Assalam-u-alikum Dr. Rizwan Shab, umeed hai aap khairiyat say hoon gay,

Sir, Aap kehtay hain key wedding first night ko sex say pehlay valima nahin hota, theek hai aap ki is baat say mein agree karta hoon, magar mera aap say sawal hai kay agar mujhay aulaad (children) kuch arsay tak nahin chaiye due to some salary problem aur kia mein shaddi ki pehli raat ko apni wife kay saat mubasirat (Intercourse) kartay waqt condom use kar sakta hoon, aur kia yeh zaroori hai kay shaddi ki pehli raat ko wife kay sath intercourse katay waqt mani vagina mein dalna zaroori hai. Agar mein apni mani (semen) bahir hi discharge kar daita hoon tu kia mera valima ho jaye ga, zara detail mein bataye ga umeed hai aap samaj gaye hoon gaye,

Allah Hafiz.