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kam_ali |
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| Posted on:15th May 2007, 3:35pm |
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 Why Wife Should Be Younger Than Husband?
Only serious members are requested to comment, specially kali zuban. Hi all, I want to ask why it is urged that the age of female should be less than its male partner? What are the consequences if both have same age or wife is older than husband? |
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Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:15th May 2007, 8:38pm |
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re: kam_ali male dominancy.
mardo ki nafsiat hai keh wo har mamle mai bivi se bartar ho. aur isi tarah bivi ki nafsiat hoti hai keh os ka husband har mamle mai os se bartar ho.
lehaza aisi shadi jis mai mard bivi se bartar ho tu dono satisfy rahte hai. jabke agar mard bivi se kamtar ho tu mard ihsas-e-kamtari ka shikar hojata hai aur bivi bhi aise shohar se zahni tor par mutmain nahi hoti.
is lia ziadah ideal shadi yeh hai keh mard bivi se aga, taleem aur dolat mai ziada ho. agar teeno mai ziada ho tu bahut hi achcha hai agar teeno mai mumkin na ho tu jis mai bhi ziadah ho sake behtar hai.
ziadah ka yeh matlab bhi nahi keh bahut ziadah. balke 19 / 20 ho.
lekin is ka yeh matlab bhi nahi keh agar bivi har mamle mai shohar se ziadah ho tu shadi kamiab nhi hoti. aisi shadi har hal mai kamiab hoti hai jis mai bivi apne shohar ko mijazi khuda tasleem karti hai. khwah shohar age taleem aur dolat mai kam hi kio na ho.
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khan_80 |
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| Posted on:15th May 2007, 11:41pm |
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re: its only an adopted custom that the wife should be younger than husband. if we look towards our Islamic history, there are many successful marriages where husband was younger than wife. everybody knows that our holy Prophet(p.b.u.h) was not only younger than Hazrat Khadija(r.a.t.a) but also she was financially more strong and sound. They set an example for the muslims but we don't follow the right spirit of Islam.
The idea behind this marriage was to convey all the muslims this message that these things donot matter in a successful marriage but this is a deep rooted custom now in our society.
personally, i have seen many couples with age differences in husband and wife but leading very happy life.
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Ibn E Adam |
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| Posted on:26th Dec 2011, 1:10pm |
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ages jahan tak mera khayal hai k wife ki umer km is liyay chahte hain k male ki normal sex life 60 ki umer tak hota hai lekin female ki manuepause 40 ki umer se bhi ho sakti hai
isi liye is 15 saal k feraq ko cover kiya jata hai
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rich bay |
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| Posted on:23rd Feb 2012, 8:01am |
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AGE FACTOR ACCORDING TO ISLAM jab larki jawan ho jay juld sa juld shadi kar dane chaya takah wo zeyada sa zeyada bacha paida kar saka
accoding to islam us orat sa shadi karo jo zeyada bacha jana. |
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tote_sapne |
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| Posted on:23rd Feb 2012, 8:06am |
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ye old thread pe q post hmm ur right richboy jese urt koi bacha dene ki koi machin ho
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yashfeen |
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| Posted on:23rd Feb 2012, 10:29am |
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yes! its islamic pt of view ,k aisi aurat se shadi karni chahiy jo deendar ho aur jo zyada bachhe junne wali ho |
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tote_sapne |
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| Posted on:23rd Feb 2012, 10:33am |
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hmmm or yh bhi hai ke ladki kuwari se hi or kam age wali se shadi krni chahye .....phr baki urato ka kya hoga......
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mairak |
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| Posted on:24th Feb 2012, 4:00am |
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Mera b yehi sawal hai Iss misconception na meri life kafi disturb ki huwi hai. yehi reason ha jisski waja se meri shadi nai ho saktee meray bf se. |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:24th Feb 2012, 4:14am |
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rawaj rawaj per amal nahi kerna chahay...maira ap young larkay say be shadi ker sakti hoo..is may problem to nahi ha |
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tote_sapne |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2012, 1:14am |
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maira ap young boy se shadi kar skti ho is koi burai nhi hai kya apka bf apse shadi ke lye razamn hai to agr yes ap shadi krlo or hasbnd is lye wife choti chahte hai q ke urat jald budhi ho jati hai or jese ke males jald budhe nhi hote pr urat ho jati hai or is ly bhi krte hai ke bache ziada paida kr ske ........
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mairak |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2012, 4:02am |
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sapna and goodman nahee mera bf pehla kehta tha ke kerletay hin abi nahee. he does not want to marry me. he said he can not cause of family. wo single male child ha arents ka aur eldest b iss liye wo ni ker sakta.Mujhy lagta hai jab wo pehlay kehta tha usko tabi mujhy accept ker lena chahye tha proposal but i was scared k ye abi khud financialy secue ni ha tou muja kessay support karega?Mujy b yehi darr tha k uski family hamain zalil karegi issi liye nahee manti thee ma. ab tou wo b kafi aware ha situation sa isss liye wo khud b maturely yehi kehta hai k ye munasib nahee warna meri family mujhy tou jo marzi kahy so kahay tmko b khear karegi. |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2012, 4:08am |
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sapna and maira agree with sapna..bohat acha reply kiya ha
maira to pher ap apnay b/f koo bhool kyoo nahi jati hoo |
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tote_sapne |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2012, 4:12am |
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maira apki bat bhi sahi hai uski famly apki respect shyd nhi krti to ap koi mature hi kisi bnde se krlo shadi
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tote_sapne |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2012, 4:14am |
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maira ur rght gudmn maira sis phr kya fiada bf rkhne ka leave him and thnk about ur feature .
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mairak |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2012, 5:01am |
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goodman chat me reply kert hun yahan thread divert ho ra hai |
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