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Haya.n |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2012, 4:21am |
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 Help required
salaam to all....
iam from kaarchi...... haya ali here
men kisi problem men hun experienced and aged log mujhe suggest kuren. please.
2007 men ik ladka meri zindagi men aya, kisi forum se humari baat hui or phone tak baat chali, woh meri bht help krta tha meri studies wgera men , woh meri field ka e tha.... 2 saal humari sirf message pe e baat hui.... koi ghlat baat nahi just kaam or study or personally family freindship wgera pe. 2 saal baad usne mujeh prpose kiaa... woh mujhse scha pyar krne lag gya .... humri cast men bht difference tha .. is doraaan humne ik dosre ko kabhi cam pe bhi nahi dekha... pic men bus dekha..... 3 saal guzr gye humara province change tha....
woh muse milna chhata tha.... mgr mera culture aisa nahi tha ky men us se milun... woh muse shadi krna chhata tha uska naam f se tha... f ne mujeh bht brdasht kiya .... mera sath dia study etc men... us doraan mera pe us pe interest hota gya... bus woh bht shki tha bht ziayada agr mera cell busy hota tu mujhe galain bhi de deta ky tum kis se baat kruhi ho jab ky men koi ghlt kaam nahi krti thi mujeh kehta tha apni univ ky boys se bhi baat naa kro , use bht shk thaa.... woh jald az jald muse shadi krna chhata tha.
akhir ik din usne mujeh apni behn se baat kurwai ... uski behn ne uske samne mujeh bura bhla kaha ky mere bhai ka peecha chod do yeh woh , tum khrab ho net girl ho yeh woh. jab ky khuda gwah men bilkiul saaf paak ho. uske baad uske ghr men jhgda hogya woh ghr chodne jesa hogya... mene use bht smjhaya or mene number chnage kur lia or men uski life se ht gyi sirf islie kiyoo ky uski study uska ghr uska career khrab orha tha...meri wjha se.
uske baad uske messg bnd sim pe ate the net pe email address pe bhi muejh usne bht mails ki pur mene use koi response nahi dia.
men univ ki talba thi aj tak hun... final year men hun. usi year mene mujhe univ men kisi boy ne prpose kia... jo mere culture ka e tha... woh bhi bht purana studnet tha pur mene kabhi gor nahi kiyaa.... woh meri life men ata gya baat hui humri.... face to face kabhi hi helpo nahi kia han phone number tu meri dost ky pass mera tha uske zriye humara rabta hua .. men use ik ache senior student ki nzr se dekhti thi woh tha bhi bht respectful. kabhi ladkiyoon ko dekhta bhi nahi tha.... uske dost ne muejh btaya uske baare men baat shadi tak agayi....
mene use kaha tha ky agr apne shadi krni hay tu mere parents se baat kuren.. actuall personally tor pe men use bhi chahne lag gyi thi or shyd aj tak. usne kabhi muej pe shk nahi kiyaa.... men f ko kabhi i love you anhi akah thaa... mera kabhi dil e nahi kiyaa.. mgr is ko meen ik baar bola tha or shyd men wakai is se pyar bhi krne lag gyi hun.
2009 men theek ik saal baad mene use i love you kaha woh bhi sirf ik baar. uske baad ladiain oti rhi humre bech kuch relation theek nahi rha. humre bech men kuch bhi anhi tha jesa ky emn bta chuki hun ky kabhi humne face to face hi helo bhi anhi kiyaa kiyoo ky use lagta tha is se meri insult or badnaami hogi univ men.
jab meri zindgi us ke sath thi tu ik number se achnak se mere pass text ane lag gye , jab baat hui tu woh f tha.... men bht preshan hogyi usne kaa uske baba ki death hogyi thi isliewoh bht museebat men thaa....
woh aj bhi muse shadi krna chata hai.... or dorsi trf men jis se pyar krti hun woh bhi ........... yeh dono mujhse scha pyar krte hien pur islam men i think her culture men hai ky ladki sirf ik ki hii ho skti hai.... men apni life ky sath bht serious hun....
f mujeh buduaen bhi deta hai muejh galian bhi bht deta hai ky mene us se shadi kiyoo nahi kr skti.. woh muse milna chhata hai use yeh bhi yaqeen anhi ky pic men ne apni dikhaai ky kisi or ki...
jab ky yeh dono mere khnndaan ky nahi praaye hien....
islam ky lehaz se muejh response den.... muejh kia krna chhaye dosri trf mere khndan se rishte bhi aaarhe hien...
f mujeh loose chrcter bhi smjhta hai mujeh used bhi smjhta hai .....
meri maa baap ko gndi galain bhi deta hai muejh dhmkian bhi deta hai...... or woh jis se men pyar krti hun woh bhi muejh bht chahta hai or usne kaha hai woh shadi nahi krega kabhi,,,, kahir yeh tu kuch bhi hoskta pur usne kabahi muejh uf tak nahi kaha.....
hmesha izt di..... 2007 se emn 2012 pe agayi yenh dono mere lie serious hien plz meri help kren men kia krun....
mene kabhi koi ghlt kaam nahi kia kabhi kisi boy se mili bhi nahi...... han jab f ky ghr men jhgda hua tu mene use bola tha ky men bht khrab ladki un woh sab islie kaha kyoo ky emn nahi chhati thi ky woh apni family se mere khatir jhgda krure or woh kaabil nahi tha kly ghr se nikal ky apna guzara kure...
kia mene ghlt kiaaa? kia men bewafa hun wo muejh aj bhi bewafa kehta hai buduaen deta.....
muejh kai krna chhaye mujeh kis se shadi krni chhaye....
kon behter hoga mere lie..... kia islam men mere lie shkt azzaab hai .. kiyoo ky dil dukhaana bht bada gunaah hai men khuda sed bht drti hun....
plz mujeh suggest kuren or btayaen kiaaa muejh bht gunaah mila hoga .. perosnaaly mene dono ko dukhaaya rulaaya bhi hai kiyoo ky emn bht preshan hogyi thi in dono se......
islamic point opf view se meri help kren.thanks |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6350 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2012, 7:34am |
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For you only one way aap net ki doniyaa say baher ajain or Net Friendship or phone friendship dono bilkol Bund kur dain or en dono Boys say be contact khutam kur dain, kubi apni koi weakness essy bundo ko na dain na call kurin na he pic dain,
apko family say rishty ary hen tu shadi kur lain acha rishta dakh kur, Doour k dhol sohaany hoty hen , ess attraction meah tussuwaraati doniya k koch ni ap huqeeqat ki doniyaa meah ao
Mera apko yeh he mushwara hay kay ap dono boys say bilkol hur turaah ka contact bund kur dain. yeh koi mohabat ni hoti jis meah koi zimadari ni koi huqooq nahi mohbaat woh hoti hay jis meah huqooq b pory keyeh jain or zimadaari b othaai jay yeh bus kehny ki batin hen jo ap sonti dakhti hen,
Ap nay agur en dono meah say kisi say be shadi ki tu ap ki life problems , taahno , say khaali ni hogi apko chayeh en sub say relation khutam kur dain ,
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Haya.n |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2012, 12:32pm |
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thanks ..but apne meri baat ko meri problem ko sahi nahi smjhaaa..mana ky net fake hai.... mana ky aage chal ky taane e milenge.... but kia koi itna lmba arsa time pass kr skta hai kiaa..... or dosri trf boys ky pass 1000 options hote hien .... net men chating emn mujeh koi nahi milaa... ik forum pe study forum pe baat hui .... aansu aise e nahi behte.... men experienced nahi.... mgr men preshan hogyi hun... dosri trf jise men chhati woh tu net nahi hai woh tu samne hai koi. mera is time kisi ik se bhi rabta nahi.... pr men bht preshan rehti woh dono mujeh musilsil rabta krte hien.men kia krun..... ..... |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6350 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2012, 11:28pm |
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Yes
Boys time pass kurty hen ,or woh dono fair ni hen, ap say yeh he Gozzarish hay kay ap en dono say rabita khutam kur dain ni tu ap ki uzduwaaji zindghi sahi ni ray gahi ap motmahin ni reh sukingahi , yeh boys gyarzimadar hen, or ess age meah enka kam he yeh he hota hay, aghur ap exp say fayda othana chahati hen tu The end kur dain or pher again kubi es tura boys say in contact mut rahin, Yeh ansoo koch ni hoty , yeh koi relation ni hay, Yeh Eshuq o Tullab kay Mutwaaly Baykaar ki baatin kurty hen
Paayal kay Ghumo ka Elm nahi Jhenkaar ki batin kurty hen
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oldboy34 |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Apr 2012, 7:18am |
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heloo h r u? main ny ap ki prblm parhi, jo ap ka dost F hai.. us ka love to zabardsti ka lag raha hai aur koi kisi ka ghulam nahi hota, Love main zabrdsti nai hoti is main sirf pyar hota hai,
Aur ap ka dosra friend jo hai wo shaid ap say pyar karta ho, wasy aj kal pyar main koi asliat nai reh gai, sochain F abhi ap say yeh rawya rakhta hai wo bd main kya karay ga?
wasy i think jo ap ky parents ap ky mutaliq faisla karain, i think wo better 4r u. aaj kal love ki shadi kamyb kam hi hoti hain. wasy ap F say shadi na karain q ky ho sakta hai wo bd main ap ko inhi baton pr tease kr skta hai. yeh larkon ki nature hoti hai.
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2431 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Apr 2012, 4:40pm |
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HAYA.N
herat hai k ap ne apnay naam ki laaj bhi nhn rakhi kabhi ya shayed ap ko apnay naam ka matlab hi nhn pata chahay yeh nick name hi kiun na ho BB ghalat ap hain woh dono nhn kiun k ap ki baton se lagta hai k ap ki fitrat main kisi aik ka hona nhn likha ap un dono ko lal bati k peechay lagai huway hain ap ka nomber F tak kesay pohancha yeh raaz to ap ne afsha hi nhn kiya usay elham to huw anhn ho ga jab k ek teraf ap fermati ho k usay shak hai k ap ne pic kisi aur ki dikhaai hai ap k pass kya saboot hai k F ne shadi nhn ki aur ap k sath play nhn ker raha??? ap ko galiyan bhi deta hai ap k parents ko bhi galiyan deta hai ap ko us se piyar bhi nhn to problem kya hai??? izzat ki bat yehi hai k ap sab kuch chor ker apnay parents ki izzat ka khayal rakhain ap ne fermaya k D/qasim ap ki problem ko nhn samjhay unhon ne aik shareef lerki k liyay bilkul sahi mashwera diya tha lekin waqaee woh ap ko nhn samjhay k ap ko sirif games khelnay ki aadat hai aur ap kis uni main hain jo 5 salon se ap ki degree hi puri nhn hui??? AAP KHUDKO SUDHAAR LEN WERNA AP KHUD TO ZALEEL HON GI HI MAAN BAAP KO BHI RUSWA KERAIN GI |
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Haya.n |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2012, 2:30am |
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mind your response mister wehshi insan agr sahi way naa bta ske tu use koi hk nahi ky kisi pe bila wjha blames lagye... men ne 2 saal diploma kiaa phir hons kia 4 saal kaa...., rhi baat mere number ki tu mera ptcl uske pass kese puhcha yeh bhi ap smjhenge mene e dia.... pur koi apna ptcl nahi deta .. games khelni hoti tu 2 pe nahi hzaron pe khelti.... rhi baat perents ki tu alhmidillah men aj yahan nahi hoti... mujeh pta hai kia sahi hai kia ghlt.... pur insan sahi way btaya eagr btaye tu blames nahi lagate kisi or pe.. mene mister qasim ko ghlt nahi kaha men ne just yeh kaha ky ap sahi nahi smjhe .. or haan mere naam ki baat ki tu apkne apne naam ky mutabiq rp kia hai wehshi bhi koi nrmdil naam nahi hai ....yahan pe advice maaango tu oper se hume hii bura kaha jaata hai games girls nahi boys khelete hien itna time nahi hota girls ky pass kygames kheelen.. baki is baat se men mutfiq hun ky wakai mujeh parents ky mutabiq shadi krni chhaye....
thanks t all plz close my topic i have got very hard answers |
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H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2012, 8:21am |
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Haya.N Gossy ko chorain agur ap apny ap nay apny ap ko Oljaan moseebato say buchana hay tu dono say rabta khutam kur dain, Boys kubi seriouse ni hoty even onki mungatur he ku na ho yeh Murd ki kumzori hay orat . ap kay leyeh acha yeh he hay kay ap ess tura ka koi relation online or phone line pur kisi tura ka na rukahin, Relation woh he hota hay jis meah koch huqooq or Furyazz hoty hen essy relation jin ki aap bat kur rahi hen koi Hasiyaat nahi hay,
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Haya.n |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2012, 12:42pm |
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thanx docter qasim ok thanks alot for your positive suggestion |
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muneebulla |
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| Posted on:9th Apr 2012, 10:26am |
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 Penis size is very small
sair ma 21 years ka ho .. mere aglay saal shadi hai ,mera penis sice 2 inches hai excersice ka ilawa koi teel ( oil ) ya phr koi or dawai jis ka side affect na ho wo btain plezz !:( ma is bara ma bot pereshan ho kuch btayia |
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fahad hussain khan |
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| Posted on:3rd May 2012, 1:07pm |
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hayya pehl bat hum musalma hai shdi se prhl kise gair larke se bat karna bht sakht gunah hai .parhez kiy kare sbr kiya kare shdi tk . Our maine pore read k ap k prob ap k prob waqai serious hai bht our ap dil k saf larki lag rahe ho bulke ap saf ho andar k serat se bh khob lag rahe ho.par ap ne j maswara manga hai to
1st jo ap ka f hai us ka chracter mujhy dhela lag raha hia cyco pateint hai wo.pehly bat sache piyar wale qurbani date hain due date hai our yea larka aginst hai in sub bton se to yea piyr nh.
2nd galian deta hai j ubhe se itna zaban daraz i to subha ko apni ma behn k samne kiya izzta kare ga ap k.
3rd shk karna .piyr ka pehla srei hi aitbar hai sare dunia ek tarf ko bole our piyr ek taraf ko to main piyar ko chuno ga kiy k m aitbar hai is p. Shk to demak k tarha khta jata hai insan to kiya sahdi k bad umr bhr apne suche piyr k gawayan pesh karte phro ge. Insan hi zindage main so kam hiote hai khe kise se bat karke dekh ly to phr ghr ake mare pete.kiy k jo insan galian nikalta hai understood bat hai wo hathabh uthata hai. To ase shks se taluk kise bh kisam ka na he rukho to acha hai.baqol ap ke k ap k bht madad k hai study main par us k khtir ap sare zingde to is k sath nh guzar sakti.
Ub ap ka 2bd j ap he k department ka hai to yea larka suljha sa lag raha hai.agr is se shdi karlo to behtar hai ye fit hai ap k liye.
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2012, 1:08pm |
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hayya pehl bat hum musalma hai shdi se prhl kise gair larke se bat karna bht sakht gunah hai .parhez kiy kare sbr kiya kare shdi tk . Our maine pore read k ap k prob ap k prob waqai serious hai bht our ap dil k saf larki lag rahe ho bulke ap saf ho andar k serat se bh khob lag rahe ho.par ap ne j maswara manga hai to
1st jo ap ka f hai us ka chracter mujhy dhela lag raha hia cyco pateint hai wo.pehly bat sache piyar wale qurbani date hain due date hai our yea larka aginst hai in sub bton se to yea piyr nh.
2nd galian deta hai j ubhe se itna zaban daraz i to subha ko apni ma behn k samne kiya izzta kare ga ap k.
3rd shk karna .piyr ka pehla srei hi aitbar hai sare dunia ek tarf ko bole our piyr ek taraf ko to main piyar ko chuno ga kiy k m aitbar hai is p. Shk to demak k tarha khta jata hai insan to kiya sahdi k bad umr bhr apne suche piyr k gawayan pesh karte phro ge. Insan hi zindage main so kam hiote hai khe kise se bat karke dekh ly to phr ghr ake mare pete.kiy k jo insan galian nikalta hai understood bat hai wo hathabh uthata hai. To ase shks se taluk kise bh kisam ka na he rukho to acha hai.baqol ap ke k ap k bht madad k hai study main par us k khtir ap sare zingde to is k sath nh guzar sakti.
Ub ap ka 2bd j ap he k department ka hai to yea larka suljha sa lag raha hai.agr is se shdi karlo to behtar hai ye fit hai ap k liye.
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Haya.n |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2012, 4:49pm |
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thanks thanks for good advice |
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