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My Wife Is Scared Of Pregnancy And Delivery

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Babar khan Group: Members  Joined: 20th Aug, 2009  Topic: 4  Post: 6  Age:  28  
Posted on:20th Aug 2009, 2:20am
 

My Wife Is Scared Of Pregnancy And Delivery

Sb se pehle aap sb ko salam Dr sahib min ny aap se ik mashwara krna hy isiliy min yahan pe rigtr hua hun so plz aap mjhe zaror guaid kijiyga r min nhi chahta k aap meri is post ko parh k meri id....edit email....Com pe hi rply kr dien tamam tafselat se warna furom pe hi rply kr dijiyga min wahin se parh longa pr khudara ignor na kijiyga r help zaror kijiyga mera 5 maheny pehle nikha ho chuka hy r pr meri wife ki abhi rukhsati nhi hoi q k uska bara bhai out of country hy usky any pe hi usky ghar waly uski rukhsati karien ge uski choti wagher ki problem thi isi liy wo jaldi na aaska r chonky card wagher banty ja chuky thy isi liy hamara sirf nikha kr dia gia r min ab us se mil leta hun pr hm ny abhi tk ikdosry ka haq ada nhi kia mtlb sirf 4ply hi kia hy r hamari achi khasi andurstanding hogai hy r kuch hi arsy min uski rukhsati b hojaygi r meri wife ki je problem hy k wo chahti hy k hamary haan 2/3 year tk aulad na ho pata nhi q usky dimagh min kis ny je khuf bitha dia hy k preg k doran larki mar jati hy r bs wo ab isi bat se khof zada hy k agr wo man bany gi to bacha hony k doran wo mar jaygi min ny usy bht smjhya hy pr wo manti hi nhi so ab aap se mashwara kr raha hun plz help me min bht tenshan min hun

I got married 5 months back with reception has not been done till so far. We met together have done foreplay as well. With in few months she will be received by me. She does not want to have children up to 4-5 years since some body has given inspiration that the mother would die during pregnancy or delivery. Therefore she is so much scared about that. I have counseled her so much but she does not try to understand. Please give me some suggestion regarding this issue.



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System Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008  Topic: 40  Post: 2263  Age:  32  
Posted on:20th Aug 2009, 10:01am
 

baber khan

waqt se pehle kyon preshan ho..   you should make rule of your life keh waqt se pehle muamlat ke bare main nahee sochna chahe...  allah per bharosa rakho.. pehle rukhsati hone do aut bevi ko kaho keh its ok .. unki baat ko maan lo for  now... once you meet each other after rukhsati.. then thing will be different and your wife will have more knowledge and will crave for baby inshallah... pehla step pehle .. to pehle rukhsati hone de and dont worry for next step..
sunny007 Group: Members  Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 4216  Age:   
Posted on:20th Aug 2009, 10:13am
 

babar khan

well said by system........

shaied woh shadi k initial years ko enjoy karna chahti hai. q k experts ka kehna hai k shadi k initial saaal bohot enjoyble hote hian, behtar hai k pehle es waqt ko enjoy kia jaie baad man baby ka socha jaie....... agr yeh baat nahi hai to phir rukhsati k baad araam se aap unhe samjha dejiega k pregnancy se kuch nahi hota...... mout ek muqarrar waqt par aata hai jise koi taal nahi sakta, aur na hi koi bari museebat mout ko muqrar waqt se pehle la sakta hai. phir pregnancy to normal phenomena hai....

Doctor K K Group: Members  Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009  Topic: 25  Post: 1969  Age:  36  
Posted on:20th Aug 2009, 12:03pm
 

Re: My Wife Is Scared Of Pregnancy And Delivery

Phobias and Panic disorders:

 We have a list of personality disorders in psychiatry which tells us a lot about the different psychological behaviors of a person. Among these disorders there is a class which is called as "Phobias and Panic Disorders".

Phobia:  It refers to the intense and continuous fear from any upcoming or present situation, any person, any thing or any activities. Like for instance; it is usually thought in our society that if a black cat crosses the path that is not a good sign.

Panic Disorders: People in this condition due to some fear or terror develops unwanted symptoms like excessive sweating, facial expression to have some fear, palpitations, anxiety etc. For instance; if a person has got any thing in the past painful he would scared of having this thing again and whenever he come across the same situation or the things recalls in his mind he start to fall in these unwanted symptoms.

 Types of Panis Disorders:

Obssessive-Compulsive Disorders (OCD): In this condition there are irresistible thoughts and urges to do some thing repeatedly due to repeated unwanted and irresistible thoughts for doing some thing. For instance; a person is unable to prevent him to wash his hands repeatedly even though he know he is repeating it several times.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): This condition develops after trauma, any worse event in the life or any natural disaster. Like for instance; many children went in to PSTD after having destructive earth quake in the northern areas of Pakistan in 2005. They had required psychiatric treatment since they were extremely anxious and depressed. They lost interest in the life and had not been able to forget the past events.

Social Anxiety Disorders: People get fear in the social activities that they are being judged by the other people and hence they remain over conscious in this regard. They try to avoid the social gathering or try to prove up to the mark by different means. Some times they over react in a situation that is totally unwanted.

Specific Phobias: These are due to some situation or event or object that would create certain fear and the person can't be able to get rid of. Like for instance; A person thinks that if his left eye would blink then he would come a cross any danger. Some people get scar when see snakes, other animals etc. Some people avoid going on the height since they think that they may fall down if they ascend on the top.

Generalized Anxiety Disorders: This is with our any real cause of anxiety the marked and unreal worry and tension by a person.

Problem with your wife: Your wife is basically suffering from specific phobic disorder since she is in fear of having pregnancy and delivery and thinking that she might be died if she gets pregnant. As you know in reality this is not the case. Perhaps she had come to know any case in her past that a mother got died while she had been pregnant. Now she had applied this condition over her self and started to think wrongly.

Solution of the problem: She needs counseling and behavioral therapy. I am sure that within few sessions with a psychiatrist or psychologist. She would get a lot of improvement. In your case, it is advisable to receive first your wife and then consult her with a good psychologist or psychiatrist. 

Babar khan Group: Members  Joined: 20th Aug, 2009  Topic: 4  Post: 6  Age:  28  
Posted on:20th Aug 2009, 11:42pm
 

OK

Dekhien je sb to thek hy pr min usy samjha samjha k thaak chuka hun pr wo kisi sorat manti hi nhi r min usky sath koi zabardasti b nhi kr skta q k hm dono ik dosry se bht pyar krty hain r wese b agr zindagi ka aaghaz hi agr jhot ya zabardsti se kia jay to wo rishta kitni dair tk chal skta hy? R rahi pareshan na hony ki baat to Mr agr je aap pe beet rahi hoti to aapko pata chalta aaj min ny last dafa phir jana hy usko samjhany agr aaj b wo apni zid pe arri rahi to mere pass uski bat manny k siva koi chara nhi hy
System Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008  Topic: 40  Post: 2263  Age:  32  
Posted on:21st Aug 2009, 2:56pm
 

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Dekhein ji ham app ko samjha samjha ke thek gay hain ke apni bevi ko mat samjhao.. 
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