 Three Years Passed, I Am Still Un-Married: What Shoul I Do?
Dear Forum Members, and Dr Sb Assalam-o-Alaikum Aaj se 1 year pehle, mai ne aap k forum per ek post create ki thi, k jis se mohabbat ki jaati hai, kya us se fone sex kernay mai gunah to nahi???
uska jawab mujhe bohot acha mila! lekin ab jo post main likhne jaraha hoon, thori se long hogi...lekin samjhdaar log sachaee se isko read karain aur iska jawab achay alfaaz mai likhain plz
i m working in Lahore! mujhe apnay village mai ek ladki se mohabbat hai, basically i m belongs to a little town in Sindh, but due to reason of my job and family nowadays livin in Lahore.
humari mohabaat ko 3 years se ziyada ka waqt guzar chukka hai, aur is waqt k darmiyan mai ne apni family ko 4 times bheja rishtay k liye! lekin uska Bada bhai nahi maanta...aur bar bar inkaar kerta hai, kehta hai lahore bohot duur hai, aur meri cast mai usne rishta nahi dena, lekin ALLAH ka shukar hai k humari cast mai koi buraee nahi, litracy rate, aur her lihaaz se achay hai hum log, lekin sab se badi ZAAT to KHUDA ki hai....
khair waqt guzarta gaya! humari mulaqat shayad 1 year mai maximum 5 times hui, wo bhi mai chup ker jata aur mil ker wapis ajata
mohabaat aur jawani ki aag dono taraf bohot barabar ki hai, wo jawan, khubsurat aur sharm-o-haya rakhnay wali ek pyaari se ladki hai, jisko main apni shareek-e-hayat banana chahta hoon, masla ye hai dosto! k humari rozana fone per baat hoti hai, aur aaj kal ki young generation kya kuch nahi kerti on the fone! mera masla bhi yahi hai, humari sms, fone and MMS per baat hoti hai, lekin humari shadi nahi hui, lekin insaan galti ka putla hai, mohabbat ki aag jab dil mai bharakti hai to insaan gunaah ko bhool jata hai, main uske saath fone per sexy baatain kerta hoon, jisterha ek husband apni wife se kerta hai, aur us se uski her cheez aur sharamgaah k baaray mai bhi baatain kerta hoon, during our this conversation! now its routine that k main discharge hojata hoon! aur zid kerke main us se uski fotos bhi maangta hoon, wo bohot inkaar kerti hai, lekin meri zid, pyaar aur doori ki khatir wo mujhe bhej deti hai, lekin aaj tak uski aisi bheji koi cheez apnay pas save nahi ki, dekhi aur usi waqt ya maximum kuch hours tak rakhi phir delete kerdi
aur haan after many months jab humari mulaqat hoti hai to main usko bohot pyaar kerta hoon, intercourse aaj tak nahi kiya, lekin iske siva choomna, aur uske jism se khud ko taskeen zaroor pohchata hoon, kyunke main majboor hojata hoon
Dr sb and friends First of all....DUA karain k hum log jaiz hojaen ek doosray k liye! Is gunah bhari zindagi se nikal ker ek sakoon aur izzat bhari zindagi guzarain
aur doosra ye batayen k kya aisi haalat mai ye kitna bara gunah hai mere liye
hoping for a positive and respectful reply from all of you guys
Thanks
ALLAH HAFIZ
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