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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 12:35pm |
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 How Can I Tell My Parents That I Want Marry With A Girl?
its ramiz here i m now going 2 b 20year old mujha plz help ki zarurat hai kuch samaj nahi aati hai i love a girl woh bhi bohat pyar karti hai mujha mai bhi hum shadi main krain ga zarooor Insha ALLah but thori prbs hain aur serious hain os larki ki age main same hai oska ghar wala kahta hain ka hum na iski abhi shadi karni hai isi age main bus kar dain ga kuch months tak woh bohat roti hai lakin woh ghar walay 1 nahi sunta onko mara or oska pata hai k we love each other oska ghar walay kahta hain ka mujha apna ghar waloo ko bula kar rishta paka kar lo aur shadi kar loo. We r financly strong but maray ghar main kisi ko kuch nah pata main ghar main kaisay batoau ka jaou maray rishta paka kar aou kaisa kahoou ka mujha shadi karni jab ka main parh raha hoon 3rd yr ab compl ho jaye gi ab woh larki mari classfellow bhi hai jabka maray ghar to bus yahi apas main kahta hai ka acha parh la phir nokari phir ba shak marzi sa shadi yeh batain sun sun kar mujah to dar aur bhi lagta ha ka kaisa bataou i m v woorried ap soch bi nahi sakta plz help me warna rrooo doon ga yaar main main ghar kahu to jaan la lain ka bhai kaha sa khilaou ga oska kaisa rakhoo ga mara 2 baray bahi hain onki shadi thori jaldi like 21age ka hoon ga to woh kuch jama nahi kafi lariya bhi rahti hain is lia ghar wala kahta ka 2,4 sal taka setle ho jaou thora phir ! plz doooooooooo help me
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 1:59pm |
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be brave Ap ko parhai to zarur complete karni chahiay magar shadi agar larkay larki ki marzi ke mutabiq ho to hi munasib hai, yahi islam ki taleem bhi hai, ap ke to behen bhai bhi hain, ap ko zaroor ghar walon se baat karni chahiay, aakhir ap itni pareshani main hain to agar theek se ghar main baat karain to zarur wo ap ka sath dain gay. Larkay ho kar aisi buzdili mat dikhana ke pher hamesha pachtatay raho.
Ghar walon se kahain keh abhi rishta pakka kar aain, ya nikah hi kar lain takeh larki ke ghar walon ki tasalli ho jaay, is tara ap dono hi pursakoon ho kar parh bhi saktay hain, pher wo larki to classfellow hai ap ki, agar ye masla na hal hua to parhai se bhi dhyan hata rahay ga. Shadi ho jaay to BAHOT hi achi bat hai, koi harj nahi mian bivi dono mil kar parh saktay hain, bas family planning par tawajju dena, magar zaruri nahi ke foran hi rukhsati kar di jaay, rishta kar lain atleast. |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:29pm |
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thk u sweetie thank u sweetie how nice u r kitna acha reply kia hai apna u r 2 sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet acha but han sahayd thora buzdil hoon shayad nahi bhi hoon but ghar walo ki apas yeh discusion sun sun kar bus pata nahi ka bahi abhi parhay aur bus parhay aisi koi bat he na ho is lia kafi buzdil ho gaya hoon q ka agar main kaho bhi sahi to woh kahaye ga pahla ghar main kafi prbs hain jaldi shadi sa is lia dara hoon yaar is reply phir aaga main to kuch kahna jitna bhi nahi hoonga na is lia buzdil ho gaya hoon apki sugestions achi hain ka nikal ya engagement kar luu itni bat per mana looon its goood i m trying v best ov mine apka reply sa to kafi hosla ho raha hai thk u or study pa to tawaja zara kam bhi howe hai i m v gud student but ab examz os tarah ka nahi like my mirit but i will take cr ov dis thank u |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 4:10pm |
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shocked yaar yeh topic ka name kaisa chg ho jata hai khud ! |
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Red Chilli |
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 4:18pm |
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rajmallik Topic ka title Moderators ne change kia hai ..
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jun 2008, 7:33am |
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take it serious o plz users mujha help chaiya topic pa no 1 co operating kia ho gaya users koo yaar plz na help me |
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Sanwal |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jun, 2007 Topic: 18 Post: 83 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jun 2008, 8:32am |
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Rajmallik hi dear,
ye bat to such hai k ap direct bat nahi kr skte, na mom dad se or na he brothers se,
is ka sb se asan tariqa ye hai....
agar ap ki sisters hain to sb se pehle un se sari bat tafseel se kro, agr nahi to phir apni bhabion se kro, i m sure wo ye bat ahista ahista ap k mom dad se share krna shru kre gi,
ye bat dil se nikal do k jhat mangni or pat bhiah ho, thora time lge ga, bat chir jae gi to mom dad sochna shru kr de ge, is k baad shaed wo ap se direct bat kre to gathering main keh dena ya mera hial hai k bhabion se he keh do k mangni kr dain shadi jb un ka g chahe....!
agay ap jo munasib samjen..........
Good Luck............;-) |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jun 2008, 2:39pm |
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gud thoughts! :) good thank u bhai Sanwal kafi mature ho app ..
acha jaha tak bhabhio ko batana ka taluk hai to isko chor do koi faida nahi hoga 1 bhabhi apni sister mari shadi karwana chahti hai so its funny ka onsa bat ki jaye doasri jo hain onki koi sister nahi but she ll b nver interested ...
to bat yeh janab sister hai mari bari onko maina thora bataya tha friend ap mil kar aou onsa phir main chor bhi aya gf ka ghar oski ami mili oski ami na kaha ka hum to chahta hain bus yeh apna ghar chali jaye matlab shadi ho jaye or maza ki bat yeh hai sirf oski ami he aisa chahti hai oska dad nahi but dad oska majboor hain u know joru ka ghulam hehehe acha to baji na kaha abhi to yeh parhay phir job hogi acha rishta ho ga bus onki itni mulakat howe baji ko larki pasand aye thi mari lov mrg ho bhi jaye gi osi larki sa but maray ghar walay abhi is per koi bat he nahi karna chahta hain ab lag raha hai baji ko phir sa kaho ka "Mujha woh pasand hai oski woh shadi karna chahta hain agar ap bus mari bat he kar loo to wait bhi kar lain ga lagta hai ab kahna paray iska elawa koi rasta nahi mil raha" agar ap users koi aur rasta milay to mujha batain plzzzzz yaar dua bhi karain plz or oska ghar wala wait bhi kar lain mara bat yeh hai koi mari sunay to na agar kaho ga bhi to sirf baji say he umeed hai kuch ami abu bhai nahi woh larai gay aur chup ho jae gi bus baji sa ummed hai woh bus itni ka ja kar bat kar aye gi ka ap log wait karay itni favour mil sakti hai mujha bus zayada kuch aur ho sakay main kar sakoou jo mujha batain plzzzzz yeh dard wohi bahter samjay gay jisna pyar kia hoga thx
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jun 2008, 2:39pm |
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gud thoughts! :) good thank u bhai Sanwal kafi mature ho app ..
acha jaha tak bhabhio ko batana ka taluk hai to isko chor do koi faida nahi hoga 1 bhabhi apni sister mari shadi karwana chahti hai so its funny ka onsa bat ki jaye doasri jo hain onki koi sister nahi but she ll b nver interested ...
to bat yeh janab sister hai mari bari onko maina thora bataya tha friend ap mil kar aou onsa phir main chor bhi aya gf ka ghar oski ami mili oski ami na kaha ka hum to chahta hain bus yeh apna ghar chali jaye matlab shadi ho jaye or maza ki bat yeh hai sirf oski ami he aisa chahti hai oska dad nahi but dad oska majboor hain u know joru ka ghulam hehehe acha to baji na kaha abhi to yeh parhay phir job hogi acha rishta ho ga bus onki itni mulakat howe baji ko larki pasand aye thi mari lov mrg ho bhi jaye gi osi larki sa but maray ghar walay abhi is per koi bat he nahi karna chahta hain ab lag raha hai baji ko phir sa kaho ka "Mujha woh pasand hai oski woh shadi karna chahta hain agar ap bus mari bat he kar loo to wait bhi kar lain ga lagta hai ab kahna paray iska elawa koi rasta nahi mil raha" agar ap users koi aur rasta milay to mujha batain plzzzzz yaar dua bhi karain plz or oska ghar wala wait bhi kar lain mara bat yeh hai koi mari sunay to na agar kaho ga bhi to sirf baji say he umeed hai kuch ami abu bhai nahi woh larai gay aur chup ho jae gi bus baji sa ummed hai woh bus itni ka ja kar bat kar aye gi ka ap log wait karay itni favour mil sakti hai mujha bus zayada kuch aur ho sakay main kar sakoou jo mujha batain plzzzzz yeh dard wohi bahter samjay gay jisna pyar kia hoga thx
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Sanwal |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jun, 2007 Topic: 18 Post: 83 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2008, 9:12am |
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RajMallik hi dear,
1 bat ka hial rakhna baji k sr he sub kuch na chor dena, q k kal ko ap k sb ghar walo ko pta chle ga, to help krne walo ko na phansa dena,
hr mushkil kam klie waseelay ki zrorat hoti hai, to waseelay ka hial sub se pehle, or agar ap ki baji ap behn bhaio se bari hain to wo un k ghar walon ko sabr krne ka keh sakti hain, or moqa milte he wo mom dad se bat kren gi, or inshalla bat paki ho jae gi,
baqi rahi pyar main intazar ki bat, to.........................
bger intazar k mere bhai kuch nahi mile ga, jitna intazar kr skte ho kro, in kamo main yehi sub se mushkil cheez hai,
1 bat or, jub ALLAH ne qismat main likh dia hai us ka waqt muqar'r hai, us se pehle chalaang lagany ki koshish kro ge to gir jao ge,
chalo 1 bat or, agar baji k sath mil kr kuch bat agay nei barti to jis bhabi ki koi sister nahi use or baji ko ikatha kro or wo 2no mil kr koi rasta nikale gi,
ok bus bhai
duao main yad rakhna
thanxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxXXXX |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2008, 3:11pm |
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 ok buddy
thx buddy Sanwal
apka sugestions kafi achay hain bus sab batain chorain 1 bat batain ka bus straight bat ka mujha bat karni chaiya baji sa bus 100 baton ki 1 bat hai iska elawa koi rasta nahi ho to batain
i want more ppl 2 discuss on my love life plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz kisi ki zindagi ka sawal hai |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2008, 3:13pm |
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i 4got acha sanwal bhai duain to ap jaisa naik aur good wishers ka lia he hain bohat sukh aur pyar milay ap ko ameen hamesha dua karo ga ap jaisa aur sweetie ji jaisa naik achay aur saf dil waloo ka lia |
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2008, 3:32pm |
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raj sanwal ne itna to detail se mashwaray diay, un par to amal kar ke dekhain, we all wish you best of luck.
agar waqei ap dono aik doosray ke liay sachay jazbaat rakhtay hain to Zarur Allah madad karay ga, bas ye yaad rakhna ke seedhay rastay se hi is ke liay koshish karna, kabhi koi ghalat rasta mat sochna, ghalat rastay shyad haseen nazar atay hon magar saraab hotay hain, un par kabhi haqiqi khushi nahi mil sakti.
baqi duaon ka shukria. |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2008, 4:58am |
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sweetie acha
theek hai samaj ay gi ab kafi kuch clear ho gaya hai mind main , han we love each other a lot she is a fairy wonderful girl understand everything and etc etc but hum lartay bohat hain heheh aisay he mazak mazak main thx ap logo ka bohat bohat dis is a wonderful site rly apki hosla afzai sa kafi strong ho gaya hoon thank u thx alot u r like angels 4 me from ALLah , Sahi bat hai ALLAH kisi ko to zarya bana daita hai
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ss.ss |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Jun, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 17 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jun 2012, 3:01pm |
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pllxxxx help me out plllxxx i beg!!
I beg plxx help me.. hey ever one brothers nd sistersshayan here !!
same mera b kch aisa he masla hai jus like ramez but lil bit different..
problen ix that i really love ma g.f nd she also loves me alot...alhamdolliah!!
mashallah bht undrstndintg b hai..baat saari yeh hai mene apny parents sy unka introduce sai sy nh kraia hai...meri friendship cll py hui thi mene apny parents ko btaia k wo mere coa mai parhti hai..mene phr coa chor dia hamara koi cntct nh tha phr unhony mughe f.b py connect kra hai...ok
phr mery parents unko uxky bad sy ghalat smjhny lagy ky wo larki tmhary pechy pargaie hai etc etc....
phr mery parents ny meri ghair moujdgi mai mery sary personal msgs b parhliye thy mb autha kr...phr unhony kha ab tm ix larki sy baat nh krogy ye sai nh hai dkho tmhary pechy par gaie hai aisa aisa bolty thy ye baat 3 , 4 months pehly ki hai…phr mery parents ny mera mb b ly lia tha or bht smjhaia ky dkho aisi larkian sai nh hti or etc etc mai ab repeat nh krna chahta coz mai bht hurt hua tha ux time…or phr mery parents ny kha tmm apny pero py khary hojao ixqabil hojao to phr jis larki sy khogy ux larki sy krengy tmhari shadi….ab masla ye hai brothers nd sisters meri g.f ghr waaly rishta ka keh rhy thy halaky unki ami ko mera pata tha k she loves me..but won h maan rh thi…then before few days unhony mughe dkha then meri g.f ny apni mom sy baat ki tou unko mai pasand aia..ab mene 8 , 9 monts mangy hain ky mai apny ghr waalo ko ly aonga or unko shadi ki koi jaldi nh hai wo khali baat cheetpa kki krna chahty hain..plxxx I beg plxxxx help me out hmm apny allah sy duain b bht kr rhy hain..mai inshalah job b find kr rh hn…ab ap log help krea ab mai kia krun….hmm bht tnse rhty hain wo b bht rooti hain…….kbi kbi mughe b rula dyti hain…plx I beg again help me…
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spammi iru |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2013, 4:01am |
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 zina
Zona ka kiya MATLAB hai .help me. |
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spammi iru |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2013, 4:02am |
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zina Zina ka kiya MATLAB hai plz help |
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zaree gul |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Apr 2013, 1:49am |
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spammi iru
Asslam u alaikum ......zina ka metleb hy kisi ghair mahram larka larki sy jismani mail jool rakhna....ic sy hr mumkin bachna cahi hy....Quran PAK main ALLAH TALA farmaty hain"zina k qareeb na batko..woh bura fayel hy aur bura rasta hy"(Surah bani israil).. Quran pak main ic ki bt sakht saza hy.....zindagi main bhe aur qabar main bhe......agr hum Quran pak ka tarjama aur tafser perhy to wahan hr chez k bary main khul kr batay geya hy...aur koi aap ki help kr sakta hy to plz unhy aur bata dain...tc |
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Group: Members Joined: 09th Apr, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Apr 2013, 9:27am |
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"ss.ss" bhai- your reply.
Salam, mein UAE sy hoon aur abhy mein Great Britian mein rehti hoon so meri urdu is very bad. I can totally understand your situation, leken aap apny family ko samjao in a very friendly way. Kyun k woh ye samjte hein k woh larki burri hy for the family aur aap ky liye, aur aap ny ye ghalat fehmi remove karni hy first. Aap us larki sy bohat piyar karte hein, and we can see that. Leken family comes first. Aap ky parents ko samjna aap ky responsibility hy, aur aap un ko sab sy acha understand kar sakte hein- agar aap un ky problem understand kar sakte hein toh fir aap un ko aik solution or answer bhy dy sakte hein. Is ky ilawa, I will pray that you get your dreams and desires fulfilled INSHA'ALLAH. Just pray to God and you'll get your problems solved. Khudafiz bhai |
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