Hraja
Insani fitrat b ajab hy..... aksar ko maar k baad muka yad ata... mean jab sar sy pani guzar jata tab hosh anay ka kiya.... aesy b males females hain jo k chahty k un ko Wife parsa mily jo bhaly who khud jo ulta sedha krein... similarly prnts chahty k olad frma bardar ho ... beti ba haya ho... bhaly khud jo krein..... now ap khud apny zameer sy ye puchein k agar who bichari ap ki wife jo k ap khud b iqrar krty hain k who gud wife b hy n mthr b to aur ap ko kiya chahiye... amy b ap ka b koi past ho... ya koi past mein dreams... but eik request hy.... prsnt n future ko soachein past guzar gya us mein na hi jiyein...... naik serat wife khuoab surat wife sy ba darjha bhtr hy.... yad rakhiyo..... agr ap samjhty k who naik serat hy to ALLAH ka shukar krein..... surat to wakati hy..... mean sme to apni surat k zawal jawani mein hi dekh lety.... koi ilnes etc ki wjha sy ..... but serat to aesi hy jo k jo ta hayat.... bcz ap ki olad ki parwarish to naik serat hi bhtr kr skti...... ALLAH ki is maimat ki kadar krein before k koi azmaish a jae..... ya us ALLAH ki bandi ka dil toot jae... kal ko ap b bachon k baap hain.... ALLAH jany kiya guzar ri us py.... ye to acha hy k ap ko khud hi ehsas ho gya apni is baat ka..... yad rakhiyo k jesy k Husband k haqooq hain aesy hi wife k b haqooq hain.... piyar krny ki bht c wajhu bnti.... e.g., agr ap cool mind sy deep soachein to Islam mein orat ko haq hy k agr wo ap k chldrn ko doodh na pilaein to is py ap us ko bura bhala ni keh skty.... n othr b bht sy ehsanat hain us k ap py but ap ko khabr ni...jesy k ap ki olad ki parwarish, ap k home ki dekh bhala... mean khana pakana ... n sme k parnts ki dekh bhal n a lot othrs..... so agar in sab ehsanat ko mad e nazar rakehin to ap batein kiya koi aesi wife sy piyar na kry.... I m sory agr kuch bura laga to... I hope now ap apni andaz apni wife sy chnge kr lain gy.... IN SHA ALLAH ap ko ALAH is py b ajar dain gy..... wrna ap ki is haq talafi py pakar b kal ko ho skti ALLAH k samnay.... Subh ka bhula j sham ghar a jae us ko bhola nahi kehty.....
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