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KHashmi |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jun, 2009 Topic: 10 Post: 42 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Aug 2009, 7:33am |
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 My Wife Does Not Get Ready For Sex Even After 45 Minutes Foreplay: What Should I Do?
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first of all I am thankful to Allah Almighty and then to this forum that I am good in intercourse and do not discharge earlier as I followed instruction given on this forum. Alhamdulillah now I have full control on myself and I can extend time up to 30 minutes. here I want to mention that I can extend time more than 30 minutes but this is painful for wife.
Today I want to ask one question that some times my wife does not get warm during foreplay even after 45 minutes as discussed on this forum but she is ready for sex and she wants sex. I every time use different methods for foreplay as well as for intercourse.
Now could any body tell me why?
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TheRock |
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| Posted on:15th Aug 2009, 10:04am |
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 @@@@KHashmi
aap apniwife ko warm karne k lyeeee vagina or messaging and rubbing gently kiya karein oper seeeee issay zror farq pary gaa trust meeee during this activity aap kissing and fondle her breast gently suck her breast that will definitely help to make ur wife more arouse and warm okay
BEST OF LUCK |
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waseem08 |
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| Posted on:15th Aug 2009, 8:15pm |
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khashmi salam bhai first of all you are always well come on this forum.
AGREE therock reply. |
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Doctor K K |
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| Posted on:16th Aug 2009, 1:46pm |
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Re: My Wife Does Not Get Ready For Sex Even After 45 Minutes Foreplay: What Should I Do?
Every woman vary from the other with respect of sexual arousal and time. Also they differ from each other for attainment of orgasm. The time period vary from few minutes till hours. Those husbands are lucky whose wives get arousal with in limited time period since they don't require work hard. Well I would not regard it their weakness although they might get more and intense love and sex in turn from their wives if they work hard for them. I mean for sexual arousal if they do whatever they can, their wives would spread their love and live on them. Here on the Noor clinic website, there is a book written by Dr Arshad Jawed that covers all of these relevant topics. As for as medical aspects are concerned in women there are certain areas which can give prompt arousal via stimulation. Have you heard about G-spot if yes then fine other wise let me tell you about that, but before it please take a look the more sensitive zones of a woman's body. Clitoris: This is regarded as a female penis. It is situated just above the vagina. A husband can trace it while bringing his finger at the upper junction of the inner lips of vagina. Some part of it protrudes outside. A very intense and pleasurable orgasm can be obtained by woman due to its stimulation. Those husbands who claim that they satisfy their wives always stimulate the clitoris by rubbing it finger for some specific time. No woman in this world is there who would not be aroused sexually if her clitoris is rubbed for some time. Even it is also rubbed at intercourse in order to provide the orgasm to the women. Therefore; rubbing of clitoris is working like a double sward, i.e. it may not only gives sexual arousal but also furnishes a women satisfy able orgasm different to the orgasm of penetration and G-spot stimulation. Breasts and nipples: A great pleasure can be achieved by the women when her breasts during foreplay are rubbed. There is a direct connection of nipples with the clitoris. Therefore suckling, rubbing, fondling, twiddling over these nipples initiates an intense arousal and the woman can't hide her feeling during that time when these are being stimulated. G-spot: It has been discovered by a German doctor. Since then a revolution has happened in the sexology and men become more confident to find the fulfillment of female's desires. G-spot is a bean shaped structure situated at the upper wall of vagina inside 2-3 inches when women lying flat on the bed facing upward. A husband can stimulate G-spot by inserting his finger inside the vagina 2-3 inches and locating the spot on the upper wall. It feels like a small swelling. With continuous stimulation, its size increases. A very very intense orgasm is obtained due to its stimulation. At its stimulation a woman get desire to pass urine, her body becomes rigid, she starts to utter voices etc. Believe me with continuous stimulation of this spot every women gets orgasm with in 25 minutes. Other sensitive areas: Beside these areas there are other sensitive areas as well like inner thighs, space between vagina and anus, tummy, navel, lower back etc. twiddling of hands over there, lips or tongue would definitely generates the arousal. It is therefore advisable to you apply these above techniques in order to make your wife fully aroused sexually with in limited period of time.
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waseem08 |
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| Posted on:16th Aug 2009, 6:38pm |
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nice&very; good . |
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KHashmi |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2009, 5:01am |
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DR. K K, waseem and Rocks Thanks to three of you especially to DR. K K who gave full detail but there is a question or you can say our fear that
is it not harmful when I enter my finger in vagina and also touch/rub G-spot?
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TheRock |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2009, 5:06am |
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@@@Doctor K K excellent reply and i got more knowledge too :)
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saahilbhai |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2009, 5:16am |
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doctor KK jha gaye tussi, must reply hai , brilliant. |
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System |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2009, 10:49am |
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 Doctor KK
as you mentioned in G Spot paragraph.....
A very very intense orgasm is obtained due to its stimulation. At its stimulation a woman get desire to pass urine,
is this realy urine or Squirting.. this is confusion to lot of womens.. MOst women thinks its the urine.. But i heared it is squirt... which is not urine... its a transparent water... some women can squirt with pressure and some release without pressure... what you say about this... ??? |
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2009, 2:50pm |
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Re: My Wife Does Not Get Ready For Sex Even After 45 Minutes Foreplay: What Should I Do? There is no harm to inerst fingers inside vagina in a non vergin women. G-spot's stimulation is difficult with rubbing of penis therefore in most of the occasion finger is used to make the wife aroused and excited.
This is bit confusing that how the women behaves on G-spot stimulation. Different women react differently. However; desire to pass urine is the most commonly occuring sign. Squatting could also happen but it is not proven documentarily. The basic thing is that the moaning, the sounds, the ridigness and the excitement of a women during orgasm tells alot even more that could be imagine, expected or seen in the study on this subject in a book.
Only 3-4% of women discharge at the orgasm of G-spot hence it is not seen in all cases. |
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shifa |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 10:17am |
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 shyness of yr wife
u should show yrself to yr wife that how much u r caring n loving.u listen her useles and boring talk with great interest.sometimes u will have to entertain her with love fight.u give her punishment if she loses.u should tell her.that i will suck yr lips for 110 sec as punishment for her.
she may b feeling shyness.u praise her body and see her nails,palms hair and every inch of her body .u tell her that yr face expression during sex make him v hot.yr voice during sex increases his excitement n efficiency.u should tell her that how much u love her.women like to listen these golden words from her husband. |
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shifa |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 10:21am |
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shyness2 most of the women dont show their internal expression due to shyness. |
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lovely cat |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 10:51am |
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good shifa shifa is 100% right. |
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