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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2012, 10:23am |
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 Mia Bivi Dono ke Job Ki Wajah Se Doori Ka Hal Kya Hai?
aslm o alikum....
ABOUT ME.... meri bhuht jaldd shaddi hony wali hay INSHALLAH..main saudia main job karta hoon...road construction companey main Material Inspector hoon,,,ALLHAMDOLILAH acha kamta hoon...faimly packge be offer hay shadi kay baad companey ke tarf say mujhy....close realtion hain hamary 1 faimly say mangni hoi hay ghar kay sath he hghar hay hamara pakistan main ABOUT MY FIANCE... us nay MASHALLAH say MSC Physcolgy+m add+ Ma english kar rahi hay...grade 17 main government job hay...or hum dono ailk doosry say mohbat b karty hain bhuht...
PROBLEM... main nay uske mohbat main orr piyar main usy ye promise diya hay kay main usay support karoon ga specially uske job main jo kay meri faimly nahi chahti kay wo job kary....or sachi bat hay fiance say promise kar kay main b dil say nahi chahta kay wo job kary but uska dil rakhny kay liay main nay ussay kaha tha kay main tumhary sath hoon...abb jab kay shaddi nazdeek hay orr wo mery sath saudai anny ko tiyar b nahi hay siway vications kay uska kehna hay kay itna parh ky main apny apo waste nahi kar sakti...but main nahi chahta abb kay wo JOB kary...
1 ti ussy apny sath rakhna chahta hoon 2nd mujehy acha nahi lagy ga kay meri wife kaheen ja kar job kary...uske faimly ke b full support hay ussy batoon batiin main uske halla b suntai rehti hay kay tum agr allow nahi karo gaay to wo apny ghar akr job kary ge magar chorry ge nahi job ko apni baad main b,,,,,iss ko laay kar main nihait tense hoon kaisy deal karoon kia aisa karoon main kay wo mery sath rahy mery pass naa kay job ke wajja say mujhy importance na daay ...
plzz mujhy batain main kaisy usay handle karoon kia aisa karoon kay main relax ho jaoon ..rishta b apni cousen say hay...khuch samj nahi arahi hay abi say...ajeeb c kash maksh main rehta hoon ye soch soch kar,,,plz someone help me
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feelings1 |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 31 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2012, 7:48am |
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 Sunny
Abhi dair nahi huwi hai...... abhi decision lelo... aapko agar saudi main he rehna hai tau aapki biwi bhi yaheen aayegi.... .... fir saudi aakay situation kay hisab say dekh lo ke agar woh zid karay job karnay ke tau theekh..... wesay bhi pakistan main tau job chodni he hai....
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4259 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2012, 11:21pm |
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mia bivi job sarkari nokri mein 5 years tak ex-pakistan leave bhi mil jata hai
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2012, 7:19am |
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feelings1 decide to main kar chuka hoon kay ussy job chorni hoge mery liay but kaisy ye mumkan hoga bhuht mushkal laag raha hy mujhy nahi manny ge wo har time job par no compromise ke he bat karti hay..kaisy usko iss par tiyar karoon ga ?
is ka koi haal batao yar coz main uska trust b nahi torna chahta orr aisa karna b chahta hooon coz usay promise daay chuka hoon kay jaisa dil chahy karna ????? |
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Volunteer |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2012, 11:59pm |
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trying to keep promises
sunny, if u have promised her, then u should leave ur job for 2 or 3 weeks, and spend time with her, whatever time she can give. or spend time on weekends only, thats what most employed people do. |
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4259 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2012, 4:08am |
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mia bivi ki nokri Mulk aw bahar job kerne se laakh behtar hai keh kuch kam paisa per hi sahi apne mulk mein job karain.
bivi ki job khatam na karain balkeh kuch kama ker wapas mulk aa jain aur dono apne mulk mein nokri karain.
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Emphasis |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 6 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2012, 4:53am |
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 sunny
mere bhai BE A MAN. itna darta ku he insan ban ja.. meri b aesi condition thi jab meri mangni hui thi.. us ne apni job ko priorty di k shadi k bad me nhe chorngi par meri marzi nhe thi k woh shadi k bad job kare.. men b saudia me rehta hu aur Allah k Karam se boht acha kamata hu.. me us se pyar krta tha par pyar me ANDHA nhe tha k itni minor si pb k liye sar pakar k bethta... mene conditions rakhen us k samne k agar job ko priorty dogi to shayad hamara age ka guzara na hosake agar nhe to wel n gud... but unfortunately us ne kafi koshish ki mujhe manane ki k men man jaon aur use pk rehne dun par agar aesa krna he to shadi ku karun phr? moreover mera mashwara man sunny k act like a man aur fesla krne ka hosla rakh.. aur mere hisab se tu fesla nhe krsake ga ku k tu kamzor insan he jo biwi k palu pakar k chalte hen... agr mera mashwara nhe mano to aik bat mano apke agar walden hayat hen to unko visit visa pe bulao as u said k ache talukat hen to itna to woh karsakte hen otherwise tumhari condition buri he aur hone wali mangetr pe ziyada dhayan he.
best of luck phatu |
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ho0rsm0ker |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Nov, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 17 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2012, 11:55pm |
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solution
1.aapko pehle wada hi nahi karna chahiye tha, wada koi mazaq nahi hai k jab dil chahy kar liya aur jab chaha tor diya. soch samjh k wada karna chahiye tha.
2.aur ab agar wada kar liya hai to har haal mai nibhaiye. behter hai k us larki ko samjhaney ki bjaye apne aapko aur apni family ko samjhaiye
3. job karna koi buri baat nahi. mere khayaal se aap unhe job karne dein aur saudia mai reh k Pakistan mai apne laiq koi achi job dhondein. internet k daur mai kahin pe bhi beth k job dhond'na koi mushkil kaam nahi. wo apni job yahan continue rakhein aur aap bhi koshish karein jald se jald Pak shift hone ki. is se apke family bhi khush hogi aur wife bhi.
4. apni family se bhi baat karein aur apni hone wali wife ko bhi samjhaiye k agar job karni hai to apko family ki responsibilities bhi sambhalni hon gi. ho sakta hai wo double duty ki wajah se khud hi peechey hat jaein.
5. agar phir bhi aap nahi chahte k wo job karein to tassali aur itminaan k saath unse baat karein aur unhe samjhaein k zabardasti job karni hai to karlo par yaad rakho k is mai meri khushi shamil nahi hogi. na hi hum khush reh paein ge. aur job na karne se koi waste nahi ho jata. tum apne bachon ki achi tarbiyat kar sakti ho. filhal mai financially support kar sakta hoon sab kuch KHUDA na kare k agar future mai koi problem aai to tum bhi stand le lena.
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2012, 2:02pm |
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 Emphasis
ap ke bat teekh hay meri mangni meri or mery parents ke dono ke marzi say hoi hay....haan main iss bat ko manta hoon kay main fiance ko bhuht chahta hoon....or wakki main us say bat karna mery liay bhuht mushkal hay....magar HOORSMOKER ka sub number 5 mujhy pasnd iya hay kay us say bat karoon orr samjaon kay meri marzi shamal nahi hay zabrasti apny behalf par karna chaho job to kar lo....SAB KA SHUKRIA REPLY OR MASHWRA AINA KA....THANKFULL to ALL OF YOU......JAZAKALLAH |
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ho0rsm0ker |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Nov, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 17 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2012, 3:37am |
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hmmm
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ho0rsm0ker |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Nov, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 17 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2012, 3:37am |
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hmmm jazak ALLAH . ALLAH aapki pareshani hal kare...
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2012, 6:36am |
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*ho0rsmoker* Ameen & thank u dear ... |
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