to hina shah

miss hina

waisay aik mashwara hay miss hina ap k liye

 ap apni post dobara parhain aur sab k comments bhi parhain phir thanday damag say sochain k kon galat hay aur kon sahi

jab ap aik fouram main aa kar apni aik intahaai personal baat discuss karti hain yahan par mejority male membrz ki hay to apko agar koi yeh bataay k ap ny kia galat kiya to yeh baat apko bohat buri lagi yeh bura nahin laga khud pay sharam nahin aai k ap shadi say pehlay kia karnay ja rahi thi main samjhti thi hamary yahan pakistan main galz ko yeh itni baatain shaid shadi k baad he ja kar pata chalti hain bt i woz rong

 lakin jo bhi hay apka atitude theek nahi

agar ap main khud par koi comment bardasht karny ki himat nahin thi to itna senstiv issue infact apka personal issue ap nay yahan uthaya kyo

ap ko lagta hay k ap theek hain

thanday dill say sochna meri behn

 ok

bye

hina shah

your husband sh visit a doctor and this problem can be sorted out...

impotency is not a problem now a days with so much research going on and lots of medicines coming out of this research

impotency is a curable disease........

and i request members for not being personal with anyone...

if someone is discussing his or her problem..we should be very supportive..

dear hina-dont feel tense

Mrs AHMED

Aoa

behan how are you. aap ke mail parhi Mashallah aap joo Mr Ahmed kay sath kar rahi hain same i tried to do. aap ka karna Sawab aur mera karna gunnah ku. Ais liyeea kay Main gareeb aur Yateem larki hoon. maray pairents naheen hain kisi aur nay mujay Pala hai. kiss tarah pala . kin problemz main i completed my study and only Sahara after God is my husband, I think you didnt read my all mails thats why you are trying to Become Bibi Hajan.  kia galat kia hai main nay . this forum is to cure problems cure deficiency not to Critisize on what i did and what you are doing.  I neve did ZAna i did what ever my husband told me to do. and it is in Islamic teachings if Husband say any thing and wife refuse to do then whole time or up to Dawn Firashtay curse her. in the light of those teachings if i obeyed how it become a sin.

OK tell me if i dont do according to him and he give me Divorce who gonna shelter me,

Tell me MRS AHMED Would YOU.

Do you have courage or just can post a paragraph. 

 I dont have pairents and some one raised me. have you been in this kind of situation in your life. 

Allah na karay kabi aisa tumharay sath  hoo agar howa then i would ask you MRS AHMED,  kia bhao bikti hai. 

Withoug understandig the situation making comments sharam ani chayeea aap ko na kay mujay. what ever i did that is with my husband with islamic and sharee HAQ. .

Aap nay yeh sub batain naheen suni aap ais forum main lanay kia ati hoo apni Pakeezgi biyan karnay . 

Aap ke writing mujay bohat kuch bata geey hai plz mari zubaan na khulwana.  bohat see Burger galz dakhi hain not only you . . .

Re:Hina Shah

To Hina Shah

hi miss hina,

main nain sary reply ko gaur say para hai aap ki batain bi note ki hain aur ye nateeja nikalla hai

mujay nahin pata kyeh  shermnak bat hai mager yeh zaroor kahoon ge k aisa nahin hona chaye this is wrong.

ager aap Yateem hain aur Gareeb hain to is ka yeh matlab nahin k aap rukhsti say pehly us ki her bat many gi, aap usay rok bi sakti hain, usay yeh keh sakti hain mera sab kuch aap hi ka hai mager Rukhsti k bad, ager aap say Bardasht nahi hota to aap Barat le aayen, abi please meri bat man lain, aur ager say bi bardasht nahi hota to aap bi un say bat ker sakti hain, mager sex ki ijazat nahi hai,  ager aap hum say ye ANS lena chahti hain to

mery khayal main wo aap ki bat many ga

warna Dunia main Larky mer nahi gay, us k bagair bi zingi chal sakti hai,

Jahan tak bat hai k wo sexualy weak hai to yeh aisai koi bari bat nahi hai hai aap usay kisi be DR. ko dikhayn theck ho jaye ga

Ager nahin to main hoon ne Aap ya aap ka Mian muj say contact ker le within three week  Penis must be strong like LOHA

To Hina Shah

Aik aur bat lazmi kerna chahoon ga k itna jazbati hony ki koi zaroort nahi Bardasht kerny ki adat dalain agy life main pata nahin keya keya masayl aayen to hameshan Saber saykam lena chayeh Galian nikalny say koi sacha nahi ho jata

main nain is liye kaha k k Shadi say pehly SEX galt hai k baz dafa aisa hota hai k LArka 2 or 3 time SEX kerny k bad larki ko Talaq de daita hai kayunk us ka Maqsad pura ho jata hai main aap ki bat nahi ker raha General bat ker raha hoon Ager aisa ho jaye to Larki keya ker sakti hai us k pass to aur koi rasta bi nahin rhta

so plz aisa na kero

yeh mera mashwra hai

mera style pasand nahi ane par sorry

Re: My Reply

Dont worry miss hina

Assalamoalikum Miss Hina
I would not discuss if it was right or wrong to make love, but i will straight away come to the point.

1. You are in doubt if your husband is impotent, well he mentioned that he has been doing hand practice for long, people doing HP for long normally have heightened anxiety about their peformance and normally fail initially, as they think they are weak and wont be able to satisfy.
If he has been doing HP there is on in trillion chance that he is impotent, dont worry.

2. If you read my post Why I Am Unable To Perform A Complete Sex?  you will see that the problem with me was more or less the same.
I had normal night falls, after marriage I tried HP and found myself doing great with full erection, but i failed repeatedly with my wife, thoug a sight of woman would normally excite me, but my wife being so close to me didn't. The reason was my heightened anxiety.

3. Remember there is no switch for erection, it is natural and natural things are driven my some motive, If i want to erect just because I want to erect, I cant do it. There has to be a motive, then even if I don't want to erect, I will.

4. In the initial days every one told me that its me who has to do it, but what i found out was, it is us who have to do it.

5. I think he is under so many stresses initilly, they can be:
- will I perform satisfactorily?
- I have to do it, warna loag kya kahein ge?
- If i wont do it my wife will leave me.
- How can I be a father if I dont do it.
But telkl you what, the love making is way above all these things, It is not only a pleasure but a sacred relationship. The moment i understood that no one can take away my wife, she is mine, it is us who have to do it, and no matter what our privacy can never be exploited, IT HAPPENED and its okay sice then.
I must give credit to the members of noor clinic for showing me the right way, my beloved wife for being patient and extremely helpful and above all Allah.

6. I failed not 20 but may be 100 times in 23 days, but my wife was patient and helping, YOU SEE I WAS HEALTHY BUT EVEN THEN COULDN'T DO IT FOR 23 DAYS.

7. One more tension for people new to sex is what will happen next? as every step is a surprise and some people cannot see blood and the hitch at the back of their minds is will she bleed, will she be in pain, what will I do then?

Dear sister I have almost told and written my every secret so as to tell you it happens and it is normal. Now when you are married why not to take time sincerely and use it for the better of two of you and then think of extreme actions (Allah forbid) then to think of it right away.

Please let me know if you find it useful.

Thanks.

miss hina and all memberz

 sorry miss hina agar apko kuch bura laga ho lakin main apki kuch corrections karwana chahti hoon

main last 1 month say yeh syt visit kar rahi hoon aur itnay arsay baad main nay yahan koi post di hay

main shadi khamoshi say yeh sab k posts parhti rehti to bhi kuch nahi tha bt sumfing insyd me forcd me 2 2 post my comments here

 aur ap ki aik baat ko ap mujay yeh keh rahi thi k main hajan bibi na banu to mairay andar agar koi buraai hay to maira Allah janta hay

main yahan koi apni pakeezgi bayan karnay nahin aai so ap apni correction kar lain

ap k baray main main nay aik aur baat bhi note ki hay k agar koi apko positiv respons daita hay to ap bari khushi say usko reply karta hay aur agar koi apko thora samjhanay ki koshish karay to ap ko itna bura lagta hay ap aisi aisi baatain likh daiti hain lakin apko ehsas nahi hota k ap kia likh rahi hain aur apna imag kitna kharab kar rahi hain

aur rahi baat ap k gareeb aur yateem honay ki to bibi duniya main aur bhi gareeb yateem larkiyan hain wo apni izat ki hifazat nahi karti kia

it iz nt rong 2 hav sex wid ur husbnd bt b4 rukhsati yeh theek nahi samjha jata hamari society main

khair baki memberz nay itna kuch kaha lakin apko har kisi ki baat buri lagti ha

kisi ko koi talkiif nai hay apk gareeb ya ameeer honay say yeh yaad rakahain

aur mairi tamam memberz say request hay k wo batain where did i went rong jo mohtarma mujay is tarah say blam kar rahi hain inko to shaid adat hay lakin kuch mamlat main thanda damag bhi rakhna parta hay

ap nay kaha tha k ap nay wohi kia jo apk husband nay kaha aur agar ap aisa na karti to khuda na khawasta apko divorc ho jati

meray khayal main agar ap apnay husband ko araam say yeh samjhati k rukhsati say pehlay yeh theek nahi to i fink apk husband k dill main apki qadar bhi zada ho jati

aur apni previous post mainmain nay jo kuch likha hay wo apk liye nahi tha wo baki larkiyon k liye tha k wo apk mamlay say ibrat hasil karain

 main sab membrz k reply ka intazar karoon ge n miss hina agar ap nay koi abusiv jawab daina hay to plz avoid ok

 God bless u all

take care

re: Mrs Ahmed

Dear All Members

How Funny it is Every one is taking care of my life after death every one is telling me it is SIN it is against our culture NO one even Pointed my Actual Problem,  My Problem is Premature Ejaculation of my Husband NO one gone through it, EVERY one is trying to be my GOD every one is trying to take  care of ALLAH's Work I think GOD n ALLAH is smart Enough to take care of His ALmighty Work My GOD is  RAHEEM,  MY GOD know in what circumstances i am and how things gone so PLZ let GOD do his work and  plz help me for ACtual problem .

Plz read EVERY one's post except some every one was trying to tell me what should i had done.  what ever is done by me or husband that became past and what is current situation i want to get  remady for that not for what is our culture  how does things work what i had to do what shudnt be done. So Please just emphesis on medical problem this forum  is not to determan what is sin and what is Good . MY God is Great and if any thing is SIN according to God's  given shariyaat it is between me  and my GOD.

My Reply ,

Hello Sweet DR, I am sorry for my aggressive behaviour but leave it lets be good friends again, Basicall why did i get hyper this forum is Based on Medical science not a religious forum, My studies in Religion is Very VAST, I reas Quraan with TAfseer and Tashreeh. I gone through 3 sects of Christianity  I read GETA what is Hindu ism and what is Sikh Izm. I already had lot of argument with other religion leaders for my lovely religion Islaam. I am with the Grace of God very very practicing muslim With the grace of Allah Almighty i do pray 8 times a day then it is my daily routine to Receit Quraan with urdu translation and TAfseer . i am just belive being a practicing muslim not involved in any kind of Sectarianism which is doing our religion weak n weak n weaker. so basically what ever any one is saying about my faith of translation of sin i dont give a damn. i dont give any weigh to those stupid comments, MR DR I am humble too.

Mr Dr Thank you v. much for your suggestions I would say May God Bless you for nice pice of advise.

Thanks

Hina Shah

Miss Hina Shah

Zara soch ka sawal jawab hoo thu achha mayna apka masllah jitna perhaa oor samjaa Brain mayraa phirr sa giyaa hay

                           ajjeb baat haay shadee iik sunaat ammel koo kiya kiyaa rung daa rahaa haan loog .....................yah tik hay mard ka sahet mund hona zaroree hay........mager koi yah thu bathayaad shadee ka awelin maqsaad bus bisther may laytaa raha oor mard oor oorat ko khush karnaa hay

                            Kayse bathin kar rahiii hoo app..................jis maslaa paa apka strees hay kiya apkaa nakah iss cheez saa howa hay ka marad saa...zaheree baat hay marad saa nakal howaa haay.............thu per iik marad ko jutlaa karr sirf iik chotii see cheez ka liyaa app kon saa aaqemundee kar rahii han

                            May apka sawal ka jawab dhoon gaa yah thu jatha jatha naseyat haay

                            Doctor saab may thu kah tha hoo pahla islam ko seko tab appna marzoon ka aalaj karo ...............or yah baat yaqeen saa kah seeq tha hoon ka jisna islaam ko sekaa na mard sherminda hogaa oorat ka liyaa oor na oorat shermindaa hoge matd ka liyaa

Hina shah

mai ne aap ka sara discussion parha hai and i think that u are only prolonging this discussion by fazool things. aap ko yeh shikwa hai ke aap ko question ka proper answer nahi mila but i think ke aap ne khud hi logon ko fazool aur baikar ke discussion mai uljha kar apne asal sawal se door kar diya.

aap kehti hain ke aap ek yateem aur gareeb larki hain but mere khayal mai aap ek kharab aur characterless larki hain(im sorry for very harsh words) aap ko to apni izzat ki zada hifazat karni chahiye kiyu ke duniya ki nazren aesi larkiyon ke character par zada hoti hain.

aap agar sabar nahi kar sakti hain aur aap ke husband bhi sex ke liye beqarar hain to aap log rukhsati kiyu nahi karti hain. apne husband se bolo ke rukhsati kare aur itminan se sex kare.

agar aap shadi se pehle sex kar ke pregnant ho gai to duniya ko kiya mu dekhao gi. jin logon ne aap ko pala hai, kiya un ko yeh bat pata hai ke aap rukhsati se pehle sex kar rahi hain? aap ko andaza hai ke un ke dil par kiya guzregi agar un ko pata chal jae?

aap gareeb hain but aap ke ghar computer hai, net hai, hairat hai bhai.

shayad ap ka khayal hai ke forum par sab bewaqoof log aate hain, jin ko aap stories suna kar impress kar rahi hain.

yeh ek medical forum hai, logon ki laraiyan karne ki jaga nahi hai.

aap yaqeenan meri post par bhi bohot batameezi bhari batein karengi but i don't care b/c aap ne to es forum ke bohot respected members ki bhi insult ki hai to mai to un ke samne kuch nahi hoon.

thanks for reading my post.

khouburat and kali

well said khubsourat
im happy now koi to hay jo mujh say agree karta hay n thnx kali
jo baatian main shaid hina ko nahin keh sakti thi sirf is liye k wo hurt na ho aur dosari yeh waja k main kisi k sath harsh nahi ho sakti aur na he main hina k tarah badtameez hoon

  aik aur baat jo k main tamam mmemberz say karna chahti hoon k yeh website jis maqsad k liye banaai gai thi shaid ab wo kuch yahan par nahi ho raha

v shud bring useful topics up aur if sum1 has dne sum mistake den baki membrz agar uski correction karwatay hain to is main gusa karnay ya hina sahiba ki tarah badtameezi nahin karni chahiyee

 kaali,bewaqoof,my reply(dr sahib),khan_80 n all membrz mairi ap say request hay k aisay topics laain jo k hamari zindagi main koi faaida dain

i no der r many intelectual poepl out der lakin sorry 2 say isi syt pay kuch log aisay bhi hain jo ajeeb say topics lay kar aatay hain jinko i fink discuss nai karna chahiyee

hum sab jantay hain k hamaray haan aisa kuch nahi hota so plzz plzz bring sum useful topics up

aur yahan par baat karatay howay yeh na bhoolain k v r muslims

God bless u all

 do reply me

 thnxx

Re: members

Child Hood

Beta child hood main hoo ais liyeea samj naheen aa raha aap shadi shuda khawateen kay maslay ko atnay Interest say ku parh rahay hoo... sub tumhari Behnain hain.

Brain phir sa geya hai.?? 

acha janab kuch aur phira hoo gaa Akhroot hoo ga. agar tumharay pass Brain hota ttoo tum ais maslay main naa atay. aap aik unmarried person hain so you must imphesis on your work .

Bhai take care.