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cheeko |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 5:21am |
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 Social Problem: Why Boy Betray Girls?
aaj main aap ke saath ek masla share karna chahti hon or aap ke coments lena chahte hon main ne dekha hai ke aj kal larke larkion se dosti karne ke lia un ke jazbaat ki parwa kia bina un ko jhote jhanse dete hain khas kar shaadi ka jhansa or ye sirf un ki dosti pane or un ke saath time pass karne ke lia kia jata hai wo log is baat se mubara hote hain ke us larki ki pori life disturb ho jati hai is cheez se , larki masom samajhti hai ke wo us se serious hai or larka sirf maze lene or time pass ke lia itna bara dhoka de raha hota hai , main pochti hon ke agar us ko dosti karni hai time pass karna hai tu wo phir usi tarhan ke larki bhi dhonde wo sharif larki ko kion kharab karta hai us ki zindagi se kion khelta hai, main janti hon aaj kal larkian bhi kam nahi but aise larkon ka shikar hamesha sharif larki he banti hai. please app batain is ka koe hal hai kia koe larka itni himat kar sakta hai ke wo larki ko saaf bata de ke wo shadi nahi karna chahta just dosti wo larki ki marzi ke wo kare ya peeche hat jai but jhoot kion akhir kion?????????????
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ik_ahsas |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Dec, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 8:42am |
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 akhir kion?????
Cheeko ge
Agar yahi sawal mae aap say karoo K.... Larkiyah dosti kisi say , Muhabat kisi , aur shadi kisi say tu yah jhoot kion aysa koin akir kion ? :) |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 1:29pm |
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 Taaley Eak Haath Se Nahi Bajtey Hai
Donon hi aaisa kartey hain Larkey agar Bewafa hotey hain tou larkiyaan bhi kuch kaam nahi hotey hain ..... 50/50 donon hi Bewafaey kartey hi hain !!!
Iss topic per waisey Members ki kafee behaas honey waley hai ........ So ready for the WAR (lol)
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Aag |
Group: Moderators Joined: 21st Nov, 2007 Topic: 22 Post: 1130 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 1:45pm |
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 hmmmmmm
Zamana bohot kharab hai, yah kis na kah diya ka ajkal ka zamana mai larka larki ko baiwaqoof banata hai. Zara edhar udhar nazar dalain to apko bohot kuch nazar aiga (baichara larka zahar kha raha hota hai aur larki apni shadi mana rahi hoti hai kisi aur ka sath)
Yah aik aisa zahar hai jo hamara mashra mai phaila howa hai. bila shuba larka larki ka sath dosti karna ka liya bohot sari batain karta hai. laikin i think ab zamana badal raha hai.
Pahla kisi zamana mai shayad larka larki sai dosti karna ka liya mahnat karta hoga laikin ab larki foran dosti karti hai. Mera to yahi kahayal hai ka ab shayad 30% aisa hota hoga ka larki bohot serious hogi shuru sai aur larka nahi.
Agar ap university level pa jain, office level pa jain to apko andaza hoga ka larka larkiyan bohot asani sai dosti kartai hai aur sath khatai petai hai, time pas kartai hai, ghumnai taq jatain hain....
Bat bilkul sahi hai tali dono hathon sai bachti hai
Let see baqi log kiya kahtain hain... |
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hussain ja |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 222 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 1:46pm |
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 not agree with CHEEKO
lirkiyan b itny masoom nahi hai ki koi b larka itny asani say dhoka desaky,may ap say ager ye puch loun ki lirkiyan kiyon dokha dehti hai,tu ap ka jawab yahi hoga ki girls aisa nahi karti,aj kal tu bechary boys un ki bataoun m aty hai or rupiya paisa sub luta deyty hai,or larki tu kisi or say eshq larrati hai,koi b larka ager kisi larki say baat karta hai tu is ka matlab ye b nahi hai ki wo us say shadi karna chasta ho,donoun may dosti b hosakti hai, |
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Aag |
Group: Moderators Joined: 21st Nov, 2007 Topic: 22 Post: 1130 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 2:21pm |
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hussain well bohot had taq apki bat theek hai magar mera bhai apna jo bat kari hai ka larka rupiya paisa sub luta dayta hai to yah to larkon ki tharak hoti hai. dupahir mai ap kisi bhi acha resturant mai chalai jain waha pa har tarhan ka larka larkiyan nazar ainga aur kharcha baichara larka utha raha hota hai....
Zarori nahi ka agar ap kisi sai piyar kartai hain to larka hi paisa kharch karai. jaha pa sacha piyar hota hai waha pa yah chez nahi dekhi jati hai. |
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2007, 3:50am |
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let me tell u agreed to all but im not agreed to cheekoo
aj kal k zamaney mein larkey hi nahi larkian bi barabar ki shareek hain...aur aag ne bilkul thik kaha hai k taali dono hathon se bajti hai....ajkal ki larkian itni bi masoom nahi hain...k unhen ye pata hi na ho k larka us mein interested hai ya nahi...unhen sub pata hota hai k kon time pass ker rha hai aur kon love....lekin is k bawajood larkian bi pyar mein pehel ker deti hain jub k unko achi tarha pata bi hota hai larkay k aise koi jazbat nahi hain....ab agar aisa ho to us larkay ka to koi kasoor nai banta na...
aur ek aur bat main cheeko se kehna chahon hga, unhon nepucha hai k kia ajkal koi larka ye keh skta hai k he just want only frndship not any affair or love....to haaannnnn, aise bht se larkay hotey hain jo saf saf larki ko keh detey hain im just ur frind is liye kbi koi ghalat bat mat sochna....ab agey agar larki khud us k barey mein sochney lag jaye to is mein larkay ka koi kasoor nai banta....
main ye bat is liye keh rha hun k main bi univ mein perha hun aur meri class mein bi bht khoobsurat gals and handsome boys dono hotey they lekin us k bawajood kisi larkey ka kisi larki se affair nai tha........hum sub boys aur gals mil k bethtey they, baten, hansi mazak, etc etc...aur kafi gals aur boys ki bht achi dosti bi thi....lekin sub ko pata tha k hum sub ek dosrey k just friends hain, just like sis and bro....kisi ne kbhi kuch ghalat expect nahi kiya....
aur mazey ki bat ye hai k hmara rishta itna mazboot tha k hum log aaj bi (univ se free honey k bad bi) ek dusrey se wese hi miltey hain...means k 2-3 months k bad sub mil k kisi resturant mein party wagera kertey hain aur enjoy kertey hain
ye sub bus sochney ki baten hain aur her kisi k samjhney ki bat hai... |
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cheeko |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2007, 4:20am |
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Cheeko thanks to all your coments, main aap sab ki baton se itefaq karti hon or main ne likha bhi ke aj kal ki larkian bhi kam nahi it means main kissi ek sinf ko ilzam nahi de rahe but majority larkon ki count hoti hai dhoka dene main, larkian agar ab hoshiar ho gain hain tu ye un ke lia acha howa hai, wo kab tak larkon ki in jhoti khanion ka shikar banti rehtin or ye tu bhut acha hai ke ab larki larke ko dhoka deti hai ek waqt tak larki ne he dhoka khaya hai , koe larka nahi jo larki ke lia phansi laga raha hota hia or larki shadi mana rahe hoti hai haqeeqat ye he hai ke larka sirf apne afair chalane time pass karne ke lia itne jhot bolta hai ke jhot per jhot bolta hai or itni safai se ke aap pakar nahi sakte larki masom hoti hai wo bhala kahan phonch sakti hai in shatir larkon ke baton tak. ajj he meri ek net friend online hoe bhut time baad us ke saath bhi wo he howa ab wo apni zindagi se bezar hai jeena nahi chahti 8 sal taluq rakhne ke baad us ko jab larke ki taraf se ye sune ko mile ke us ke parents razi nahi tu batain wo larki kia kare us ki life tu kharab ho gai na ab aap log kaho ge ke wo itne time us ke saath kion thi wo he baat us ki chikni chipri baaton main agai ho gi or phir wo he shaadi ka jhota natak, phir jab sab hasil ho jai tu maan razi nahi or baap razi nahi aise bhut misalen hain jin main masom larkian barbad ho rahe hain aise he larkon ke hathon.
aap log mere topic ki bariki ko nahi samjhe main kissi ek ko ilzam de bhi nahi rahe but aisa ho raha hai kion ho raha hai i dont no..
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hussain ja |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 222 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2007, 4:28am |
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2 Aag ab ap ko meri bath samj agiye na,ap nay kaha ki ager sacha phaye ho tu rupiya ,paisa koi ehmiyat nahi rakhta laikin yaha pay bath ye horahi hai ki larkiyan larkoun ko kuch or samajti hai,wo samajti hai ki larky bewafa hai, boys ager rupiya ,paisa lutasakty hai tu bewafa kaisy hosakty hai,wo larki tu kisi or say eshq larati hai or larky tu kuch or samajty hai,is may galti kis ki hai ,ager larki k dil may sacha phayre hota tu wo kabi larky ko nah chod dayti,may manta houjh ki larky b kam nahi laikin ye kehna ki siry boys hi bewafa hoty hai ,may agree nahi karta ,ap dekho aj kal koi b larka larki say phely bath nahi karta ,larki dosti karti b hai or finish b karti hai,is may galti kis ki hai,may ap ko ye bata doun ki aj kal yahi hota hai ki her larki her kisi say free hoky bath karti hai or larky tu kuch or samajty hai or apna sub kuch lutadayty hai,akher kiyon????? |
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cheeko |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2007, 4:40am |
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Cheeko aray wah aap ne khob kaha ke rupia paisa luta dete hain aray tu kia howa us ke badle us larki ka aitmad or us ka pyar bhi tu hasil karte hain or jab tak time pass karna hota hai karte hain or phir bari safai se daman chura ke chale jate hain phir kissi or larki per ye he azma rahe hote ahin larke paisa kharch karte hain tu apna mafad dekh kar karte hain. or aaj kal tu ulta hisab hai larki se paisa mang rhae hote hain apni majbori bata kar or wo bechari pyar ki mari de bhi deti hai, larke larki se baat karne ke lia mar rahe hote hain koshish main lage rehte hain larki kabhi pehl nahi karti hamesha larka he us ke agai peeche phirta hai or waise bhi ye tu kudrat ki taraf se he larke ke fitrat main hai bewafai aap ya main kia kar sakte hain |
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Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2007, 7:39am |
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 Girls ------> Where are you ???
Yahan per Cheeko akeli hi defend kar rahein hain or sarey boys un per hwaey ho chukey hooo ... So Girls app bhi Cheeko k saath mil kar apna defend karein ok
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hussain ja |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 222 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2007, 2:25pm |
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CHEEKO ap ko yad hai sorry cheeko ap ko bura laga tu,ager ap ko yad ho tu may nay ek problem yahi pay utahya tha ,yani shadi ka masla jo mery sath huwa tha,masla tu ap ko yad hoga ki larki k ghar waly or mery ghar waly nahi chhasty thy ki hum shadi karlaye,ap nay muj say kaha tha ki ap apni bath pay daty raho or ghar waloun say kaho ki ager mujy shadi kerni hai tu sirf us larki say warna may shadi nahi karoun ga,ap yakin karlo may nay aisa hi kia per kia huwa us larki nay muj say kaha ki ab hum shadi nahi karsakty kioy ki mery ghar waly ap ko pasand nahi karty,ab ap hi batoa bewafa kon hai,my nay apny ghar waloun ki baat na mani or us nay muj say kaha ki may sub kuch bol joan,ager wo ghar waloun ki baat na manti tu hamari shadi hosakti thi,ab ap yahi kaho gi ki mam bap ki baat man layni chye ,may manta houn ki man layni chaye,lakin us nay muj say kaha tha ki hum shadi karein gay per aisa nahi kia,kher ab ap hi batoa,hongay bewafa larky b laikin jaha tak may janta houn larkiyan bewafa hoti hai,larky tu rupiya,paisa tu kia jan b dayty hai per larki ko tu apny ghar waloun ki fikhar hoti hai,ager ghar waloun ki fikhar karni hai tu dosti kiyon karty hai??????byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee |
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2007, 3:25pm |
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Kon banaiga lut ka pati :) Beauty star issue hai yah ka dono hi kamal ka hai larka aur larki. Asal hota yah hai zada tar ka larki ungly pakrati hai aur larka kandhai pa char jata hai. yahi wajha hoti hai ka khub kharacha hota hai larka ka baichara aur hath malta rahjata hai...
Larkiyan bhi kam nahi hoti hai. Opposite sex attract karta hi hai yah to aik fact hai.
Beauty star defend ki bat to uswaqt aigi jab koi bat ghalat horahi hogi. dusri bat yah ka yaha pa bat har larki ki nahi horahai hai. Yah to aik general topic hai aur i think yaha pa larkiya bhi hosakta hai ka larkon ka sath dain.
Afsos baicharai larka jo larkion ka jhasai mai aka luuut kar phir pati (husband) bantai hain :) |
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Oct, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 1348 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2007, 11:44pm |
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 here I come..........
.....beautystar,
Main nay tu cheeko ki mail bhi poori nahi perhi hay lakin aik baat tu tay hay kay allah nay humans ki jo nature banai hay tu merd ki nature main shamil hay kay wo aik say ziada lerkioun ki taraf matwajja hota hay aur aurat ki nature main hay kay wo basically aik hi insaan kay sath khoosh rahti hay. Baqi isssi say natija ahaz ker lain kay kon zida ider uder MUNH MARTA HAy aur kon kam!!!
got it???
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pinky7861 |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Oct, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 1348 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2007, 11:50pm |
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hangamma ji .........App ko masla kia hay??? aap mujay iss waqt hansatay hain jab mairay husband so rahay hain. Bhai yahan raat kay 11 bajay hain aur main galti say aap ki koi mail iss waqt per laiti hoon. Ab kisi din main forum per na aai na tu samaj laina kay mairay husband nay mujay hansanay ki paadash main doosri manzil say nichay phaink dia tha. |
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raazdaar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Nov, 2007 Topic: 38 Post: 369 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Dec 2007, 4:10am |
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RE:-ALL FRIENDS SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Mairai bhaiyoon aur behnoon.Agar dunya ko daika jayee to yai har cheez sai bari hai.wo chahai naiki hoo yai gham hoo ya khushi hoo ya wafa or baiwafayee.Ham darasal ISLAM kai rules par nahin utrai hain.ISLAM main pyaar ki ijazat us sai hai jis sai NIKAH hoo.
To app khud is baat sai andaza laga loo kai agar har larka ya larki sirf usi sai pyaar karai jo us kai naseeb main hoo.To hamarai yai wafa baiwafayee walai maslai khatam ho jayaingai.Ham agar daika jayee to har jaga nafarmaan hain.Ham ALLAH ki na farmani kartain hain aor ALLAH kai baad maa baap ki nafarmani kartain hain.
To yai sab kuch aik mahool ban giya hai jis main hamain yai sab kuch daiknai ko mil raha hai.Ham sirf naam kai musalman hain.Mohabat pyaar yai sab kuch ALLAH aur maa baap kai liyai hai aur kisi kai liyai nahin.Aur agar ajj kal kai zamanai main daikoo to MOHABAT,PYAAR ya to sirf larkai kai liyai hota hai ya to larki kai liyai.
Hamarai dil main shaitaan bait giya hai jo hamain kisi na kisi sorat main taqleef zaroor daita hai.Ham aik larki ya larkai kai liyai un maa baap ko choor daitain hain jo hamain palnai kai liyai kya kya nahin kartai.Aur ham us ka jawab ghaliyoon,untaijawaboon,nafaniyoon ki sorat main daitai hain.
Jo insaan ALLAH ki madad aur maa baap ki doaoon main na hoo wo khabi bi DIL ko sokoon nahin dai sakta.Hamain is bartain huyee mahool ko controll karna chahiyai.Aur anai walai ganaration ko ISLAM kai sahi rastai pai lana chahiyai.Q kai qayamat kai din har aik zarai ka hisaab hoga.
ALLAH hamain bagair kisi hisaab kitaab kai jannat janai ki tofeeq ata farmayee.Aur hamari zindagi ko sirf aur sirf ISLAM ko mazboot karnai kai liyai chalayee.AMEEEEN
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
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changaiz |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jun, 2007 Topic: 5 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Dec 2007, 3:20pm |
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my reply mein yahe kehna pasand karonga k sirf boys girls ko betray nahe karte.girls b boys se kam nahe betraying mein.mere saath khud asia hua hai aur wo b 3 times.meri gf te aur 3 gf ne mujhe doka dia one by one i mean.soo ye na socha karein k girls bohat shareef hain i disagree with those who say this |
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Dec 2007, 4:27pm |
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Why boys betray girls! cheeko jee mai sada larkion ko zehan mai rakh kar baat karnay laga hon. baat ye hai k kuch larkian innocent hoti hain or agar wo kisi larkay ko pasand karti hain to shadi kay iraday say karti hain,, lekin larkay ziada tar shadi k iraday say dosti nahi kartay, unka maksad kuch or hota hai, or moka milnay par wo apna maksad hasil kar hi laitay hain...or maksad hasil karnay k baad larka agay agay or larki peechay peechay....
mai samajhta hon k shadi say pehlay koi bi larka larki mohabbat kartay hain to sex talk say bach nahi paatay. agar milnay ka moka mil jaey to phir practical thora bohat mohabbat ho jati hai or baaz okaat final limits bi cross kar detay hain... ye chezain natural hain, bcoz Allah nay mard orat ko aik dosray k liye banaya hai or mard orat mai aaik dosray k liye khas attraction hai, or aik dosray ko panay ka tareeka shadi hai, koi aisa MARD nahi hai jo shadi say pehlay apni lover k pas jaey or uski sexual feelings arouse na hon. is liye apni satisfaction to usnay karni hi hoti hai......
is liye behtar hai k larkian thori care karain or time ka intezar karain or maa baap ko rishta karnay dain... larkion ka shadi say pehlay kisi larkay say mohabbat karna un larkion k liye hi bura hai bcoz girls sensitive hoti hain, wo bechari sari umar pehli mohabbat ko yaad karti rehti hain or apnay husband ko puri mohabbat bi nahi day paatin or zindagi bi achi nahi guzarti jabkay wohi larkay kaee mohabbaton k baad bi jab shadi hoti hai to mazay say apni bv mai busy ho jatay hain or life ko enjoy kartay hain... |
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raazdaar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Nov, 2007 Topic: 38 Post: 369 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Dec 2007, 2:18am |
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TARAFDARY NAHIN KARNI CHAHIYAI... SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Dar asal kuch loog sirf tarafdari kartain hain jaisai kai josh bhayee nai ki.Halankai yahan kasoor aik ka nahin dono ka hai.Q kai jo sachi mohabat kartain hain unai wo mohabat lai jatain hain.Aur jo time pass kartai hain unai mohabat laijati hai.
Mohabat hoti to khud hai lakin controll insaan kai bass main hota hai.Koyee kisi ko milai na milai yai us insaan ki Qismat hai.Haan kuch halaat wo khud bi aisai faida kar daita hai jis ka usai baad main afsoos hota hai.Jo sirf aik side ka saat daitain hain wo bi teeq nahin hai.
Q kai agar larkiyaan wafa kar sakti hain to larkoon main kis baat ki kami hai.Wo kahawat shahid app sab nai suni hoo."kai agar 1 larki chahai to 10 larkoon ko baiwakoof banasakti hai.lakin agar 10 larkai chahai to aik larki ko doka nahin kar sakti".
Darasal baat muhabat ki sachayee ki hai jo chahai larka karai ya larki.Is mamlai main dono kasoorwar hain.Aur masoom sirf larki nahin larkai bi hotain hain.Q kai larkai bohat jaldi doka ka laitain hain.Aur har insaan behtar janta hai..
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
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raazdaar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Nov, 2007 Topic: 38 Post: 369 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Dec 2007, 2:18am |
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TARAFDARY NAHIN KARNI CHAHIYAI... SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Dar asal kuch loog sirf tarafdari kartain hain jaisai kai josh bhayee nai ki.Halankai yahan kasoor aik ka nahin dono ka hai.Q kai jo sachi mohabat kartain hain unai wo mohabat lai jatain hain.Aur jo time pass kartai hain unai mohabat laijati hai.
Mohabat hoti to khud hai lakin controll insaan kai bass main hota hai.Koyee kisi ko milai na milai yai us insaan ki Qismat hai.Haan kuch halaat wo khud bi aisai faida kar daita hai jis ka usai baad main afsoos hota hai.Jo sirf aik side ka saat daitain hain wo bi teeq nahin hai.
Q kai agar larkiyaan wafa kar sakti hain to larkoon main kis baat ki kami hai.Wo kahawat shahid app sab nai suni hoo."kai agar 1 larki chahai to 10 larkoon ko baiwakoof banasakti hai.lakin agar 10 larkai chahai to aik larki ko doka nahin kar sakti".
Darasal baat muhabat ki sachayee ki hai jo chahai larka karai ya larki.Is mamlai main dono kasoorwar hain.Aur masoom sirf larki nahin larkai bi hotain hain.Q kai larkai bohat jaldi doka ka laitain hain.Aur har insaan behtar janta hai..
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
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