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Hangama |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 2:09am |
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 Intercourse Just After Nikkah: What Does Islam Says?
Assalamualaikum. Kiya aurat aur mard sirf nikkah karna ka baad intercourse kar saktai hain, Mera matlab hai ka hamara mashara mai aisa hota hai ka larki ka nikkah kardiya jata hai aur rukhsati nahi hoti hai, Aisi condition mai kiya dono intercourse karsaktai hain. Islam ki roshni mai bataiyaga plzzz. copy paste nahi chahiya website sai. Members ur comments required.
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goodman |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 3:48am |
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 Nikah is necessary for legal status
Aslamualikum,
After Nikah wife and husband have legal status and they are Halal with each other .To do and start love with each other you must have legal relationship with each other in the light of islam.And in islam there is only Nikah legal status for relationship with each other.
Other things are farmalities.And these farmailities depend on both family mutual understanding.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 5:58am |
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 Sexual-Intercourse after Nikkah but before Ruksati
In the ligh of Islam , once Nikkah is performed you are considered to
be Husband & Wife as a normal couple consider , they have the same right and obligation as normal husband and wife have.
Sexual-Intercourse can be done after Nikkah before Ruksati if both
agree to it , However it is also
important to maintain Etiquette and Modesty , since its a part of
Faith. Therefore it is against the norms of the Muslim Society and we
should give respect to our social norms as well.
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 6:17am |
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to hangama goodman u r really a good man aap ne bohot achi reply ki hai as will as beautystar. hangama sahab baz ilaqoon main mangni k din hi nikhah paraya jata hai. aur ye es lie kia jata hai ta k ye rishta pehle step se hi mazboot ho jaye q k mangni ka toorna nikah torne se asan hota hai q k larka aur larki donon k sath ikhtiar hota hai k wo y rishta tor sake lekin nikah main sirf larke k sath ikhtiar hota hai. jahan tak intercource ka talooq hai to after nikah jayaz hai. lekin jis ilaqe main aap rehte hain wahan k tradition k mutabiq rkhsati se pehle ye nahi karna chahie, zara sabr se kam lena chahie ta k bad main log aap k b v par ungli na utha sake q k es muashre main lambi zubanoon wale log b rehte hain jin ki zaban kabi khamosh nahi ho sakti. |
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 8:07am |
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hangama hangama jee kai yeh post mujhe point out karne kelie banai gai he......aap meri personal life se itne obssesd kyon hain bai???
aur wese bhi islamic shaadi nikkah hi hoti he...rukhsati eik aisa function hota he jisme mostly gharwalon keh ilwa bhi milne wale bulae jate hain take sab ko pata chal jae keh shaadi hogai he! |
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pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:02am |
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 why
.........are we discussing someones personal life here??????? |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:08am |
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Nikah is nessary part In the islamic dictoniary there is not word Marriage and Rukhsati.In islamic dictoniary there is word of NIKAH.
Hazrat Muhammad SAW Describes AN NIKAH HO ME NAS SUNATTI.
Miss Billi forward good comments on this post also.
Waiting for further comments.
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:22am |
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 well
i belive that hangama jee ki tasali ab hogai hogi..per afsos hua keh aap is topic per meri tang na khench sake..koi nai try harder u will come across something better...
true pinkey i cant understand it either |
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seriously |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:29am |
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Hangama -good topic No Rukhsati after Nikah is an evil of our society.
Engamement is fine, boy and girl know that they are not halal for each other yet and they can control themselves and respect each other. It is fine to the extent that if the girl and boy are still in career making years but they families want to bind each other and the boy and girl.
But Nikha makes the boy and girl halal to each other and no rukhsati after nikah puts un-necessary burdon on the minds of these two person. They know that they are halal for each other and they cannot control themselves , in that case if a girl gets preganant even then she is treated as a zania by the society nobody blames the boy.
Rukhsati after nikah is sometimes delayed for years and years. I can understand if it is delayed for some genuine reason and the boy and girl are far away from each other. No harm done. But sometimes it is delayed because one of the parents do not have enough money for a big wedding ceremoney and they have to wait till they save so much money that they can hold a big wedding. Sometimes Nikah is performed when the boy and girl are even babies and the families perform nikah to strengthen the family ties or for some other worldly or monitary gain. All this sometimes ends in very big tradegies.
Allah save us from these kind of tradegies, Ameen.
Note: correct me if I am wrong please do not pass any personal comments. |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:33am |
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Components of Shadi = Nikkah + Ruksati + Valima GoodMan Hamarey pyari Nabi (S.A.W) ne bhi Hazrat Aa'isha se jab Nikkah kiya tha tou un ki age 6 / 7 years thee lekin ruksati 9 years ma howey thee tou yah koi new concept nahi hai yah concept uss dour ma bhi thee or Valima karna bhi shadi ka part and parcel hai aur Sunnat-e-Rasool(S.A.W) hai ok.
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:37am |
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well seriously i agree with u ..and i know that society will truely blame the girl..however the girl and the guy should look around when doing anything like that after nikkah.it can include families...society how broad minded ppl r etc etc..
im sure this thread is opend because i have mentioned something like that in anohter topic...so for example for me its not a big deal..ppl in europe r doing it anyways without any legal relationship so if i do it after nikkah which makes it legal for me..i dnt think thre would be any problem for any girl whtsoever!! if right contraception is used no issues will be faced... |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:38am |
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You sketch the True Picture Mr.Seriously I agreed to you , its the one of the worst thing that happen in our society, Without a geniune reason, Ruksati should not delayed and do it as early as possible...... you are right Man!
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seriously |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:52am |
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Billi- It is a very genuine post Please do not doubt Nikamma's intentions . Even if he opened this thread because of you and if someone gets benefit of it you two will be rewarded by Allah if his intentions are not right.
Note: Please correct me if I am wrong. Please do not pass pesonal comments. |
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seriously |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 10:53am |
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correction in the last sentence I meant to say you will be rewarded by Allah even if his intentions were not right.
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goodman |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 11:04pm |
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For Nikah to touch youth period also necessary Mr Beauty Star,
Today i am very impressed about your post and comments.When Hazrat Aisha R.A Nikah was held with Prophet Muhammad SAW then her age was 10-12.And after 2 years of Nikah her Rukhasti arrangements are Done.
6-7 Years of age of a baby Is period of childhood .In this age you can not perform Nikah.And for Nikah it is stipulated for girl to become youth.Current era girl become youth in the age of 12 years.And menses also come in the age of 12 years then parents can perform Nikah .
Walema is sprate thing and it is a feast for the boy side.And after intercourse with the wife then this Feast will be done for both side guests of male and female.
Waiting for your comments.
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nikama |
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 11:07pm |
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serioulsly sir.. Thanks for appreciation..but I have not opened this thred anyway..
Well back to my reply is...any one could do intercouse even after Nikah but should be avioded untill the Rukhsati is done to overcome later on family plus social problems..thanks |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2008, 11:18pm |
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Yes you are right Gentle-GoodMan Thank you so much brother.
Well , I read different ages of Hazrat Aa'isha at different websites at
the time of her Nikkah , No one have exact age some says her age was
7years some says 9years/10 years at that time .... but thats for sure
that Ruksati was done after 2 years of her Nikkah with our beloved
Prophet Muhammad(P.B.U.H) .... and at the time of Ruksati she had
crossed her puberty.
Nikkah can be done as soon as Boy/Girl reaches puberty , I agreed to you brother.
Valima(Feast) can be done
without developing any Sexual-Relationship , Sexual-Intercourse is irrelevant for celebrating
Feast which is Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (P.B.U.H).
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goodman |
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| Posted on:12th Jan 2008, 9:07am |
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Only Valima Feast in the whole Senario Mr Beauty Star it is Ok that Valima Feast can be done without devolping any sexual relationship but it is stipulted with Men side.
And the most important thing is that the whole senario islam only give right and prmission to celebrate this Feast and this Feast total burden on the shoulder of Boy Family.
There is not any other Feast to celebrate.
Waiting for your comments.
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raazdaar |
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| Posted on:12th Jan 2008, 12:42pm |
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ASAL NIKAH HAI.... SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Waisai shadi,mandni yai sab cheezain kuch nahin.Asal baat NIKAH ki hai.Jab NIKAH ho jayee to yai larka larki aik dosrai kai liyai mohram ho jatain hain.Aur yai mohram aik bivi aur shohar ki sorat main hotain hain.Jab asal baat yani NIKAH ho jayee to phir sab kuch jaiz hai.
Haan hamarai mulk main is baat ko acha nahin samja jata kai koyee ruskhsati sai pehlai intercourse karai.Is wajah sai shahid yai baat wahan kai logon kai liyai achi nahin hoo.Lakin ISLAM main sab sai bari baat NIKAH ki hai.Yahi in dono ko bivi aur shohar banata hai.
ISLAM kai point of view kai mutabiq yai teeq hai.Lakin wahan kai osool shahid is baat ki khilafarzi karatain ho.Waisai acha wahi hota hai jo sab ko acha lagai.Jab sab rikhsati kai baad hi kartai hain.To tab hi teeq hai.Umeed hai app kai zehan main baat bait gayee hogi.
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
TAKE CARE
ALLAH HAFIZ |
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Bili_miau |
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| Posted on:12th Jan 2008, 2:53pm |
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hmm kiske zehen me batein betha rahe hain aap? |
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