Erectile Dysfunction: Is There Any Psychological Reason Of This Problem?

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dr sahib mein buht tense hoon plz meri help kren.mein apko apna problem detal sy btati hoo

hamari shadi ko 2 saal hony waly hein. meri aik beti 8 mah ki hy

problem history ye hy

mery husband doctor hein iss liy wo doctor sy shadi krna chahty thy unn ki engagment aik medical student sy kar di gai jo baad mein understanding na hony ki waja sy toot gai iss doran mery husband job k sisily mein saudi arab aa gai thy yahan aisy mein aik larki jo unn k ward mein nurse hy nayunn ki buht moral support ki ye uss k ishaq mein par gai or ussy purpose bhi kia lekin wo larki khud kisi or mein intersted thi iss liy reject kar dia ab inho ny apni halat majnoo jesi bna lee yahan tak k uss ki awaz sun kar roty rehty(ye batein mujy mery husband nay khud btai hein)ghar walon ko iss bare mein kuch nhi maloom gab ghar walon nay shadi ka kaha to inkar kar dia

buht sare logon k samjhany par shadi k liy maan gai hamari shadi chat mangni pat biyah hui wo shadi k liy sirf aik week k liy aye thy shadi k waqt unn ki age 33 or meri 24 thi hum dono nay aik dosry ko dekha tak nhi tha mein shakal surat sy bhi khubsrat tareen logon mein shamil hoti hoon or mera behavior bhi buht acha hy iss liy mry husband nay aik mah mein he mujy apny pass bula lia lekin abhi bhi unn k dil mein uss larki ki muhbat buht zyada hy uss ko yad kar k roty hein mujy khud kehty hein k tum uss larki sy zyada piyari ho lekin mujy uss sy zyada koi bhi ach nhi lag sakta wo har baat mein ussy acha  kehty hein or ussy apna pyar or mujy bass bewi kehty hein  

poblem ye hy k unko ab sahih tarah erection nhi hota balke sex k doran 7-8 din ka gap bhi aa jata hy wo pehly ye kehty thy k mujy lamby nails basan hein makeup pasand hay sexy clothes achy lagty hein mein ye sab kuch kia unn k liy makeup karna sekha nails bary kiy sab kuch kia lekin ab to unn par in chezon ka bhi asar nhi hota kehty hein mein 35 ka borha ho gia hoon iss liy sex nhi kar sakta jab k mera har roz karny ko dil chahta hy

dosri problem ye hy k shadi kbaad sy le kar ab tak shaed he kabhi mujy orgaizem aya ho mein ny apki book parhi or wesa he karny ki kosis bhi ki lekin wo mujy ye keh kar hata dety hein k kia kar rahi ho mujy gudgudi hoti hyor ye k mei ab sex nhi kar sakta kahen orgaizem na any ki waga ye to nhi k mein shdi sy pehly fingering karti thi ye baat mery husband janty hein or unn ka kehna hy k ye normal baat baat hy wo khud bhi moisturbation karty rahy hein unn ko gandi films dekhny ka bhi shoq hy ab aap hee btaein k mein orgaism kesy hasil kar sakti hoon or mery hussband kesy har roz arouse ho sakty hein wo to bass sorry keh kar pechy hat jaty hein or mein bhi unko hosla deti hoon kabhi bhi unko iss bare mein blame nhi karti hamesa compromise karti hoon lekin mein bhi insan hoon

ab wo jab bhi kabhi sex kart hein to pregnancy sy bachany k liy withdrawl method use karty hein

aap meri problem ka haal zaror btaein plz

mein janti hoon aaj mein nay apny shoher ki raz ki baat aap k samnay khol di hy allah mujy maaf kare amin

allah apko bhi ajar-e-khaer day amin

allah hafiz

me

ash

re: hubsband problem

ap ke shohar ko nafsiati ilaj ki zaroorat hai. ap onhai kisi psychiatrist ya clinical psychologist se milne ka mashwarah de.

baqi hamare doosre members bhi ap ke problem solve karne ke lia munasib mashwarah de ge. on logo ke reply ka bhi wait kare.

ASAD

 dekhen app ke husband agar ap ko sahi tarah satify nahi karte to app ka kaam hai ke unse baat karen akhir woh husband hain apkke..............is tarah net per numaish karne se behter hai ke husband se baat ki jaye..................!!

aur yeh satisfection both side se hoti hai one sided nahi hoti...............sex ke dauraan  apka role bhi hota hai ke husband ko bataya jaye ke app ko kya acha lagta hai ya kya nahi......................laash bane rehne se sex nahi hota madam...........................!!

akhir app unki bewi hain unko guide kiya karen ap ok......................tc

listen asad bhai

asad bhai u r right lekin mein unn sy baat kar chuki hoon or net par numaish lagany k ye maqsad hy k koi expert or dard e dil rakhny waly mujy koi aisa maswara den jiss sy mein apny husband ko sahih  tarah sy deal kar sakon iss tarah k unnko kisi qisam ki koi gulty bhi feel na ho

or wesy bhi aap mard log uss larki ki feeling ko kesy samaj sakty hein jiss nay sirf iss liy kabhi kisi ko apny dil or dimag any nhi dia kion k wo shadi k baad apny husband ko wo muqam de saky jiss ka tasawur islam nay dia hy or aap uss larki ki halat ka taswur bhi nhi kar sakty jiss ko pehli raat he ye keh dia gia ho mera sab kuch tumara hy dil k siwa lekin mein apny husband sy iss qadar piyar karti hoon k unko zara sa bhi presan nhi dekh sakti kuja ye k unko ye ehsas ho k unn mein kisi chez ki kami hy

meri aap aap logon sy bass ye reqest hy mujy sahih maswara dein ya phir sirf dua hee kar dein

allah aap ka bhla kary ga

apne problem ki numaish ki hai

ashy: mohtarma ap bilkut sahi website par hai. yeh website ap jaise shareef logo ke lia banai gai hai jo apne problem har aik se discuss nahi kar sakte. yaha gumnam id ke zaria apne problem bata kar munasib rahnumai hasil karte hai. ap ne jo kuch bataya yeh numaish nahi balke problem hai. yeh sab kuch batana zaroori tha. lehaza ap bilkul bhi na soche keh ap ne apne problem ki numaish ki hai.

ap intezar kare yaha par bahut sare members apne apne khialat ka izhar kare ge. jis se insha-allah ap ka masla hal ho jai ga. agar kisi member ki bat buri lage tu dar guzar kar de. kio keh on ka maqsad bhi problem ko solve hi karna hai. bas andaz apna apna hai.

Re: ashy

thank u bhai log

thanks 4 all of urs hamdardi but im not a typical bechari

i can do wat i want im  just in need of solid solution so that in light of urs experts seggesions  i will do it

bcoz i ve firm faith in allah and my love

thnx again

Dear Sister Ashy!

dear sister ashy u are a very nice & sincere women bcoz you told everything about yourself to your husband but your husband is not sincere with you bcoz (agar) wo abi tak rota hai apni lover ko yad kar k.

mai samajhta hon k apkay husband kuch complex ka shikar hain, inko hoslay ki zaroorat hai, ap kisi tara unkay andar josh paida karain. or thori si un par sakhti karain. kyoky bohat pyar kar k to dekh chuki hain ap. mai ye samajhta hon k kuch arsay k liye (atleast 1 month) sexual activities band kar dain, wo kahain bi to achay tarikay say taal dain..or unko kisi soorat masturbation na karnay dain, agar kabi apko pata lag jaey k us nay masterbation kia hai to unko acha khasa shaRminda karain.

ye insani fitrat hai, jo mil jaey us par banda shukar guzar nahi hota, or jo na mil sakay us par rota peet-ta rehta hai. agr wo apni lover ka zikar karain to unsay kisi kisam ki hamdardi na karain balkay sakhti say kahain k mai kia karon, agar ziada hi mohabat feel ho rahi hai to zehar kha lo, i am sure wo zehar nai khaye ga lekin ainda apsay apni sabka lover ki bat bi nai karay ga (agar kuch logo ko meri bat theek na lagay to i m really sorry, lekin muje jo theek laga wo mainay bata dia, amal karna ya na karna wo ashy ki marzi hai)

Unko gandi porN movies na dekhnay dain, is mamlay mai sakhti karain, kyoky aik to ye ghair islami kaam hai dosra bohat say logo ka khayal hai k porn movies dekh kar mard, namard ho jata hai. porn movies ki waja say sexual feelings khatam ho jati hai, or agar ap bi porn movies dekhti hain to apki sexual feelings mai kami ho jaey gi, is liye gandi movies (akely ya husband k sath) dekhna band kar dain.

ap khud to namaz parhti hi hongi, apnay husband ko bi kisi tara namaz ki taraf lagain. dono mil kar kuchh time deeni ahadees ya Quran majeed parha karain with translation.

apnay husband say dosti karain, sexual talk band kar dain, normal batain karain dosto ki tara, weekend par long drive par jaya karain, after 1 month kisi pur-fiza mukaam par sair karnay jaein, life ko enjoy karain.

aapny koi Raz nai bataya, personally we dont know you and you dont know us, u just share your problem with dr.s and your muslim brothers n sisters & it is not a sin.

waisa mera ye zati khayal hai k kisi bachy ko chot lag jaey or usey kaha jaey tumharay sath bohat bura hua, khoon bi nikal aya, to wo bacha or zor zor say rona lagay ga or ye ap us bachay k sath koi hamdardi nahi kar rahay balkay ziadti kar rahay hain.

agree to josh

I am totaly agree with josh. in adition do two things

1. after every farz namaz aik dafa aitulkursi aik dafa sura buqra ki akhri do aiyat (amnarasulo se age) aur teen dafa yahayo yaqyoom par kar dua karo inshallah allah ap ki madad kare ga.

2. Din me kisi bi waqat 100 martba darood shareef parha karo (better to fix time and rozana ausi waqat par patho.)

Inshallah God will help you.

Also try to follow jash instructions.

Re: arshy

Himmat mat harna!

ashy..

its so sad ,jo apne likha...jo apke sath hua aur jo ho raha hai

tell me one thing,kya ap logon ke bich sex tab hi hota hai jab wo kehte hain??

kya apne kabhi koshish ki hai ke ap unko matwajja karo?i mean unko dikhaen that u want and need it.

or try to note what ur husband like,what is her weekpoint in sex?because maby wo kisi nafsiyati problm ki waja se ap ke pas nahi ate,agar ap unse pehal karengi,maby wo apko phir se ye keh kar mana kar den ke ab nahi...but ap phir bhi mat rukna..and try to give him this what he like.sorry mai apko aur kisi tarah nahi samjha sakti what i mean i hope u understand me.

mera nahi khayal ke ek mard ko jab wife pyar kare to wo khud ko rok paye.)

maby kuch Mard hazrat meri is bat se zehmat na hon.but i think..

is ka faida?

The Holy versus you have mentioned above,

In say kia ho ga :s

iss problem ka iss say koi relation to nai i guess

sunhari

i agree with you yaar

kabhi kabhi wife ko bhi chaiyea to step forward cuz some times husbands love to see that their wives need them

warna lagta hai kay husband force karta hai lol

ak-hahahhaaaa

warna lagta hai kay husband force karta hai lol

Ya u are right.. :)

till than bye

ASAD

MERI DUA AP KE SAATH HAI ASHY.......................khair..............meri kisi baat ka bura laga ho to sorry......................i ever never mean u hurt u ok...............dekhen apke husb ne abhi tak apko dil mein jaga nahi di hai ok....................so yeh aista aista hi hoga...........aur khidmat se hota hai yeh...................per yeh zaroor kahonga ke hamesha unke saath rahega ap koi bhi kaam ho kuch zaroorat ho etc to app sab se pehle unke saamne hoo ok...........................

ALLAH apke shoher ko hidayat de......................

Re. Mery husband mujhy satify nahi kartay.

AK-47: You think k jo holy verses Baji ne batae hein un ka is issue se direct koi link nahi hai. But being a Muslim hameen sb se ziada bharosa Allah per karna chahiyay. Koshish ki apni jaga hai aur dua ki apni importance. Duaon mein bohat asar hota hai. Is lyay ap ye mat kahen k in verses ka is issue se koi taluq nahi hai.

Ashy: Ap ko jo different members ne suggestions di hein, in mein se jo apko sahi lagti hai ya ap ki situation k mutabiq suit karti hein ap un per amal karen aur sath mein jo Baji ki suggestion hai us per bhi amal karen. Apni puri koshish bhi kare aur Allah se bohat dua bhi karen. BESHAK ALLAH HAR CHEEZ PER QADIR HAI.

Ham sb ki bh dua hai k Allah apki problems ko jald hal farmae. Aamin.

Regards.

thanks

aap sab ki suggestions ka shukria

mein inn par amal karny ki kosis zaror karon gi

wesy mein or mery husband hajj kar chuke hein balke wo to 6 marta hajj kar chuke hein hein or unn ka zehan buht mazhabi hy hum namaz or tarjuma tafseer k sath quran parhty hein or aksar tawaf-e-kaba or umra bhi karty hein or yaqenan dua bhi isi liy to mujy yaqeen hy k wo theek ho jaein gay

aap sab ka thnx again

especialy josh bhai

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me

ashy

Husband Problem

Mis maray khial main apko apnay husband kay pass full tiar ho kar jana chahiay. Unkay mezaj ka khial rakhna chahiay. Agar unko sex addresses achay lagtay hain to apko unkay samnay sexy address main jana chahiay. Aur unko sex karnay say pahlay sweet batain karni chahiay and phir sex karna chahiay.

One more thin kay apko unsay poochna chahiay kay wo kasay sex krna pasand kartay hain tu phir hi ko hal nikal sakta hai. Mari 3 girl friend hain lakin mujay kabi b unsay ye shakait nahi hoti kionkay main hamaisha unsay phooch kar aur unkay tarikay say sex karta hoon. Is tarah mujay b full maza aata hai aur wo be full enjoy karti hain.

Ap aik dafa ye tarika azma kar dekhain phir sub kuch detkh ho jay ga.

Just try once!

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Re: S123