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Salam Sooth Jee,

Thanks for your cooperation.Kindly you also struggle on these topic to advertise this material.So people can read more and more knowledge on this topic.Then may be people life can become easy.

Waiting for your comments.

Good man

re to goodman bhai

asalam-o-alaikum

bhai meray pass itna time nahi hota that mein her topic ko fully read kron aur her post ka jawaab bhi don aur mujhey zayada likhna acha bhi nahi lugta likhtay likhtay bore ho jati hon.lakin jo topic mujhey bahut zayada pasand aye like koi bahut hi decent aur informative mein uss ko perhti hon aur mujhey forum per aik baat nahi pasand wo ye k jo members aik doseray se lerna aur critisize krna shuro ker datay han meray dil krta hy yahan peace ho,members aik doseray se cooperate krn aur peacefull discussion se aik doseray k problms solve krn.Allah aap ko khush rukhay aur aap se razi ho,khuda aap ko her qisum ki khair day aur aap ko lumbi zindgi day aur her qisum k shur se apni pana me rukhay(aameen)Allah Hafiz

Thanks for your reply

Salam Sooth Jee,

It is Ok that you can not write on each topic but i like to write beacuse due to writing my mind become light .But i also do not like to to write on each topic.I only write on these topic that i know i have information and knowlege.But dowry is our calture tragidy.And you can see many womens are only sit their house due to dowry.That is why i advice you cooperate with me in this forum about this topic.

Waiting for your possitive reply and comments.

Best Regards

bhai

Asalam-o-alaikum,Bhai humarey khandaan me tu buchiyon ko bahut zayada walidan dowry datey han.buchi jab dunia me ati hy tab hi walidan uss k liay choti moti cheezan jama krna shuro ker datay han.uss k ghar ki her her cheez choti ho ya berhi ye sub kuch walidan datay han.ferniture nanhayal walay datay han ya phir bhai apni sister ko datay han.baki cheezan like washing machine,refrigerator,oven,cooking range etc ye sub tu sari khala aur mamu datay han khair humaray khandan me tu mashAllah her buchi ko walidan acha dowry hi datay han.aur shaadi ka function bhi bahut izat k sath achi tara kertay han.kuch walidan dowry k sath apni buchi k account me paisay jama kra datay han ya car k ya phir wasey takay uss ko future me kaam ayan.lakin ye sub walidan apni khushi k liay aur beti ki khushi k liay krtay han un per beti burdon nahi hoti.

          Lakin Goodman bhai aik cheez k tu mein bahot against hon ye jo dowry ko bahot zayada show off krtay han.in my opinion walidan apni buchion ko apni khushi se jo kuch day saktay han day dan but logon ko dekha ker nahi that hum ny itna dowry diya hy aur sub se berhi baat ager koi lerkay walay dowry ki bahut zayada demand krtay han tu un ko rishta hi mat dan in choti choti baton se hi lerka samnay ata hy that wo future me un ki beti k sath kasa rahay ga.aur aik baat ye bhi hy that ager koi lerki bahot thora dowry lay ker ati hy tu uss ko tanay miltay han tum to kuch bhi lay ker nahi ayi tumhare walidan net um ko kuch nahi diya.i think ye sub baatan tab hi hoti Han jab hum sub apnay Rab se dour hotay han aur jahilon wali baatan kertay han.saas bahu ki prblms bhi tab hi hoti han jab beta apni bivi aur walida ko un k hoqooq pori tara nahi data wo bivi ko ya mother per prefer krta hy ya phir mother ko wife per wo moderate nahi hota us ski thinking dunia k sath chulti hy aur dunia sahi nahi ja rahi ager uss ko pata ho that in dono rishtoon ka kita haq hy tu ye prblms kabhi nah on aur ager us ski bivi ko pata ho that mother in law meri ami ki tara hy aur un ki utni hi respect krni hy jitni apni mother kit u prblm nahi hoti aur ager mother in law,daughter in law ko wo hi jaga aur makaam day jo aik beti ko datay ha n tub hi ye prblms nahi hoteen.

Bhai main thing ye nahi hoti  that kitna dowry diya ya phir car hy,kitni zameen hy,ghar hy main thing hoti hy lerka lerki kis tara k han wo kitnay deen per carbund han aur buchi ki taqdeer hoti hy jo Allah bunata hy aur ye dua se achi bhi ho sakti hy.well ye dowry,saas bahu,shaadi ye sarey issue say han in per baat krna shuro krn tu khatum hi na ho.ye sub baatan humari society ki khud sakhta han.log islam se dour han apnay religion ko inhon nay  personal sumajh ker side per rukh diya hy koi es per baat krna pasand hi nahi krta.

Ager aap zameen dar log han,chohdri han tu plz don’t mind Doctor Tariq Jameel sahib he is chohdri he says khala meray pass ayi aur kahnay lugi beti ka rishta tah ho gaya hy lerkay k kaheen muraba zameen hy unhon ny pocha khala lerka kasa hy.she replied kitnay muraba zameen hy,phir unhon ny pocha khala lerka kasa hy,khala  ny kaha beta bata tu rahi hon kitnay muraba zameen hy.he said khala beti di shaadi lerkay nal krni ny ya phir zameen naal mein poch rayan lerka krda ki hy,kasa insaan a etc.

     Mein sumajhti hon paisa insaan ko pechannay k liay zurori nahi hy,kisi hud tak paisa insaan ki zindagi me importance rukhta hy,lakin paisa sub kuch nahi hota.ya phir mein sumajhti hon ager koi doctor hy,engineer hy tu ye sub bhi kafi nahi hy main thing ye hy that insaan kis qisum ka hy,in our society logon ki pechaan ka scale bilkul ghalut hy.Allah Hafiz

Dowry and excellent post

Salam Sooth Sister,

It is right that now a days parents are giving so much dowry with their girls.And you are right that girl uncle and aunt give the furniture that is called NANKEE CHUK.

In our calture to show the things become a trick to pressurise opposite party.And your statements all rights.

Marriage always Base on TAQWA.But we see rich man and rich women.We must base on TAQWA.I am also ZAMEENDAR because my father have land and we do farming.And we proud our profession   ZAMEENDARI.

It is right money is not all thing but now a days money is all things.You know this sentence.RUPAYA SUB DA PUNWAYA.

It is right that which type of the man is.And you can judge the man according to this rule according to his thinking.

Your this post was very excellent.And i will wait for your possitive reply.

Thanks

waiting for your possitive reply

Sister Sooth,

Waiting for your reply above post.

Thanks