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spredIslam |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 1:10am |
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 Can I Pray To Get My Love?
Assalam o alaikum.Mere kuch Questions hein jinke answers me islamic view se chahti hun.Problem ye hai ke mein kisi se bohot mohabbat karti hun usse bohot pasand karti hu us ki bohot karti hu or meri nazar me bhi us ki bohot izat hai.mujhe nahi malum wo mujse muhabbat karta hai ya nahi.mein ussi se shadi karna chahti hun.pata nahi kiu me bohot ziada uske bake me sochti hun uska khayal bohot ziada muje ata ha or in khayalo me uske kareeb aney ka khayal ( some sexual thoughts) bhi ajate hein to kiya ye thik hai?? me usse khona nahi chahti usse hamesha ke liye khone ka dar mujhe bohot parshan karta hai.meri us se as a friend baat hoti hai or kam hoti ha uski bohot zada yad ati ha mujhe bhot rona ata ha ke usse ahsas bhi nahi wo mujse itna dur dur rehta ha.or agar uss se baat nahi hoti to me bohot khamosh si hojati hu mujhse kuch hota nahi me khush nahi reh paati.or yahi agar us se baat hojay to esa lagta ha jese poori dunia mil gyi hai itni khushi hoti hai.me usse paane ke liye namaz me dua karti hun ke meri shadi ussi se ho,mera naseeb bhi ussi se jurh jaye.or Allah pak uske dil mein meri liye muhabbat de de.in duaon ko karte huwe meri ankho se ansoo ajate he.kiya ye duaen karna thik hai?? kiu ke mein samjti hu me usse insano se to nahi mang sakti apne rab se hi mang sakti hu.
plz mere discription ko parhte huwe mere question ke answer dein.shukriya.
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6481 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 2:29am |
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mohabbat 1. iss qism ki yaktarfah mohabbat ka anjaam amooman laRki k haq main bora hi hota hai... sirf chand feesad laRkiyoun ko onki mohabbat izzat say mil jati hai baqi k naseeb maiN roswaiyyaN hi hoti haiN. zamanay ka yehi chalan aur yehi record hai
2. islam maiN naa.mahram laRkay aur naa.mahram laRki ka apas maiN milna, baat cheet karna with sexual khayaalaat k HARAM hai aur bahoot baRa gonaah hai. ap ko agar apni aaqebat ki fikar hai to iss gonaah say baaz aajayain aur oss laRkay say milna julna baat cheet karna band kardaiN
3. agar apko oss say shadi karni hai to iska aik hi tareeqah hai k ossay kahain k woh apnay parents ko apkay ghar rishtah bhejay... aur agar woh raazi hojaa.ay to yeh baat apni waledah ko batlaa dain
4. zeyadah imkaan yehi hai k woh rishta bhejnay par raazi nahi hoga... mokhtalif qism k bahaanay banaa.ay ga abhi shadi nahi karsakta...pahlay ham maiN understanding hojaa.ay... aik doosray ko achi tarah jaan laiN, abhi meri yeh yeh majboori hai etc etc ... to samajh lain ko woh serious nahi hai... oska khayaal dil say nikaal daiN, aur apni waledah ko bhi nah batlaayaiN
5. punj waqtah namaaz ki pabandi karaiN... quran aur hadees ko tarjumay sya paRhaiN... achi achi books paRhaiN, ghar k kamouN maiN dil chaspi laiN... tanhaa akelay nah rahaiN balkay ghar walouN k saath masroof rahain... insha Allah aisay faasid /manfi khayaalaat nahi aayengay.
6. namaaz maiN apnay liyeh yeh dua karaiN: ay Allah agar yeh rishtah meray haq maiN behtar ho to iss say shadi k raastouN ko asaan karday. agar meray haq maiN behtar nah ho to koi behtar rishtah bhej day aur meri jald az jald shadi karwa day. aameen
wish u good luck
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silentgrl |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 5:40am |
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 class mate se bat as a frnd
salam mera ye question ha k me or mera classmate apas me bat cheet krlety hn daily. ham 2 sal 1 sath parhy hn last year se hmari bat hui n now we r frnds.. or me or wo mashallah 5 wqat namazi hn Khoaf e khuda b ha kbhi koi galat bat nhi ki..... na hi usky khyalat negative hn. wo mjhy apna dost samjhta ha jese me larka hun. just as a frnd . personally me us se kbhi nhi mili..na hi mjhy or usko shok ha mmilny ka.. i wanna ask kia ALLAH pak naraz to ni mjhsy??????? kia ye jaiz ha??????????? plz guide me |
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silentgrl |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 5:41am |
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class mate se bat as a frnd and kbhi phone py bat b nhi ki.. just on sms |
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ωειικпοωи |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 6:31am |
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Spred Islam Agreed with myrizvi, good reply..
lekin mai bi appko kuch batana chahta hoo. dear app jo keh rahi hai osske mutabiq na to apko koi piyar howa hai or na hi kuch or bass apko sirf attraction howa hai,, wo iss liye ke jiss love mai sex ajaye to osse love nahe kaha gaya hai bass os mai jinsi piyar janam leta hai,,, or wese bi Islam mai love karna,, friend ship karna in cheezo ka koi concept nahe hai or app jo kar rahi hai wo sab gunah hai,, lehaza agar osse shadi karna chahti hoo to osse kaho ke rishta beej de warna ye sab time pass hai,, kio ke love to roh se ya pir khoobsorti se ki jati hai,,, lekin aaj kal wo love nahe raha... or na Islam mai iska koi concept hai. |
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ωειικпοωи |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 6:42am |
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 silentgrl
Dear app ke post mai mujhe kuch uljan si nazar aati hai.
1) Islam mai ek larka or larki ko beghair kissi zaroorat ki baat karna mana hai lekin appki friend ship to bohot deep hai.
2) Baat karna voice call ho ya msg wahi dil o dimagh se arrange ho kar hota hai na ke kuch or se. lehazza iss se bi karna gunah hai.
3) Behen ap ne bataya "wo mashallah 5 wqat namazi hn Khoaf e khuda b ha kbhi koi galat bat nhi ki..... na hi usky khyalat negative hn" to dil ka haal to Allah janta hai app nahe. second ye ke jiss dil mai Allah ka khouf hoo or wo sacha momin hoo wo kissi bi larki se sms nahe karta kiyo ke ye kaam Allah ko na pasandeeda hai. third ye ke kissi ki bi khayaalat negative nahe hote sab positive, negative tab hote hai jab negative baat kiya jaye ya negative figure ankho pe dekh jaye tab khayalat badl the hai.
4) App keh rahi hai "wo mjhy apna dost samjhta ha jese me larka hun. just as a frnd" Koi bi male kissi Female ko Male nahe samajti ye aapki ghalat fehmi hai,, app bata rahi hoo ke just as a frnd lekin yahi friend ship ke zariye kal zinna bi hota hai.
5) app jo kar rahi hoo to oss par app se Allah naraz hoga kiyo ke iss tarah kaam karne se gunah hota hai or app ko mashwara hai ke iss tarah lines ko break kara hi do tho acha hai appki bhaalai ke liye warna kal bohot roo gi. |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6481 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2012, 10:52pm |
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jazak Allah wellknown. masha Allah well explained.
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spredIslam |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2012, 2:16am |
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Thanks all. Bohot bohot shukriya aap logo ke answers ke liye... me alhamsulillah 5 wakt namazi hu or koshish karu gi ke ese khayalat mere zehen me nahi ayen .. me us se ye bhi keh ke dekhu gi ke wo rishta bhej de lekin iski himmat nahi hoti.
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silentgrl |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2012, 5:46am |
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 hmm
myrizvi.. i think you are right.. but me 1 dam se frndship nhi break kr skti. abhi he is in aitkaf.. so after eid i'll tell him k this is not gud n we cant proceed this anymore.. jazakallah for your answer.. stay blessed |
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ωειικпοωи |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2012, 6:10am |
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silentgrl Apko pir bi gunah se ziadah apka dost pasand hai,, ye nahe sochti ke gunah ziadah hota hai,, agar romantically keh dogi ke leave me to Inshallah pir wo apko nahe chorega best ye hai ke iss tarah se kaho ke kal app se khush na ho. or apko umeed na rakhe |
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silentgrl |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2012, 10:31am |
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gunah aziz nhi mjhy ALLAH ki raza chahye,, dosri taraf he is not like other boys i know him nhi kry ga wo mjhse bat b definetly .. |
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silentgrl |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Aug 2012, 6:19pm |
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wellknown aap ny ye kyun kaha k kal ko men roo'on gi :((( |
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