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midhat96 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Sep, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2012, 10:18am |
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 Need an advice
Main apni aik saheli k masla share ker k us k bare men rae chahte ho .us k liy aik proposal aya wo larka doctor he done his fcps doing government job..larki k parents ne larke ko wait k kaha..larke k gher wale man gae...itne time men larka larki app pass men bat karte rahe aur aik dosre ko pasand karne lage.1saal bad larke walo ne demand ki k wo loog rukhsti na kare koi rasam chahe to nikkah ya mangni ker dain.magr larki walo ne pher se kaha intzar karo hum ne karna hua to 1saal bad karen g.larki k parents k ye attitude kuch samjh se baher he ..us larki ne apne parents se kaha wo us k shadi ker dain use b pasand he n wo nhi chahte k wo loog koi galat kadam uthaen..Ab wo larki chahte he k wo larke se chup k nikkah ker le....aur agar pher 1 saal bad b us k parents na manen to wo bta de k wo nikkah ker chuke he..Kya larki k un chup ker nikkah karne k faisla thek he..???
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goodmorals |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 93 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2012, 12:33pm |
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@ midhat96 no.
is thinking k peechey b most probably larkey ka he hath ho ga
definitely. usually larkian is level tak nahi jatin ya bat kartin
untill and unless unhain convince na kiya jaye.........wesey b larkian
by nature emotional hoti hain ..........jab tak ye clear nahi ho jata k
larki walon k taraf say delay ki kaya waja hai kuch kehna mushkil
hai.....ho sakta hai un ki kahin oar bat chal rahi ho oar wo daikhna cha
rahey hon k wohan bat na baney to yahan ok kar dain.......anayways chup
kar nikah karna long run me problems create karay ga, dono khandanon k
toaluq kharab hon gay................agar dono khandan accept kar bhi
lain to is tarha karney say insan ki self respect oar dignity gir jati
hai, insan khud bhi guilty feel karta hai.........behter ye hai k larka
oar larki khandan k baron ko saf saf bata dain apni pasand ka oar unhain
convince karain k wo aik doosrey ko pasand kartey hain to phir aitraz
kis cheez ka.............ho sakta larki waley shadi ki preperation k
liye waqt mang rahey hon.
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2012, 9:52pm |
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midhat goodmorals ne bh bh bht acha maswara diya hai.par ap jo step uthane ja rahe hain wo galat hai our jaiz bh nh hai chpke wala nikah.ap to nikah kar bh lo our wo larka phr black mail karna start hojae ga ap ko ub to nikah ho chuka hai hum mian bewi bun chuke hain to kiy na intercourse bh karle.sal bad wase bh sub ko bata dein ge phr rukhsati ho jae gi our phr is trha pora sal apni hawas mita ta rahe ga.then phr kahe our jake apni shadi karlega us waqt ap k fraiend na apne ghr k rahe gi na us doct ki.jis k waja se zindage dao p lagao .soch humesha lambi rukha karo.ok think about it. |
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