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Net_mulvie |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2008, 7:53am |
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 Dirty Phone Conversation In Islam Before Marriage - Dirty Phone Chat In Islam Before Nikkah
AOA to all my brothers and sisters!
Today I am going to ask something which is very common with our new generation of guys & girls. Many guys and girls use internet and cell phones for sending and receiving sexual messages to get self pleasure from it. according to them feeling eachother bodies & souls for sexual and mental satisfation.
This is the same problem with me. I also do dirty chat with my fiance, like ( kiss on your breast, liying on on, sucking your niples) etc. thats how we satisfy eachother. but the problem is we are enguaged but No NIKKAH untill now. My intentions are pure that I am going to marry that women and I love her.
So my question is if I will do Nikkah, then can I do that kind of chat with her? Actually I am outside from my country and I can not marry for 1year due of some personal problems. due to this I am very much feeling guilty sometimes and this is also true that we need physical satisfaction sometimes. Alahumdullah I am satisfy with my rest of life, but not about this. Please advise me and help me with this matter. Thank You ALLAH bless you all.
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here2care |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2008 Topic: 3 Post: 39 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2008, 11:04pm |
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 Dirty Phone Chat Conversation Before Marriage (Nikkah) - Unlawful In Islam
its better for both of you not to talk on sexual issues untill you are not married, you know if you talk about sex, I want to kiss and suck the nipples etc, it will make difficult for both of you to control on your feelings. Yes if you do the NIKAH then she is your wife and you can talk on any topic. this is my opinion
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Net_mulvie |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 9:03am |
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Dirty Phone Chat Conversation After Marriage (Nikkah): Is It Lawful In Islam Thanks for you reply, yes but one more thing if after we do NIKKAH and then if we do that kind of romantic chat, and both of us do Masturbation while doing chat, so is that Ok? because you know we are far away. I can not meet her for 1year. actually sometimes its hard to control and thats how I satisfy myself and also drag her do to erotic chat with me. but she do it for my happiness I knew this from the begginning. she always try to stop me, but I am an asshole. I always take this to extreme, and i hate my this habbit. Please advise me for this. Thank you for your time bro |
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azzi |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 288 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 11:16pm |
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Dirty Phone Chat Conversation In Islam After Marriage Allowed - Masturbation Not Allowed Even After Nikkah
I am not in favour of doing Masturbation, but as you mentioned that some time you can't control, I think if it is out of control and there are chances of commiting illegal sex then its better to do Masturbation, this is my personal opion, for islamic point of veiw better to check with some Scholor or any member on this site who has knowledge about Masturbation. but my brother Sex is directly linked with your Mind, if your remove this from your mind then you can easily avoid this. Keep your mind clean and Pure and fill it with "Zikar-e-Elahi" and beleive me you will feel more pleasure and peace of mind.
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Net_mulvie |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 1:16pm |
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Dirty Phone Conversation And Chat Before Nikkah (Marriage): Unlawful In Islam
Very True Azzi brother. but the thing is that we all know what is right and what is wrong, but still when it comes to act then again we lost control on ourself. still sometimes when I speak to her then something else comes in my mind, which takes me towards other side. InshALLAH I will try to change my mind. I am totaly agreed with your this advise (Keep your mind clean and Pure and fill it with "Zikar-e-Elahi" and beleive me you will feel more pleasure and peace of mind.) Thanks for your kindness.God Bless you
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azzi |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 288 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 2:43pm |
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Dirty Phone Conversation In Islam Before Marriage - Dirty Phone Chat In Islam Before Nikkah
I understand your situation, actually most of people pass through same situaion at this stage. but as I said it is all about what we think, if we think too much about sex then it will control our mind, not only sex what ever we think it remains in our thoughts. so please now start Zikar-e-Elahi and your mind will be filled and lighten with noor-e-Elahi. keep always one Tasbeeh in your hand it will keep you reminding that lets remember Allah (SWT). You are a good person and Insha Allah you can over come this situation.
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2267 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 3:11pm |
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 Dirty Phone Conversation In Islam Before Marriage - Dirty Phone Chat In Islam Before Nikkah
yar bara funny iD hai.... Main bhe app ke hall se guzar chuka hon... Bus girte perte waqt quzar do.... But always come back to allah and toba....try as you can... thats all you can do.... so dont even worry... Do the best you can....
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Net_mulvie |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2008, 12:09pm |
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Dirty Bad Phone Conversation Chat On Phone In Islam Before Nikkah (Marriage) Yes InshALLAH I will try my best to overcome my this bad habbit. We are all humans and we do mistakes and ALLAH always keep his doors of forgiveness. He likes this when we do mistakes and ask him for forgiveness. I always have this feeling that he love everyone and he never want anyone to go to hell. This is we who choose bad tracks.
Take care all of you and God Bless you all. |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 23 Post: 750 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2008, 1:01pm |
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Dirty Bad Phone Conversation Chat On Phone In Islam Before Nikkah (Marriage)
Thanks GOD , Some molvi admits what is going on other wise , the man who finds molvi wid his name , den he will never admits what he is doing , he will b alwz humble and noble but what dese molviz done we are well aware of it so net molvi hats off 2 u and other members told u abt ur questions that after nikkah u can do dis dirty chat after nikah it wil b a nice chat not a dirty chat but b4 nikah u can say dirty chat ok take care Moderator: Dirty Chat Conversation On Phone In Islam Before Marriage Dirty Chat Conversation On Phone In Islam After Marriage (Nikkah) Phone Sex In Islam Before Marriage - Dirty Chat Conversation etc Phone Sex With Fiancee - Phone Sex With Wife Phone Sex Or Zina - Dirty Chat Conversation On Phone
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