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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Oct 2008, 9:23am |
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 I Have Homosexual Feelings: Please Help Me
Dear Doctor, main bacpan hi say same sex ki taraf attracted tha but kabhi involve nahi hua likin meri sex drive towards males hamesha strong rahi, when i was college student i get close to some guy likin sexually involve nahi hua cuz iam always afraid of God, mainay bohat chaha kay opposite sex say meri attraction barh jay but i totally failed. Now i married, meri shadi ko taqreeban 2 saal honay walay hain, ab tak main apni wife say intercourse nahi kar saka cuz mujhay feelings hi nahi hoti hain for a sex my wife is very understanding aur woh mujhay kisi doc say advise ko kehti hay but i know yeh masla mera physical nahi hay balkay psycological hay. jab main wife kay pas hota hoon tu less erection hoti hay ya bilkul nahi hoti instead of this i usually experienced morning errection, likin in morning jaisay hi main wife say sex ka sochta hoon then i suddenly lost the errection. I am really feel very guilty cuz meri waja say meri wife bhi parishaan hay. I try not to attract towards same sex but ab bhi ho jata hoon even hameesha night falls main males ko dekhta hoon. main sakht mushkil main aur parishaan hoon, main jaisa hoon waisa by choice nahi hoon but bachpan say hi is trah ki feelings meray sath hain samjh nahi ata ab kaisay in -ve feelings say nijaat hasil karoon. please advise
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Oct 2008, 2:06pm |
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 Riolio
This is very tough and interesting situation for members here...
Members how can you help him ..? Since he is afraid of God and dont want to be a gay......
I will start with one thing Riolio Pray to God .. This may be your exam from God and you might get rewarded Big time after death.
Zamu bache dont advise some thing which is not allowed in islam .. |
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2008, 3:34pm |
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riolio jo mard male sex passand karte hain onhe female mein koi dilchapsi nehin rehti.yeh aak nafsiyati problem hai..jis mein mard ko mard ko he dekh kar erection hoti hai.onhe female ke sath sex karne ki khwaish he nehin hoti.
aap ki wife bhi nafsiyat ka shikaar ho rehi hai woh bhi aap ki waja se...aap ko mashwara hai k aap time zaiya na kare aur forun kisi achey nafsiyati doctor se consult kare. |
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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Oct 2008, 12:01am |
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Homosexual Feelings mujhay kisi nafsiyati doctor ka nahi pata can anybody tell the name of any good doctor |
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2047 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Oct 2008, 4:07pm |
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re: homosex feeling aap karachi mai rehte hai, kisi bhi bare hospital chale jaaye aur on se maloom kare keh psychiatrist ya clinical psychologist kaha mil sakte hai. Karachi mai kai psychiatric hospital bhi hai aap waha bhi jaa sakte hai.
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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Oct 2008, 11:51pm |
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Homosexual Feelings Can i use some medicine to get errection |
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Oct 2008, 3:32pm |
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riolio erection dimag aur jism ke sath hoti hai.lehaza hum aap ko medicines use karne ki ijazat nehin de ge.jab aap ki shaadi ho jaye gi to erection bhi khud ba khud theek ho jaye ge. |
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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2008, 12:06am |
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Homosexual Feelings I am really upset with your reply bhai, as your reply shows kay aap nay mera masla parha hi nahi i am married guy yaar please read my first post iam just copying below :
Dear Doctor,
main bacpan hi say same sex ki taraf attracted tha but kabhi involve nahi hua likin meri sex drive towards males hamesha strong rahi, when i was college student i get close to some guy likin sexually involve nahi hua cuz iam always afraid of God, mainay bohat chaha kay opposite sex say meri attraction barh jay but i totally failed.
Now i married, meri shadi ko taqreeban 2 saal honay walay hain, ab tak main apni wife say intercourse nahi kar saka cuz mujhay feelings hi nahi hoti hain for a sex my wife is very understanding aur woh mujhay kisi doc say advise ko kehti hay but i know yeh masla mera physical nahi hay balkay psycological hay.
jab main wife kay pas hota hoon tu less erection hoti hay ya bilkul nahi hoti instead of this i usually experienced morning errection, likin in morning jaisay hi main wife say sex ka sochta hoon then i suddenly lost the errection.
I am really feel very guilty cuz meri waja say meri wife bhi parishaan hay. I try not to attract towards same sex but ab bhi ho jata hoon even hameesha night falls main males ko dekhta hoon.
main sakht mushkil main aur parishaan hoon, main jaisa hoon waisa by choice nahi hoon but bachpan say hi is trah ki feelings meray sath hain samjh nahi ata ab kaisay in -ve feelings say nijaat hasil karoon.
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2008, 3:17pm |
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riolio dear my reply ne aap ki post read kar ke he jawab diya hai.aap kisi doctor se consult kare.
aap ko jawab mel chuka hai.ager kuch aur mazeed kehna hota to my reply keh dete.onho ne bhi aap ko doctor se consult karne ko kaha hai. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Oct 2008, 4:57am |
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yes im agreed to veer
ap ka masla osycha=trist hi solve ker sktey hain
dotn worry u will feel better after consulting a gud psychatrist |
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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Oct 2008, 4:36am |
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Homosexual Feelings veer bhai nay kaha "jab aap ki shaadi ho jaye gi to erection bhi khud ba khud theek ho jaye ge." jab kay mainay first msg main clearly likha tha kay meri shadi ko 2 saal ho chukay hain.
It means unho nay meri problem ki jist bus samjh li thi yeh nahi samjha kay main kis delemma say guzarraha hoon aget my shadi.
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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Nov 2008, 2:07am |
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Homosexual Feelings Veer Bhai
Could you reply to my above message?
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Nov 2008, 3:32am |
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riolio yar agar 2 sal guzer janay k bawajood bhi aisa hota hai
to phr ap ko yakeenan ksi achey psychatrist ki zaroorat hai
plz consult him and discuss ur problem with him |
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riolio |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Nov 2008, 5:45am |
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help Can u guys help me kay kon sa psychatrist hospiatl hay karachi main aur wahan main kis doctor kay pas jaon?
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Dec 2008, 1:59am |
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yar kisi bhi achey hospirtal mein chaley jao
aur wahan per ja k un se ache psychatrist ka naam pucho aur check kerwa lo |
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Dec 2008, 2:11am |
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i m shocked yaar mujhe to hairat ho rahi hai k shadi k baad bhi app ki aise feelings hoti hain, app jald az jald kisi physciatrist ke pass jao aur apna ilaag karwao Allah Tala hum sab per rehem farmaye
Aameen |
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samiiira |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2009, 4:47am |
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sad salam me pakistani hun lakin hum gulf me rahty hen yahan 3 sal pahly mary sath ak ladky ny zabardasti ki me behosh hogai phir ptanai kia kia kya usny me pregnent ho gai thi mujy nai pta tha ami ko sb btaya to phir pta chla phir abortion krwaya mari mangni hoi thi tb many apny mangaitr ko b btadia usny muj c nikah kerlia wo bohot acha hy per ab mujy ajib ajib feeling hoti hen mari shadi ak sal k bad hy me feeling ka kia kerskti hun plz koi tarika bta den??
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Dr R |
Group: Experts Joined: 01st Apr, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 128 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2009, 12:53pm |
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 re: samiiira
please start another topic do not involve or try to change the thread here
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Dr Faeez |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2009, 1:25pm |
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 re: homosexuality
hello,
the reasons for homosexuality have not been found as yet, some say it
is by birth, some say it is a psychological problem, some say it is a
genetic problem, but all agree it is a problem.
the reasons may be shrouded in sectrecy but the causes are also not
open, you can now make a homosexual but i have not heard of anybody
curing one.
islam defines it as the things that the tribe of 'Lot(A.S.W.T)' did and
they were punished but it also defines in the same suran that the
people of the tribe also did not use the correct weights and measures
for trading.
when you are married and you have such feelings, try to concentrate on the issue at hand islam does not allow such behaviour, period.......therefore try and commit your mind to the fact and try and make your wife the object of your desire:
think of her whenever your arousal is there and take time to admire her and then try and live with her and for her
understand you dont have to prove anything to the world by worying that you have been married long enough and blah blah blah but concentrate on what you have to do that is have sex
try and concentrate yourself in the field and i would say that you can use soft or hardcore porn for the issue too but dont get too involved
these are the first steps that you can take but the road is long and hard, oh yes the most important thing
PRAY that Allah delivers you from this test that you are in, if you fear Allah this might be the very small test of your willpower.
i will be praying for you
let me know who it turns out to be
peace(assalamalaikum)
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empptc |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 10:01am |
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same problem
AOA, dr sb mere saat bhi yahi problem hai meri shadi hone wali hai main ek achhe nafsiyati dr se 2 saal elag karwa choka hon magar koi faida nai hua hay. mujhe young boys main buhat sex mehsoos hota hai aur un ke saat intercors karne ka dil chahta hai. main es se bachna chahta hon magar control nai hota hai. ek do male ke saat sex relation bhi rakh chuka hon uske ke baat zameer mulamat karta hai jis ki waja se depression ka mareez ho gaya hon meri sehat bhi depression ki waja se kharab ho gai hai. bhook bilkul nai lagti hai. har waqt udasi aur fikar rehti hai ke shadi ke baat agar main apni wife ko us ka haq na desaka tu kitni badnami ho gi ye soch soch kar meri sehat aur kharab ho gai hay plz meri help karin. kia nafsiyati dr ke alawa es ka koi elag nia hay. magar dr bhi kuch nai kar saka hia. main ne liquat nation hospital main dr.moin ansari (phsy) se 2 saal elag karwaya hai. aue phsyco thropy bhi karwai hai magar koi faida nai hua. ye baat sharam ki waja se kisi keh bhi nai sakta hon. kia app kuch kar sakte hain?
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