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mayhooraaj
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2010 Topic: 14 Post: 160 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 3:08am |
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 Sirf Gunah Sy Bachne K Liye Nikah?
A-o-A. its my 1st time qstn..,i m married..meri aik grl frnd ha.jis say mere shadi k bad bhi taluqat rahe..lakin hum ne abhi tk intercorse nahi kya...aor hum dono aik,doosre ko chahte bhi hain.aor complete intercorse bhi kerna chahte hain..hum aik doosre say shadi kr k sath nahi reh sakte.uski boht si waja hain..kya hum gunah say bachne k lye "nikah" ker skte hain..k kahee hum bgair nikah intercorse karein to gunah hoga..1ya 2 bar intercorse kerne k lye nikah kya ja sakta ha...nikah ki,aor chorne ki koi mudat fix nahi krte..plz reply me.. help me. thnx
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4304 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 5:41am |
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gunah se bachne ke liye nikah ji haa! aap gunah se bachne ke liye nikah ker saktay hai. balkeh nikah ker leni chahiye. nikah ke baad jab bhi aap ose divorce de ge, woh khatoon divorced kehlaye gi.
kia aap ke paas iss ka bhi hal mojood hai keh jab aap os khatoon ko divorce de ge tu phir woh khatoon kis se nikah kare gi; nez kia aap ne kabhi iss baat per bhi ghor kia keh os khatoon se kon shaadi kare ga jis ne nikah sirf aur sirf jinsi taluqat qaim kerne ke liye kya tha.
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 5:55am |
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Gonah Say Buchny kay leyeh Nikah
aarzi shaadi ehl-a-Tasheh (Shiya muzhab ) meah Jayz hay Jisko Mottah kehty hen es topic pay kafi koch discuss keya jaa choka hay or Bewakoof brother nay es aarzi nikaah yaa Mottah keh layin eski khaamiyaan or Osky noksanaat pay jo points othaay hen Bot achy points hen, Gonah say buchny kay leyeh ap nikah tu kur laty hen lakin wo nikah jiska mutlab serf sex or Khulwut pay hoon wo nikah kis kam ka wo islam kay sath mizzak hay or Ziyadti bhe orat kay sath ziyada hoti hay agur wo orat sumjy tu, Agur apka muksad Nikah or pher Olaad or os wife ko Porry porry Mussavi Rights wife waly dany ka eraada hay or osko Apni wife for ever bunany ka erada hay tu yeh bot achi bat hay, islam Nikah ki ejaazat data hay or sath koch Huqooq or zimadaariyaan bhe btaata hy jin pay amaal kurna ek muslaman ka furz hay, Furz kur layin yeh aarzi shadi jayizz ho jay hur koi he apni girl friend buna lay apni murzi say nikhaa or apni murzi say jub dil bhur ghiyaa chor diyaa ek tissue paper bunaa layin wife ko use keya or phank deya , islam es turhaa kay nikaah ki hurgezz ejazat nahi data, lakin Fiqa jaferyaa meah essy Jayizz sumjaa jata hay, Please visit mutah_islam_temporary_marriage_islam_facts_truth_16750.htm
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Stalker
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Group: Members Joined: 21st Dec, 2009 Topic: 14 Post: 356 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 10:05am |
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Mr Qasim ////"Furz kur layin yeh aarzi shadi jayizz ho jay hur koi he apni girl friend
buna lay apni murzi say nikhaa or apni murzi say jub dil bhur ghiyaa
chor diyaa ek tissue paper bunaa layin wife ko use keya
or phank deya , islam es turhaa kay nikaah ki hurgezz ejazat nahi data,
lakin Fiqa jaferyaa meah essy Jayizz sumjaa jata hay,"////
Aap ne kindly agar question ka answer dena hai tou dein apni kam ilmi k baes kisi maslak par aitraaz na karein ,,, Islam mein Mutah Rasool e Akram (saww) k zamaney mein bhi jaiez tha aur sahaba ne kiya bhi , lekin ahl e sunna k nazdeek isey mansookh kar dia gaya jabke ahl e tashayyo k nazdeek nahi.
Lehaza Muttah ka sirey se hee qaeil na hona ISLAM ki BE HURMATI hai jesa k aap ne Mutah ko "mazak" keh k mukhatib kia hai.....
Rahi baat Tissue paper wali tou Mutah k liye kuch sharaiyet bhi hein , ye nahi k koi b larka kisi bhi larki se mutah kar sakta hai ....jin mein se sab se important shart jis k baghair mutah nahi hota wo ye hai :
Larki k baap ki ijazat zarurat hai mutah k liye ...Agar larki ka baap ijazat nahi de tou mutah nahi ho sakta ....
Iss shart ki bina par tissue paper wala sawal hee nahi uThta ...Aap please apne jawabat ko apne maslak ki hadd tak rakhein aur kisi maslak ko apni kam ilmi ki bina par hit na karein , warna mujhe bhi aise aitrazat uthaney bakhoob aatey hein.
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 10:26am |
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stalker bro
meah Bahess nahi chahataa meah etna jantaa hon pakistan meah 15 % shiyaa hen lakin en meah say 1% bhe motah nahi kurta ku kay wo khod esy acha nahi sumajty, meah ny jo reality thi wo btaai hy, ehl-a-sonnut essy achaa nahi sumajty , or ye islam say qubal or koch time jub islam pori turaa nafiz nahi thaa shoroaat thi os time tuk wahaa rayaj rahaa hay i agree with this lakin bhad meah Saahaaba kuraam nay esy muna kur deya, Meah saudia mah al hasa meah rehta hon or yaa 90% shiya saudi hen or yahaa motha keya jata hay enka shaikh enka Nikah purhaata hay or ek modut time duration fix kur leya jata hay kay ketna time nikah mreah rehna hay. Humary haa phely he women zolm or ziyadti ka shikaar hen ek nikah jesy pak saf bundhan kay hoty howy or agur motah ko bhe rayaj kur leya jay , eski bhe ejazat day dee jay tu ap khod butayin suchy dil say es mohashry meah orat ka haal keya hoga, Meah nay motaah ka muzaak nahi os aarzi shadi ka bola hay jisy especially orat ko bot noksaan hay, agur motah etna he acha or Hulal hay tu chop kay ku hota hay? nikah or shadi suraa aam jesy dosra nikah hota os tura ku nahi hota? aaj kul hur koi cha hata oski shadi virgin say ho oski hony wali bevi virgin ho tu jo lurki Motah meah reh choki ho oska future keya , keya wo sari life motah kay leyeh he wukaf ray ghi? kindly agur apky pas ziyada information hay motah ki tu ap osy isalm or Motah kay Faydy or noksaan bhe zura yahaa share kurin, jub Allah nay ek ek du , teen , ya chaar shadiyaan kurny ki ejaazat day dee hay tu es hukum ko ku nai mana jay bujy motah kay, meah ny motah ka yaha mention kurna zurori sumja suwaal he esaa hy essy related hay, apky haa hulaal hay ap kejiyeh humyin koi ehtraaz nahi
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4304 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 10:36am |
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doosre mazahib ka ehteram kerna chahiye re: "Aap
please apne jawabat ko apne maslak ki hadd tak rakhein aur kisi maslak
ko apni kam ilmi ki bina par hit na karein"
Agree with Stalker
Dr. Qasim ne muta ke baaray mai jo bian dia hai especially Tissu Paper wali example de ker tu bilkul ghalat dia hai. agar muta kisi ka religious aqeeda hai tu phir os ke liye iss qisim ke alfaz likh ker os mazhab ki dil aazari kerna kehlaye ga.
Allah ke nazdeek muta sahi amal hai ya nahi iss ka faisla ham jaise kam-ilm log nahi ker saktay. lehaza mera mashwarah hai keh ham log muta ko beech mai laaye beghair hi iss thread mai mojood masla ka hal kerne ki koshish kare.
mai khood shia nahi hoo, zahir hai keh jab shia nahi hoo tu phir muta ke aqeeda se bhi agree nahi kerta hoo. lekin mai doosre tamam mazahib/maslak/firqa ka ehteram kerta hoo. isi liye mai mai muta ke liye Tissu Paper jaisa example nahi deta aur na hi dene wale ki himayat kerta hoo. Muta aik mazhabi discussion hai ose iss thread mai shamil ker ke topic divert na kia jaaye tu ziadah behtar ho ga.
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 10:46am |
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doosre mazahib ka ehteram kerna chahiye Bilkol kurna chayeh ehtraam meah nay aarzi nikah ky tasulsual mah jo kaha hay kahaa hay or dono mowakaf samny rukhy hen ehl-a-sonnut meah aarzi shadi jayiz nahi hay , Fiqa jaferia meah jayiz hay ye es leyeh btaya kay agur wo Jafri hen tu wo Apny muzhab meah es option say fayda othaa layin.
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 10:49am |
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sirf gunah say bachne k lye nikah? answer: for mahooraaj
meah onko reply meah or koch nahi keh sukta meah on points say agree kurta hon jo bewakoof nay apny reply meah othay hen, agur wo shadi osy nahi kur sukty or as wife nahi apnaa sukty tu os lurki ky future ko bhe tareek na kurin, |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4304 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2010, 12:07pm |
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nikah for sex enjoyment now agree with dr qasim's last post.
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Mr.Mk
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Group: Members Joined: 28th Jun, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 128 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2010, 2:58am |
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Its Clear To Everybody Yaar --
Allah Taalah insaan ko kai tareeqon sey azmata hai. Allah taalah ney eik QOAM ko mana kia tha keh youm al Sabt ko fishiz ka shikaar na kerna to woh Youm Al Sabt to fishiz ko ghairey mai ley letay thay or next day bahir nikaal letey thay to Allah Taallah ney un per azaab nazil kia tha.
Sab parents sey guzarish hai keh apney bachoon ki jawan hotey hii shadi ker do keh woh sex ki khawahish sey bhataktey na phirain.
Amooman kai baar esa hota hai keh kisi larki ka 2 yaa 3sra no hota hai to woh sochti hai keh uski shadi abhi 5 saal late hai keh jahaiz ki laanat bhee aam hai to woh lov affair mai ulajh ker -- |
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naveed kho
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2010, 3:43am |
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khokhar salam.sharam karo yaar kaisi baate kaarha hai.nikha sirf is lye karna chaata hai ke intersoucre kar sake.sham sham farz karo koi aap ki bhen ke saaath asa ho.to kay socho ge aap.bare bare fatwe nikal wa loge aap to.aur apni baari main.nikha sirf nikha nhai hai.us ko nibhana bhi parta hai.koi busnsis deal nhai hai jo apne mafaad ke liye kari jaaye.aur phir baad main tor di jaaye.sshram karo.intercourse karna hai to us ko apni biwi banao.ghar lao.aur farz karo tum nikha karke us ke saath intercourse karte ho.aur hamal thee jaata hai.to kya tum us bachey ko accept karoge.sharam karo.aur apni sis par rakh kar socho. |
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naveed kho
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2010, 3:47am |
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khokhar
salam.is main hamare pyare nabi ke hadess bhi hai.ke koi shaks aaya aaqa ke pass.aaqa ko kheta hai ke mujhe zinha ki ijazat do.to aaqa kya khete hai badle main yhe suno gor se.aaqa khete hai koi aap ki maan bhen ke baare main asa khaye to kya karoge aap.us shaks ne kha main bardasht nhai kar paonga.to zara socho bhai.
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mayhooraaj
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2010 Topic: 14 Post: 160 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jul 2010, 3:57am |
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thnx for all. i 've got my ans....thnx all guys.. |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4304 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jul 2010, 4:51am |
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mayhooraaj aap bhi iss forum per hone wali discussion mai hissa lia kare. ho sakta hai keh aap ke post se bhi kisi ka bhala ho jaaye.
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ali_Humzae
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Oct 2011, 3:28am |
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Purpose of Mota Assalam u Alaikum guys!
Can anybody please tell me the conditions in which "mota" is "Jaiz" and what are the circumstances in which it is inevitable.
Thanks in anticipation. Waiting for your reply.
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6612 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Oct 2011, 5:09am |
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ali dear 1. agar apka talluq fiqah jafaryah say hai to clearly wazah karaiN. takay koi motalleqah expert apko iska monasib jawab day sakay.
2. lekin agar apka talluq fiqah jafarya say nahi hai to yeh jaan laiN k deger islami fiqah maiN "motaa" aik haram fail hai. lehaza iskay baray maiN apka janna ghair zaroori hai |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 45 Post: 2456 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Oct 2011, 2:41pm |
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ali_humza myrizvi very gud eplained
ali_humza
muttah kihilaat fiqah jafriya k hisb se yeh hai k ager kisi married aurat ka husband 6 month se ziyadah us se door ho to usay koi shiay merd hi mutaa ki offer ker sakta hai jis ki mudat aur mehar dono apni merzi muqarar kerain gay
kanwari lerki se mutaa nhn hota lekin ager lerki ak wali ijazat de de to ho sakta hai
normaly mutaa k liyay married female ki sherat hai
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ali_Humzae
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Oct 2011, 8:49pm |
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Mota kin halat mein jaiz hai? Dear Brothers,
Alhumdulillah I am from fiqah jafaryah and wanna know the conditions of MOTA?
1. Keeping in view the comment of alirajpoot's last comment, "is it possible for any lady to go in the nikkah, though temporarily i.e. mota, while being alreay in nikkah of someone else?"
2. Somebody has written the girl's father's consent? Is it right?
3. What if, unmarried girl ask for mota to any guy (married/unmarried)?
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6612 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Oct 2011, 11:06pm |
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Diplomate bro ! say request hai k woh ali hamzae ki uljhan door karaiN. aur inhaiN motaa say motalliq fiqah jafaria ki jumlah taaleemaat say agaah karaiN
ali bhai samait julmah non-fiqh jafaria say talluq rakhnay waloun say request hai k iss maslay main apni Taang nah phansaaiN. yeh onka maslah nahi hai.
yahaaN etraaz baraa.ay etraaz nahi horahaa... har fard apnay apnay maslak, aur mazhab ko seekhnay aur oss par amal karnay ka haq mahfooz rakhta hai... |
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Mind Hunte
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Group: Members Joined: 09th Oct, 2011 Topic: 4 Post: 34 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Oct 2011, 6:29am |
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About Muta Dear Bothers,
Assalam-o-Alaykum.
i m Ahely-Tahsee and as per my knowledge what my parents have told me and what i have learned from Ulma... Mutta ki aj k door main koi haseeyat nai hai.. ye if m not wrong Hazoor (S.A.W) k zamany main sirf jung k doran mardon ko allow kiya gia tha.. per aj k dor main just to have sex with some one aisa karna haram hai... baki Allah (S.W) know better...
Infact MAYHOORAJ jis ne ye post start ki hai.. Brother u should b ashamed of ur salf.. wife hoty howy u r thinking about another girl n dying just to have sex with her??? Khuda ka khoof karo n b loyal to your wife...
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