Need Of Contraceptive Practices

why is it necessary to practice contraception

Pakistan jo keh iss waqt aik taraqe pazeer mulk ha , iss ke bohat se masail mai se aik masla barhate huwe abade ka bhe ha.. iss waqat tamam tareeqe pazeer mumalik mai sab se zada barhati huwe abadi ke sharah Pakistan mai ha . hamara salana growth rate 2.8percent han jabke purei dunya ka average 2percent ha.magar iss se zada jo fiqar ke baat he who ka khawateen ke (pregnancy and labour)zichge ya uss ke baad uss se paida honey wali paachedgeyon(complications) ke waja se mortality rate ya death rate mai izaffa he..

WHO(world health organization) ke mutabiq Pakistan mai har 20min ke baad aik aurat ke pregnancy and uss se related complications ke waja se death hoti ha.aur iss ke sab se bari waja contraception ya waqfa na karna he.

WHO ke survey ke mutabiq almost 75percent of pakist ani population ko  waqfa ke malomat han after the family planning advertisement on tv magar ye practice sirf 27percent log kartey han

Waqfa na karney ke bohat se reasons han

1)      waqfa ke barey mai malomat na hona….magar ab Health department net tv ke zareye kafi logon ko educate kar deya he

2)      religious factorz…..bohat se log se samajtey hank e islam mai waqfa karney ke ijjazat nai

3)      desire for sons…. Male baby ke khawahish aur jitney bhe male babies ho jain..

4)      deprivation of females….mostly families mai females are not allowed to take any decision regarding family planning

5)      breast feeding…ye bohat bara misconception he k jab tak breast feeding ke ja rai ho tabtak pregnancy nai hote

6)      withdrawl method…bohat se families iss method ko safe and effective samajte han aur Islamic grounds par sirf iss ko follow karti han..

 what is required is that people are properly educated that what are the advantages of contraceptive practices

Effects on health due to lack of contraceptive practices:

Very young females:

These r adviced family planning due to the fact:

Females jo k age group 15-19years mai ati han pregnancy unkey leye bohat risky han kunke unkay reproductive system(toulide nazam) ke mature na honey ke chances bohat zada hen. Inn khawateen mai pregnancy and uss se related complications especially obstructed labour ya prolonged labour(agar female ka body structure na develop huwa ho tu baby ke delivery mai problem ho sakta he) ke zada chances han

older females:

females of age group 35-40years

these are advised contraception due to the fact:

age increase honey ke sath female body mai pregnancy ke changes bardasht karna aur labour karna bohat mushkil hota he.plus babies mai morusi bemari ka chance increase ho jata he.

Females with 4 children:

After birth of four children each pregnancy carries 1.5-3times higher risk of mother death

After c-section

Uterus is very weak after c-section n medically pregnancy must be avoided for 24-38months otherwise uterus ka rupture bhe ho sakta he

Even after normal delivery 18-24months spacing between children is medically required as if this much spacing is not done many ill effects on mother health can occur like:

1)      anemia….yani mother mai blood ke kami ho jana(average female 500ml of blood loose karti ha after each pregnancy)

2)      recurrent abortion…bar bar hamal zaya ho sakta he

3)      nutritional deficiency in mother….mother mai munasib waqfa na karney se body mai se iron,calcium aur dosri cheezon ke kami ho sakti ha

4)      high blood pressure and diabetes….bar bar waqfey ke bagair pregnancy se sugar aur b.p ka problem ho sakta he..

       5)there can be even more loss of blood at time of next delivery if proper spacing is not done

effects on baby:

babies born without spacing are usually low birth weight yani 2kg se kum wazan ke bachey, ya pre mature babies are born yani 9months se phley paida honey wali bachey jin ke organs itne mature nai hotey.,ya jin ke mental ya zahni growth nai huwe hoti.......aur se sub mil kar infant mortality ko increase karta he…yani ye bachey 1saal ke umer se pehley foat ho jate han..

deprivation from breast feeding…. Agar pregnancy2years ke waqfey se phley ho jaye tu pehley baby ko full time ke leye breast feed bhe nail milti jo uss ke nashonuma ke leye zaroori ha.

Social benefits of practicing contraception

Only if proper spacing is done between children then female can give her full time to her children and her family….she will have a more healthy body and mind and will have less stress of parenthood that will help her play active role in community as a whole

Economic benefits of practicing contraception

Good standard of livingcan be maintained by the parents even not of very sound financial background if proper spacing is done.

re: contraception

re: "aur iss ke sab se bari waja contraception ya waqfa na karna he."

waqfa se aap ki kia muraad hai, gap between two birth ya less children. kio ke contraception se na sirf gap hota hai blkeh kuch tareeqa se permanantly baanjh pan bhi ho sakta hai like tubal ligation, nas bandi.

re: "ye bohat bara misconception he k jab tak breast feeding ke ja rai ho tabtak pregnancy nai hote"

ji haa breast feeding ke doran pregnancy nahi ho sakti, jin logo ko hoti hai os ki wajah yeh hoti hai keh woh aik ya two times feeding mai waqfa ker deti hai. agar woh waqfa na kare tu breast feeding ke doran kabhi bhi pregnancy nahi ho gi.

re: "Uterus is very weak after c-section n medically pregnancy must be avoided for 24-38months otherwise uterus ka rupture bhe ho sakta he"

aap kuch ziadah hi waqfa bata rahi hai, kuch kam kare.

re: "Agar pregnancy2years ke waqfey se phley ho jaye tu pehley baby ko full time ke leye breast feed bhe nail milti jo uss ke nashonuma ke leye zaroori ha."

hamare yaha tu aksar women breast feed karati hi nahi, dabba feed ya cow goat milk feed karati hai, on ke baare mai kia khayal hai.

re: " Good standard of livingcan be maintained by the parents even not of very sound financial background if proper spacing is done."

rizq Allah ke haath mai hai. iss ka spacing se koi taluq nahi.

Question:

1. aap ke khayal mai aik family ke kul ketne bachche hone chahiye?
2. har bachche ke darmian ketna waqfa hona chahiye?
3. kia waqfa ke liye tubal ligation aur nasbandi karani chahiye (Islamic point of view se batai)? mai baqi doosre tareeqa ki baat nahi kerta lekin tubal ligation aur nas bandi ko gunah samajhta hoo.
4. kia iss baat ki guarantee hai keh jis ke kam bachche ho ge woh khooshal hoga? mai agree nahi kerta.
5. kia yeh zaroori hai keh jis ke ziadah bachche ho ge woh badhal ho ga? mai agree nahi kerta.

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Answer 1,2

Especially if we talk about Pakistan most of the females are anemic rather our 80percent of females of reproductive age group are anemic….pregnancy without spacing can even lead to more anemia n that to recurrent abortion and hemodynamic instability of mother

1and half 2 year spacing is medically recommended after normal vaginal delivery so the mother may regain her replenished stores again…

Minimum 2 year spacing after c-section is recommended for replenishment of stores plus,uterine scar to heal,to get decrease in adhesions formed after 1^st operation in abdomen..

If 3year gap is done after c-setion added benefit is that the mother may be given trial of normal labour after 1^st pregnancy if there was not an absolute contra indication first time like CPD(cephalo-pelvic disproportion)…and not only in west even in our country increased rate of trial of normal vaginal delivery after previous 1 is carried

If proper spacing is done then family size is itself maintained as female fertility decreases with age..

Some ppl naturally without any contraceptive practice get spacing of many years….it all depends on Allah..

Answer no 4,5

G bilkul u r right…  may be my point was not clear i am sying about our 70percent population is rural and 58percent are under poverty line….those ppl who r unable to fulfill basic necessities of life if proper spacing is not done even they wont be able to fulfill the requirements of first born child……..plus just a temporary waqfa....

Answer 3,

As far as I know islam does not allow any permanent method of contraception…

But medically the issue arises when..

1)mother has severe medical disease that deteriorate during pregnancy especially valvular and congestive diseases of heart.. MMR is as high as 50-75percent if pregnancy is carried out

2)severe genetic and chromosomal defects like down syndrome or hydrocephalus with mental retardation is running in family n previous children are affected..

3)mother is mentally retarded

4)after 4 c-sections when chances of uterine rupture leading to maternal mortality r high..

ye bohat bara misconception he k jab tak breast feeding ke ja rai ho tabtak pregnancy nai hote"

g yehe tu kaha he ye mis conception he….even otherwise educated females think that they r if feeding only once or twice that's good enough for contraception….due to their lack of knowledge of reproductive health.

"Uterus is very weak after c-section n medically pregnancy must be avoided for 24-38months otherwise uterus ka rupture bhe ho sakta he"

Rupture is one cause, to reduce adhesion for second time operation is other,to give trial of normal delivery is third..

Agar pregnancy2years ke waqfey se phley ho jaye tu pehley baby ko full time ke leye breast feed bhe nail milti jo uss ke nashonuma ke leye zaroori ha."

I ave written breast feeding is necessary for the babies nutrition….theses days even ultra modern females r coming back to breast feeding as they have come to know it decreases fat acquired during pregnancy…..plus the fact is Allah also said 2 year breast feeding so natural spacing ho …2years…plus even if females r using packet milk n suppose r not anemic but pregnancy again n again  without spacing will deplete her stores

"rizq Allah ke haath mai hai. iss ka spacing se koi taluq nahi".

U r right… but I ave written people with not a sound financial backgroung atleast they will be able to provide basic necessities to one child in the mean time prepare for the next with bit of spacing….temporary again

There r families giving birth to one child in jan n next in dec….i know it sounds weird but that's what going in Pakistan n mostly these r really people living below the standards of a human even…kunke upper class tu hardly babies produce karti ha middle kuch financial means ko daikh kar spacing karti ha…

Everywhere I mentioned spacing……I never mean permanent contraception.,.

jawaab.namaah

1. iska koi "general formula" nahi hosaktaa. it depends family to family.... albattah ... bachay 2 hi achay... yaa kam bachay khush.haal gharaanaa... type k slogan totally wrong haiN (islamic point of view say)

2. as u said breast feeding properly ho to amooman 2 saal ka natural waqfah to ho hi jata hai...... yeh minimum waqfah to hona hi chahiyeh... maximimu waqfah batlaya nahi jaa.saktaa... aksar cases maiN 1 saal ka hi waqfah hota hai aur iss say khatoon /family par koi khaas bas effect honaa laazmi bhi nahi

3. nasbandi, islamically HARAM hai. illah yeh k maan ki jaan bachanay ka wahid raastah ossay next pregnancy say laazman bachaanaa hi wahid option rah gayaa ho...... yeh "izterai halat" kahlati haiN jiss maiN haram bhi halal hojata hai

4. I agree with u

5. i agree wid u.

now let see k waterr n other members in sawaalaat ka kia jawaab detay haiN

re....bewaqoof

i ave deliberately not written islamic aspect

kunke iss par tu bohat larai ho jani thei... ya contradiction

even some islamic scholar say keh IUCD first generation lippe loops n some of copper cant be used kunke iss method mai zygote tu form ho jata he magar implantation nai hoti...halanke ye method bhe pakistan mei use hota he... i am not talking about hormonal IUCD n not about new generation copper...

but its still a contradiction between ulmaz

myrizvi

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Risk ALLAH k haath main hai,or ALLLAH ne jo kismat main likha hai bande ko utna hi milega na us se ziyada na us se kum.Haan babies ki planing karne se pehle is baat par dehan zaroor rakhna chaiye k ap uss ki basic needs poori karsakein gain ya nahi or ap ready hain responsibility lene k liye,aise bohot se log hain jo bache produce karte hain or phir irr-responsible hojate hain unki taraf.

rizk

yaqeenen rizk Allah ke hath mai ha aur Quran mai ayat bhe ha jiska mafhoom ye ha k apne bachon ko rizk ke dar se na qatal karo ke rizk dene wala Allah he.....maine tu aik dafa nai kaha apni post mai ke rizk ke waja se planning karain...but what i say …  may be my point was not clear i am sying about our 70percent population is rural and 58percent are under poverty line….those ppl who r unable to fulfill basic necessities of life if proper spacing is not done even they wont be able to fulfill the requirements of first born child…and then otherzzz.......…..plus just a temporary waqfa....

re: contraception

re: "near future mai tu nai lag ra waisey...k i am not a fraud... "

mera maqsad yeh kabhi nahi keh mai aap ko fraud sabit karoo, sirf aur sirf maqsad yeh hai keh kuch male member ke wah wah se misguide na ho, woh har female ki khoshamdana andaz mai wah wah kerte hai, aur os wah wah ka asal maqsad kia hai woh sab hi jaante hai.

mere tanqeed se aap ne khood bhi mahsoos kia ho ga keh ab aap kuch bhi likhti hai tu kafi soch samajh ker likhti hai, aap ko yeh ehsaas hota hai keh agar kahi per zara bhi ghalti ki tu Bewaqoof nahi chore ga. mera maqsad bhi yahi hota hai, jab bhi koi new member iss forum ko join kerte hai mai os waqt tak os ko follow kerta hoo jab tak keh woh forum ki policy se waqif na ho jaaye, aur jo bhi likhe soch samajh ker likhe.

mai aap ke article mai keera nikalne ki koshish kerta rahoo ga, lekin ab keera nikalna mushkil lag raha hai, iss ki wajah yeh hai keh ab aap jo kuch bhi likh rahi hai kafi soch samajh ker likh rahi hai. aur mere keera nikalne ka bhi asal maqsad yahi hai keh aap soch samajh ker likh (especially medical article).

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[PS: Modz, plz dont edit this reply..... it is 'related' to above reply, if u can 'understand'. thanx]

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aone mere article par zada tanqeed nai ke na he merey reply par it seemz ke ap kuch kuch satisfy hain iss se...so its really gr8 to know....baqe mera last topic(mastr)par tu contradiction hone he thei...usko tu leave karain..

can u plz tell ke mai apne choice of contraceptive method jo individual couples ke lei han jinke special situations hon unko apne article se nikal kar dobara alag post kar don?? wo tu bohat he mehnat se aur research kar ke likhe thei..aisey kisi jaga par akathey nai miley gain...??what is suggestion??

myrizvi ne merey article ya ans par koi response nai deya...

myrizvi

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thanks for all the positive criticism etc...n else whoever read ths article..

mai apne choice of contraceptive method jo individual couples ke lei han jinke special situations hon unko apne article se nikal kar dobara alag post kar don?? wo tu bohat he mehnat se aur research kar ke likhe thei..aisey kisi jaga par akathey nai miley gain

re: article on contraception

aap apne original topic ko 3-4 parts mai mai tayyar kare, har aik ke oopar alag alag heading lagaye ya aik hi heading laga ker Part - I, Part - II waghaira ker de. aur phir ose submit ker de. article chota ho ga tu log read bhi kare ge (bhale os per comments na kare), lekin article bahut bara ho ga tu log read nahi kare ge, chahe woh ketna hi informative kio na ho.

aap chahe tu iss topic per mazeed kuch na likhe, albatta jaha kahi bhi aap munasib samjhe waha per os ka iss tarah link laga de: Choice Of Contraceptive Methods. zaroorat mand iss article ko zaroor read kare ge chahe woh ketna hi lamba kio na ho

okey thanks