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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Feb 2014, 8:19am |
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 @bushra
you are awesome lady (off course for your husband)...i read most of your post and replies...i want to discuss you something to.. i don't want to create a separate thread as it would create hype and most of members would dislike it...i will be greatful if you reply me in this thread ...waiting for your reply if you will reply i will post the issue |
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 721 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Feb 2014, 5:43pm |
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 @imran775
Agar aapka sawaal topic start karnay wali se milta julta hai to yahan poochein. Warna apna new topic start karein hype create ho ya dislike.
Aajkal new topic start karnay mein mushkil hoti hai server overload ki wajah se tarah tarah ke error message aa jatay hein. Iske lye 2-3 martaba try karni par sakti hai aur sabar aur istaqaamat ka muzahira karna hoga.
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Soltitude
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Group: Members Joined: 09th Jan, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2014, 10:17pm |
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Bushra ji
I love you as a reader... not because of ur choice of words... but bcoz of the guts you have..... truely... a fan of yours ! |
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Feb 2014, 6:14am |
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@Bushra thanks bushra for your encouraging reply.. i have married 3 years ago.i have successful relationship with wife and we have a one baby.we have never do or tried orl.. Q As husband sometimes i have intense desire of orl ...but my wife never do that..once i expressed my desire to her but after listening she totally refused it and said its against morality ..and she asked me me to never ask this "shameful" act.. actually she is very religious and think it against the "Haya".after that i dod't asked again. Can you guide me in this matter..i will be greatfull for your suggestion. Bushra what you suggest for me to convince her..As Human and husband i have a feeling that cant be controlled... Lastly if you are willing for guidance dont ask me for seprate thread otherwise its up to you..
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 721 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 4:03am |
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@imran775 Aapka question to topic starter se milta julta hai.
Bhai sb noorclinic forum bananay ki aur is pe jo books rakhi gai shadi shuda mardon/aurton ke lye inka maqsad yehi thaa ke kafi saari talaq is wajah se hoti hein ke sexual pleasure nahen hota shadi mein. Jabke shadi se jo cheezen hasil hoti hein (e.g love, care, companionship etc.) wo to aur rishton se bhi hasil ho jati hein jabke sex (musalman joron ke lye) shadi ke ilawa kisi rishtay se nahen hasil hota.
Kisi ke religious honay se oral sex ya kisi bhi sex ka talluq nahen hota. Balke ziada religious logon ke he to bachay bohot ziada hotay hein ... yaani bohot ziada sex hua tha jabhi to bohot ziada bachay peda huay? Aur jin logon ko deeni maloomaat kam hoti hai unka sex bhi ziada acha naheen rehta kyunke kafi saari cheezon ko wo apni la-ilmi ki wajah se haraam samajhtay hein jabke wo haqeeqat mein halal hoti hein (e.g valima halal honay walal topic jo aksar NCF par post hota hai).
Sex aapka haq hai jo agar aapki biwi naheen deti to tamam makhlooq raat bhar us pe laanat bhejegi. Aajkal feminism ki tahreek chal gai hai ke bas aurton ko sar charhao aur pakkay zann-mureed ban jao. Agarche aurton par zulm karna aur maar-peet kisi bhi tarah theek nahen hai lekin equality ka matlab equality hai - sar pe charhana nahen.
Oral sex mein koi burai nahen. Ganda lagna aur haraam hona 2 alag alag bataen hein (e.g pistay ka laisdaar halwa halaal hai magar ganda lagta hai aur music/photography of live things haraam hai magar phir bhi acha lagta hai). Agar aapki biwi ko ye be-sharmi lagti hai to unhein ye apnay aap se poochna chahye ke is mein be-pardigi hai? be-satri hai? Kia ye aisay partner se ho raha hai jis se shadi nahen hui hui? Agar nahen to to ye koi deeni hisaab se be-hayai nahen hai unke apnay zehen ko sharam aa rahi hai islye wo be-hayai kakaam keh rahi hein. Unko chahye apna moral standard apnay paas rakhein - halal kaam ko zabardasti apnay ooper haraam kar lenay par to nabi ko bhi Allah ki taraf se toka gya hai jo quraan mein ayat ai hai.
Aur mani moonh mein nahen jaygi aap flavoured condom pehnwa lein.
Aajkal society mein bigaar ki aik wajah so-called religious larkian bhi hein kyunke larkay chahtay hein parday wali larki se shadi kar lein. Uskay baad pata chalta hai wo to sex ko bhi gunaah samajhti hai aur shadi ke baad bhi tajarrud ki zindagi guzaarna chahti hai. Shohar jab sex ka kehta hai to wo usko dunya-parast janwar keh kar zaleel karti hai. (Ye sab deen ko apnay zaati maqsad ke lye istemal karni wali batain hein warna inhi larkion ko wo hadees to yaad nahen aateen jin mein shohar ka ehtraam kaarnay ka hukum dia gya hai).
Ooper wali kahani thora mind-read karnay ke lihaaz se hai.
Ab aap apni biwi ko kesay raazi karein (awwal to unhein raazi karnay ki zaroorat he nahen honi chahye unka kaam he yehi hai - aap razi karnay par majboor hein ye unka failure hai)? Unko dobara approach karien. Agar wo foran ghussay mein chillana shuroo ho jaen to ignore kar dein. Jab wo thandi ho jaen to unko bata dein is topic par emotional huay baghair discussion karna hai. Agar wo raazi ho jaen to theek hai - agar na hon to kuch dinon ke lye unko maikay bhaij dein. Jab 2-3 haftay wahan guzar jaen gay aur bhabion ke saath jhagray etc. shuru ho jaenge to unkay maan baap khud he kahein ge beta *apnay* ghar kab jaogi?
Ghar wapsi ki yehi shart hogi. Forced oral sex nahen. Balke open-minded discussion on oral sex. Is mein aap jo oral sex karein ge wo bhi shamil hoga. Jo oral sex wo aap par kareingi wo bhi shamil hoga (both ways yaani).
Achi tarah time & date set kar lijye ga. Jesay kisi important kaam ka appointment hota hai. Warna wo taal-matol karti raheingi (aurtein is mamlay mein mahir hoti hein)!
Discussion jab ho to us mein aapka point yehi hoga ke tum bohot religious ho - bari tumhein maloomat hai - hadees se ya quraan se sabit karo ke ye be-hayai ya malooni kaam hai. Agar aap ghair-muqallid hein to ziada theek rahega kyunke aap regional qisim ke fatawa mein to wesay bhi believe naheen kartay. Agar muqallid hein to majboori hai jiski taqleed kartay hein wo sharaab ko bhi halal qaraar de manna parega. Wese agar aap muqallid hein to bhi aap pooch saktay hein ke jo cheez quraan ya hadees mein haraam nahen hai usko koi mufti kisi bhi daleel se haraam kesay qaraar de sakta hai?
Jab un par wazeh ho jay ke shariat mein be-hayai ki jo definition hai us hisaab se ye be-hayai ka kaam nahen hai to unse kahein ke oral karo. Wo phir bhi na karein to aap wapas forum par ajaen.
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 7:31am |
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@buhra thanks for quick response..Maky bhaijny ko mera dil nhe chay ga bhr hal ap ky mshwaron pr aml krta hn .lets try.. |
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shaikh123
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 10:03am |
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hi
aslaam alaikum main aur meri wife aksar oral sex karte hai aur enjoy bhi bahot karte hai...lekin meri problem ye hai ki jab main apni wife ko suck ya lick karta hoon to wo kaafi wet ho jaati hai aur mere mooh main unka halka paani aa jaata hai..ye koi gunah to nahi hai naa...aur isko kaise handle kiya jaye
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love000x
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jan, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 9:50pm |
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@imran775 In mashwaroon par amal kar key kahin aap apna azdawaji rishta na turwa baithna bhai.
Mian or biwi ka rishta nazuk hota hey aur ahista ahista piyar mohabat sey aik dosray to sikhaya ja sakta hey. Date & time set kar key, person-to-person discussion sey aap ki wife ghbra sakti hey. Aur phir ya tou woh bilkul hathay sey ukhar jaye gi, ya phir bahalt majboori oral sex dai gi. Aur biwi ko bahalat majboori sex kay liye aamada karna koi umdah amal nhain hey.
Haan main is baat sey ittifaq karta hoon keh:
1. Humarey muashray main larkiyun ko sex education bohat kam hoti hey. Ziyada tar larkiyan sex ko ganda amal samajhti hain aur aksar ko is key bray main mazhabi maloomat bhi nahin hoti.
2. Aksar larkiyan (aur larkay bhi) apni azdawaji zimadariyon (marital responsibilities) sey nawaqif hotey hain.
3. Aksar husband (aur wife) apni safai (hygine) ka khyal nahin rakhtey aur us key baray main khasey la-ilm hotey hain. Jis ki wajah sey aik dosray ki qurbat nagwar guzar sakti hey.
Aap ki wife ka kaam hey keh woh koshish kar key aap ki sexual needs ko poora kray, laikin husband apni wife to majboor kray yeh kisi Deeni kitaab main nahin lika, agar Bushra nikal kar dikha dain tou shukar guzaar hoon ga. |
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shaikh123
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Feb 2014, 2:31pm |
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salaam! bushraji waiting for ur reply!
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stranger48
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Nov, 2013 Topic: 3 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Feb 2014, 10:44am |
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Imran775 :: Please Listen Dear Brother Imran,
Ap Plz Bushra aunty ki batu ma nahi aana. unka nazriya apni jaga, ye haram amal hai. or ye nehayat badtareen amal hai.
Bushra aunty hosakta ha ap mujhpe harsh hojae, aunty apka apna amal zarur ye raha hai. apki zindagi oral may he guzri hai. magar ap dusro ko istarah teach na kare. or apke ek comment se kisi ki azdawazi zindagi kharab hosakti hai. ap yu keh sakti hay k mera maushwara ye hai or mera apna amal ye hai. magar ye na kahe k ye thek hay ye galat hay.
Imran bhai may bhi apko apna faisla nahi sunauga bs sahi galat ka mashuwra du ga.
Imran bhai ap nehayat he lucky insan hay k apki wife haya wali hai. Allah sister ko jannat ma jaga de. unke haya ka ehtaram kare. unko kabhi bhi is naguzair harkat k liye aaamada na kare. rahi bat apke desire ki, to ap tripple xxx movies na dekhte to apki desire b kabhi na uthti. or desire ki koi had nahi hoti. tripple xxx movie ma to husband apne andar apni wife ki finger se b mazar le raha hota hai , kea ap us had tak ja sakte ha??????? agar koi had apne soch rakhi hay to is ko b apni had tasleem kare. or ye desire ate he. Allah ka nam Le. Allah ka khauf kare. Yaqeen kare, agar apne biwi ki is bat ka ehtaram kea to Allah ap se bohat khush hoga. Aagar confusion ho to ap please ache AALIM se puche. ek se ziada logu se puchna. phir combinely jo jawab theek aae ap usay follow karna.
Ap apni izat dar or haya dar wife ko mekay na bheje na us pe zulm kare.
usko islamic tareequ se pyar kare. usy pyar de.
Aakhir ma phir kahuga. Ap shukar kare Allah ka apki wife bohat haya wali hay.
Mashallah.
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psych
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Nov, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Feb 2014, 12:27pm |
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@imran775 Oral sex kaee ulema k mutabiq jaiz hai kyunke us k khilaf Quran/Sunnat mein koi baat nahin, aur jis cheez ko Allah ne Haram nahin kaha ho, us ko ham haram nahin keh saktay. Islam aik mukamal deen hai, isi liey agar oral sex haram hota, to Quran ya Sunnat mein bataa dia gya hota. Islam mein sirf anal sex na-jaiz hai aur us k baaray mein clearly keh dia gya hai, lekin oral sex k baray mein kuch bhi nahin kaha gya
You can also refer to this: http://islam.com/questions/5658/oral-sex-with-your-own-wife?ModPagespeed=noscript
Husband aur wife ka aik doosray ko pleasure karna buhat zaroori hai aur kisi bhi tareeqay se kia ja sakta hai as long as zabardasti na ki jai. Mein bushra2012 se disagree karta hoon. Wife ko dalaeel k zaryaey samjhaya jaey k oral sex mein koi buri baat nahin, lekin zabardasti kabhi bhi nahin karna chahiey. Un ko waqt dein, kya pata time k saath jhijhak khatam ho jaey.
Aap khud bhi pehle tasalli kar lein k oral sex mein koi buri baat nahin aur apna confidence barhaa lein. Agar aap k apnay mind mein doubts hon ge, to aap ki wife ko unconsciously doubts aur paida hon gay.
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afshan1989
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 6 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2014, 7:39am |
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bushra u r right bushra.... v can enjoy it properly nd its our right also |
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2014, 6:20am |
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@bushra thank you.i convinced her after all.. it took a long time to remove her confusion and your views in the favor of orl are proved to very helpful to me.i gave all supporting point that you give in this thread....
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2014, 6:23am |
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@bushra ager ap apni sari post/replies k link ek sperate thread ya is thread me dy den to mery liy or ap k bht readers k liy bht acha ho ga.thank you again. |
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 721 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2014, 7:02am |
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@imran775 Shukar hai aapka masla hal hua. Aap thori lambi post bhi likh saktay hein. E.g aapke points aur unke counterpoints. Takeh aainda aanay walon ka bhala ho. Aur love000x aur stranger48 ko bhi afaaqa ho jayga, ke aapka ghar bhi na toota.
1. Specially sab se pehlay aapne iss topic par baat karnay ke lye kesay convince kia?
2. Phir aapko oral karwa ke kesa laga?
3. Aapne bhi wife ko licking ki?
4. Ya abhi sirf convincing hui hai aur kaam naheen hua? Yahan girls ne to share kia hai jesay Saman90, textilian ne magar aaj tak kisi male ne tafseel se nahen bataya ke kesa laga islye poocha hai.
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shaikh123
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2014, 7:18am |
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bushra! bushraji aap ne meri problem ka jawab nahi diya......plz jaldi reply karo |
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2014, 1:14pm |
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@shaikh 123 ap secretion sy avoid kren .fiqah hnfi k mutabiq secretions ager mnh me chli jaey to mkroh hy or ager nigel len gy to gunah or hram hy...(wesy sy krahet nhe hoti ap ko..?)secretions sy avoid krty huwy orl ko enjoy kren |
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2014, 1:24pm |
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@bushra thank you for your encouragement and quick response...kafi muskil swal pochy hn ap ny..Male members ki mojdgi me jwab dena thora mushkil ho ga...lakin behr al ap sy share krny k liy zror dn ga(q k ap ny bhe personal experience sy kafi guide kia hy or or me ny ap k experience sy apni wife ko sb khuch smjhana hy k kesy krna hy(abhe ye nhe smjhaya unhen ..yaha tk bat nhe ponchi abhe)...will share first experience soon ,exclusively for you thank you once again
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bushra2012
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 721 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Mar 2014, 5:22am |
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@imran775 Larkay he ziada sharmeelay hotay hein - aur girls confident hoti hein. Ab aap ko he dekh lein. Girls ne kia kuch share nahen kia magar aapko dar lag raha.
Jabhi girls se bhi kehti hoon jo noorclinic par share hua hua hai ke dulhan ko first night sharmeela hona chahye etc. is par ziada yaqeen na karein. Mard ko sex ke lye erect hona parta hai uske baghair sex ho he nahen sakta. Aur iske lye girls ko ziada confident ho kar shohar ko acha sa sex karana parta hai warna sari zindagi sharmindagi mein guzarti hai.
Yippee girl power!
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textilian
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Aug, 2013 Topic: 3 Post: 146 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Mar 2014, 11:49pm |
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 @bushra
Hi jaan kesi ho kidher ghaib rahi itne din. Imran tu lgta haie khud sharma rhay hain.... Bushra licking ki tu advice dain k proper kis position maie krni chahiay.... Hm se proper ho nahi rahi.....
@imran you should also reply in detail your experiences and difficulties for serious members..... I totally agreed with bushra ji... |
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