How Much Pain A Woman Can Have At Delivery?

Dear Members,

         Asalm-o-Alaikum, Sab log kaisey hein?I hope k sabi log achey hungay.

1- Pehli baat specially womens se k jb 1st delivery hoti hai normal ,,tu kitni pain hoti hai aik aurat ko, aur agar operation se ho tu phr kitni pain hoti hai.Infact meri wife ki delivery ALLAH G K KHUKAM SE ramadan mein horahi hai aur main bht dar raha hun yun lgta hai k pain usey ni mje horahi hai. mai apni wife se bht pyr krta hun...

Mai saudia mein job krta hun.marry k 4 month baad saudia agaya tha.mai ne usey bula lena tha bs ruk sirf isi waja se gaya hun k delivery k bad usey le aonga.

Plz mje ye batayin k delivery k waqt mje us k pas hona chahiye ya yahin ALLAH G SE US K LYE DUA KRNI CHAHIYE. meri ma g b us se bht pyr krti hein,she is also my cousin......

THanks

How much pain a woman can get at the time of delivery and at the time of Caesarian section. In fact my wife’s expected date of delivery is in Ramadan and I am very much scared. I assume that her pain is being felt by me. I do much love with her. I live in Saudia and I will bring her after her delivery. Please let me know whether or not should I be there at the time of delivery. She is also my cousin. Thanks.

Jaffar

fitree amal say khauf nah khayain

iss onwaan say bahoot pahlay aik tafseeli article paRha thaa... jiss main yehi batlayagaya thaa k mamals main yeh aik fitree amal hai... aur normal halat main iss say khauf khaanay ki zaroorat naheeN... na hi iska khauf sar pay sawaar karnay ki zaroorat hai....  indo pak k ghareeb gharanoun maiN to aaj bhi beshtar deliveries gharoun maiN hoti hain jahaaN koi trend dayee etc bhi nahi hoti... ghar ki baRi booRhiyaaH hi handle karleti haiN...... bahoot say cases maiN beghair kissi 2nd aurat ki maujoodgi k bhi delivery normal hojati hai........ aik mazdoor aurat ki story sonee jo.... sarak pay bricks ko toR kar roRiyaaN bananay ka kaam kar rahi thee... dehaat amIn auratIn aisay sakht kaam bhi karti hain... waheen aik aurat nay kaam kartay kartay achanak ossay labour pain oTha aur jab tak doosri mazdoor aurtai oski taraf motawjjah hoti, oss nay aik sehat mand baby ko deliver kerdia ... aur khud sab kuch handle kar kay bachay ko aik taraf litaa kar baqyah mazdoori karnay lagi...

aap sirf iss baat ka intezaam karain k monthly kissi achay gynae say wife ko examine karwatay rahain... kissi achay hospital main registeration karwalaiN... doc ki hedayat par wife ki Gizaa ka khayaal rakhaiN... aur onhaiN bhi normal activities maiN mash.ghool rahnay dain... pain wain ka khayaal dil say nikaal daiN... no pain, no gain.... pain to sohaag raat ko bhi hota hai aur pain labour room maiN bhi... har aik apna mazaa hai... apna lutf hai... yehi zindagi hai... zindagi k saray colors ka maza chakhaiN... aur fitree amal say khauf nah khayaiN... nah hi iss khauf /pain ka zikr wife say karaiN... Allah pay bharosa karaiN dua karain aur doc ki hedayat pay amal karaiN.

She is already examining by a Doctor

Dear

       I am in Saudi Arabia. But she is used to go every month regulary by the advice of Lady doctor in CMH Kharian and doctor is totally satisfy by her case and just giving her Calcium Tablets.........

But kia karun Jan hai na meri,,,mera tu dil ni krta k usey thora sa b dard ho...Anyway aap k msg ne bht hosla diya hai. plz hamarey lye dua kiya krein k ALLAH G HM dono mian biwi mein mazeed itifaq aur mohabbat ko barhaye b aur qayam b rakhey,,,SHe also loves me alot. aur ALHAMDOLILAH ye totally arrange marriage thi. but love wohi hota hai jo shaadi k bad ho......

Marey pas tu lafz ni kaisey US PAK ZAT G KA SHUKAR ADA KRUN K JIS NE MJE ACHI,NAIK AUR PYAR KRNEY WALI WIFE DI.

Thankx

Jaffar

Re; How Much Pain A Woman Can Have At Delivery?

Dear brother, first thing is that no body can define the intensity of pain. Can you explain how much pleasure you get while intercourse? No.  Secondly, the pain of delivery is much more and un-bearable with out any doubts. God almightily however never give pain to any body beyond his or her capability of bear ness. You should be relaxed in this regard. If caesarian section is done the pain of delivery will not be experienced however the possibilities of other complications of surgery would be there. Therefore C-section should only be considered when it is mandatory.

Awards by the God for mother:

 The pain that a woman experiences at the time of delivery perhaps make her a noble entity in the society. She is called MOTHER.

• The paradise is below the soles of her
• A companion of Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad P  B U H asked, " Who has much right on me", He replied: "Your Mother", again asked, "then", replied, "Mother", again and again he had been asking and the answer he got same, " Mother", At the seventh time he got answer, " Your Father".
• Imam Ali bin Hussain, the great-grandson of the Prophet, said: "Coming to the rights of relatives, it is the right of your mother that you should appreciate that she carried you (in her womb) as nobody carries anybody, and fed you the fruits of her heart which nobody feeds anybody, and protected you (during pregnancy) with her ears, hands, legs, hair, limbs, (in short) with her whole being, gladly, cheerfully and carefully; suffering patiently all the worries, pains, difficulties and sorrows (of pregnancy), till the hand of God removed you from her and brought you into this world." "Then she was most happy feeding you, even if she herself had no clothes; giving you milk and water; not caring for her own thirst; keeping you in the shade, even if she had to suffer from the heat of the sun; giving you every comfort with her own hardship; lulling you to sleep while keeping herself awake." "And (remember that) her womb was your abode, and her lap your refuge, and her breast your feeder, and her whole existence your protection; it was she, not you, who was braving the heat and cold of this world for your safety." "Therefore, you must remain thankful to her accordingly, and you cannot do so except by the help and assistance from Allah."
• My personal experience: When I was child, I never understood the extend of dignity of a mother. After marriage, when I observed the whole phenomenon of pregnancy and its out comes in my wife, I realized then, how much great a woman when she becomes mother.
• I think you must be there at the time of delivery to give her moral support. However this is essential but not necessary.

re: labour pain

yep bewaqoof bhai

how much pain a woman beared

Masha Allah

rizvi bhai

I am much satisfied

Aslam-o-Alaikum

Thanks to my all sweet members, Aap logon ko replies ne mje kafi satisfied kiya hi.Specially Dr.K.K aur Maryam sister k reply ne....Maryam sis chun k aap b aik aurat hein aur Ma b hungi.islye mjse kahin behtar tu aap smjti hein.

Infact sister main apni wife se shayad bht ziada pyr krta hun,,islye usey dukh aur tkleef mein ni dekh skta.yaqeen krein usey sir dard b ho tu main phone pe phone kye jata hun usey,,kyun k meri rooh kanp uthati hai,,,,

ALLAH G SE DUA HAI K USEY APNI HIFAZAT MEIN RKHEIN.AUR USEY SABAR AUR HIMAT ATA KREIN.plz ap sb log b meri sweet begum k lye bht si dua krna plz

Thanks..........Jaffar...Duaon mein yad rakhiye ga.

Allah aap ko aur vaap ki family ko apnay hifz o amaan maiN rakhay. aameen

about pain

ye explain kerna kafi mushkil hai

aur khas taur per hum mard bilkul nahi explain ker sktey

is ka dard to maan bhi explain nahi ker skti

bht pain hota hai

lekin is pain se ghabrana bht ghalat bat hai

Allah us time aurat mein khud himmat dey deta hai pain se larnay ki :-)

mashallah

aaww mashallah .. may allah always keep this love between you nd your wife.

well said maryam!

Thanks Pari

Dear Sis Pari

       Thanks for your pray to both of us ,,,,,yes we love each other so much even more then thinkings. Please pray for us to may have increased and strong relationship INSHALLAH,

Jaffar