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| Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 9:07pm |
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 hubby prefer musturbtae thn sex
mera sawal ye hy k meri shadi ko doosra saal hone wala hy lykin mera hubby musturbate bohot karte hain ...muje feel hota hy jaisy ouko meri koee zaroorat nahi hy...why he is doing lik ths |
| H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 9:49pm |
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BT sumbal Yeh Intahai Ghyr zima daarana act hay apky husband ka or essy Deen say doori bhe khaa ja sukta hay aghur onko apny Huqooq or apky Huqooq ki pasdari or onki importance ka elm ho tu woh esaa nahi kurin, onki masturbation ki adat bilkol achi adat ni hay, ap onsy apna yeh shikwa biyaan kurin , or ho suky tu kisi Psychiatrist doctor say consult bhe kurin,
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| ~~HITMAN~~ |
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| Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 10:04pm |
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rEp|~ Apkay husband gunah main is kadar involve hochukay hain k ab unko mastubation se hi sokoon ayega warna nahi ayega, wo isliyai ye kartay hain kyun k wo zaroor ghalat kism ki movies ya programs ya sites main busy rehte hongay, har aurat ko ghalat nazar se dekhte honge ,gharz is hi tarha k ghalat kamon main involve rehte hongey jiski wajah se unhain apki zarorat nahi parti wo in sab chezon ko dekh kar hi sokoon lelete hain aur masturbation karlete hain
....unko gunah sawaab ki tameez khatam hochuki hai, kyun k zahir hai ye sab gunah k kaam hain, ye baat mai is liyain itne wosook se keh raha hon kyun k koi bhi gunahon se doar rehnay wala shaks i gurantee you masturbation nahi karsakta, jab apke apke husband gunah ko gunah samajhne lagainge tabhi wo touba bhi karain ge ALLAH se girgira k suchay dil se, touba k baad unka dil jo gunahon se kala hochuka hai wo dhulay ga aur phir unahin appmain interest develop hoga.
no need to consult any specialist, iska ilaaj deen se kurbat main hai, app koshish karain k unahin deen k kareeb layen aur unmain ehsaas e gunah peda karain, shayad unhain maloom na ho gunah sawab ki baton ka itna. |
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2010, 6:41am |
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wow very nice and very detailed replied by hitman |
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2010, 11:22pm |
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agree wd repl i agree wd u coz wo deen se etne dour ho chuke hain k may ounse nimaz ka kahou tao kehte hain k khud parho...bas kisis cheez ka pata hee nahi...agar ounko ehsaas dilana chahou tao mujhe dannt daite hain...kiya karou kuch samaj hee nahi araha |
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2010, 12:32pm |
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@|~ Sumbal bas behen yehi tou sara masla hai, deen se dori aur gunaho se touba na karna hi masturbation jesi aur dosri buraye ki jar hai, deen se dour honay walay loagon ko jab achi batain bataye jati hain tou wo sunnay k bajaye ulta app pe charh dortay hain......
pehla kaam tou ye karain k unkay liyain hidayat ki dua karain Allah se, dosra kaam kuch aesa karna hoga indirectly k deen ki taraf rughbat ho unki, main koshish karta hon aglay reply main kahin se apka jawab find kar k desakon. |
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2010, 2:03pm |
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what is dis???? what is meant by musturbtae |
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2010, 11:47pm |
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rEp|~
Masturbation karnay walay loag intercourse main interest nahi lete, unhain masturbation main zyada enjoyment hoti hai, ye ek buhut khatarnaak nuksan hai masturbation ka for married people.
Yahan pe main point yehi hai k app apne husband se discuss kariain is mamlay pe frankly jab wo achay mood main hon, discuss karnay main koi buraye ya sharam ki baat feel nahi honi chahiyia, ap apne husband ko batayen k app kya chahti hain, apni feelings se agah karain, kahain k main apse nahi kahongi tou kis say kahongi ye sab,....thek hai islam ka hawala mat dein likin medically masturbation k nuksanaat se agah karain ,mundarja zeel article main both islamic and general nuksanaat batae hae hain masturbation k hawalay se app ye batain unse discuss karsakti hain parhnay k baad.
Praise be to Allaah.
Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the
following evidence:
First from the Qur’aan:
Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from
the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning):
"And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except
from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them,
they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the
transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts
(including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And
whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor.
"And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste,
until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever
does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in
facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty.
Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet
(peace be upon him):
Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had
no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among
you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his
modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and
whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the
hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it
can be done.
There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation,
but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allaah knows what is best
and most correct.
As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions:
1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaah’s orders
and fearing His punishment.
2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person
is able, as shown in the Prophet’s
hadeeth.
3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in
breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid
oneself of it.
4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.)
will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden).
Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses
and in the Prophet’s
hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings):
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and
protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily,
Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze
(from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual
acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31
Allaah’s messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden
things) with another look." Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the
Prophet
to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead
him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden).
5) Using one’s available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious
knowledge.
6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from
masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More
importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory
prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it
prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even
homosexuality.
8) Strengthening one’s willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by
the Prophet
when he said "Do not spend the night alone" Ahmad 6919.
9) Following the Prophet’s
aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because
fasting will temper one’s sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should
not overreact and swear by Allaah not to return to the act because if one does not honor
one’s promise, one would be facing the consequences of not living up to one’s oath to
Allaah. Also, note that medication to diminish one’s sexual desire is strictly prohibited
because it might permanently affect one’s sexual ability.
10) Trying to follow the Prophet’s
recommendation concerning the etiquette of
getting ready for bed, such as reading well-known supplications, sleeping on the right
side, and avoiding sleeping on the belly (the Prophet
forbade sleeping on the belly).
11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allaah
willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet
explains in
the following hadeeth:
"Whoever seeks chastity Allaah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from
none but Allaah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him,
and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari:1469.
12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope
and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is
one of the major sins punishable by Allaah.
13) Finally, Allaah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on
Him. So, asking for Allah’s forgiveness will be accepted, by His will.
Wallahu a’lam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct.
slam-qa.com/en/ref/329
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2010, 11:47pm |
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.......... http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/23390
islam-qa.com/en/ref/23390
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| Posted on:11th Sep 2010, 8:25am |
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BT sumbol sumbol aap kay husband ki mushtzini ki waja aap bhi ho sakti hain....... agar aap unhain bharpur sex nahi dain gi to wo mushtzini main sex talash karain gay..... unki ye aadat aap khatam krwa sakti hain.... aap pehly to unki mushtzin ka zima khud lay lain yaeni k oral sex karain aahista aahista wo khud hi mian bv k taluqat main wapis aa jayen gay |
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| Posted on:11th Sep 2010, 10:52am |
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 he liks himslf
wo kuch kerny dain tao may kuch karou...ounka dil ho tao sab teek hy warna wo tao haath b lagany nahi daite...kitna bardasht kar sakta hy koee b...etni insult ho jati hy k hath lagany ko b dil nahi kerta,,,,2 saal hone wale hain....har baat ouse kerti hou...wo kuch kerna tao bohot dour baat b nahi kerty...khud ko waisa kerlou...ya chup rehna behter hy |
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| Posted on:11th Sep 2010, 11:58pm |
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do not talk sumbal ap be apnay husband say bat na keroo... |
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| Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 4:17am |
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try try to give him a good loving sex,lusty sex ,give a good blow job means oral sex ,he just loved it and then he much love you
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| Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 9:45am |
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sumbol sumbol yar jab wo muth mar raha ho to tum b female parts ko sehlaya kro and show him k tum bhi ye kar sakti ho or jab b unka mood ho next sex ka to your target is k suck him real hard and discharge him with sucking.... phir results daikna |
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| Posted on:27th Oct 2010, 3:56am |
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ye itna asan nahi hai BT sumbal!!!!aapka prblm parha,aur replys bhi........i have same prblm too.
yahaan sub ne kaha keh:
onn ko mana karoo
onn se baat na karo
onn ko islam ka hawala do ect....................
mujhy aik baat koi samjha de keh kia bivi ke kehny se shoher maan jaye gaa??????ye tu oss kee ghairat ka masla ban jata hy agar bivi oss se kuch karne ya na karne ko keh de tu......
mein kafi arse se khod iss masle ka shikar hoon,start mein kafi masle hoye,mein ne bhi onn ko yahi sub kaha jo yahan mashware deye gaye hn,,(theek hai waqat ke sath sath kuch behtri aa jati hai per jub adat aik dafa biger chuki ho tu bilkul khatam hone mein time lagta hai i think ....). per onn ke jwab mein bivi ko iss qisim ke sakhtat jumle sun ne keliye bhi tiyar rehna chahiyee:
bivi ho bivi ban ke raho
ab tum mijhy samjhayoo gi
mujhy islam ka sabaq na parhao
ect..............................
tu behna ye safer kafi mushkil aur saber azma hai koshish karo onn ko samjhayo per fori positive change kee ummed na rakho abhi.ye mard kee ANA ka masla hota hai woh ander se chahte hoye bhi ooper se apna ZAUM barqrar rakhna chahta hai .Yad rakhna auorat ka khameer BARDASHT SE UTTHA HAI.Agar tum bhi FACE TO FACE ane kee koshish karo gi tu nuqsan tumhara apna hi hai,khod ander hi ander jalo gi,sulgo gi ...yahn tak keh ye bhi socho gi keh shayed mein hi ghalat hoon,meri kisi kami kee waja se ye sub ho raha hai.
kisi hud tak magar ziada nahi hubby ko ignor karo ,raho sath sath hi magar thora sa be niazi dikhayo.koshish karo keh onn ke samny apny aap ko mazlom na show karo..ro nahi onn ke samny,essa mushkil hota hai magar..............
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| Posted on:27th Oct 2010, 4:32pm |
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give him this medicine. Please use Staphysegria 200 at bed time for five days.
it is available in any homeo store.
Report afer 15 days 03322647718. |
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