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salma786 |
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 7:20am |
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 Vaginal Elasticity: Can I Re-Gain It?
AsalamoAlaikum :dr sahb mera 5 saal pehlay nikah hoa tha .abi rukhsati nahi hoi thi,per meray husband nay 2 bar sex kia.aur divorce de di.abh meri shaadi hay ,,to kia meray husband ko pata chal jay ga k mainay sex kia tha.main kisi majbori ki wahja se onko sab detail nahi bata sakti wo bohat nik insaan hay..aur main bhi koi galat kaam nahi kerti jee 5 waqt ki namazi hun..bas naseeb main ye likha tha shayd..is baat ko 5 saal ho gay hein,first time bleeding bhi hoi thi ..plz meri pareshaani ka koi hal batein
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aliaslam |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 76 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 7:41am |
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Salma App nain bari galti ki jo Rukhsti say pehly sex ker liya shyed isi waja say aap k Shoar nain aap ko choor diya, Kayun k us Bagarit ka matlib nikle geya tha
Doosry bat k aap ka new Mian bara naik hai, To phir yeh to us bahut hi bari zaiadty aur Dokka hai
jahan tak pata chalny ki bat hai to mery khayl main chal hi jata hai
Dr, many ya na manian.jo marzi likhen haqeqat nahin badal sakti
Pehli rat ko Bleeding k 99% chance hoty hain ager aap nain pehly intercourse na keya ho jaisa aap nain bataya k mujay Bleeding hoie thi, is ka matlab hai ab nahinho gi, intercourse k bad aga bi khul jati hai
main bi aap ko na keh ker satisfied ker sakta hoon,
laken manaisa nahin karoon ga aap apna mind bana lain
apny mian ko bata daina chaye ager bad main koi masla hoya to Allah na kary aik bar phir aap ko Divorse ho jaye |
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aliaslam |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 76 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 7:46am |
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Kehty hain k First night main Bleeding aur Dard lazmi nahi hai
ok man lety hain k aisa ho sakta hai laken kabi kabi
in Doonoon ko ignore b ker dain, laken main phir b yeh zaroor kahoon ga k pata chal jata hai k lkarki nain pehly Intercourse keya hai ya nahin
100%
fingring ki ho us say pata chal jata hai laken is main shak reh jata hai
meger intercourse keya ho to koi bat chup nahi sakti
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aliaslam |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 76 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 7:49am |
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aur mer khayal main kisi ko waqti tasali dainy ki bajay Haqeeqat bata di jay to zaida behter hai ta k wo koi is ka hal nikal sakain
Bad main pata chaly ga to zaida mushkal ho gi |
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My Reply |
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 8:35am |
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re: salma786 1. nikah ke bad sex islamic point se allow hai lekin cultural point of view se theek nahi hai.
2. ap ki doosri jagah shadi mai yeh bat bati gai hai keh nikah hua tha lekin rukhsati nahi. is ka yahi matlab nikalta hai keh larki ne sex nahi kia hai. aisi larkio ko qabool kar lia jata hai. aur ap ko bhi qabool kar lia gia hai.
3. agar ap shadi se qabal ya bad yeh batai keh ap ne sex bhi kia tha tu yeh kisi bhi tarah qabil qabool nahi hai.
4. jis tarah koi larki shadi se qabal sex karti hai (gunah) lekin wo kabhi bhi apne shohar ke samne iqrar nahi karti. bilkul isi tarah ap apne previou sex (jo keh gunah nahi hai) ka zikir apne shohar se nahi kare.
5. agar shadi ki rat ko bleeding nahi hoti hai tu ap is ke lia kuch bhi bahana kar de kio keh hymen sex ke beghair bhi rupture ho jata hai.
6. agar ap ke sach par ap ka shohar ap ko maaf bhi karde tu phir bhi woh nafsiati hojai ga. yeh soch soch kar os ki neend ur jai gi keh os ki qismat hi kharab hai jo keh os ko virgin bivi nahi mili.
7. lehaza mera mashwarah hai keh sach bata kar ap apne husband ko dukh ke siwa aur kuch na de gi. aisa sach jo doosro ko dukhi kar de nahi bolna chahia.
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salma786 |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 2:08pm |
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vagina jee main apnay husband ko dhoka to nahi deina chahti per kia karun naseeb nay majboor ker dia hay....plz muhje kuch mashwara dein k jis se onko pata na chaly..kiyun k wo muhje se bohat piyar kertay hein aur main majboor hun..kia shaadi ki raat kuch acting ki ja sakti hay k onko shak na ho??ya blood giraia ja sakta hay?aik insaan nay muhje tabah ker dia hay abh main kia kao to kia karun?plz help me?plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 2:17pm |
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Re: salma786 Sister, meri dil sai dua hai kai Allah aap ki problem solve karay aur aap ki coming life ko azmaishon sai mehfooz rakhay. ameen
My Reply is right kai aisa jhoot behter hai jis sai kisi ko koi dukh na ho us sach sai jis sai koi problem create ho.
Ali aslam is also right but zaroori nahin kai yeh baat khul hi jaye, agar is baat ko chupanay sai sab theek rehta hai tu yahi kaha ja sakta hai kai its better kai aap na hi batain. Allah behter janta hai.
Its a difficult situation, aap ko waqt aur situation kai hisab sai faisla karna ho ga. Allah aaap ki help karay.
Regarding dropping blood, what type of blood you can drop there, aur us ko kia pata nahin chalay ga. Drs can better suggest in this regard. thanks
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Mrs Ahmed |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jul, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 2:40pm |
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4 all da galz rukhsati say pehlay yeh sab howa sab apki apni he galti thi aur ab ap kismat ko ilzam day rahi hain
yeh bohat asaan tareeka hay khud ko ehsaas-e-gunnah say bachanay ka
all galz b care full apki chooti si galti sari omer k liye musibat ban sakti hay
Allah ap sab ko apni hifazat main rakhay ammeen
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salma786 |
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 4:38pm |
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 salam.....
kia ye baat theek hay k ager koi aurat kuch arsa sex na karay to to oski vagina normal halat main khud hi aajati hay.....????matlb jesay muhje 5 saal ho gay hein??? |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2007, 1:32am |
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re: salma786 The elasticity of vagina can be re-gained but the ruptured hymen can not take its original position except by surgery. |
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Waqar |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Jul, 2007 Topic: 5 Post: 24 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2007, 5:10am |
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salma Salma,
Whatever happened has happened. You can not change it. Get married and be happy with your husband. Do not ask for people coments, this will only make you misrable. |
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SHAIR-28 |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2007, 5:18am |
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 BLOODING IS NOT NECESSARY.
Blooding is not necessary at first intercourse its related to PARDA-E-BAKARAT. And pada-e-bkarat can be broken with out intercourse like jumping/falling etc. so don’t worry blooding is not necessary. So need to drop blood.
When u offer pray five time a day so believe me good is with u. because Allah Tala wait for us “kay insane too muhj say mang main atta karoon ga”and which sex u made its after Nikha. It should not be happened but now its has been done so don’t think deeply other wise u will NAFSEYATI.
I m agree with my reply. It was complete reply for you.
Regards
Shair |
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salma786 |
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| Posted on:31st Jul 2007, 3:16am |
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thanx shair bhai app theek kehtay hein k jab mainay koi gunah nahi kia tha to fiqer kesi.....haan galti zaroor thi ye k rukhsati ho jati to hota sabh .....per pata hay bhai mera khial tha k aik biwi ko apnay husband ki baat manni chaheay nahi to Allah naraz ho jay ga......aur husband nay badlay main muhje sari umer ka dokh de dia.......khair muhje lagta hay shayd ye mera sabr hi tha k Allah nay abh muhje farishtay jesa Husband denay ka fehsala kia hay aur main apnay mian sahb ko dukhi nahi kerna chahti aur na hi onki nazruh main girna chahti hun.......so plz app sab se iltamas hay k meray liay duaa kijiay gaaaa......k mera future meray past se behter ho..Ameen,bye.............je main apna profile delete kerna chahti hun oska kia tarika hay plz bata dijiay...................
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