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madiha gul |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Aug, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Aug 2011, 5:23pm |
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 Kya Shadi Se Qabal Mai Tasawar Mai Sex ker Sakti Hoo?
im unmarried, but mein apne khayalat se sex karti hoon, mean tasawur se, aur mujhe shadi ki sakht zaroorat hai, lekin wo to tab hogi jab maa baap karwaein ge,, wel mein ye puchna chah ri thi k is k koi nuksanat to nahin, aur gunah hai kiya?
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PAK1 |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Sep, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 57 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Aug 2011, 5:39pm |
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Madiha self control!
self control is necessary, there are different ways a person is influenced. The five senses, sight, smell, touch, etc. so think about self control, control your nafs with 5 times pray and read little Quran daily. Secondly, get busy in an activity, study or work etc. chanelize ur energy positively, ap ko nuksan ye ho ga k khayalon mein sex karne k bad ap next level per ja sakti hein, Allah na kare ap illegal sex ki taraf bhi ja sakte hein. So do not be defensive, take aggressive measures, and bring self control in life. Pray that u find a good pious husband, believe in power of dua, dua mein boht taqat hy. |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Aug 2011, 6:16pm |
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khayoola ka sex? yeah khayaloo may sex kyoo hota ha? |
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 14 Post: 1080 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Aug 2011, 8:10pm |
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 shadi ki zarorat
as salam oalikum sister kaisi hain aap .aap nay jo baat kahi or khud se aatraf kia kay mujhay shadi ki waqai zarorat hai ye baat aachi lagi .per sister aaisi b to larkian hain jin kay rishtay nahi hota or 30 saal tak b maa baap kay dar p baithi hoti hain .kia un kay koi jazbaat nahi hotay .agar hum yahan jazbaat ki jaga 1 or word use karain to behtar hoga wo word hai nafs .aap mashallah m.a ki howi hai good qualification hai aap ki aap koi job wagaira ku nahi kar laiti .ku itna sochti hain shadi kay baray main .shadi jab or jis muqarara waqt p honay ki hogi ho jahay gi inshallah dont u worry abt it .
dosri baat kay aap ka sawal hai aap khayalat main sex karti hain tasawur main ok .or is se aap ko koi nuksan to nahi hoga .dear tell me 1 thingjab koi kazag bilkul kora hota hai sadha us p tehrrer ka apna maza hota hai or us p kuch tehrer karnay ko dil b chahta hai per koi kagaz(paper) mela kuchaila mita mita sa jis per bar bar likha gya ho mitaya gaya ho kia us p koi b nafees shaks kuch tehrer karna chahay ga ?nahi na to isi tahra aap ki rooh b pakeeza or saaf hoti hai usay aap apni soch se kaseef na karo ku kay rooh ki pakeezgi zarori hai
meri advice aap ko ye hai (aap ki mojoda sorate haal kay paish e nazar) agar aap kay wasahil ijazat daitay hain or aap kay pass extra time hai to aap koi mont course kar lo ya kisi idaray ko join ka lo mont couse is lihay kay wahan mont main bht chotay cotay kids hotay hain dhai saal kay 3 saal kay pyaray pyaray masoom bachay jin ko daikh ka jin ka sath waqt bita kar ander se sara ghubar nikal jahay ga or dosri baat ye kay her orat main mamta ka jazba mojod hota hai larki paidahishi maa hoti hai to aap kay us jazbay ki b taskeen ho jahay gi
thanks
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nice heart |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2011 Topic: 10 Post: 58 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Aug 2011, 10:43pm |
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controle on ur slf...
apnay ap per controle rakiye,aur tv wagera zyada mat dekiye,aur jitna ho sakay apnay ap ko masroof kariye,aur deen ke taraf zyada tawajjah degiye,,, |
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2011, 2:53pm |
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Question Sex thoughs have sin in Islam? Thank you........................ |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2011, 4:41pm |
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agree with above replies: madiha gul:sexual fantasies maiN zaydah khoona ya sex ka tasawar karna ya khayal maiN sex karna yeh sub galat ha . iss kay definately nuqasanat haiN 1) inn sub cheezouN ko soochnay aur amlan na kar sakney say(shaadi say pehle) apki desire mazeed zaydah hogi aur phir ye frustration bun jaa.ay gee. 2) yeh bhi mumkin ha keh aap inn ko mazeed soochney kay leye aisa literature paRhna shooro kar daiN ya tv ya internet peh galat cheezaiN daikhaiN jin say aankhouN ka zana ho ga aur mazeed frustration jo keh anxiety aur phir depression maiN convert ho jaa.ay gee 3) aap amlan self stimulation ya self pleasure maiN bhi indulge ho sakti haiN jo keh islamically jaiz nahe 4)aur agar aap tasawar maiN kisi shakhas ka sooch kar sex imagine karti haiN to yeh gunah ha,sooch ka zina bunta ha. WellKnown: " sex thoughts have sin in islam" re: nahe thought/khiyaal ya sooch ka aa jana inn ka gunah nahe ha kunkeh yeh gair iradi hoti haiN aur normal body ka amal haiN iss peh insaan ka ikhtiyar nahe so iss ka gunah nahe . aik Hadees ha It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Allaah has forgiven my ummah for whatever crosses their mind so long as they do not speak of it or act upon it." Narrated by al-Bukhaari (2528) and Muslim (127). albataah inn soochouN ko jhaatakney ki koshish karni chhaheye aur jhaatak daina chhaheye inn maiN fantasy palace bunaney say manah kiya huwa ha aur jaiz nahe oos ki wajohaat ooper byaN ki haiN. inn masail say buchney ka tareeqa to yehe ha kay shaadi ho jaa.ay magar woh tamam books tv channel aur internet sites say bhi parhaiz karna zaroori ha jo inn khiyalat ko oobhaRti haiN . iss kay alawah Allah say tqwa ki duwa karaiN aur faraiz maiN gaflat na karney ki kooshish. aur ho sakey to islamic literature sites aur channel review karaiN. |
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2011, 5:51pm |
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Waterr sis You cleared my mind. Thank you........................ |
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lilly_22 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Aug, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Aug 2011, 12:02pm |
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same problem same problrm with me.mai bht aziat mai hn mujhe bi shadi ki sakht zarurat hai aur tasawurat mai sex karti hn .mai bht ziada control karne ki koshish karti hn lkae dafa to qaboo pa leti hn lakin kae dafa majbur ho k tasawur mai sex karna parta hai.na karun to sar mai bht shadeed dard hota hai.plz meri help karain k kia karun.mai tv bilkul bi nae dekhti songs bilkul i nae sunti phr bi meri sex feelings barhti ja rahi hain aur ma bap ko shadi ki koi perwa nae. |
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lilly_22 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Aug, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Aug 2011, 12:27pm |
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ali rajput actually mere ghar walon k khyal hai k abi meri age ziada nae aur wese bi mai student hn is lie wo serious nae le rahe. |
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lilly_22 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Aug, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Aug 2011, 12:28pm |
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ali rajput ab unhe kon btae k mai itni choti nae.i m 22 years old |
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Desert_Fox |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Aug, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Aug 2011, 2:42pm |
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miss madiha someone told me that whenever these desires and thoughts comes in one's mind and desire to practice self pleasure/stimulation, one should change his/her place at once for example if u r lying on bed and you want to do it then get up immediately and start walking or perform any exercise such as yoga or mild physical exertion good for women the idea is to divert your mind to other activities. Its a fight you have to put up against your Nafs and you have to control it before it gains control of you so exercising is recommended in order to divert your mind from the thoughts. |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Aug 2011, 9:37am |
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madiha gul and lilly I understand your situation. its very easy to advise someone to control yourself but you would nt know untill you are in the same boat. Some people really have more desire then others. I will say talk to your mom and explain them you need to marry. this would be very simple and straight. If your parents can spend money for all the arrangement. and very important Pray to God.
plus i will still say follow members advices they have given. try not to think about it too much and make youself busy and you can do fasting if you can will give relief. |
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M.A.M |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Dec, 2009 Topic: 18 Post: 374 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2011, 8:12am |
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but men have a high amount of this men have more amount of thoughts then women..times changing |
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Mr.Confuse |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2011, 3:50am |
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 madiha gul and lilly
Assalam o Alaikum Nice Reply by Alirajput & System, madiha gul and lilly, Bila jhijhak apnai mom ko kahain keh humain mazeed nahee perhna or saal kay ander hi shadi kerni hai or ager woh mazaaq mai taalain to zoor dain, note: sharma nahee keh maain bachoon ki kissi baat ka bura nahee manateen. Secondly namaaz perh ker dua kerain keh aap ka rishta achi jagah per ho or jahaiz kee tension na leni peray or parents ko bhee kahain keh ziyada jahaiz kee zaroorat nahee keh parents jahaiz bananay kay chakroon mai bhee shadi late ker detay hain. See below example. Mera friend PHD grade 18 or sahebe jaidad hai laikin larki (Chemical Engg.) walon nay saal guzaar dia or mazeed saal mang rahay hain, issi terhaan kee kai misalain hain. Moderator Note: Please don't post in font other than default font of forum.
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ωειικпοωи |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2011, 1:07pm |
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Ali Website se mangetar ko doondne par koi bharosa nahe kiyo ke hosakta hai larka kesa bi ho. Thank you..................................... |
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madiha gul |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Aug, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Sep 2011, 6:06am |
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i like ur answers but thanx for advising me, but jo aap logon ne mujhe kaha wo sub mein karti hoon, mean mein namaz b padhti hoo, quran shareef b padhti hoon, islamic books b padhti hoon, tv b nahin dekhti, buhut dua b karti hoon, wazeefe nikalti hoon, ache rishton k liye, buhut control karti hoon lekin kabhi kabhi ho jata hai, buhut busy rakhti hoon, apne aap ko, silai karti hoon, designing karti hoon. but pata nahin kyun ye mere saath kyun hua, hamare ghar ka mahol b aesa nahin, mein apni education complete kar chuki hoon. aur mein apni mama ko confidence mein le chuki hoon, lekin hamare haan ache rishte buhut mushkil se milte hain, bus us k liye thoda pareshan hoon, kyun k itne salon k baad ab mujhe ye lagta hai k , agar meri shaadi ho jati hai, to mein sub gunahon se bach sakhti hoon, kyun k mujhe ye sub kuch karna acha nahin lagta, lekin kisi b insan k pas mere khayal se itna control nahin hota k wo har waqt apne aap ko control kare.
aaap sub log mere dua karen, Allah jo b kare mere haq mein acha kare, aamin
thanx for advising me
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