 Waldein ko kese samjhao?
Bismillah Or Asslam.o.alekum all freindz"
Meri shadi ko 1 sal hogya OR Shayed m is wakht Allah ka bara karam hy 1 bht Lucky Men Hun wife k lihaz se. But aaj kal m bht tens rheta hun. Masla 1 hi hay Maan baap ya bivi?? Pasand ki shadi hy Phele walid shb' razi na the kuk wife north Karachi m rehti thi. Or mere walid kisi foreign family m krna chate the. Phir maangye kuk Meri wife good looking, M.A, & Cook expert or Hosting co job krti thi. Jo meri faimily ko pasand aaya. She belongs with Indian family. Mere walid ki 1 adat jhagarne ki gharme kitchen orton k kamo m rok tok krne ki. Jiski waja se hamare ghar m 1 tens si rheti hy. OR meri walida thori laparwa hein ghr k mamle m. Jiski wja se papa larte hen... walid bht rok tok krte hen hr mamle m. jabke meri Wife ki family m sub bht zada khamosh tbyet rkhte hen. Islye meri wife hamare ghr ki roktok jhagro ki waja se shadi k 2month bad bht udas bemar rhene lagi . Ek din wife ne dar kr kha k m adjust nhi kr parhi hun mujhe alag ghr deden. Meri wife wese to bht achi hey job k sath sath abhi tk mere har chez sara khayal rakhti hy. Mujhs poch kr hr kam krti hy Hum dono mein bht pyar h. Wife ki ye bat sun kr meine narazgi ki or smjhaya k abhi 2month bad hi ye khena shru krdia abhi esa kuch nhi hoskta apko adjust krna hoga. Phir wo thk hogyi or Allah ne humein khushi di jo miscarage hogya 2month ka baby. But mere waldein ne apna wohi attitude rkha, rok tok, krna larna, But wife or meri ami k nhi banti wo kheti hen k ye hamse hasi mazak nhi krti bat shar nhi krti bs shohar s krti hey. wife sb kuch mujh share krti hy uska yehi mana hy k mere shohar hen aap m bs apse krongi. But jub wo wife ko ulta sidha kehte hen to mujhe feel hota k mujhe 1 achi wife mili hy m sun nhi pata tha or wife ki himayat krdeta tha jo waldein ko bura lagta... baho ki salary m se ghar k kharach k lye demand krte hen or shikayat krte hen k ye hamare ghr k kapre nhi dhoti sirt kitchen krti hy or tumhare kam. Mein apni adhi salary shadi se phele apne waldein ko diya krta tha. Ab wo khete hen k Tum dono kama rhe ho. islye Humein zada do apni wife ko bhi kho k wo bhi dey. jubke mere walid ki apni salary 45,000 hy. Lekin ab bht bigar gya hy mamla Agar waldein ki sunta hun to wife ke sath na insafi hogi kuk wo har lehaz se achi hy bs ghr chati hy... OR waldein ko chorta hun to akhrat ka dar hay or hamari family m seprate rhena jurm samjha jata hy...
KYa kroon plz?? aap log bataien Islamic or dunyavi pheloo se ???.
Meri post shayad apko big lagegi but mein hr moment clear krna chata tha islye detail m likha plz advice me good ???plz advise m w8ing?
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