khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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Posted on:1st Mar 2007, 8:20am |
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Survey about oral sex
Last month we received tens of posts abour "Oral Sex", "Is Oral Sex Allowed in Islam?", "Is oral Sex Right?" etc. So we decided to conduct a survey to all married members of the forum.The un mearried members can also answer the questions regarding their future matrimonial life. The questions are...
1)Do you like oral sex? 2)Do you implement oral sex while making sex with your wife? 3) If yes then why? 4) Do your wife also takes part from her side in Oral Sex? 5)Is it necessary? 6)If you dont like oral sex then tell that how sex is great without oral sex? Instructions! For answers just write the question number and then write your answer. Before writing answer specify whether you are married or un married.
Serious replys only! Example of Answering/replying post is;
Married/Unmarried 1) No or yes 2) No or yes 3) .......................... 4)........................... 5)........................... 6)...........................
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khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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Posted on:1st Mar 2007, 9:50am |
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My Opinion! Married
1)No
2)No
3)No
4)No
5) It is not necessary.Life is great without oral sex.
6)I make my sex wonderful by altering different sexual positions.I fell great sex experience after a long forplay with my wife.Due to personal dislikeness i hate Oral sex and make my sex wonderful without it. |
Mehmood |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Feb, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 15 Age:
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Posted on:1st Mar 2007, 10:36am |
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Opinion No.2
Married, (only Nikkah)
1) No
2) No, in future i never plan to do so.
3) No
4) No, i suppose not at all. She even don't like the passionate french kiss using tongue.
5) No, Life is great without it. Can we ever suppose that the great islamic personalities ever got indulged into such activities NOOOOO!!! simply it means its a dirty thing. It doesn't suit a Muslim.
6) its great for the western society where gora/gori use to take naked bath at the beaches and have no concept of haya. They have no other SERIOUS PLEASURE in only sex, so they use it. Ours society is totally different, we can fully enjoy the simple sex activities also. PLZ think before copying the western norms.
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atypk |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Feb, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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Posted on:1st Mar 2007, 12:51pm |
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 UnMarried
1)Yes
2)No
3)No
4)No
5) It is not necessary. but If wife and husband have no problem doing it then it is OK.
6)Oral sex is just one way of sexual pleasure. I think in Pakistan it is mostly dislike by female . So in future may be I will not able to do oral sex too. If wife like it then it is another case.
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khan_G |
Group: Members Joined: 15th May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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Posted on:2nd Sep 2009, 6:45pm |
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MY opinion 1) Yes
2)NO
3)Because it gives great pleasure to women. And it is good foreplay.and there is no islamic ban on it
4)NO
5)Yes |
shahz_lhr |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Nov, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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Posted on:27th Dec 2009, 6:31am |
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shahz_lhr yes
yes
because feel lightly
yes
offcourse
i like it very much and i did oral sex minum 2 to 3 hours continue
i am divorced because i am not discharge before an hour and my ex wife didnt response and she took KHULA |
aflatoon618 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Dec, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 26 Age:
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Posted on:27th Dec 2009, 11:56pm |
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my answer unmarried 1. yes i like 2. i would do so. 3. to explore the sensations and satisfections the oral sex cause. and according to my study about sex in islam the answar to the question by an IMAAM was its okay. 4. no i wont let her suck my penis because in that case some of my pre ejaculation fluid might go though her throat with is makrooh according to islaam. but i could lick her vagina. but she can suck my penis only in case of condom on my penis. 5. i dont think its necessory for every one. because some ppl feel shame. some hasitate to put their moth in there. so it depends on your taste of sex.
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aflatoon618 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Dec, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 26 Age:
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Posted on:27th Dec 2009, 12:12pm |
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in the favour of my answer The issue of oral sex is governed by two conditions:
(1) It should not cause any harm, (2) It should not lead to any najis (impure) substance being swallowed.
Allah knows best. May Allah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
From Sheikh Yusuf Abdullah Al-Qaradâwi (from IslamOnline):
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise
and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His
Messenger. I was asked about oral sex in America and Europe
when I began to travel to these countries in the early 70s. We are not
used to be asked these questions in our Muslim countries. Those Western
people are accustomed to stripping naked during sexual intercourse.
These are communities of nakedness, and from the licentiousness of the
woman that she wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life. So
they are in need of more excitements during copulation. However, men in
our Muslim societies see nothing in the Muslim woman that can excite
them on the basis of her wearing either Hijab (veil) or Niqab (face
cover). But concerning whether being in complete nakedness during
practicing copulation is lawful or not, the Prophet of Allah, peace and
blessings be upon him, is reported to have said, "Guard your private
parts except from your wife or your slaves." Muslim jurists are of the
opinion that it is lawful for the husband to perform cunnilingus on his
wife, or a wife to suck her husband's penis (fellatio) and there is no
wrong in doing so. But if sucking leads to releasing semen, then it is
Makrooh (blameworthy), but there is no decisive evidence (to forbid
it). These parts are not dirty like anus, but it is normally disgusting
to man. But there is no decisive evidence to make it unlawful,
especially if the wife agrees with it or gets her ecstasy by practicing
it. Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: "And
who guard their modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that
their right hands possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who
so craveth beyond that, such are transgressors." (Al-Mu'minoon: 5-7) Allah Almighty knows best.
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