ur wife

nd gud 2 know abt ur wife.......sizzling appki wife ha na
unka reply karna acha laga.

agree 2 sunehri......k sizzling ko yahan aana chahiay

sorry bro

 ***sorry pichlay page pay main nay friends ki jaga riends likh diya...sorrrrrrrrriiieeeeeessss

aur aik baat jis ki waja say mujhay   ap k articles pasand hain wo ye k ap bilkul mard ,aurat ki nature k mutabiq likhtay hain.....mard  ka dominant and aurat ka submissive rahna unki nature main ha......lakin sum cases main ye sab nahi hota .......meray khiyal say wo balanced personality nahi hoti.....koee problem zaroor hota ha un k saath......shayed kuch tarbiyat galat andaaz say ho jati ha ya kuch aur......pata nahi keon mujhay khud b aisay couples ziyda achay nahi lagtay......keon k ye nature k against ho jata ha na phir......asal beauty he khatam ho jati ha......nd nature k against janay say mera khiyal ha k jo Allah Ta'aalaa nay dono k darmiyan aik sakoon ka rishta banaya ha  wo sakoon ya satisfaction  phir poori tarha hasil nahi hoti
aur isi liay log b phir kuch ajeeb se trms use karnay lagtay hain.....lyk zann mareed nd pata nahi kiya kiya.....haalan k  kafi caring mardon k liay b log ye use kartay hain...... keon k wo kuch miss kar rahay hotay hain unki pesonality main

khair kuch ziyda he lambi ho gaee ha baat.....ap tang he na aajain k ye kahan say kahan nikal gaeee :D

well

discuss it further

thanx

water and dr qasim

dom man

 A very nice effort by dom man.  G bilkol ap rommun urdu meah b article likhyin Jo concepts or theam mind meah clear hota hy urdu meah wo eng meah ni hota or some time eng bazi lay jati hy jo concepts or theam article ka eng meah clear hota hy urdu meah ni ho sukta mera mushwara hy dono meah likha kurin jo apko acha lugy. apky articles ki tareef koyal b keya kurti thi

outstanding article.......

a really outstanding article for "husbands" .... :)

well, whatever has been adressed in this article, is among the best material to be learned for a successful marital life.

this article is more like to be followed, not to be criticized in respect of statements, words or sentences, this is just something like a message, and a message is to be interpretted, perceived and applied in best possible way.... this article is not to be misunderstood in terms of apparent rigidity of some lines, need to be visualized with a broad mind.

dom-man, u should continue ur efforts, and should share whatever u feel good for u and others......... also try to be up to the level mark of average people to convey ur message in a better way.......

dr qasim and Info1234

dr qasim thanx for the comments.

Info1234 sir;I must say sir, i m humbled by ur appericiation.Thats all what i can say in this regard.Apart from ur compliments ur comment is one of the most eloquent and well balanced approached comments i have ever come across on this forum.Thank u sir.it shows how capable u r for comorehending such complex thoughts in such an easy way.It is a pleasure to see a person of ur calibre on this forum.cheers.

a request.....

well mr dom man .. u r really embarrassing me with the comments which dont match with me, i am far out of threshold mark of calibre, comprehension etc,  and i dont want to be a phenominal figure, its really embarrasing to read all that, i am a simple average level person.

actually i was supposed to be married in march,(delayed to next year for a reason) in searching something, i came across noorclinic and learnt real knowledge, and i must must admit, that reading ur article is a psychologic pearl for me, which i got once again from this forum.

but i want to only put up a request also.....now i am using my technical language to express my requirement.. :)
 
whenever we design an active device, we design its equivalent balancing system, (hydraulic brake system of equivalent efficiency of engine force)...... an engine is necessary to drive a car, but without a brake it can only kill u :)

same thing, u have outstandingly delivered an "active advice" a real necessary one, but plz write its restraining article also, an article parallel to this article but just in a way to make people understand that what are the restraints of husband commands, what type of behavior a husband should abstain, how would a wife feel relaxed that she is not absolutely "encaged" under a man?.............  also i want to add one more thing.. a brake without an engine is useless, similarly only restraining advices without any active advices are useless, first a husband should be authoritative, then apply the constraints.

dom_man

ur all articles that i ave read are superb honestly...

what i like about ur this article is u are actually telling husbands how to be good to wives but there is also an indirect message to females and i like ur way of putting things i mean its not Imposing and this we rarely find from male writters.. i do appreciate ur style..

plus for sake of discussion i want u to elaborate..

how much has culture or envt or broughtup by parents play a role in this submissive nature of females....?? is it really "in born" ... as we dont see in some parts of the world...

info and watter

Thanx for your kind comments.sorry for replying so late.Anyway;

Info said;

same thing, u have outstandingly delivered an "active advice" a real necessary one, but plz write its restraining article also, an article parallel to this article but just in a way to make people understand that what are the restraints of husband commands, what type of behavior a husband should abstain, how would a wife feel relaxed that she is not absolutely "encaged" under a man?............. 

Info sahib u have raised a relevent point but if u look into the article a bit more closely u would find that thats exactly what i have dealt i.e the "restraining" of the husband's authourity.In fact thats all what this article is all about.I have recognized the natural dominant/submissive dynamics of husband and wife relationship but showed that how husband should exercise that authourity.when i talk about the fear of insecurity in women i have said that man should do his level best to help wife get out of this fear and he should show care and love for her but in the process he shouldnt lose his natural authourity of manliness which brings pleasure to both of them.I have said that man should be like an authourity man coz thats what woman wants him to be because she is natural an opposite sex to him and wants him to be exactly opposite of her.these two opposites makes a natural relationship.This is evident by the ver article of the article that by being both loving and authouritative he can meke himself to be desirable for his woman.Some men get confused(and some women too) that how they can reconcille both these qualities i.e being authouritative and loving at the same time.Thats what i have explained that naturally the authourity should be loving and and love should be expressed in a manly way by the husband.

Watter i will reply to question in detail tonight.There is a problem of power break down here at the moment.

Dom-man ....

yes sir i agree with you .. :)

but my previous post was for this ....

" Never feel guilty of bossing her around.If she is sure that you love her and protect her, she would love to be bossed around by you.

don't hesitate to correct her when she is going astray.be more authoritative

Tell her that  she has to ask your permission before doing certain thing.otherwise she would consider you a week man and it would turn her off "

No doubt you are right for what you are explaining in context, but when this article is being displayed in an open forum, some people will not understand the exact point, especialy the female members.. ... :)   so thats y i felt need of some elaboration for just these lines....

anyway nice article, :) it was just my comment, and i may be wrong in my perceptions and opinions :)

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