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| Posted on:4th May 2012, 6:14am |
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 Meri bivi mujh se badzan ho gai hai
AOA
aik baar phir hazir hun, phir aik maslay kai saath.
meri wife mujh se badzan ho gai hai. mein jo kehta hun is tarhaan na kero woh usi tarhaan kerti hai. yaan agvar kahun is tarhaan kero to uska ulat kerti hai. meri baat bilkul nahi maanti. is tarhaan ho gai hai keh agar app na bhi hon to mujhe koi farak nahi perta. bilkul careless ho gai hai. is tarhaan hai keh mujhe ap ki koi parwah nahi hai. ajeeb si situation ho gai hai. aik husband wife mein pyaar affection hota hai woh khetam ho gia hai. beech mein theek bhi ho jaati hai. lekin phhir usi tarhaan. pata nahi kia ho gia hai. aik hi zid mein nai parents ki taraf jana hai. her week jaati hai. us per bhi keh mujhe jane nahi detay halan keh her week jati hai. is tarhaan hai keh bhaar mein jaye ghar aur app bhi mujhe koi perwah nahi hai.
kis aisa jadoo ki wajah sai bhi ho sakta hai.
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2012, 7:07am |
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ap ka masla waqai bht serious hai W.SALAM
kiya ap k arrange marrage the.our ap k wife ap se pehly kise se our se mubat karte the kiy k amoman ye situation tb creat hote hai jb insan kise our k sth involve hota hai ya yea shdi un k marzi se nh hue wo khd ko sanbahl nh pae ub tak na he aap ko dil se suikar kar pae hai.kiy k mian bewi k bandhan he piyr se mazbot hota hai ekk dosre ko samjhne se masle hal hote hai.wo ap ko ub tk samjh nh pae
ise thora waqt dy ya aram se beth k is se poche k tum akhir kiy aisa rawya kar rahe ho.susral main ek bewi ko apne mard ka he sahra hota hai our wo use apne majazi khda ko tukra rahe hai.
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 61 Post: 226 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2012, 7:30am |
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reply shaadi sai kaafi saal pehlay us ka kisi kai saath affair tha. lekin woh khetam ho chuka tha. hamari arranged marriage thi. hamari shaadi ko 4 saal ho chuke hein. pehlay aisa ravaya nahi tha. short tempered bohut ziada hai. choto chotibaat per naraz hona. lekin ab kuch 6-7 month sai aisa behaviour hai keh mujhe app ki yaan app kai parents ki koi perwah nahi hai.
dil sai accept kia tha lekin ab pata nahi kia ho gia hai. mein nai pyaar sai bhi samjhaya hai. lekin koi faida nahi hoa.
meray khiaal mein woh is had tak bhi a chuki hai keh mujhe chor bhi dain to koi mujhe koi farak nahi perta. halan kai hamare 2 bache bhi hein. unka bhi nahi sochti keh inka kia hoga.
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Hayya |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Apr, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2012, 1:19am |
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Meri bivi mujh se badzan ho gai hai Asalam O alaikum !
aap k swal ka jawab sirf aap hi de saktay haiN . aap ki bivi aap se bad.zan hogai hae . iss ka reason bhi zaroor hoga kiya aap ne usay find out karnay ki koshish ki ?
agar mard bv ko kisi ki beti samajh kar rakhnay ki bajaye apni bv hi samajh kar rakhay to nobat yahaN tak na pohnchay. koi bhi insaan aik pint point tak halaat se samjhota bhi karta hae us k baad turn hojata hae. agar aap ne apnay haqooq o faraiz poori tarah ada kiye hotay to aap k na honay se zaroor aap ki bv ko farq paRta.
yeh baat maiN aap ka just yeh thread read kar k nahi balkay aap ki thread history read kar k keh rahi houN. apnay attitude ko change karaiN aur bv ko priority dena seekhaiN. maiN yeh hargiz nahi kehti k kisi aik rishtay par doosre ko prefer karaiN lekin jo jis ka haq hae kam az kam woh to daiN.
mard joint family system maiN kisi k samnay apni bv ko aik luqma toR kar nahi khilata k usay(show.her) sharam ajati hae lekin ussi joint family system maiN woh sab k samnay apni bv se laRtay miaN ko kabhi sharam nahi ati.
Allah ne bv ko aap ka mehkoom kar hi diya hae to iss k baray maiN sawal bhi karega. apni bv k baray maiN positive hoN. un ki achi batoN ko admire karaiN , un ka waqt unhaiN daiN, un se choTi choTi bataiN discuss kiya karaiN aur unhaiN ehsaas dilayeN k woh aap ki life maiN important haiN.
jis tarah bad.zan honay maiN waqt lagta hae issi tarah aitemad bahaal honay maiN bhi lagta hae. now its your turn k halaat ko positive kis tarah karaiN. |
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duhs.faiza |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2012, 3:59pm |
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hi haya
ru from karachi.i wanna frndship with u if u intrested so contact my no....edited contact info.
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mrs hassan |
Group: Members Joined: 06th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2012, 6:43am |
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Meri bivi mujh se badzan ho gai hai
i think yi aik serious problem ha,ager bachy na hoty to then alag bat thi, ager wo asa behave ker ri heen to kia app ni kabhi pata lagany ki kosish ki kia wo chati kia heen?kabi is topic per bat ki? ya inko yi bataya k in ki kia importance ha apki life meen. i think app ko un ko batana chy n feel karaen k she is special,sometimes problem bus yahi hoti ha k aurat ko lagta ha k is ki koi importance nai ha yahan n may b falan sy meri shadi hoi hoti to asa etc hota.n you should respect your parents n family but apki wife ki bhi koi jaga honi chy,n ap apni baten apny family member sy discuss karen to mayb in ko acha na lagta ho. in nutshell discuss your problem with your wife ,tell her how you feel and show some respect to her feelings and herself. |
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 61 Post: 226 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2012, 3:15am |
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Mein bohut pareshaan hun Mein bohut pareshaan hun. Mera sar soch soch ker pheta jar aha hai.
Samajh nahi a rahi kahan sai shuru keron. Shadi kai baad meri wife nai bataya tha keh hamare aik teacher hein bohut achay. Unkay saath hamari family kai bohut achay relations hein. Mein aik do baar us sai mila bhi hun. Age mein meray jitna hi hai. Shaadi bhi ho chuki hai Ab woh uk mein rehta hai apni bivi kai saath. Mujhe thora sa shak hua. App samajh lein keh meri sixth sense nai bataya keh kuch garbar hai. Mein logon ka face dekh kar hi zara jaldi pehchaan jata hun. Mein nai apni wife ka mobile chk kerna shuru ker dia. Meri wife sms kerti thi usko. Kuch khaas nahi bas haal chaal poch lia etc etc. mein nai mana kia keh isko sms na kia kero. Phir meri wife nai sms delete kerna shuru ker diye. Mein online call details mein chk ker leta tha keh sms hoye hein. Mein nai phir sakhti sai mana kia keh ainda is kay saath koi contact nahi kerna. Phir msg kerna band ho gai. Mein mutmain ho gia.
Meri wife kai paas dual sim mobile hai. Yeh kal raat ki baat hai. Mein nai mobile chk kia to jo sim mein nai usko lai ker di thi us sai unsay sms nahi kia balkeh new sim lai ker doosray sim jack mein laga ker msg kia hoa tha. Aur uska reply bhi aya hoa tha. Mein nai jo sim lai ker di thi uski call detail chk ki to us sai koi mmsg nahi hoa tha. Lehaza us nai kisi nai sim sai msg kerna shuru kiye hoye thai. Jiska mujhe nahi pata kia number hai.
Msg jo meri wife nai kia us nai to meray hosh ura diye.. likha tha. Xxxxx kabhi sms per hi baat ker lia kero. Mein itni udaas ho jaati hun. Phir mein nai inbox chk kia to mera dil zor zor sai dherakna shuru ho gia aur mera sar jesay bas phat hi jaye ga. Reply tha Janoo samjah kero na mein office mein hota hun kam kerta hun wahan sai mushkil hota hai.
Meri wife ai mein nai us kai teacher ka msg khol ker usay kaha is ka kia matlab hai. Us kai bhi hosh ur gaye. Aik dam heran pareshaan. Jab Wahi per mobile rakha aur kamray sai bahir chali gai. Mein nai mobile utha ker dekha t to unsay jo khud msg kia tha delete ker dia tha. Jab mein lait gia to meray paas a gai. Meray hath apnay hathon mein pakar liye. Kehnay lagi keh jo app samajh rahay hein asi koi baat nahi hai. Mein nai kaha mein ab itna bhi pagal nahi hun. Mein nai kaha tum nai bhi koi msg kia tha. Nahi boli. Phir poocha kehti haan kia tha. Mein nai kaha kia kia tha. Koi jawab nahi. Phir who uth gai. Raat ko mujhe to neend nahi a rahi thi. Phir meray paas a kar lait gai. Laiti rahi phir uth gai.
Main nai usay nahi bulaya. Mera damagh aisay hai keh bas abhi phat jaye ga. Us nay to apnay bachon ka bhi na socha. Mein sirf apnay bachon ki wajah sai chup rehta tha. Badtameezi kerti thi tab bhi. Ab meri samajh mein nahi a raha mein kia keron. Agar farz kerain mein talak deta hun to meray bachon ki custody kis ko milay gi. Mujhe yaan meri bivi ko. Aik 3 ka aur doosri 2 saal ki hai. Agar usay milti hai to kia mein court mein appeal ker kai apne bache lai sakta hunk eh meri wife kai kisi aur sai relations hain.
Aik side per mein soctha hunk keh shaid mein ghalat side per na ja raha hun. Koi relation nah on unkay lekin her cheez msg , new sim etc prove kertay hein keh koi relations zaroor hein unkay darmian.
Mujhe plz suggest kerain mein kia keron. Us sai baat keron. Baat keron to kia keron? Us sai maufi mangwaon. Maufi to us soorat mein hai keh who ikraar keray keh wakai koi relation tha yaan hai..
Please help me
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 61 Post: 226 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2012, 5:08am |
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phone abhi 10-25 min pehlay meri wife ka ph aya. mein nai kaha ghar a kar baat keron ga. kehnay lagi itni der app bhi tension mein aur mein bhi tension miein rahoon gi.. app tension na lein beemar ho jain gai. mera uskay saath koi relation nahi hai. werna mein app ko apnay jism ko kabhi haath na laganay deti. aur bache bhi na hote. bas mera woh friend hai.
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Group: Members Joined: 18th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2012, 3:55am |
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Group: Members Joined: 18th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2012, 3:59am |
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Reply Asalam o Alikum,
dost sory to say aap apne biwi k dil ma apne jaga bana he nhi sky.........but u don't worry aap ko mahnat karne hogay..........like uski har khushi ka khayal rakhta hoga...........but 1 bath ka yad rakhy k fil waqt use kisi chiz k lya na nhi kahy.... uski har bath me ha sa ha mily....... aur koish kary k us us larki ki taraf zahan na jay.............
q k ap us k hasband ha to apko pta hoga us ki khowahshat........so INSHALLAH Ap k biwi aap k sath khush rhyga,,,,,,,
Regards,
Arsalan Noor
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6350 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2012, 5:55am |
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ap esaa kurin koch din ky leyeh bv bucho ko kain bher gomany lay jain koch din ghur k ess mahool say baher reh kur gozarin or ek dosry ko sumajny ki koshish kurin ,dil meah juga peyar say mohabat say , bunti hay, wife ko Gifts deya kurin koch na koch , khoshi kay muawaqy jo aty hen on say pori tura mehzooz howa kurin or wife ko be eska ehsas dilaya kurin , abi apko chayeh kay bv bucho ko lay kur koch din k leyeh kain out of city jain gomin pherin , yeh sumjain abi abi ap ki shadi hoi hy ,
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6350 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2012, 6:03am |
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Haya
mard joint family system maiN kisi k samnay apni bv ko aik luqma toR kar nahi khilata k usay(show.her) sharam ajati hae lekin ussi joint family system maiN woh sab k samnay apni bv se laRtay miaN ko kabhi sharam nahi ati.
بہت خوب، آپکی بات سے میں پُورا مُتفق ھوں، بہت اچھی بات آپ نے کی ھے
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Group: Members Joined: 06th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:19th May 2012, 8:50am |
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MR NEW & H/DR_ QASIM
MR NEW, AP APNI BV KO JAB THEEK SA TIME DO GA OR USSA ITNA SEX KARO( DIL NAHIE BE KARTA TU KARO) OW HOD AP SA TUNG AY KAR MAFI MANGY, MA MAAN NAHIE SAKTA AP SA KABHI DOBRA BADZAN HO JAY, LAGTI AP KE HA AP USSA THEEK SA TIME NAHIE DATEY, AP KA SARA LIFE PROB AP KA SEX POWER PAR HA, AP KE BV SARI DUNIYAH OR APNI SARI GALTIYN CHOR KAR AP SA DOR NAHIE JANA WALE... MR H/DR_ QASIM, AP ZARA SOCHO ALLHA NA MARD KO KYA DARJA DIYA HA, ORAT KA MAJAZIE KHUDHA KAHA GY HA, IS KA MATLAB SAMJO OR NAHIE TU KOCH KAHNA SA PAHLY THORA KNOWLEDGE RAKHNA ZARORIE HOTA HA, ORAT KO ITNI IJAZAT NAHIE HA KA WO HUSBAND KE TARAF APNI MARZI SA APNI BACK KAR KA SO SAKY, AP KYA BAT KARTY HO, BV KO MARNA BE GALAT HA PYAR SAB SA BARI POWER HAOR JITNA HO SAKY PYAR SA HI SAMJANA CHAHIYA, KABHI KOCH KAM PYAR SA NAHIE HOTY TU ZARORIE BE HOTA HA, HUSBAND BV KO GLAT RASTY SA US KO PROTECT KARNA K LEYA USSA MARTA YA KOCH KAHTA HA, AJ KAL BV BANA ACHA LAGHTA HA LAKIN HUSBAND SA JOOTH BOLNA GLAT BYANIE KARNA IN BEWEYN KE AYDAT BAN CHOKIE HA. AP GAR KA SARBRAH HO AP KO HAQ HA.... |
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