Beauty Of Husband And Wife: What Are Priorities?

sir, mera swal yeh hey key her lurkey( including me) ki yeh khawahish hoti hey key uss ki bivi shukul key lihaz sey aur jismani khadokhal key lihaz sey aik khobsorat aurat ho aur baz log to sirf shakl aur rang ki khobsorti hi dekhtey hain MY QUESTION IS THAT key main ney suna hey key aurton ki yeh kabhi bhi khawahish naheen hoti ki un ka husband khobsortat ho bulkey un ki yeh khawhish hoti hey key woh beshak khobsorat na ho lekin woh un ki desire ko complete tor pur fulfil kurey. is it right or wrong statement. (bohot se log jo khud khobsorat naheen hotey lekin un ki wives khobsorat hoti hain woh is complex main mubtala hotey hain) sincere answer required.

re: punj_25

marriage.

i think the trend is now changed. now girls as well as boys are more realistic and have clear approach. now the things matter in life are education and nature of the person. i have seen many couples in which husband was very good looking but the wife was average or the wife extremely beautiful and husband not. so, the factors which should be considered in selecting the life partner, should be education, nature, mental approach, social and financial standing and family back ground.

(still the criteria of mothers esp. boys' mothers is beauty, fair skin, young age and house hold girl) which should be changed by the young generation. 

      if u want a girls opinin ,most of the girls in our society  desire security,respect n love from husband.so the physical beauty becomes a secondry matter.but v should understand that she also has emotions.the first khulla/seperation  in islam from a lady was taken cauze she disliked her husbands looks n our prophet  ..saw..allowed her this seperation n remember she never had any objections on his character or behaviour.

from boys side i can say they prefer physical beauty.they never bother to look at thier physical beauty . even if a boy is not good looking he believes that it is his rite to have a hoor .then he cannot afford the nakhra of that hoor.wat do u think....am i rite....