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Group: Members Joined: 20th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 61 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2007, 5:46pm |
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 Diffferance Between Love And Obsession
SALAAM TO ALL. I want to ask is there anything called LOVE bw a girl and a boy who are not married??? I was watching a tv program one day on HUM TV where a dr.sb was saying that young boys and girls get OBSESSED with some member of opposite sex which they call as LOVE. I have something to tell.... i read in co-education. Well not being a MIAAN MITHU, i m quite a good looking person. Here i see girls looking at me stealthily or somewhat boldly,having eye contact with me etc. I have had female friends....obviously of my class...how we got together its a long story,at present i have two female frnds. Both of them say they are in love with. However,both of them admit i didnt do anything intentionally to make them in love with myself. They admit that it ws there own choice because they liked me and when they became frnds with me, they were so impressed that they got in love with me naturally. being very frank i know many others who like me as well but i am not in contact wid them.....Now i come to my point....having a reltion with them for two years i didnt felt the same. i didnt fell in love with any of them. That is why i want to know is it love or people just get obsessed with eachother??? i have shared a little abt my life too. i request if someone doesnt like this post then ignore it but plzzzzzzzzzzzz no bad replies or hurting remarks.............. Regards..........[ X ]
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zain606 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 50 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2007, 1:52am |
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 Love and Hunger
salam....yaar...where do you live???? hmmm just come into reality and face the ruthless truth of humans.....i will not say much words...just think about these simple questions...Have you seen a good looking guy who have every thing falls in love with a girl who is at the bottom of society(Beggar)??? Have you seen two lovers advising to say prayer(Namaaz) for eachother???? Have you seen a girl who is in her home clothes(Without makeup) going on a date with a guy??? Have you heard that a girl leave her lover because she is afraid of islam's rule and regulation??? NO ..i don't think that you have answers to my silly questions....if you don't have answer then guess what ..Our Love is not practical....Our love is not for eachother...Our Love take us away from our religion.....It takes every thing away from us wich are required for better life....so just think now....Is it Love which takes away every thing which makes our life better????......yeah just for reference ...Nammaz >>> our religion....Without makeup>>> without show up,with reality.....Islam's rule and regulation...Our 100% mean of life on earth......i try to explain ....main kahan tak kamyab hua ye khuda hi behter janta hai ...ok Allah ki aman main raho...Alllah Hafiz |
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Kali Zuban |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2007, 3:26am |
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re: attractive nafsiat mai aik bimari hai obsessive compulsive disorder. is bimari mai repeated thoughts ate hai. maslan kisi ko napaki ka khial hota hai aur kisi bhi qisim ki choone se lagta hai keh os ka hath napak hogia hai. lehaza woh bar bar hath dhota hai. etna ziadah hath dhota hai keh tank ka pani aur sabun aik hi din mai khatam ho jata hai.
bilkul isi tarah se kisi ko bar bar thoughts ata hai keh os ne lock theek se check nahi kia hai. lehaza wo sari rat ooth ooth kar lock aur kundi check karta rahe ga.
love ko ham obsession tu nahi kah sakte lekin love aur nafrat bhi obsession jaisa hi hota hai. is mai insan ko lover ya dushman ke bare mai bar bar khialat ata hai. love do tarfa bhi hosakta hai aur one sided bhi. dotarfa love mai dono partner ko aik doosre ke lia thoughts arahe hote hai. wo sara din aik doosre ke bare mai sochte hai jis se on ka daily routine disturb hota hai. study kharab hoti hai. woh bar bar is thoughts se nikalna chahte hai lekin nakam ho jate hae.
aap ki friend ko ap se yaktarfa love hai. ap ko love nahi hai is lia ap ko love ka obsession jaisa thoughts nahi araha hai.
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zain606 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 50 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2007, 10:31am |
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There is Nothing like Love in this world....OK |
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zain606 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 50 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2007, 10:39am |
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LOve Love is responsbility..LOve is care...LOve is kindness...Love is sacrifice... Love is faithfulness ..But our love is lust...our love is always with a girl..our love lasts only for few days...having one girl with us we always look for other beautiful girls.....what???....Guys its not Love...If you really wana understand just completely understand your mother....understand her life which she spend only for you guys...She loves you when you don't even know the name of love.......there is no love in this world except the LOve of mother..... |
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shakir316 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2007 Topic: 35 Post: 104 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2007, 1:09pm |
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 Kali Zuban
Dear Kali zuban! aap ne obsessive compulsive disorder ka zikar kia hai. mera aik dost hai jis ko ye problem hai, wo baar baar hath dota hai aur isi tarah k aur b kaam karta hai,aap plz is bemari ka ilaj bata dain aap ki bohat mehar bani ho gi. Thank u very much.waiting 4 ur reply........
Moderator Note: Please post this question as a separate new topic.
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attractive |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 61 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2007, 10:49pm |
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re zain thanks for ur comments.
1st i do live in reality thats y i asked the difference bw love and obsession.2ndly i didnt say that i m a great believer of love bw a male and female. i dont have that stupid thinking spread by cursed indian love movies... personally i think there is no such thing as love bw a male and a female except if they are married. i think there are only two kinds of love in this universe.-----1----Allah's Love for his creatures.....2--- a mother's love for her child. I also think childern also dont have pure love for there mother. I didnt say a child does nt have any love for parents...he does posses but not as his mother loves him.
brother i do have answers to two of your SILLY questions. yes me and my female frnd advise eachother to say our paryers. you may not believe but i swear it is reality......Also my female frnd,who loves me, came to meet me without any make up,jewelery or anyother finery...........can u think y did she do so??? coz i had asked her not to do any make up and guess what....???she even didnt apply lipstick or perfume....On the other hand she is a very bright student too....she got 900+marks in F.Sc......What do u say now bro???
another thing i d like to invite ur attention to...if there is nothing like love bw male and female....then y out Holy Prophet married and announced that he loved his wives too.
...........Best regards........[ X ]
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zain606 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 50 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2007, 12:45am |
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Answer for attractive hahaha/....yaar ab tum prophet (PBUH) ki brabri karo gay???? He was not for this world...He and his whole Family belong to God and they are from God ...so Its completely wrong to say that Love of Prophet is like the Love of Humans like us |
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zain606 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 50 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2007, 12:49am |
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hahahah....what are you tellling me i am not here for any kind of competition ...I had been studying in F.C College and i got 882 marks im my Fsc with medical subjects without having tution..OK i don't have to proove any thing here but i will still say that there is No live in this world b/t male and female |
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predator X |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Apr, 2007 Topic: 6 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2007, 1:37pm |
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re: zain606
mr.zain ap pta nahee kis kisam k insaan hain Prophet iss duniaya k liay nahee thay,as u say,then i would say Quraan aur hadees perho aap ko pata chalay wo issi dunia k liya thay.Allah says:
mafhoom:AUR HUM NAY UTAARI TUM PER YEH YAAD-DASHT K TOO KHOL DAY LOGON K WASTAY ISSAY
mafhoom:AUR AGER ZAMEEN MAIN FARISHTAY REHTAY HOTAY TOU HUM UNK LIE EK FRISHTA UTAARTAY
These ayaat prove Prophet PBUH was ''CERTAINELY '' for the this world.
U say he and his family belongs to God. i would advise u to read Surah Ikhlaas:
mafhoom:NAA USKI KOI OLAAD HAY AUR NAA WO KISSI KI OLAAD HAY AUR NAA KOI USK BRABER KAA HAY
Prophet {PBUH} k baray main Allah nay kioon fermaya hai k wo uswaa-e-hasna hain??? Jo kaam unho ne kie hamain bhee kernay chahien iss main braabri kidher say aa gaee???yaa kissi jaga misaal dainay say braabri kidher say ho gai? Proophet [PBUH] nay namaz perhi ya khushbu lagaee ya thanday paani ko passend kia tou kya ager hum bhee yeh karain tou braabri ho jae g???
for ur kind info main lahore distt.k aik chhotay say shehar k aik Govt. college main perhata raha hoon. meray apnay885 marks hain medical main chhotay sheher main facilities k bager.attractive nay just example d thee ap nay competetion bana lia???
3rdly ager Prophet PBUH aur unki family iss duniay k liay nahee thay tou Allah ko unko zameen per bhejany ki zruart kioon paish ai??? Wo bhee insaan hee thay. Allah fermata hay (mafhoom) "AUR HUM NAY TUM SAY PEHLAY [BHI] JITNAY RASOOL BHEJAY WO INSAAN HEE THAY".
4thly attractive nay aap k SILLY questions k jawaab die tou unka jawaab dena tha naa k Prophet PBUH k baray main kum ilmi zahir kerna thee.
5thly attractive nay bhee nahee kaha k male female love bohat pakeeza etc hota hay. Ager shadi k baad mian bivi main pyar ho wo ain Jaiz, Ibadat, aur mazboot hota hay. uss nay just early age main boys aur girls k love ki baat ki thi aap nay pta nahee kya samajh lia k wo issay jaiz qraar day raha hoon.
CONCLUSION : MALE aur FEmale k dermyaan love hota hay. bilkul begarz tou nahee mager hota hay. Ager shadi k bger ho tou najayz hay ager shadi k saath ho tou 100% jaez. per yeh kehna k hota hee nahee, glt hai.and not anything personl yaar. Just answering to u.
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2007, 3:43am |
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Re. beuty21 sis beuty, your answers are looking nice, mature and realistic. although we are not interested in anyones personal details, but in your posts you have mentioned many times abusive behaviour of boys with you, i m wondering why its happening to you again and again, and from above reply are u a sex worker?? sorry agar koi baat buri lagi ho tu. thanks |
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