Humarey yahan first night of marriage (shadi ki pehli raat) mubashrat (intercourse)  ko zaroori samajha jata hai Warna valima jaeyz naa hoga. Quran o Sunnah ki roshni mein iss baat ki koi haqeeqat nahi hai. Humarey yahan amooman nikah raat ko bohut late hota hai. Dulhan ko ghar pohonchtey pohonchtey raat kay 2 ya 2 ½ baj jatey hain jis ki wajah sey dulha aur dulhan thak kar choor ho jatey hain. Thakawat kay elawa donon khauf, ghabrahat aur jhijhak ka shikar bhi hotey hain. Khusoosan agar donon pehley sey ek doosrey sey waqif na hun. Larkay ko amooman nakami jab kay larki ko mubashrat (intercourse)  ki takleef ka khauf hota hai. Iss khauf aur anxiety  ki wajah sey amooman aurat ki faraj ki entrance tang hojati hai aur faraj kay ander chiknaahat ki kami bhi hojaati hai jis ki wajah sey dakhool aur mubashrat (intercourse)  takleef dey hojata hai. Doosri taraf larka samajhta hai kay agar iss nay pahli night mubashrat (intercourse)  naa kiya to larki samajhai gi kay shayad mian iss qabil nahi (halan kay aurtein amooman iss tarhan nahi sochtiin) jawani mein har mard jismani lehaz sey normal aur jinsi amal ka puri tarhan sey ahull hota hai. Albatta khauf aur zehni  dabao ki wajah sey baaz auqat isey tanau (erection) nahi hota yeh aain time per khatam hojata hai jokay aik fitri amal hai. Kyun kay khauf, zehni  dabao aur tension tanau (erection) kay dushman hain. Lehaza iss sorat-e-haal kay paesh-e-nazar pehli raat sex ko ziyada ahmiyat naa di jaey Chunancha pehli raat mubashrat (intercourse)  naa karna donon kay liye mufeed hai. Waisey bhi pehli raat mubashrat (intercourse)  donon kay liye kisi had tak takleef deh hoti hai. Thakawat aur tension mein yeh takleef ziyada mehsoos hoti hai.

    Behtar hai kay pehli raat donon mian biwi ghup shup karein. Ek doosrey sey waqfiyat hasil kareyn ek doosrey sey maanoos hun.