123_ rose
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Posted on:13th Nov 2010, 12:39pm |
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Loss of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen
its about 6 yr back when i was in college i liked my csn .....when our feelings went strong he used to den kiss n hug etc......one day he saw a movie and his n mine feeling aroused...so we went little far like i mean we got naked ....he started touching his dick to my vagina and he just enter almost 1 inch of it...but then i stoped him.....as that was my 4day of menses...whole day i dint bleed but me still worried.............althugh it was stoped den but i still got worried...when he left room almost after half an hour i went to bath and saw a little spot of blood n my vagina lips i got worried n ask him if he have any blood on his penis but he said no... i check the bed sheet but there was no blood tooo..............from that day i never did that again as i got scared..i apolgise ALASH too..so , plz tell me is my virgnity lost??my hymen brok??????????as i haerad if hymen break lady feel pain but i didnt felt any................plz guide me so i can now..........do i bleed on my first night of wedding or not??????????/plz guide me .......if i have my hymen rutured so wht can i do know? anxiously waiting for reply......................
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Doctor K K
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Posted on:13th Nov 2010, 2:16pm |
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Re: Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen
Virginity: The Virginity has different meanings. In some situation, it is the condition in which either a man or a woman has even not been touched by opposite sex person. In some societies, the word Virginity is used if there no sexual intercourse has been done. In your case, unfortunately the virginity is lost!
Hymen: At this moment, it is difficult to assess whether hymen has been ruptured or not. Hymen is a thin layer that could even be ruptured without intercourse, or in some cases it could not be ruptured even with harsh intercourse.
Pregnancy: This is unlikely if the offender has not discharged inside the vagina. Precum drops that emit from penis prior to ejaculation may contain sperms that could produce pregnancy. However; in order to get pregnant, there are several things that are required to happen. Therefore; this is less likely that the halfway intercourse would bring pregnancy.
Repenting: This is good that you have forbidden him to proceed further. The Satan is always there to misguide people. Pray to Allah and ask Repent. Never disclose this fact to anyone. Forget what has happened with you.
Disconnection: Disconnect your relations with your cousin. In Islam there is no way to even talk with someone who is na-maharam no matter if he is your cousin or not. In My Opinion, Cousin's relations are far dangerous than any other unless the marriage has been done.
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123_ rose
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Nov, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 7 Age:
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Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 1:00pm |
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Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen dr kk u didnt understand my point...he just touched it and he was not discharged in...its almost 6 yr back incident...now me worried about that if hymen is broke then will i bleed first night when i do proper intercourse???????? do my husband know about this???????as at that tym i just mention he just touced in and i stopped him so i want to know that wether it was blood due to rupture of hymen or not? do i bleed on my proper intercourse...plz guide........ |
Doctor K K
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Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 1:16pm |
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Re: Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen Well in this case, most probably the hymen is not ruptured. Blood can not come on slight touching. If bleeding is there and penis did not entered inside vagina, then it is not from hymen.
In the above case it is difficult to know from where the blood came if it is not from vagina.
As I already told you, hymen can be ruptured even without intercourse. Therefore; the criteria to judge the virginity by seeing blood on the wedding night is against the latest scientific facts. Unfortunately in our society still some people consider it.
You should not be worried in this regard. Every thing will go fine. |
123_ rose
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Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 1:23pm |
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Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen realy thanks doctor as i know its realy bad to do this things therefore i stoed him but the lood drops made me tensed that apear after 30min ..welll can u tel me last thing is lady only bleed once ? |
123_ rose
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Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 1:25pm |
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Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen can i visit a gyne and ask her or leave it? as me tensed in our society if lady dont bleed she is consider not to be virgin.. |
BuRi
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Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 4:10pm |
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Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen yes girl only bleed once when her hymen tear off.. but it is not neccessary that if girl not bleed then she is not virgin
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Doctor K K
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Posted on:15th Nov 2010, 12:55am |
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Re: Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen Well if you are tense then there is no problem to visit a gyne doctor. In this way you will get personal satisfaction. |
123_ rose
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Posted on:18th Nov 2010, 12:50pm |
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Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen thanks dr kk but can u guide how gyne will diagnose? and wht should i ask her? |
Doctor K K
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Posted on:19th Nov 2010, 1:16am |
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Re: Loss Of Virginity - Breaking of Hymen Gyne doctor can examine the vagina and internal folds in order to know whether the hymen is intact or not.
You have to tell her that you noticed bleeding and you are confused about your hymen. |
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