Tis My bad luck....I hav been masturbating for 9 years.in past,i fell in inferiority complex and i become ruined and weak.now i am mature and want to leave masturbation.but i am facing some problems.I feel that i am compeled to do masturbation after every 3 to 4 days.some unknown problems force me to masturbate.i.e i feel pain in my testes(sometime slightly or high pain ),head ache, fatigue, semen drops, incriment in sex desire, low concentration, anxiety, In this condition i become depressed and tens, i cant control myself and masturbate.after release i feel that pain and above conditions have vanished.but i become weak ,sleepy, dozy.and then i think that i could never control over masturbation.
Sir ,
Will i could never leave this sin for life ?
Will i lost my futur and memory due to masturbation ?
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Posted on:26th Oct 2012, 10:47am
heroo 70
exactly, whatever u wrote, are all the after effects of masturbation. no confidence, no self esteem, weak body structure, forgetfulness, low concentration, nervousness, weak nervous system, guilt feeling, no motivation in life...... list goes on and on.
actually masturbation effects ur nervous system the most, when nervous system is down every thing is down. we better know life is the game of nervous. person with such condition u written can no longer live healthy, successful and motivated life. u r not the only one, unfortunately majority of our youth suffering from such dilemma.
reasons behind are late marriage, nudity, farness from religion etc. another problem is being shy to ask for marriage. actually marriage has been associated with career development, education, earning etc. these things are important no doubt, but they should not be associated with getting marry, instead they should must be carried with marriage. islam ne aisey he to nahi keh dia k baligh oar samajh boojh honey per shadi kar do.
anyways, as far as solution is concerned, i don't discourage you but reality is that its extremely difficult to quit, might be impossible for u. sex is need just like food and water, so u can not live without fulfilling this urge.
so develope
1- God fear 2- and find some job and get marry as soon as possible,
marriage will fulfill your natural desire and God fear will refrain u from crossing the limits. nothing else work, at-least in the condition with which u r going through.
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