Fear of Accident (Dystychiphobia)

salam

          sir mera masla bhut ajeeb hen mujhe  ek khof beth gaya he.meri friend 

ki jb se accidently death hui he mjhe dar beth gaya he k mera b accident na ho

jae nd me mar na jaaoon.mjhe mot se bhut dar lagta he .safar karti hoo to

hear beat badh jaati he  jb tk manzil pr na punhchu j se nikal rahi ho.ab to

mene safar karna he chhodh diya he kabhi kabhi majbooran safar karti hun to

safar me bhut kharab ho jati he halat yeh dar nikalta he nahi k accident na ho

jae me b apni friend ki tarah achanak mar na jaaoon .is bat ka itna khof he ab

to ghar me bethi hoti hun tb b j se maut ka khauf taari rehta he j se malkal

mot mere sar pr khadha ho kabhi kabhi yeh condition itni badh jati he k mujhe

malkal mot aata dikhaai deta he plz meri help karen mujhe achha sa koi

mashwara den me bhut pareshan hoo is halat ki wajah se  din badin mera

wait b ghat ta ja raha he

ameena

 Hur insaan jo Doniyaa meah ayaa hay Ossy 2 Nehmato say Nuwaza ghiyaa hay

1.   Life
2.   Good Health

Allah Pak Quran meah kehty hen Hur insaan nay Mot ka Zayqa chukhnaa hay, Life or Good Health dono Allah ki turaf say bot buri Nehmutyin hen, aghur Hum apni body kay kisi bhe organ ko dakhnyin tu wo laajuwaab hay osky naa hony say zindgi ketni tung o Tareek ho jati hay ap dakhyin serf hath ki choti finger he agur na ho tu hum bot sary kam nahi kur sukty , Allah pak nay humary leyeh zumeen aasmaan , huwaaa , paani hur cheez jo humyin nuzzur aati hy jo hum Feel kurty hen Insan kay leyeh bunai hay yeh sub Allah ki Nehmutyiin hen

apki jo condition mujy sumaj i hay ye Fear, khof, depression sub koch Faith ki kumi ki waja say hay , Humara emaan etna muzboot ho kay hum essi chezo say durin nahi , Mot ka ek din Moqurrar hay , yoon sumaj layin jo raat Qubur meah hay wo Baher nahi or Mot koi end of life bhe nahi hay, hum sub ko Allh ki turaf he wapis jana hay

Emaan etna muzboot kurin apna kay Achai or boraai sub Allah ki turaf say hay , Jub ap Sufur pay niklaa kurin sufar ka aghaaz kurny say phelly Dohaa-a-sufur puraa kurin, or Allah say aafiyaat say wapsi tulab keya kruin,

zindgi mot, sosti bemari, fayda , noqsaan sub men-janub Allah hota hay.ap apny mind meah ek baat bithaa layin Mot ka ek wuqat moqurur hay meah jahaa bhe hongi osny ajaanaa hay, apna emaan muzboot kurin, ziyada sochaa na kurin , jub dil purashaan ho tu apny dill ko Allah ki yaad say Munuwaar kur leyaa kurin, apna Faith muzboot kurin, 

Humko life meah bot sary imtahano say gozzurna purta hay , aaj hum ameer hen tu Ghureeb bhe ho sukty , Health hay tu beemari bhe aasukti, lakin en sub condtitions meah Allah pay bhurosaa kurna chayeh, apka emaan jub muzboot ho jay gah apko kisi cheez say dur nahi  lugy gah,

apko apna Eman muzboot kurna hoga, Mot nay jub jahaaa jis undaaz meah ana hay wo aa kay rahy ghhi ossy koi taal nahi sukta, some time jub kisi uzeez , family relative ki sudden death ho jati hay tu oska affect dosry logo pur bhe purta hay, some time jin logo nay esaa accident apnnkho say dakhaa hota hay onko essy nikulty koch time bhe zuroor lugta hay lakin mujy omeed hay ap brave Girl ho insah Allah ap bot juld es sorat hal say baher ajao ghi, ap achi achi books lay kay aayin novels wo puraa kurin aj kul yaa Tv pay achy programs dakha kurin, apny ap ko busy rukhin or apny ap ko Allah ki yaad say ghafil na kurin,

wait for our expert doctors reply.

ameena

mot insan ko kuch nahi kehti iss kaynaat ko wajood mein aye lakhoon karorron years guzer gaye aur zameen per mojood makhlooq ko mot ayi Allah tallah jiss ne aap ko aur hum sub ko pedha kiya to humein duniya mein aty huway koi dar nahi laga issi tarah duniya se jaty huway bi koi dar nahi 

aap koshesh kerein k apni panjgana namaz ko adha kerein logoon ki bhalaee ka socha kerein her lehaz se khush rehny ki koshesh kerein insan kamzor he aur Allah pak insan ki kamzori aur majboori janty hein

Allah ko apna banaya huwa insan bohat piyara he wo ghafoor aur rahim he wo apny insan ki hifazat kerna janta he her roz lakhoon ki tadad se duniya mein insan aty hein aur lakhoon ki tadad mein jaty hein aap uss ki di huee life ko enjoye kerein   

well said dr qasim

dal mai kala

dal main kala...ya kali daal

Accident Phobia:

ameena9

ap nay apna problem yahan share kia, iska matlab hai k ap janti hain k jis kisam ki feelings ap rakhti hain woh ghalat hain....

apni ghalati ko pehchan lena bahut achi baat hai, aur adha masla udher hi khatam ho jata hai.....

lehaza sab se pehlay aap yeh samajh lain k "apki mot se darnay ki soch ghalat hai" ........ is k bad ap aik strong decision le lain k ap ko khud ma se yeh ghalat khiyalat khatam karnay hian.....

ab aap decide karain k aap ko khud apnay aap ma se yeh sab khatam karna hai........ ab aap ooper walay tamam replies ko phir se parahin aur ghore karain k dr qasim, raja taqi aur dr waterr, in sab nay apko bahut valuable suggestions di hain, agay aap khud decide karain k apko konsi baat suit karti hai...

sab se pehlay is sawal ka jawab apnay aap se pochain........keh "aap ko mot se dar q lagta hai ?"

kia aap apni marzi se is dunia ma ayi thin?

kia Allah nay aap se pooch kar apko peda kia tha?

nahi na...?

tau phir aap kis ki huin?

Allah ki..

tau Allah "apni makhloq" se jesa chahay salook karay uski marzi...

lekin Allah bht rahim karim hai uskay har kaam ma hikmat hai... aur uska har kaam uski makhloq par ehsan hai..

ab aap kisi hospital ma jain, aur apko wards ma bht hi old age k bazurg aesi halat ma "zinda" nazar ain gy k woh na jee rhay hongay aur na hi mar rahay hongay, woh brain tumour, hepatitis, cancer, kidney problem, stomach problem, aur beshumar aesi aesi bimarion ma takleef se reh rahay hongay jin ki takleef khatamn karnay par doctors bhi bebas hongay...... aur aesay log apko "mot ki khahish" kartay nazar ain gy, ap un k pas jain woh ap se kahain gy k dua karo hamain mot a jaey, un k bachay un se pareshan hongay k khamkha ki maseebat ma ham log par gaey hamaray boorhay waldain ko mot q nahi aa jati........ aesay tamam logon ki agar apko history ka pata lagay, tau apko maloom ho ga k "yeh tamam woh log hain jo apni jawani k zamanay ma mot se nafrat kartay thay ya mot se bahut dartay thay, aur ab woh mot ki khahish kartay rehtay hain lekin unhay mot nahi ati"

tab apko qadar aey gi k 'mot kitni khubsurat chiz hai".... yeh tau insan ko izzat deti hai..

Dear Ameena

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Dear Ameena