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| Posted on:4th Jun 2008, 10:41am |
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 Imam Ghazali
Imam Ghazali........
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:5th Jun 2008, 4:56am |
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 goodman
u,ve arised agood issue. IMAM GHAZALI (RA) bare dukh k sath farmate hain
"Hamen Jis Baat Ka Andesha Tha Wo Roonuma Ho Chuka Hai
Is Qutbe Azam KA Ilm Or Amal Khatam ho kar RehGaya Hai
Dilon Par Makhlooq Ki Mohbt Or Khof Cha Gaya Hai, Log Nafsani Khuahishat Or Shehwat Ki Iteba Mai Hewanon Ke Naqshe Qadam Par chal Rahe Hain,Ruye Zameen PAR Aise Sache Momin Boht Kam Reh Gae Hain Jo Mulamat Karne Walon Ki Mulamat Ko Mohiz ALLAH K Liye Khatir Mai Na Late Hon"
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2008, 2:08pm |
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goodman sab ki khmoshi ka matlab hai G HAN |
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khayali |
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2008, 2:33pm |
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 Maryam
agreed with u 100%
ab theek hai??????????
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2008, 2:53pm |
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My point of view
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Meray khyal may waqt waqt k saath tabdeelyan roonuma ho rahee heen insan jeb taleem hasil kerta ha ya kuch seektha ha to us k zehan may question aatey heen yee +ve bhe ho sakteen heen aur -ve bhe leken in he sawalat ko clear kerna un logon k lyee zaroori hota jo yee lilm jantey heen aaj insan zada pra likha ha us k under question bareey hoowey hotey heen k esa q ha yee dunya q wajood may ayee ha is ka maqsad kya, hum kis lyee peda kyee kagyee heen aur buth kuch
Is lyee meray khyal may yeehan per sex k barey discuss kerna buth see maloomat lena share kerna its a good thing not bad aap ka zehan khulta ha aap ko new information miltey heen i.e hum barey arsey say suntey aaye heen k mani k ek qatrey may pata neehen 200 khun k qatrey hootey heen jeb k is forum per aa ker maloom hoowa k esa kuch bhee neehen ha
is lyee be +ve aachi maloomat leen aur logon ko agar face to face neehen puncha sakteey heen to is tara say logon ko information punchyeen leken fair ho ker cheet ker k ya kisi ka mazaq ura ker neehen |
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ok Maryam jee u post very good reply.Pls carry on this endavour for near future also.
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goodman |
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| Posted on:7th Jun 2008, 4:16am |
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Sex is Fun or Not? Maryam jee According to my thinking SEX is Not Fun.Because when people take it FUN then Personalisties ask about Oral SEX & ANAL sex.
What is your point of view in this regards
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saim1 |
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| Posted on:7th Jun 2008, 5:48am |
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goodman i think appney partner key barey may or logo ko batana sahi nahi hey mujhey 1 hadees yad wo yeah hey key orat appney sohar sey appni sahili key barey may iss tarha zikar na kary jasey wo uss ko dekh raha ho,to app khood hi iss ka matlab samjh jaien chaey wo mard ho ya orat appney life partner key barey may iss tarha discuss karna theak nahi hey.Or jaha tak forum ki bat hey to yeah 1 serious web site hey key agar kisi ko koi medical prolem hey to poch sakta hey magar kuch log fun key liya ultey sedhey sawalat kartey hey.Wasey may samjhti hoon key members ko iss tarha ki post jo sirif fun key liy creat ki gaien hey un par reply nahi karna chea |
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Right miss saima u give a very good reply and i totally agree with you.In forum no person have no objection to raise medical issue because this site is good and i think this site have possitive asspects also.
And u describe the connotation of Headith and This Headith is Stipulated Both Males And Females that do not need to describe the SECRETS Of their Partners to any one.
So here people must discuss issue about SEX but do not need to stimulate the feelings other person.And they not need to fun also . |
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:7th Jun 2008, 11:37pm |
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goodman saimag aap ne boht acha or comprihensive reply kiya hai .goodman i agree wid u . sex is not fun . aaj kal shadi ko sirf sex se hi mansoob kiya jata hai lekin agar sirf sex hi maqsood ho to sex toys hi kafi hain .i dont know about PAKISTAN but u may know about foreign countries. but people r still frustrated.jab insan aik doosre ko sirf sex ki zaroorat k liye use kare ga to wo frustrated hi hoga. jo insan naturally comfort hasil nahi kar sakta wo kabhi unnaturally bhi satisfied nahi hosakta( like anal & oral sex) .or ISLAM MAI AURTON K LIYE HUKAM HAI K JAB KISSI GHER MOHRIM SE BAAT KARO TO APNE LEHJE MAI SAKHTI PEDA KARO TAKE WO TUMHARI TARAF MAIL NA HO.to jahan par khawateen khud hi apne aik aik part k bare mai bataien g to beechare parhane walon ka kiya kasoor. ye bhi aik tarha se zinna k zumre mai ata hai |
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| Posted on:7th Jun 2008, 3:03pm |
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My say I agreed with the most points discussed by all members but disagree with few which I will mention later, as a matter of fact we all know that this website that is meant to get knowledge on sex and to get solution for medical, psychological sex problems and not to disclose one’s own or 3rd party’s problems and experiences.
Maryam said anal and oral sex to be unnatural I half agree with her view point, and to discuss about your private parts doesn’t fall inside or near the boundaries of Zina but adultery, shamelessness and immodesty.
But one thing is very important and that is to understand the importance of sex in your married life, if sex is not the only purpose of marriage then latest a very important desire in marriage which should be fulfilled by law-full practices, and according to Doctor Heba Kotb 80% of divorces in Egypt happen due to bad/unsatisfied/improper/ sex in married couple’s lives. |
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:7th Jun 2008, 3:07pm |
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fawadali obviously sex k bagher shadi ka maqsad poora nahi hota lekin aurat attention ,love &care bhi mangti hai sex & love mai differ hota hai |
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fawadali |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 7:46am |
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Ye such hai Ye such hai k aurat love, respect, care, support, attention, importance b chahti hai jo k us ka fundamental right hai, lekin problem wahan atti hai jahan hum kisi aik ya zaida issues per clear na hon, both partners should talk to each other on regular basis on all issues including sex so they can take care of their desires, likes and dislikes (off-course law full) and priorities. Love in a couple’s life should be forever, every time in every decision, every direction, every practice, every bit of live but sex only be when desired by one or both parties to keep their souls clean and satisfied.
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 11:29pm |
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SOME POINT Ek islamic book may ney read ki to us may likha tha k shdi k bad aurat k kya fariez heen mard k lyee yani kin cheezon per us ney apna ferz nibhana ha obey kerna ha to sub say pheli baat jo us may likhi hoowe thee wo ye the k wo apni shoer ki jinsi zaroratoon ko pora karey yani k aap note kareen sex sub say phley ha is ka waqi ye mutleb howa k sex ki ktni importance ha islam may hamra islam yee kehta ha k children jeb balig ho jayeen to un ki foreen shadi ker do, kis lyee ta k wo apna fitri haq sex ko enjoyed kareen aur nasle insani ko baraheen
2nd thing husband wife ko apni sex life k barey may ek doosrey say zaroor discuss kerna chayee k kis ko sex may kya cheez pasand ha to phir aap ek doosrey ki sex ki like disliking ka pata chal jayee ga and then you have a very good married life |
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 11:35pm |
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about sex beshak huband wife k darmian sab se zaroori kam yehi hai lekin agar quest ki taraf jaen to apni personal baton ko just enjoyment k liye doosron se share karna achi baat nahi |
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GULREZ |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 11:44pm |
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all dost hosband wife ko aik hi kaam hota hai raat ko din ko wo sab kaam karte hain iss lie sex raat ko hi karna acha hai
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GULREZ |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 11:50pm |
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maryam & saim arif thanx i agree u all hadees & ur word is good thinking |
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GULREZ |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 12:05pm |
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sab dost e forigen countyr me rehta hu likin kissi e sex ka nahi socha pakistan me log itni sex karte hain itni europe me nahi hoti muslamman country agar aisi ho jae to yeh to hai hi kafir
me live italia
maryam ki batain mujhe achi lagi agar yeh parhe to mujh se connect karne ki koshish karna plz --
iss tarah ke insaan se baat karna acha lagta hai jo +positive sochta hai
sab sex ko fun na samjho
yeh aik gunha hai jis ki saza aghrit me bohat bari hai (oral sex ho ya koi bi9sex is bad do only after married is good only with wife plz plz plz gunah wale kaam na karo me have 24 old
aaj kal parha likha daur hai iss lie ziada jante hain keh tahleem kia hai islie sex karne kelie har waqt tayar rehte hain sab |
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:9th Jun 2008, 2:57pm |
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TO GULREZ Aap ko kis ney betlya ha k jo log sex k barey may soochtey heen wo khrab log hotey heen its natural my dear very natural every healthy person like the sex .
Thinking on sex its not bad but be +ve apni bivi say sex k barey may soocho us say lezat leeney k barey may soocho us say aacha pyar lo us ko aacha pyar do.
Aap ko kis ney keh dya k oral sex mana ha aur buth bara gunnah ha can you have any prove by quran and hadees....?
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