 Career and Marriage - Find a balance : Be Happy
Best for girls in today's day and age is that
I agree with Dr-Qasim . Plus i would like to add something to his advice . In life one thing can not always be right. Your choice of right and wrong changes with time and circumstances.In todays day and age considering jo inflation ka hal ha following should be order of prefrence for a girl.This is stricly my view point...
A - be suitably qualified and skilled for job . Aim skill not just degree. Skill that makes you able to earn well enough to suport yourself in crises.
B - get a job iif family is financialy in trouble do not compromise on marrying som1 old fat bald impotent divorcee etc if you do not want to jus because your family can not afford to marry you off respectably.
OR
If parents can afford then get married first
C - Once you are married thendecide as per situation of your in laws . if there is financial trouble there too go for job i not consider stay at home mom status it is worth it.
D - Exceptionally if a girl is professionally qualified and wants to work in her field but in laws do not allow she should either consider marrying in such family twice befor marrige OR if after marriage in laws disapprove of her job/ working women status then she should at least try to keep in touch with latest developments of her field and continue studies so that in the hour of need she can get a good job even without experience.Trick is to keep doing diplomas and small cources related to your field so you can justify your long professional absence in your career circles.
Good Luck Never let one wrong thing in your life effect the other wrong thing in your lif
Regards
Mairak |