No attraction in sex

Hi to all, I am 33 years old 5.8 long 70 Kg weight and normal in all respectes. I am suffering some problems

1.  Jarian It is from 10 years that at start of urination a milky fluid is also discharges. I consulted Hakeems who frightened me about this very much and tried to treat it with their desi medicines but fail. I also consulted a urologist who advice me to be free from its tension and said that after marriage it will stop,as I got marriage 3 months ago but it still continues.

2. Sometime I loose eraction just at time of penetration but after penetrarion  penis remains fully erect.

3.Each morning I have full eraction and also many times during day and night when I am away from my wife.

4.In my childhood I reamin in love with a man but not have any sex with him.

4.I am not attrcted towards my wife. The reason I dot know.

5.During ejaculatio I feel no much pleasure.

6.After sex I sex I feel weekness.

No attraction in sex

Some other things I want to add are

7.My marriage was  quite an arrange marriage

8.I live away from house in case of Ph.D studies and go home mostly weekly so chances to have sex are at weekly interval

9.My respect me and welcome me with smiling face when ever I come home

10. I have many family problem, court cases and remain worry about my studies.

umar2

Jarian hawale se bhut se loog ese bhut khatarnaak mibari kehte hain.khass tour pe hakeem etc.....Jarian se kya murad hai es k liye aap yeh link read kare

read this: https://www.thenoorclinic.com/Book1/Page100/health_085.htm

intercourse se pehle erection hona aur penetration karte erection khatam ho jana bari baat nehin hai..abhi to aap ki shaadi ko 3 months huye hain..love game mein expert hone ke liye almost 6months lag jate hain.

jab aap apni wife se dour hote hain to erection full hoti hain..lekin aap yeh check kese karte hain ke aap ki erection full hai jab aap away hote hain?

aur na he es baat ki samuj ayi ke aap se koi mard love karta tha ya aap kisi mard se love karte thay?

aap apni wife ki janab maayail nehin hote..es ki kafi reason ho sakti hain ya to aap ki wife aap ko achi nehin lagti aap ki shaadi ap ki marzi se nehin hoi..aap ki wife aap ke sath tawun nehin karti..ya aap ki wife ki kuch adatein aap ko passand nehin..ya phir aap ko sharam ati hai..ya phir kisi aur aurat ke asth talukat hain..ya phir sab se bari waja khouf..

aap es bare mein khul kar bataye..aap ke dil mein kya hai..app ka apni wife ke pass jane ko dil kyun nehin karta?

ehtalam aak aam si cheez hai es mein ager maza na bhi aye to koi baat nehin..balke ehtalam bhi na ho tab bhi koi baat nehin.

sex k baad aap sochey ge ke main week ho giya hon to aap wake he weeknees he feel kare ge aur week bhi ho ge..es liye aap cool mind raho aur after sex apne aap ko kamzoor samujne k bijaye power full feel karo.

Reply To VEER

Thanks dera veer

Q Jarian hawale se bhut se loog ese bhut khatarnaak mibari kehte hain.

A. But why it occurs in some and not in others.I also get frightened by looking at milky fluid secreting before urination. It si also fact that Hakeem have no treatment of this but only after arising worries in patients mind snatch money from them. If u have any remidy for this please tell me.

Q. jab aap apni wife se dour hote hain to erection full hoti hain..lekin aap yeh check kese karte hain ke aap ki erection full hai jab aap away hote hain?

A. It can be felt by holding penis in hands as it feels fully erect anf hard.

Q. aur na he es baat ki samuj ayi ke aap se koi mard love karta tha ya aap kisi mard se love karte thay?

A. I love that man

Q.aap apni wife ki janab maayail nehin

A. U understand correct that I feel I may fail to penetrate

Q. ehtalam aak aam si cheez hai es mein ager maza na bhi aye to koi baat nehin..balke ehtalam bhi na ho tab bhi koi baat nehin

A. I was talking not about Ehtlam but about discharge in intercourse that I not feel pleasure at that time

Ur other suggessions are correct Thanks

umar2

1. dont worry dear...jarian ki problem ko itna masla na banayen...InshaAllah time k sath stah sub thik ho jaye ga...aur relax raha keryen...is problem k barey mein jitna socheyn gey apko utna hi ziada wehem ho ga k ye sahi nahi ho rha...jub bhool jayen gey to apko khud feel ho ga k there is not any problem.

2. sex kertey waqt just relax raha keryen...kisi aur bat ko zehen mein na layen, tension ya koi bi pareshani us waqt zehen se nikal dey....ziada se ziada forplay kiya keryen aur jub penis bohat hard ho jaye aur wife bi bohat hot ho jaye tub penis vagina mein dallayen....agar shuru mein erection kum hai aur bad mein ziada ho jati hai tub bi koi problem nai hota....bus relax raha keryen tto shai ho ajye ga....

3. aisa noram hai...insan jub dur hota hai to usey ziada sexual feeling hoti hai...aisa sirf ap k stah nahi hota...aur subha k time gaar ap bohat hard hotey hain to subha ko sex ker liuya keryen...wese bi ye normal hai k subha ko penis bohat hard hota hai becoz us waqt body bilkul fresh hoti hai...

4. man se love tha to ab us ko bhool jayen aur apnoi biwi se hi pyar keryen...dheerey dheerey sub thik ho jaye ga...werna apko kisi psychatrist se mashwara kerna parey ga

5. pleasure hasil kerney k liye apne mind ko fresh rakheyn aur her kisam ki tensions se durrrrrrrrrrr

6. sex k bad weekness hona bohat common bat hai...no need to worry abt it

umar

agreed with zeb

jab aap ko erection nehin hoti to aap forply kanre ke sath apni wife ko bula kare ke woh apne hath se aap ke penis ko touch kare..ager aap ko sharam ati hai kehte huye to aap apne hath se os ka hath pakar ke penis ko parakra diya kare.

lagta hai aap ko female ki jaga male passaand hai jis ki waja se aap pleasure hasil nehin karte..zeb ne biluk sehi kaha hai ke aap bilkul fresh ho kar thakwat utaar kar phir sex kiya kare..aak poore mahul se.

sex k baad jab discharge hota hai to male apne aap ko halka feel karta hai aur sakoon melta hai lekin use kuch loog weekness samuj lete hain jese aap samuj rahe hain.mediculy sex weekness nehin balke sakoon deta hai..es baat se aap pareshan na hon

Reply To VEER and Zeb

Thanks Dear

The problem I think is that I am much enaged in my family land dispute and studies problems and at time of sex all automaatically come in my mind that is why I loose erection.Can u suggest any alopathic drug to cambat this problem. Any how I am feeling a bit satisfaction after ur reply.

umar2

no dear...aise koi bi alopathic medicine use nahi kerni chahiye

jub ap k sath koi aisi problem hai hi nahi k medicine use ki jaye to phr hum ap ko koi medcine prescribe kion keryen

no

its wrong

ap k sath koi problem nahi hai

jo problems hamen nazar ayin un ka solutions hum ne apko bata diya hai....ap intercourse k time per relax raheyn gay aur sari tensions se free rakheyn gay mind ko....to koi problem bi nahi ho gi....

wahem

tamam post parhne ke baad mujhe ayesa lagta hai ke.......

mr umar2 ......aapke sath koi problem nahi hai...sirf wahem hai jo aapke dil o dimaag men jad pakadta ja raha hai.
aap namaz kayam karen +ve sochen.......

apni wife ko confidence men len woh aapka saath degi.......

insha allah sab theek ho jayega