 ur friends are absolutely absolutely absolutely wrong. don't be confused. u r normal and wife never look for the size of her husband. she only wants love, care, respect and trust from her husband. if u can not give these things then it is troublesome but regarding size or duration, dont worry. ur size is normal. 8-10 inches are quite painful for the wife. she dislikes it. and about timings, read books available on this site and ask ur wife also, to read them.
The sexual relationship b/w husband and wife is purely a secret thing and ALLAH want us to hide it from everybody(family/friends/relatives), and if people discuss these things openly in circle of friends then this kind of misunderstandings and confusions occur as u mentioned in ur question.
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