Maryam sis

dom bhai

biwi ki khubiyan

Maryam ji, waisya tau hum is subject per baat kartay aa rahain aur mein ne isee topic mein apnay posts mein ye kaha hay ke daunon kee fitrat ke mutabiq relationship banta hai.Islamically husband ka kiya muqaam hai ye tau sab jaantay hain,laikin asal cheez ye hai ke aurat apnay role ko kaisay nibhaye ke wo shoher ke liye attractive rahay.

jaisay ke mein ne pehlay kaha ke mard aur aurat aik doosray ke opposite hain aur Allah kee hikmat hai ke oos ne un mein aik doosray ke liye attraction hee isee waja se rakh dee hai, yeni aurat ka physical aur zehni taur per mard se kum hona hee oss ki khoobsoorti hai aur mard ka mazboot hona mard ko gracefull banata hai.tau ab agar wo mohabat ko sustainable banana chahtay hain tau aik doosray ke liye natural hawaalay se attractive banain.

mein ne apnay topic "make yourself desirable for your wife"in the article section mein mard ke hawaalay se baat kee hai,laikin mein chaahoon ga ke mein explain karoon ke aurat ko oosi role ko jo oos ka fitri hai mard ke liye kaisay attractive bana sakti hai.

aurat sub se ziyada apni jismani nazakat ko barqarar rakhay yeni niswaani ya feminine style apnaye,aur apnay aap ko shoher ke liye sajaye khoobsoorat banaye,aur saath mein mard ko ye feel karaye ke oos ne ye baanao singhar unhee ke liye kiya hai.

aik baat yaad rakhain mard ko kabhee mechanical andaaz mein khidmat kernay waali aur be dilli ke saath hukum maan nay waali aurat pasand nahin aati bulkay wo aisee biwi chahta hai jo oos ki kidhmat kertay huay aur hukam maantay huay khushi mehsoos karay.unhe ye ahsaas delaain ke aap un ki haakmiyat aur mardaana authourity ko pasand kerti hain aur aap ke liye unkee kaneez hona aik romantic feeling hai.

jo humble ho kay submissive ho aur obedient ho.unke liye respectfull istammal karay.aurat ke liye jaisay compliment matter kertay hain,isee tarah aurat kee taraf se repectfull title mard ke liye matter kertay hain. Ghar se bahir ke liye different laikin aisay respectfull title istamaal karain jin se loagon ke saamnay un ki aap per sarbarahi wazaih hoti ho.is se aap daunon kee qadar loagon ke dil mein aur bhee barhay gee.

unhe ye ahsaas dillain ke wo unkee kaneez hai laikin intelligent hai aur mamlaat ko handle ker sakti hai laikin decision wo jo bhee lain gai oosay wo obey karay gee.

bedroom life mein thori sanjeedgee ki bhee zaroorat hoti hai, aur wahan unke liye aisay titles istamaal karay jo aam taur per public mein nahin istamaal nahin hotay,jaisay sirtaj waghaira.

unko her lamhay ye ahsaas dain ke aap unki khidmat ke liye active hain, aur unsay thora submissive body langauge ke saath mukhtalif mamlaat mein ijazat maangay.ye baat mard ko sense of authourity bhee daiti hai aur biwi ke liye piyar bhee paida kerti hai ke wo oos ki authourity ko pasand kerti hai.

agar wo kabhi kidhmat se rokain tau unhain batain ke nahin  mujhe ye kerna hai aur ye mujhe bohat pasand hai,ye baat mard ko aik alag hee khushi dai gee.ghar mein agar servents bhee hon tau unke kaam apnay haathon se karain,ye baat unhay bohat khushi dai gee.aik baat yaad rakhain ke shoher kee respect ka matlab gap paida kerna nahin hai, bohat see aurtain husband kee respect kee waja se unke saamnay baat kertay huay bhee ghabraati hain,ye sahih nahi, baat karain,apni feeling ko express karain laikin apna andaz itna ba adab aur submissive rakhain jaisay aik kaneez apnay aaqa ke samnay hoti hai.laikin her baat khul ker karain.

unki maujoodgee mein ziyada se unke saamnay rahay,aur unko apni taraf attract kernay kee kaushish karai.yaad rakhain,aurat ke innocent se andaaz aur masoom see baaton se ziyada attractive cheez mard ke liye aur koi nahin.mard ko tau aurat ka andharay se aur bijli karkanay se bhee dar jaana attract kerta hai.wo office se aayen tau unkay jootay ootaray aur agar oosakay chehray per ye kertay huay khushi ho gee tau wo bohat attractive lagay gee.kaheen aanay jaanay ke liye adab ke saath ijazat maangay'

unhai ghar ke mamlaat se be fikar ker dain,aur ghar kee her cheez ka khayal rakhay.unhay khud ye kahay ke mein agar ghalat hoon tau aap mujh pe thori sakhti kiya karain,is se mujhe descipline ke andar honay ka ahsaas hota hai.

bedroom mein thori bold ho, aur humbistri mein apni garam joshi zahir karay aur unki satisfaction ke liye sab kuch karay.yaad rahay, ke islamically husband ooskay jisam ka maalik hai aur wo oos ki khaiti,isliye her waqt is baat ke liye tayar rahe ke oosay kisee waqt bhee husband humbistri ke liye boola saktay hain.

Gharz ke jo oos ka role islam mein hai aur jo hum sab jaantay hain,oos mein mazeed creative ho, aur unhe ye ahsaas deelyae oosay submissive hona pasand hai.kabhi kabhar un se izdawaaji talauq ke liye khud farmayaash karay,ye baat mard ko bohat pasand hai.mauqi ki munasbat se dresses pehnay laikin humaisha feminine style barqarar rahay.etc.baaqi jaisay jaisay page kaalay hotay jaiyen gai hum discuss kertay jaye gai.

dom_man baji :)

farz karaiN ... aur farz karnay main kia harj hai k agar aap aik female hotay aur aap k yehi wichaar hotay to ji-ja-ji ketnay khush naseeb hotay lol

bhai mind nah karna but mardouN ki taraf say aisee batain karna bahoot asaan kai yeh sab onkay "apnay favour main hai" :) agar chay k yeh sab bataiN 100% durust aur as per islamic /natural law k haiN magar yehi batain apnay dil ki gahrayee say koi female kahay ... baat to tab hai .... plz continue ur bhashan .... insha Allah fitarat salimaa ki hamil khawateen par kuch nah kuch asar zaroor hoga.... main aap ki yeh reply aap ki bhabi ko forward karnay ki koshish karta houn.... :)

myrizvi bhai

maryam sis

Maryam aunty

dom_man

bhai aap nay bilkul sad feesad Theek likha hai aur attractive bhi hai, specially mardouN k liyeh lol (maiN tanz o mazah say baaz nahi aasakta ... sorry)... asal main hum muslims ko bhi school, college, uni, print media aur electronic media maiN jo kuch sikhlaya batlaya jata hai woh islam say khasaa dooooooor hai

insaan jo sabaq pahlay paRhta hai woh issay hi durust samajhnay lagta hai... agar baad maiN batlaya janay wala sabaq ... phaly sabaq say opposite / mokhtalif ho to ossay mannay maiN zara mushkil hoti hai........ aap bhi jaantay hogay k hamari khawateen (bil.amoom) islami taleemaat say naa.waaqif hain... tabhi to hamari society maiN ** ghar ghar fasaad barpaa hai ** talaq ki ratio baRhti jarahi hai ** laRkay laRkiyaaN dounouN shadi ko delay par delay kiyeh jatay haiN ** lakhouN laRkiyaaN overage hokar shadi say mayoos ho chali haiN ** bewah aur mutleqah ki shadi ka to koi chance hi nahee ** koi bhi biwi apnay husband ki doosri shadi par dil say razamand nahi ** married mard ki doosri biwi bannay par razamand honay waliyouN ki aksar yehi khahish hoti hai k pahli wali ko divorce day do, phir tum say shadi karouNgi....

in haqaaiq hi ki raushni maiN hum aur aap yahaaN islam aur azdawaji maamlaat par discuss kar rahay haiN... aur woh bataiN bayaan kar rahay hain jo sad feesad islamic to haiN but I'm sure k laRkiyouN /aurtouN ki bhari aksariyat k liyeh yeh bataiN ajnabi ajnabi see haiN aur onhaiN inn par dil ki gahraiyyouN say "imaan laanaa" k amal ka darwazah kholay... kafi mushkil task hai... but naa mumkin hargiz nahi 

aurat aur mard

myrizvi and Maryam and others

mein jab bhee mard aur aurat ke subject per baat kerta hoon wo aik tau islam ke hawallay se hoti hai aur islam kee wisdom ko modren psychology aur knowledge ke huwaalay se samajhta hoon. agar aap ko meri baat islamic ya scientifc hawallay se ghalat lagay tau daleel ke saath ikhtalaaf ker saktay hain.

ilam aur deen ke mamlay mein na tau koi sharam hoti hai aur na hee ilam aur deen aurat aur mard ke liye alag hai. yeni ye nahin ho sakta ke aurat ke liye alag physics hai aur mard ke alag, ya naoozobillah Quran alag alag hain.

mein ne in baaton pichlay 10-12 years kee study ke baad samjha hai, aur England mein meri dau female psychologists ke saath in baaton pe discussion huay hai, aur wo bilkull islam ke jaisay khayalaat rakhti hain is subject per.

jo baatain mein ne kee hain wo islam aur insaani nature ke hawallay se hum sub jaantay hain, laikin mein ne sirf ye point raise kiya hai ke hum un baaton ko sahih samajh ke relationship ko kaisay behtar bana saktay hain.

meray detailed articles is subject per aap jald hee daikhain gai.