Disguised |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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Posted on:26th Nov 2008, 2:50pm |
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My Friend Having Sex with a Girl, Is She Pregnant?
Salam Alaikum All,
I'm not quite sure if this is the right place to post this question but I don't find any suitable category for this.
One of my friends recently had sex with a girl for the first time. It was the first time for both of them so you could understand what could've happened. I know this is not really good but we can't stop somethings from happening.
Now the worst thing that happened is that my friend left some of the scum inside the girl. And now he is worried (he should be). It's been like more than 15 days since this happened and that girl never took any medication to stop pregnancy.
1)- Is this possible she could be pregnant? (In my opinion yes she could but I would love a clear cut answer).
2)- How long this girl has to stop pregnancy if this happens?
3)- What medicine should be used for this purpose.
Any help would be really appreciated as this is very serious.
Awaiting quick responses from doctors as well as Members.
Regards
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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Posted on:26th Nov 2008, 3:54pm |
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Ab kuch bhi nahin hosakta :-( Brother
It is late ab kuch bhi nahin hosakta app ek Kam Karsakti hai Appni DOST ko 3 ya 4 slaps marsakti hai aur kuch bhi nahin :-(
App ki dost ne jis LArki se SEx kia hai, app ne nahin bataya ki woh app ki dost ki mangetar hai ya serf Girlfriend.........?????????????
aur dosri Baat jab app ka dost aur woh larki sex karna chati thi to onko Sex karne se pehli prevention ki bare sochna chahey tha, jo ono ne nahin kia..... to ab result dono ko bugatna hoga.....
Aur 15 days ago sex kiya hai my Lord, aur ab poch rahe hai ki kia karo?????
App on se kahe kuch na karo sharifzady gomo nacho aur aish manao........ this is ironic sentence :-(
yeh serf bory baat nahin bohut bara gunah hai,,,,,, aur yeh bhi hosakta hai ki woh larki ab tak pregnant ho choki ho........ab koi bhi kuch nahin karsakta.....
Apni dost se kahe jise sex ki hai osi se shadi kare esi mein dono ki balaye hai.
Astaghferullah..... Qayamat nazdeek hai......... |
sunny007 |
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Posted on:27th Nov 2008, 10:41am |
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dear brother aap muje ek mature insan maloom hote ho,
agar aap aisa karo ge k un donon ki shadi ka kuch kar sakte ho to bohot achi baat hogi.
wo dono larki aur larka gunahgar hain, aur es gunah ka kafara sirf shadi hai, q k Pakistan ka court to unhe kooron ki saza to nahi sunaiegi aur na hi mere khayal se wo es k lie tayar honge, bas yahi ek solution hai k wo dono shadi kar le, aur apni gunnah ki touba kare |
Disguised |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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Posted on:29th Nov 2008, 10:24am |
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Not Quite Sure
I really appreciate both of your opinions guys but To be honest I am very surprised not to see any expert replying to this.
As for stopping him from doing this I've done my best because he was thinking to do something like that for almost couple of years and this time when he went home (2 Hours away from where I live) he suddenly came up with this shocking news. Well I can't do anything about this.
As for as getting pregnant I don't think it's too late (Even now). I just need a solution on how to stop this or what medication should be taken to avoid this. Because none of them are thinking to get married after this.
I know they shouldn't have done this and I've tried to convince my friend to marry her but he keeps on saying "How come this is Possible". [HE SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT THIS BEFORE].
CAN I GET ANSWERS FROM ANY Doctor regarding this please?
Thanks
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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Posted on:29th Nov 2008, 7:22pm |
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Ekspert Pehli baat jab dono shadi nahin karne wali thi to SEx kiyon kia, jab sare bazar Sex karega to yeh sab kuch bhi shena hoga,,,,,
aur es mein expert ki kon se baat hai mein bata thi ho ki woh pregnant ho bhi sakti hai aur nahin bhi, agar larke ki sperm ka dil larki ki egg par ajay aur woh bhi ek ho to phool to kilta hai na :-) nana mona sa cute sa,
u have to trust me i have read this in first year in our collage, and waise bhi mien future mein doctor bana chahti ho, so this is 50 50 ........
aur ek baat batay agar Woh pregnant hoi to app ka dost kia karega, es ka serf ek hi hal hai aborthion but that is not good, it is the same way to kill some one.........
the best way is to Marry |
Disguised |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2008, 9:08am |
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Huh Well Sharmily the reason why I asked for someone expert because this has nothing to do with opinions. I know there is 50,50 chance and like the other two people said "NOTHING COULD HAPPEN NOW, IT's Late" I don't agree with them on this. This is some what a more complicated method than most of us even think of.
I don't know why they did this but they couldn't control themselves.
As for abortion, it is something really different and this definitely is not the stage for abortion. .
Where are the doctors on this forum? I was hoping very much maybe
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2008, 2:30pm |
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Simple solution Go to the clinic and ask the doctor, ok aur kia salution hosakta hai, the only way u have is to take abortion and waste the baby :-( |
Veer |
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Posted on:30th Nov 2008, 3:15pm |
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Disguised pregnancy ko stop to kiya ja sakta hai.lekin stop karne ke kuch nuksanaat bhi ho sakte hain.
hum abortion ka bhi mashwara nehin dete kyun ke es se phir dubara pregnancy k bhut kam chance reh jate hain.aur na he forum par hum kisi ko medicines dete hain
yeh masla bhut serious hai.lehaza bather yehi hai ke on donu ke shaadi karwa di jaye.ager onho ne sex kiya hai to zahir hai aak dosre se pyar karte hain to kiya ho ga.to phir ab shaadi bhi kar le.
simple nikah kar ke phir nikah karne ke baad sab ko bata de ke hum se yeh galahti ho gi hai.phir sab onhe accpet kar le ge.
shaadi ke ilaawa meri khayal ko hal nehin.ager aap es baat pe agreed nehin to phir kisi lady doctor se consult kare.hum sirf mashwara de sakte hain. |
Disguised |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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Posted on:2nd Dec 2008, 7:42pm |
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Veer I really appreciate your answer but being a Pakistani you may also be aware of the society (So called, I hate this) and traditions. Their marriage is not an option (at any cost) and they don't even love each other. They are just neighbors and they got a chance and availed it (i'll call it availing).
As for the abortion, don't you guys think it's too early to call it an abortion??? Abortion is very different than what I'm trying to ask here. Basically my main purpose to open this thread was how to stop Pregnancy.
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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Posted on:3rd Dec 2008, 2:40pm |
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look Dono ko saza milni chahey kiyonki ais sare bazar sex kia hai to per hal kiyon dhond raha hai,
aur waise bhi jab na piyar ho aur na koi rishtadari ho aur sex kia hai, to kal ko kisi aur ki saat mauqa dek kar sex karega, to aise insan ki madad karni ka kia faida our by the way kitni stupid larkiyon ki abortion karta peryga. app ka dost bohut bara Bewaqoof hai. app na ek do tapar mare osi aur doctor se on ka elaj karwai woh mujhi normal nahin dekta...... |
zeb |
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Posted on:5th Dec 2008, 5:45am |
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yes agreed to all |
zahid hame |
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Posted on:7th Dec 2008, 9:24am |
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not love mere khial main larka larki se love nahi krta sirf jismani hawas rakhta tha is liye ab wo us se shaadi nahi kr raha he. or wese bhi zana gunah-e-kabeera he.....
ab hl ye he k ya to shaadi kre chahe bhaga kr hi. or dusri taraf jo larki sahiba hain un ko b apne man baap ki izzat ka khial krna chahiay tha. ab donon Allah se maafi mangain. gunnah gunnah hi hota he, bad main shaadi krne se gunnah nahi dhulta lkn sirf astaghfar se....
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Disguised |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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Posted on:22nd Dec 2008, 10:48pm |
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Hmm Hmm Agreed to Sharmily and Zahid Hame but the thing is that they have done this so we can't keep on discussing why they did this. I've already cursed him alot and he seems ashamed.
Thanks guys for posting all this. I really appreciate everyone's opinion. It was really nice seeing some very good opinions.
Have a great Next Year and so on.
Best Regards
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