Tense Situation With My Wife

Dear Phychologist: Doctors , Assalm-o-Alaikum;

Pleaz read carefuly and answe me sorry for lenthy.....               

  Last time main nay aik mail ki the jo ka galban sept or oct mail likht thi kah agar bivi suhag raat main koee shartin rakhay tou kia karna chaya.
iss ka jawab tha ka suhag raat mani koeee bhe larki jitni marzi choo chaan karnay wali hoo naheen bolti, Lakan meray sath yahi hova. 

                Asal main meri shadi jahan per hovi haa wahan per kafi ikhtafat thay uss ki waja thi meray ghar waly uss larki ko accept karnay ko tayra naheen (Parents) kunkhay aik pahly hee larki thi yani bhabhi ki pahan say bhabi ko achi tarah say janti theey kah wo larian karti haa aour phir ghar waloon ki Hamray, respetct naheen karti thi bemari ka bahana kia jab khabi un ka ghar gaye  , aour hamray ghar waloon ko ghar main na anay ka kaha gia jab kay wo to bhaee ka ghar tha.

bhaee asal main bivi ki hee favour karta haa chaha woo ghalat hoo ya sahi.etc. aour bohat kuch haa is ahwal main batanyy ka laya iss waja say ghar wala iss rishtay say oppose kartay raha aour main nay haan ki  aour phir inkar kar dia kunkay bhabi naheeb badli the mera taqaza tha kah bhabi ko pahlay change karo woo sab say mafi mangay etc.

lakan... Phir bhee ki sali ki mangi kissi aour JAGA ho gai aour phir bhaee na zabardasti mangni ko torwa dia aour kaha kah pahlay hamra haq haa. kafi jaghra hova lakan bhe nay kaha ka ham dono aik hoo jayan gay aour iss tahra say achi life banay  gi aour mera agay bhaee nayy reqest ki hath bandy bohat kuch kia phir mian nay ghar waloo ki mukhlfat ka bawjood yes kar dia. .....kafi labhi datan haa..

after marriage

suhaag raat main bivi jagra karti haa kah muj ko inkar kun kia thaa aour phir muj ko ab car chaya muj ko ab itna gold doo muj ko har facility doo muj ko uss nay full presaurize kia main nay kaha theek haa sab kuch donga Agar Allah nay chaha tou sab kuch ban jaya ga. raat ko mubashrat no ho saqi iss wja say tense raha walima hova phir muklawa phir wapsi susram main bhi baray nakhray tha ful preasur kia ja raha tha lakam main khamoshi say face kar raha thaa bhee ko sab inform kia kay yaa ab bi shadi ka baad bhi jagra kar rahi haa iss wajay say inkar tha kah ya khanda jhagraloo haa. lakan bhee sahib jhoti tasli detayrah.

                    Jab frist time mubashrat ki thi tou bleeding naheen hovi booli kah woo dekho bleeding ho rahi haa woo chadar kharb haa woo ....... lakan kuch bhi nahen tha ? main nay chor di ...baat..kk phir kam shoro hova next day aour main nah uss ko ai short main 5 bar 4 bar jitna uss ki demand thi orgsm dia as per direction book for men after reading. lakan kuch samaj main nahee ata kah uss ko meray sath kun naheen raha jata bazahar tou bari muabat jitati thi ka ab mazi bhool kar future banatay haa lakan 4-5 hor ka baad phir koe jhagra fasad na ghar sambalna na mera dreesse ko tayr kanra na cooking karna siraf ready mand bazri khanay khana aour enjoy karna.            

Main nay uss say kayee bar sawal kia kah meri taraf say koo physical proble tou naheen feel hoti ko sex ka bara mian kami tou naheen haa pori satisfaction haa boliti haa theek haa lakan phir bhi uss ka mind meray saath na mil saka woo muj ko apni Jhooti mohabat dikha kar mera ooper hukmani karna chahti haa jasay uss ki bari bahan nay meray bhee ko Ran mureed banaya hova haa aour uss ko apni finger per nichati haa etc.

meray kahay main kia uss ka koee mazi main affaris tha jasay uss nay kaha ka woo bleeding hovi woo................. rona makari sab kuch uss main main nay paya kia main iss condition main uss ko talaq dey doo............aour uss nay khud bhi kaha tha kah muj ko talaq de doo..................uss ki phalay bhi kaee bar mangni tooot chuki thi........... plz reply me and guid me correct direction what to doo. in future . Note.

main nay uss kay ghar walloon bata dia haa espacily bhayee kko  kah main dosri bive karlonga ya mera haq haa. ( kun kay woo mera satth sex main pora co-operate bhe naheen kariti haa ) Bohat ziada parashan hoo.............

SECOND MORE

phir main nay uss ka bhee ko bata dia haa kah aap ki bhana mera sath rehna nahee chati agar naehee thi tou phir shadi kun ki haa. meray mind ka mutabk uss k koe mazi main affairs tha kisi qazan ka sath hoo sakta haa aour woo uss ki yaad main rahti haa ku n ka jab main mubashrat karta tha thou uss ka chara kuch sochoon main gum hoo jata tha mian nay kaee bar pocha kia sochti hoo tou bolti haa nahee kuch nahee bas idher other ki baat kar kay mera mind badal deti thi...main nay phir uss say shadi ka 2 mths ka baad pocha kah tumhari beeding nahee hovi thi aour tum nay shoor kun dala thaa siraf muj ko tasli kay laya????? to jawab tha kah main tou aap ka paass thi main kooee kissi our jaga tou nahee gaye th main na kaha kah jab bhi munbashrat hoti haa bleeding lazmi hoti haa lakan tumhar bleeding kun naheen hoive tou jawab mashkook tha gair tasli baksh tha.. kun kay uss ki harkat aour baat karnay aour sex mian batain karna ka meri falan sahli ka mian us ki vigina ko kiss karta ha aour mian nay kaha kah woo haram haa aour phir kafi cheezin haan iss tarah mera mind kahta haakha woo kahan aour per koee love wagara karti rahi haa jo kah uss ko bhool nahee naheen raha...

Kia main dori shadi kar lon in halat main pori zindagi kasay guzra sakti haa aour kia main uss ko talaq don ..lakan bhee sahib naheeb maan rahay haan aour force kar rahay haan kah tum teek hoo wwo theek hoo jayyee gee lakan uss ka zahan per koee asar naheen hota haa. ......

3rd

last week uss na batay kah uss kay medical test postive aya haan haour woo ab pregnat hoo chuki haa. in halat main uss ko ab talaq bhi nahee ho sakti kunkay wo pregnant haa.?? Woo bolti haa ka mera main mera farmabrdar ban jaya uss kay apnay alfaz haan woo sex ko meri kamzori bana kar meri hukmrani karna chahti haa aik tarf lakan sex ka hawalay say main uss say pori tara say motamain naheen hoo jaha tak mera khayal haa woo babay laker secure hona chahti haa aour woo kam ho chuka haa kai kia jayay....

book read karvaye

re: me and my wife

Ograsm ka bad tou bivi mian ki bari care karti haa na ki sach haa agar haa tou phir asa kun haa???????

Allah nay mard ko aik darja aourat say agay dia hova haa , Main nay suna ha kafi logon say kah Jab Bivi ko mian Sexualy tour per satisfy kardeta haa mukamal tour per tou woo main ki har bat maanti haa uss ka har tarah say khayal rakhti haa dress , cooking etc. Lakan ya sab suna hova bekar lagta ha ab. Kia jab larki pahli dafa kissi say sex karti ha aour us ko bleeding hoti haa tou woo uss patner ko naheeb bholti haa? Agar yes haa tou shyed phir meri itani mahnat kam naheen kar rahi haa. Yaar 1-45 mint tak kaee Oragsm denay ka bawjood bhi woo meray sath sahi bivi ki tara rehna naheen chahti siraf family ka preasure per woo meray sath reh reahi haa………

                        Aik aham bat aour ya haa ka uss ki bari bahan ki shadi 5 sal pahly hovi thi us kay mian ka problem ha kay wo sexually un-fit haa our ko baby naheen haa Jabki sab say bari bahan mer bhabi haa. 2 no wali say woo sari baat alf say yaa tak share karti haa ya us nay muj ko baton main kafi dafa zikar kia tha. woo bhi uss ko ultay sadhay mashwaray deti rahti haa aoor rat 11-12 bajy mubashrat ka time per khas tour per tang karti rahi haa jiss tarah say main nay feel kia ka uss ko jalan hoti hogi..???

                        Shadi say pahlay meri wife nay batay tha kah woo muj say shadi naheen karna chahti because of families tensions. Kafi us nay uss waqt meri insult bi kit ha shadi say pahly main woo recording sari bhee ko sunwa de. Lakan bhee nay meri na suni aour kaha kah shadi ka bad sab  theek hoo jaya gat um ghabroo naheen etc. Lakan shadi kay baad woo Sali ki hamayt karta aour erou meray oper pressure dalta haa kah Talaq naheen dene muj ko mar kar talaq dena etc.

              Meray parents ab beh kahaty haan kay sari zindaqi iss nay aisay hee guzarni haa yaa theek nahen hogi kukay bari bhabi (us ki bhan ) nay meray bhee ka jena mahal kia hova haa 18 sall shadi ko hoo gaya haan woo bhaee say dress wash karwati haa aour ghar kay saray kam bhi leti haa etc. Similary woo muj ko aisa hee karna chahti haa ????? Main nay kaha ka ghar sambalan aik achi bivi ki zuma dari hoti haa our Mian ki zumadari Icome provide karna hota haa.. Lakan woo suni un suni ker deti haa.

                        Woo meri naheen siraf cheezo ki zaver ki aour kaproon ki bhooki haa baray jhoot bolti haa , Meri bahan ko kahti thi kah chaloo tuhara kiss jaga chakar chalwa doon ? main nay kaha kia ya pechay say char chalati ayii haa? dosri bat shadi say pahly woo meray bhaee kay ghar per thi apni bari bahan ka gahr per tou main nay kal ki aour kaha kahan ho tou boti haa kah apni Khala kay ghr per hoon.  Phir main nay 5 mints baad asay hee bhee ko fone kia tou bhee nay kaha kay tumhari mangater hamray ghar mian haa kal say. Muj ko bara ghusa aya. ??Etna bara jhoot phir ghabra gayee kahan woo mazaq kia tha main nay kaha kah aj aisa ha phir shadi ka baad tou aor zida jhoot bolay gi..

Not agree with ur reply

main ap kay iss jawab sa motameen naheen hoon.

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qassimf yor answer is touching

yes bro your anser is touching aap nay sahi kaha haa kah main kafi had tak iss baat ka khud hee zumadar hoon lakan bhee nay kaha tha kah main khud ko mar longa aour bhee nay asal main us ski engagement cancel karwa di thi jahan per us ski shadi honay wali thi aour iss tarha say bhee nay 4 admion main hami bhar li aour phir meray parents ka agay ja kar rooya mafian mangi kah ab meri ezat rakh lain jabka main uss waqt bhi agree naheen tha..

aap ki baat bilkul theek haa kah us ski bahnoo ka paka hath haa aour woo bari technique say meray sath behave karti haa.

Uss say main nah pocha tha kah woo kia chahti haa suhag  rat main boli tha kah man nay badla lena haa apna uss beziti ka.

Woo bari makari karti haa jab char 5 dafa talaq ka kaha tou kahti haa ab talaq naheen dena haa main ap ki marzi say chalogi lakan woo meray sath co-operate bhi sahi naheen karti haa (mubashrat) main rukawatin daliti haa. Uss ka batay tha kaee bar kah yak am naiki haa kia main tumharay alwa kissi aour kay pass jaoon kia tum iss bat ko passan karogi  tou bolti haa naheen hagaz nahee iss thara say lakan bara hee mushkal safar lag raha haa. Uss ko chorna hee paray ga Maray parents nay muj ko 2 shadi ki ajazat dedi haa main nay bhi larki waloo ko kah dia haa agar yaa theek nahee hovi tou mian dosri shadi kar longa .. jiss ka jo ji chaha mera phir kar lay deaikh longa yam era relegios and legal haq haa.??

Ab woo pregnant haa ki pragnatn main talaq ho jati haa kah naheen??

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