Alone boy |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2011 Topic: 26 Post: 91 Age:
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Posted on:20th Apr 2012, 1:39pm |
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Marriage with elder girl Plz guide me. If I want to marry a girl who is about 4 years elder to me. I am 32 and she is about 36. She was married twice but unfortunatly both husband died. She is of good character, pious, offer prayers regularly. She is educated and doing govt. Job. She is also pretty. If I want to marry her, is itwrong? I am unmarried. Our Holy Prophet did marriage with Um ul momaineen Hazrat Khudeja (R. A) who was about 15 year older then why not a sinful man do it? Meri family kehti hay k wo bari hay. Jb mjhay wo pasand hay to kyu nahi? Kya kru? |
alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 538 Age:
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Posted on:27th Apr 2012, 7:29pm |
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Alone boy Fauran shaadi karlo. Khush rahonge. Main tum hare liye dua karoonga, laazmi! |
Hayya |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Apr, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 20 Age:
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Posted on:28th Apr 2012, 6:24am |
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Marriage with elder girl shadi kar lena koi baRi baat nahi hoti shadi nibhana baRi baat hoti hae. hamdardi k jazbay k tehat kiye gaye rishtay bohat dair.paa sabit nahi hotay. ask to urself , agar aap shadi k baad bhi un k liye stand le saktay haiN, sab se un ki izzat karwa saktay haiN to sure.
wese kisi bhi aurat/ mard k hawalay se kuch bhi kehna qabal az waqt hota hae jab tak k woh aap ki zindagi meiN shamil na hojaye . Allah se dua karaiN aur dil jis taraf raaghib ho faisla kar laiN. best wishes for ur future. |
fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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Posted on:28th Apr 2012, 1:21pm |
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Alone Boy nh asi koi bat nh hai. Ap istakhara nikale ap ka masla INSHALLAH ALLAH k hukam se hal ho jae ga. baqi hayya ne tekh kaha k ap soch apne badlo k ap is p taras kha rishta apnao rahe ho. Phr shdi k bad ap jb is p gusa hoge to tana do ge k maine tum se shadi k warna tum laiq nh the falan falan . |
SoniKhan |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Apr, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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Posted on:28th Apr 2012, 5:03pm |
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sadi mat karna sahdi
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Safdar11 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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Posted on:28th Apr 2012, 10:42pm |
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MSN Asslam-o-alaikum,
Meray bhai Agr To ye shadi tm is liye kr rahe ho k tm usy pasand karte ho or pasand karte raho ge tab to baat theek he warna mat karo, jesay baqi member's keh rahe hen,
Ap Nabi (s.a.w.w) ki misaal de rahe hen to wo Masoom the, wo nafs ki chaalon se paak the lekin hum vesy nahi hen,
Yehi waja he K Jab Aik Sahabi Ne Huzoor Ki Baargah Men Arz Ki:
"Kiya men Bewa orat se shadi kr lon?"
Huzoor ne farmaya:
[Mafhoom]
"is se behtar he k tm kanwari larki se shadi karo, takay tum us se khailo or wo tum se khailay"
Is men koi shak nahi k tm us Bewa orat se shadi kro ge to khuda ki baargaah se be_panaah Ajar Pao gay lekin agr kal ko tm ne usy Ye Taanaa diya to tm sara Ajar Ganwa Betho Gay..
Agr tm is ki gaurantee do k tm kabhi ye khayaal na lao gay k mene usy sahara diya, or tumhari chahat Tars Khanay walay Jazbaat se paak he to phir koi shak nahi k tm us k sath shadi kr k khush b raho gay or tmhen Ajar bhi milay ga...
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chotolarka |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Nov, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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Posted on:28th Apr 2012, 10:42pm |
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alone boy dekh lein age ap shadi k baad nibha saktein hein to karlein = ) aur ye bohot achi bat hai.
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TALESH |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 205 Age:
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Blocked |
Posted on:29th Apr 2012, 8:34pm |
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sam assalamalakum Niceeeeeeeee Replyyyyyy
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ralexed123 |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 252 Age:
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Posted on:1st May 2012, 2:02am |
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Baba jee Baba jee mere liye bhe dua karna
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 15 Post: 1352 Age:
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Posted on:2nd May 2012, 9:52am |
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I am disappointed Ajeeb musibat hai.Meray wala ye swal kiyun ni puchta.sari dunya shadi karey ja ri ha. Larki lambi hou a choti , moti ho ya kali age me b bari ho larkay shadiyan kiye ja ray hain kiye ja ray hain. Forum pe aa aa k puch ra hain k btao ker lain ya nai aur phir kaer b rahay hain. Ek mera wala hi siyappa Sum-mun Bukmun .... Gadha na ho tou.
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ralexed123 |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 252 Age:
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Posted on:2nd May 2012, 12:31pm |
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mairak ha ha ha ... ap ne thek kaha .... bhala ye bhe koi baat hoi k forum per aa k shadi karne ya na karne ka poochte hen... logon ko bhe tafreeh aur time pass karna hay
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Alone boy |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2011 Topic: 26 Post: 91 Age:
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Posted on:2nd May 2012, 11:15pm |
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MairaK
Kya hua AApi ji. Allah khair kray ap ko kya masla dapaish hay? |
Alone boy |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2011 Topic: 26 Post: 91 Age:
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Posted on:2nd May 2012, 11:18pm |
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Re: Relaxed123
Aslamo Aleakum Bhai ap to already "Relaxed" ho. Forum pe swal iss liay pocha jata hay k different opinions samnay aa jati hein. Phr acha mashwara dena bhi to neki hay. krni to insaan nay apni marzi hay na. |
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