ejaculation of semen. All sexual acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowed.
If oral sex can be done in such a way that no filth is involved, then it would be considered lawful for a wife to kiss her husband's penis as long as she avoids any areas where there is pre-ejaculatory fluid, a loving couple could always use a condom, and a husband can kiss the outer parts of his wife's genitals and suck her clitoris (mentioned in many books of Hanbali fiqh) for her pleasure and satisfaction to an orgasm and it must be sure to rinse out mouths afterward
Oral sex should not lead to any repulsive feeling, and it is advisable to guarantee that the spouse is approving the act in order to fulfill the maximum joy out of the act.
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2014, 6:21pm |
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 aeshakiran
I was trying to make new thread regarding your topic but I can ot make it. I tried few times to post my comments regarding your question but it did not work Do not know what is wrong today. |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2014, 6:27pm |
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aeshakiran
Can not copy my comments here from Notepad. |
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2014, 6:49pm |
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 gemini6566
yes I was facing the same problem. then i broke down my one message into several smaller parts as you can see in my posts on previous page (I marked them in ascending orders as msg1, msg2 and so on for convenience). perhaps you could try the same. I noticed that a small portion of my msg was causing this problem i.e. not being able to post and I had to drop that part. perhaps it might work out for you too. Moreover thread creation is banned at the moment. When it will be allowed in the future I am going to create such a thread |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 3:48am |
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aeshakiran
1st comment fozia hassan has already shared her experience and suggested you to ask directally to your husband to kiss you there. (Communication is necessary in every part of maaried life specially in sex life) My Obeservation regarding your desire. I think every married female wishes to be kissed on her body by her husband and wish to explored by her husband in different ways. |
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 64 Post: 7660 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 3:52am |
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gemini U r right |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 3:56am |
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aeshakiran
2nd comment My observation regarding you desire. I have observed in your case that you do not want to go for direct communication and you wish that your husband should feel your emotions and wishes during forplay and should kiss you "THERE" ( Indirect Communication) Right? I feel that you are not ready to kiss your husband "THERE" (due to certain reasons) Or you might be wish to do but you wish that 1st step should be taken by your husband. |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 4:10am |
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aeshakiran
3rd. comment My observation regarding your desire. I have read your posts and feel there is a lot of respect you both give to each other and you both are not free free with eachother, due to age difference (I could be wrong) I do not know much about your and your husband's background, I think you both were grown in good families where importance is given to others, respect is given to others and always try not to hurt any body by saying any bad words or by doing any bad acts. (I personally appriciate it) |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 4:13am |
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aeshakiran I will post more later today . (I'm sorry can not do it right now) take care |
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 4:53am |
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@aeshakiran
I can really empathise with you. We had issues all our married life (8 years in all) and only now have we been able to fully understand each others perspective on sex. I believe you could benefit from sharing my experience. Feel free to contact me at ...MOD EDIT: Removed email address...
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 8:26am |
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aeshakiran
4th comment My observation regarding your desire You shared your experience of forplay that how you asked husband to try something new and he went down and kissed your thaighs and ineer thaighs etc. but he did not kiss "THERE" though you were giving some signals which he might have not seen or he ignored i or he did not understand or he did not want to kiss THERE or he wanted to kiss but hesitated or What was in his mind (you and we do not know) |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 8:39am |
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aeshakiran
5th comment My observation regarding your desire Your life style, frankness with eachother, atmosphere of your home, Love, care and most important "RESPECT" that you give to eachother are the factors which does not allow you both to go further. You do not want direct communication the reason is the respect you give him. You think 100 times if "I ask him for it what will he think about me which type of wome is she" ? (I could be wrong) He might be in mood to kiss you "THERE" but hesitates the reason is he thinks " what will my wife think about me that which type of person is he"? ( Again I could be wrong) Please give me your feed back I hae some questions in mind which I may ask or may not in next post depends on your feed back. And please feel free to comment on my judgement/ observation regarding your desire and huddles I described here. Good luck and enjoy. |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 8:42am |
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Morderator
Could you please shift aeshakirans topic in some new thread because it is not related to the topic started by saman90. Thank you. |
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 9:05am |
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Gemini6566 Thank you Gemini6566 for taking time to understand my problem and giving response here. First of all, communication
regarding sex between us is out of questions. I know it might sound strange to you but every couple is different and its
just that this kind of communication is unnatural for us, and we would like to keep it that way.
I totally agree with you about women want to be explored by his husband. Honestly, we women are not aware of our body in
a sensual way before marriage. It is our husbands who make us aware of our body and how our body responds to their
touch. Its amazing how husband and wife are made for each other and how they complement each other both in spiritual way
and physical way.
Most of your observations are correct regarding my desire. I would like my husband to initiate this thing (give me oral
pleasure first). I cannot go first because I am very shy in bed and also it will be unnatural for us. My husband is
always the one who initiates things. Even when I am in the mood he is the one to take first step. Also there isn't much
age difference between us. He is only 1 year older than me.
You mentioned that you think perhaps your husband doesn't want to kiss me there. Actually I think he wants to kiss me
there but I don't know what he is waiting for. During the last time when we were together, when he was kissing me down
there he went very close to my soft spot. So close that I thought he was going to kiss. But then he moved away. Also
while kissing his hand brushed my soft spot several times as to excite me. In simple words he was exciting me as well as
his kisses were moving upwards on my legs towards my soft spot. I was also giving him full signals in all possible ways
I can. In the end, his lips passed by close to my sensitive place. At that moment I felt like k unka sir pakar k apny
waha p unka mun day dun. I don't know what is it that he wants.
Besides saying to my husband k ap mje waha py kiss karain how else can I show him my desire. Thanks and salam
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 9:53am |
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Gemini6566 please let me know what questions you have in your mind. thanks and salam |
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Hawk66
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 99 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 10:33am |
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Gemini6566
agreed with Gemini6566 and appriciate her for her kindness towards aeshakiran and giving time. She really did a good job regarding your wish during forplay and observed it very closely. I wish to comment on your posts but I will wait for Gemini6566's comments on your feed back. She is mature married woman and I hope she will give good advise. Regards, |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 6:06pm |
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aeshakiran
Thank you for feed back. You have not given some history/background of your marriage and your and your hubby's family back ground? Your marriage background? is it arranged or love marriage? did you ever meet husband before marriage and went out with him? Your Hubby's education? his job? how much time he spends with you? do you live in joint family system? when and how did you come to know about sex? did any body teach/tell you? (Your Mom or elder sister or close married friends)) or somebody suggested you to read books on sex topic? does your hubby knows you are visiting Noor clinic? ( if yes, what is his reaction)? Have you ever read books on Noor clinic ? You ever suggested you hubby to go through with Noor clinic or similar sites? Do you both talk on other routine matters in detail? Ever you both have an argument on some issue? (if yes what was your reaction and what was your husband's reaction)? Do you think you both are reserved with eachother or you have enough frankness? How often you both go for outing/shopping/eating out? Do you always go with his choice if going for shopping or you buy your on choice? and same in resturant who orders for meal and whoes choice is considered more? And you can tell any thing else which is not asked here and you wanna share? I have asked these questions to get some more idea about you both before suggesting something. And If you do not feel comfertable to reply them. Please do not reply... Hawk66 Thank you for liking my observation. I think you can comment oh her posts. |
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2014, 7:23pm |
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gemini6566
Looks like you got a whole slew of questions. I understand that through these questions you are trying to put yourself in my shoes so that you can understand my position and guide me properly. So I am going to go ahead and answer your questions albeit in short sentences (sorry I don't feel like typing right now). The answers are given in respective order of your questions.
marriage is arranged.
Never met husband before marriage neither went out with him. We did however talked on phone for couple of times and there was some sms conversation as well.
My hubby is an ...MOD EDIT: Removed professional detail of third party.... works in ...MOD EDIT: Removed location detail of third party... in ...MOD EDIT: Removed employment detail of third party.... ham dono decent family s belong karty hain.
other than job he spends most time with me. we do go to our susral and maikay and any occasions as well. just a normal routine life
i live seperately with my husband. not joint family. we don't have any baby as well.
when and how did I come to know about sex....well jaisy sb larkio ko pta chalta ha wasay he mje bhi pta chala.
regarding noor clinic and reading books, I can say that both me and my husband are well educated in this manner.
I don't think we have any major argument uptil now.
We both are not reserved with each other. On the contrary we are frank with each other in a respectable way. I don't know how else to explain it but it is what it is.
outing and shoping are done as usual couples. normally weeknds py kahi bahar jatay hain. shoping bhi kch arsy bad ho jati ha. no particular routine though. relatives ma bhi kch arsy ma kahi na kahi jana par jata ha. as i said normal routine life.
i select a dress, for example, and then ask him. if he approves then we buy otherwise not.
in restaurant, he orders (mje to wasay bhi pta nahi hota k kia mangwaya jae )
itna kch to bata dia abhi ar kia batana ha.
well now i am curiously waiting for your reply. thanks and salam.
PS. ap bhi apny bary ma kch bata dain like your age, job, marriage and family takay mje bhi andaza ho jae ma kis s bat kar rahi hon.
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fozia hassan
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 55 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 1:02am |
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dear aesha kiran..aap ka prblm zyada difficult nae ha..kya aap apny husband ka penis suck krti hn??agr haan tou un ko kahen k aap ki UC jaga py kiss kia kren..
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