Fiance cheated ( Need Help )

Hi ,

there is this girl she fell in love with me we talked on the phone for like 2 years then we told our families resulted in enagagement. i got engagged 1 year ago .. i have my fiance's email password .. i loged in on her hotmail and saw some dirty & sextually emails in sent box .. she was talking like this to her male friend.when i read all those emails i cried so hard :(

she was caught by me.i asked her what's all this ? why you cheating on me ? she said it was all joke between her & her male friend. she said " Allah ki kasam " it's all joke but i don't believe that it was a joke.

I'm very upset about it :( . i need help brothers & sisters .it's a long distcance relation. According to her it was a joke but it's a shamefull act for me .what are you suggestions for me . what shall i do now ?

jab ap milay thay

aur 2 saal tak beghair kisi rishtay k apas maiN bataiN ki theeN...agar woh sab bataiN oss waqt apkay yaa apki mantegar k kissi azeez ko sonwa dia jata to onki feelings kia hoti, ap donoun k baray maiN....

iss tarah to hota hai, iss tarah k kamouN maiN... jab koi laRki apsay free hosakti hai to kissi aur say bhi hosakti hai... ab porani baatouN ko bhool jayaiN... oski qasam par yaqeen karkay ossay maaf kar daiN...apas maiN koi "zabtah e ikhlaaq" morattab kar laiN k ayandah woh kia kia nah karay. agar wog agree ho to sab kuch normal rah sakta hai...ap jald az jald shadi kar laiN...mangni zeyadah arsah rahay to aisay waqe'aat baRhtay hi jatay haiN, kam nahi hotay...

MyRizvi

you are right :) ... i can't just tell my parents to get me married ... but she was saying : Allah ki kasam it was all jokes but it's very shamefull act.i was thinking i shuld just break up with her n let her do whatever she wants.

perry

perry

agreed with myrizvi

rizvi ne bilkul sahi kaha is k baad koi gunjaish nhn

herat hai log net ki dosty ko relation tak kesay le jatay hain bina dekhay

aur jab ap ne 2 saal chat ki to it means ap log kis level tak ho gay yeh to ap jantay ho batana zaruri nhn

aur jo huwa woh huwa

ap yeh bhi to socho k woh lerki janti thi k us ki sent mail main yeh sab kuch hai is k baad bhi us ne aap ko apna password diya

is liyay jo huwa so huwa ainda k liyay aap us se promise lo k woh kuch nhn keray gi aisa aur dua kero k woh apnay promise per qaim rahay

yehi gifts hain is net k

agreed my rezvi

perry

To the best of my knowledge, Mangni ki islami hasiat kuch bhi nahi hay, Aap dono still ek doosray k liay Na-mehram hi ho despite aap ki so called mangni ho chuki hay.

You still have time to leave her. Agar woh pornography material apnay male friends k saath share karti hay than it means woh k saath dosti main abb bohat agay nikal chuki hay, iss say thora aur agay nikli tu practically kuch kar guzray gi.

Yeh tu tumhain bhi apni Nojawani k dino say yaad hoga, k kisi bhi larki k saath tum sexual talk ya doosri kisam ki sharing tab hi kartay ho jab dosti bohat achi ho jati hay.

Usay or dekho, observe karo, judge karo, agar phir bhi na sudhray tu mangni tor do, shadi k baad ki uljhano say bachnay ka yehi tareeka hay.

Larki bardasht ho jati hay even agar woh shah-kharch hay, usay shopingain karnay ka shok hay, cooking say chirti hay, lakin iss kisam ki activities main magan larki apnay mangetar k liay uljhan bun jati hay or shoher k liay zehni Azaab.

@ perry