Menses: Can I Use Any Medicine Which Change The Menses Date?

ASalam O Alikum

Drs hope u r fine I m here first time but i regular reared of forum, May allah bless all of them which r giving right piece of advices hope u will reply me soon i m really disturbed i wish that if there is a gyny doc ,dr rizwan or kali zuban give reply himself i will be greatful

my prob is "i m going to marry on 9th jan my menses dates were 1 or 2 of every month when we had decided date of wedding i was thinking that meri dates guzar chuki on gi shadi tak but do months say meri dates agay ja rahin hain is month meri date 8 thi

i m very much tense keh kya ho ga......meray fiancee say meri koi bat nahin hoti he dont know all abt this shadi ki dates bhi nahin change ho saktin....

kya koi aisim medicine hai jis say main menses ki date change ker sakoon?agar hai to us ka koi side effect to nahin?

kya menses main wedding night main intercourse kiya  ja sakta hai?

bcz we both belong to a typical family jis main wediing night is very much important.....i think u can understand ......and plz reply me soon that what can i do and hope ur reply will briefed

thanx

ur sister Zara khan

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Menses is the gift of ALLAH for girls. This is natural process and if u try to stop this process through any medicine i think its danger not only for u but also for ur future life.

Aisa na ho ka khudana khuasta koi bemari hojai aur ap shadi ka baad kisi problem mai ghir jain. mera khayal yahi hai ka bahtar hai ka ap aisa na karain.

zada sahi jawab Doctors hi daingai. My advice for u is that u must contact with ur doctor.

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Salam

Ms Zara my suggestion is that you do not need to eat any medicine because it can be side effect and your future can be black.

My suggestion is that you must wait untill your menses period does not finish.Because it is natural process and it is also not in your HAND.

And your husband will also compromise on this issue.That is why ISLAM give the permission of LOVE with the wife except intercourse or Jama.

You and your husband can follow this advice of Islam and you will find LOVE through this way also.

I hope you will forward me possitive comments.

Best Regards

Good Man

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dear medicine use kar ke aap period ki dates ko agey kar sakti hain aur es ka koi khass side effects nehin hota..yeh prob baaz dafa ho jati hain kafi ladikon ke sath ke shaadi ki date bhi osi din hoti hai aap tention mat le

rehi baat medicine ki woh aap ko koi bhi yahan nehin bataye ga even doctor sab bhi nehin lekin aap doctor sab k reply ka wait kare woh aap ko acha method de ge..

aap ne pocha ke period mein intercourse kar sakte hain...period mein esa kuch nehin kar sakte ager period mein intercourse kare ge to yeh ghuna ho ga islam mein allow nehin hai so dear aap kisi achi lady doctor ke pass jaye ya phir Dr khan ke reply ka wait kare tention lene ki zaroorat nehin date aagey bhar sakti hai

ager aap apne period ki dates agey kar le gi to aap intercourse kar sakti hai wedding ki raat ko ok take care Allah hafiz

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aisi medicine tu hoti hay lakin uss kay kafi side-effects bhi hotay hain.  Sab say acha yahi hay kay aap kuch na kerain.  ziada say zida kitnay din aap ko perashani ho gi 5,6,7??? lakin yah uss perashani say tu bohat bahter hay jo side effects ki ho sakti hay.  Aur iss baat kay tu 80% say ziada chances hain kay aap kay husband waisay hi aap ka sath dain kayounkay yah tu natural baat hay aap ka tu kasoor nahi hay.

   Aur aap apnay shoher ki madad say koi bhi tareeqa apna ker gher waloun ko mutmain ker sakti hain.  Maira hayl hay kay aap ko samaj aagai ho gi main kia kahna chah rahi hoon.

Shadi mubarak ho aap ko

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Assalamualikum

Meri advice yahi hai ka koi bhi natural kam ko agar ap change karna ki koshish karaingi to koi na koi effect zaror hota hai. Agar ap menses time change karna chati hai to best way yahi hai ka ap apni doctor sai disscussion karain kiyu ka yah bohot hi sensitive mamla hai, yaha bohot sai log baghair sochai samjha reply kartai hai unko andaza nahi ka uska asrat kitna khatarnak ho sakta hai. Lehaza yah mamla bohot zada  bigar sakta hai esliya bahtar yahi hai ka ap apna doctor ka pas jain aur jo woh hidayat dain usko follow karain.

Thanx

Asalam O Alikum

Thanx to all members which has given me a piece of advice May Allah Bless u

But i m still waiting of reply of Dr Rizwan Dr Khan and Kali Zaban etc......plz give me reply ..........

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aap ese keh rahi hain ke 80% side effect ho ge jese aap doctor hain never mind main bas yeh keh raha hon ke yeh masla mere nazar main doctor sab he hal kar sakte hain to aap zara ko double mind mat karo main ne pehle apne post mein yehi kaha hai ke date to agey ho sakti hai medicine bhi hoti hain lekin aap doctor sab ke answer ka wait kare

main abhi bhi yehi kahon ga zara aap ko ke aap kisi member ke bijaye kisi lady doctor ke pass jaye ya phir dr khan ke answer ka wait kare member ki baato mein mat aye kyun ke hum loog doctor nhein hain

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dear zara,

sub members ne ap ko bilkul thik sugeestions di hain....main ap se yahi kahun ga k ap apni mother aur fiancee se bat keryen aur jitni koshi ho skti hai wo keryen aur shadi ki date ko 1 week agey ker dey...agar ye namumkin hai aur ab date change nai ho skti...to phr kuch nai ho skta

bus yahi ho skta hai k ap menses date mein intercourse bilkul na kijiye ga, jub tak ap ki bleeding poori tarhan se khatam na ho jaye tub tak kuch bi kareyn gi to bht ziada gunnah ho ga aur future mein bi problem ho skti hain....is liye is case mein ap in days k khatam honey k baad hi intercourse ker skti hain

is liye better yahi hai k ap abi apne finacee se bi bat ker leyn takey unhen bi ap ki date ka pata ho aur agar ap ki shadi thora agey nahi kertey aur ap ki shadi usi date means 9th ko hi hoti hai, to ap k husband ko us waqt pata ho ga, aur wo aitaraz nahi keryen gey balke ap k indays k guzarney ka wait keryen gey

thanx but Plz Understand

dear Docs and members

First of all i m really obliged keh app nay meray prob ko itni importance di Kalo Zuban thanx to u also for a piece of advice

but i want to tell u my family system.......ta keh app log mera prob samajh sakain......my fiancee and me belong to a family where larka larki ka apas main bat kerna possible nahin hota.second thing is this keh wedding night ki subha larkay larki say pucha jata hai.....how did u find each other?or meray husband kabhi bardasht nahin karain gay keh kisi ko pata chalay keh suhag rat ko woh kuch nahin ker sakay

secondly woh is bat ko sach bhi samjhain ya nahin? bcz woh yeh bhi samajh saktay hain keh main intercourse kay dar say bahana ker rahi hoon.....plz mujhay batain main kya karoon?shadi ki date ab change nahin o sakti

plz reply me soon thanx

plz reply in family back ground

dear Docs and members

First of all i m really obliged keh app nay meray prob ko itni importance di Kalo Zuban thanx to u also for a piece of advice

but i want to tell u my family system.......ta keh app log mera prob samajh sakain......my fiancee and me belong to a family where larka larki ka apas main bat kerna possible nahin hota.second thing is this keh wedding night ki subha larkay larki say pucha jata hai.....how did u find each other?or meray husband kabhi bardasht nahin karain gay keh kisi ko pata chalay keh suhag rat ko woh kuch nahin ker sakay

secondly woh is bat ko sach bhi samjhain ya nahin? bcz woh yeh bhi samajh saktay hain keh main intercourse kay dar say bahana ker rahi hoon.....plz mujhay batain main kya karoon?shadi ki date ab change nahin o sakti

plz reply me soon thanx

LOVE CAN BE DONE FIRST NIGHT DURING MENSES

Salam,

Your husband can foreplay and love with you.And you can participate in this Love with your husband also.So i think your husband will not disappoinment on this matter.And he will also not consider that you are doing pretended with him.

And Miss ZARA Intercouse is not climax of marriage.If you have not mutual understanding with each then this this marriage can not sucess due to one time menses reason.You can clrealy explain at first night of wedding to your husband that we will do love with each other but we can not do intercourse due to menses.After menses this thing is also possible.

Waiting for your comments

Zara

I read ur all post and u are in trouble i agreed with that. Jaha taq bat hai ka apka menses agai barhana zarori hai to aik bat yah hai ka Menses date agai ki jasakti hai medicines ka through magar some times es ka side effects hojatain hain jo apka liya problem creat kar saktai hain.

Lets take example of those women who use medicine for changing menses date.

Jo auratain HAJ ka liya jatin hain woh apni menses date change karka hi jati hai. Ab agar kisi aurat ka menses date during  HAJ hai to woh kiya karaigi.. Side effects hotai hain menses date change karna ka laikin har kisi ko nahi hotai hain.

Masla yah hai ka jo ap halat bata rahi hai aisa mai menses date agar agai bhar jai to acha hi hai. ALLAH karai agar ap menses date agai karain to apko koi problem na face karni parai future mai.

Laikin ap aik chance to lain. Mujhai yah achi tarhan pata hai ka ajkal bhi aisa khandan hain jaha aisi chezain dekhi jatin hain ka first night intercourse hona chahiya waghaira laikin ho sakta hai ka ap ka hona wala husband thora zada samajhdar hon. Ap aik chance lain ap apni mother sai bat karian aur apna fiance sai, unko sab batain agar ap yah samajh ti hain ka apka hona wala husband apki bat samajh jaingai warna bahtar to yahi hai ka ap apni doctor sai contact karain aur unsai sari details lain ka kiya kiya problems occur hosaktai hain aur unsai hi advice mangai ka ap apni menses date change kar sakti hai yah nahi.

Waisa aik problem to mujhai bhi pata hai medicine  use karna sai woh yah ka menses time disturb hojata hai future ka bhi laikin kab taq disturb rahta hai eska time period nahi pata mujhai.

ALLAH apko hidayat dai aur apko sahi rasta dekhai ameeen.

Jaha taq bat hai understanding ki to goodman apna shayad zara ki post dehan sai nahi phari, unhona kaha hai ka unka unkai hona walai husband sai koi contact nahi hai to understanding kaha sai develop hogi.

Esi Arrange marriages jaisa zara ki hai unmai yah masla zaror paida hotai hain kiyu ka larki larka ko samajhti hi nahi hai, jaha taq bat hai understanding ki to woh ahista ahista khud hi develop hoti hai shadi ka baad aisa cases mai.

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