How Can I Increase My Chances Of Having Baby?

How to Conceive a Boy

The Shettles Method

The Shettles Method - How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby - Baby gender selection Book Over the last twenty-five years, thousands of couples have turned to the Shettles method for learning how to conceive a boy. And thousands have been blessed with the boy they hoped for. In fact, the properly applied Shettles method gives couples at least a 75 percent success rate. Some researchers have reported success rates up to 90 percent!

In his book, Dr. Shettles discusses the issues which will help you learn how to conceive a boy. Some of the basic ideas are listed below, but you will need to purchase the book in order to get the full details as Dr. Shettles goes it to much more detail. Failure to follow his instructions lessens the chances of you conceiving a boy.

The Shettles Method is based on the fact that the Y chromosome bearing sperm ( boy sperm ) are smaller and less robust but move faster than the larger X chromosome bearing sperm ( girl sperm ).

So based on this fact, the Shettle Method recommends the following to help you conceive a boy.

How to Conceive a Boy

Determining the Time of Ovulation:

Determining when you ovulate is vital when you are learning how to conceive a boy. Shettles recommends that you have sex as early as 24 hours before ovulation to no more than 12 hours past ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a boy. Having sex too far in advance to ovulation will dramatically decrease your chances of conceiving a boy. The timing of intercourse in relation to ovulation is a vital factor in increasing your chances of having a boy.

Shettles suggests three specific ways in which to do this.

1) Charting Cervical Mucus

Dr Shettes goes into full detail on how to chart your cervical mucus in Part Three of his book, How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby. You can download a blank CM chart in two different formats: PDF or Excel Spreadsheet.

With this method of determining when you ovulate, you access your cervical mucus on a daily basis. Right before you ovulate, your cervical mucus should be very watery and very elastic. It's consistency should be that of raw egg white. Charting for more than a month before you attempt to conceive a boy is recommended so you can be CERTAIN that you are ovulating on a specific day.

2) Basal Body Temperature (BBT) Charting

Shettles also suggests that you use BBT charting along with charting your cervical mucus in order to gain as much information as possible in order to pinpoint when exactly you are ovulating. He goes into full detail on how to accurately chart your BBT in Part Three of his book. You can download a blank BBT chart in two different formats: PDF or Excel Spreadsheet. This chart also includes an area to record your Cervical Mucus assessments.

In order to chart your basal body temperature ( BBT ), you will need to purchase a basal thermometer. Before you get up each morning, you will take your temperature before you do ANYTHING. Any activity can lead to innacurate temperature readings. At the time of ovulation, you will see a spike in your temperature which will indicate that you have already ovulated. Considering that you need to have sex as close to ovulation as possible in order to increase your chances of having a boy, you will need to chart at least two months before you can make good use of the information that your charting reveals.

3) Using Ovulation Predictor Kits

The final way Shettles recommends for finding out the exact time you are ovulating is by using ovulation predictor kits. These kits detect when your body has released LH (Luteinizing Hormone), a precursor to ovulation. Dr. Shettles suggests testing twice a day in to make sure you catch the surge as early as possible. He recommends testing once between 11am and 3 pm and then again between 5pm and 10pm. When all factors are considered, ovulation will most likely occur about 24 hours after the time when you get a positive result for the lh surge on your ovulation predictor kit. Dr. Shettles offers indepth explanations on how to interpret the ovulation predictor kits in his book so be sure to read all the information he provides.

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Frequency and Timing of Intercourse:

Shettles says in order to increase the chances of having a boy, you should have sex no earlier than 24 hours before ovulation to 12 hours after ovulation.

Intercourse closer to ovulation the faster but less robust Y (boy) sperm. The cervical mucus present at ovulation is less acidic and "slippery" enough to help the Y (boy) sperm reach the egg more quickly.

Sexual Position:

Shettles suggests that if you are trying to conceive a boy, deep penetration from your partner, preferably with the "doggy style" position, will deposit the sperm closer to the cervix giving the more aggressive and quicker moving "boy" sperm a head start to fertilizating the egg first.

Sex and Orgasms:

When trying to conceive a boy, Shettles suggests that orgasms during sex are a good thing as the body produces substances after orgasm that makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, which favors the "boy" sperm.

The contractions which accompany an orgasm help move the sperm up and into the cervix, giving the "boy" sperm an extra chance at being available when your egg is available for fertilization.

Considerations for the Men:

Have your partner wear boxers. Wearing tight fitting underwear increases the heat levels around the testes and can, in turn, lower the sperm count. Wearing loose fitting underwear helps keep the testes cooler.

Have your partner drink a caffeinated beverage right before sex. This makes the Y-Sperm more active.

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The man's sperm will determine the gender of the baby as the woman's egg is neither male or female. There are some tips on how to have a baby boy and these can be used to your advantage to increase the odds of conceiving a boy.

1. * Male sperm are much faster than female sperm. However, female sperm live longer. This means that if you have intercourse at the time of ovulation, the fast male sperm are likely to reach the egg first. If you have intercourse a few days prior to ovulation, the male sperm are likely to have died off by the time ovulation occurs, leaving the slower moving, longer living female sperm ready and waiting to fertilize the egg. In addition, if orgasm occurs close to the cervix, this increases the chances of a boy, whereas nearer to the entrance of the vagina facilitate the likelihood of a girl being conceived.
2. * Diet can sway the odds in favor of having a baby boy. A diet rich in dairy foods can help, as can eating saltier foods. In addition, a calorific intake which exceeds the daily requirement can improve the chances of having a boy, as can ensuring that all the necessary nutrients are consumed daily.
3. A quick internet search will reveal many tips on having a male baby. However, using these in isolation may not give the baby boy you would love to have. However, a systematic approach which combines all possible tried and tested ways will give you the best chance.

1. Time intercourse on the day of ovulation

If you want to conceive a baby boy, then it is absolutely essential that you conceive on the day of ovulation as this helps create an environment that gives the sperm responsible for conceiving a boy a better advantage. Use an ovulation prediction kit to accurately determine when this will occur.

2. Ensure that the alkaline levels of the woman's womb are high

Acidic levels are extremely hostile to the male sperm so making the vaginal tract more alkaline will increase the chances of conceiving a boy. This can be done by making the woman orgasm and also by altering the diet to include foods high in potassium and sodium.

3. Encourage deeper penetration sex

Sexual position matters a great deal as the cervix is naturally more alkaline than the entrance. Therefore, the couple should aim for deeper penetration positions in order to deposit the sperm closer to the cervix so that it may reach the eggs faster.

In learning how to conceive a baby boy, going through medical treatments can prove extremely expensive. Fortunately, there are natural ways to increasing your chances by timing intercourse correctly, increasing alkaline levels and aiming for deeper penetration during intercourse. Even if you conceive a girl instead, you will still grow to love them just as much.

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Summery Tips:

1: time of intercourse is before 1,2 days and maximum on the day of ovulation.

2: women should take alkaline foods before 1,2 weeks when you want sex for baby.

3: use missionary style, you must me up standing on her.

4: make your testis cooler (i don't mean to make them freeze) just before having sex wash them with cool fresh water, use loose underwear

5: women should release 1st and you after when she.

6: put your penis deeper so male sperm reach quickly to the egg for fertilize, remember that Y sperms are faster then X sperms, but Y sperms has small life so distance should be less between egg and sperm.

follow these 6 tips and you will get a moon Son INSHALLAH.

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