Ek doosrey ko samjhein, ek doosrey ki pasand naa pasand, jazbaat ehsaasaat aur khwahishat sey aagahi  hasil kareyn. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kay elawa kaee doosrey tareeqon sey bhi jinsi lutf hasil kiya ja sakta hai. Maslan piyar Mohabbat ki baatein, aurat ko Mohabbat ki baatein bey hud pasand hain. Mian biwi kay husun-o-jamal ki tareef karey. Donon kiss sey lutf andooz hun. Aik doosrey kay jism kay lamz sey lazat hasil kareyn. Ek doosrey kay jism per hath phaerein, massage kareyn. Biwi ko galey lagain, bhenchain, baghal geer hun, iss kay saath liptein, yeh sab kuch donon kay liye bohut lutf angaez hoga. Phir aik doosrey kay saath lipat kar so jaeyn lekin agar donon ek doosrey sey pehley hi waqif hun to bhi pehli raat mubashrat (intercourse)  zaroori nahi hai. Amooman thakawat ki wajah sey donon zyada lutf andooz nahi hotey. Agar donon fresh hun, razi hun, to phir mubashrat (intercourse)  mein koi harj nahi. lekin agar biwi zyada khauf zada hai yeh isey bohut zyada dard mehsoos ho to phir mubashrat (intercourse) naa kareyn. Biwi kay ta'awwun aur razamandi kay baghaer zabardasti mubashrat (intercourse)  naa ki jaey. Iss sey biwi kay dil mein nafrat paeda ho jati hai baaz auqat iss nafrat ki wajah sey biwi aik taweel arsey mubashrat (intercourse)  sey lutf andooz nahi ho sakti aur mubashrat (intercourse)  aur jinsi amal mein bhar poor shirkat nahi karti.

    Tahem behtar yehi hai kay pehley ek do din ek doosrey ko samajhney, maanoos honay, ek doosrey kay jazbat o ehsaasat, khwahishat, pasand aur naa pasand ko janney mein guzarein. Mubashrat (intercourse)  ko ek do din multawi karna donon kay liye bey hudd mufeed hai. Iss sey aurat ka khauf kam hojata hai, woh zyada ta'awwun karti hai.